freecocoa: You are one to call another an animal?

Still in shock.

Awon Iyalaya e lon ba wi

The reputation of Pastor J. A. O. Akindele in the reverred Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) is second only to the equally reverred and respected General Overseer of the church, Pastor Enoch Adeboye. Suffice to add that, Akindele through dedication to the work of God and overall growth of the RCCG brand, has risen to the number two position in the church hierarchy hence when Akindele talks everybody in the church sneezes except maybe Adeboye himself. For the ordinary folks in the RCCG, Pastor Akindele is more than a religious leader, not a few regarded him as second daddy. Of course the real daddy is the GO himself.

However, the very high regard members of the church and other Christian denominations in the country hold Adeboye’s second in command seems to be heading to the gutters as The Premier can reveal that the hitherto respected man of God might have thread the path of sin which is currently threatening the foundation of the church with the largest congregation not only in Nigeria but also in the entire continent of Africa.

The brethren in the church might not be aware of the scandal because the church leadership especially Daddy GO has done everything within its power to cover it up because as Daddy GO put it, “we should not put the reputation of the church in shame”. But the leaders of the church aware of the lingering scandal are keeping it very close to their chest.

Like the Biblical Adam, Pastor Akindele recently tasted the forbidden fruit of an Eve in his office and the result was that the Eve has delivered a baby for the RCCG second in command. The daughter of Eve, according to report, has been private secretary of Pastor Akindele for six years but not many know that the major part of those years has been a sleazy but hot love affair between Daddy Deputy GO and his private secretary.

For those who don’t know, Akindele is legally married to Deborah Olubunmi who is the first daughter of the founder of the church, Pastor Josiah Olufemi Akindayomi. The Premier learnt that the church in appreciation to the late founder for his pioneering efforts in sowing the seed that has so germinated brilliantly, ceded the number two position to the family hence when the first daughter, Deborah got married to Akindele, the number two position in the church was automatically bestowed on Akindele. Thus, the man was made the Assistant General Overseer, Administration/Personnel.

The cat was left out of the bag in the sleazy love affair recently when senior church members noticed that the secretary was not on her seat as usual. “For about six weeks, she was not on seat and senior officials of the church started asking questions but Akindele was evasive on her whereabouts,” sources told The Premier.
Serious investigation by the senior officials of the church revealed the unthinkable! The hitherto revered Akindele was having carnal knowledge of his private secretary and to make matters worse he had already put her in the family way. To avoid the prying eyes of members of the public especially senior members of the church, he relocated her to Ibadan and it was while the woman was nursing her pregnancy in Ibadan that her absence was noticed at the RCCG headquarters. It was senior officials who later reported their discovery to Daddy GO. Adeboye urged them to conceal the matter because it can destroy the church. However, The Premier investigation revealed that the Pastor has been punished by the leadership of the church but the nature of his punishment was not revealed.

The incident has left a devastating effect on Deborah who felt betrayed by the man she trusted and loved ceded her family position to . Deborah reportedly developed high blood pressure which later led to her being hospitalized. Deborah’s state of health has been reported to be deteriorating with the report that her husband mistress has delivered of a baby for her husband.

Akindele has grown through the ranks in the church having joined in 1962 as a church worker. He had served as a chorister, Sunday school teacher, private secretary to the late founder before being ordained full pastor in 1981. He has been National Treasurer and Secretary General of the National Elders’ Council of the church. He had worked in Edo and Ondo States for the church and was appointed Assistant General Overseer at the 1997 national convention of the church.

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

Animals are everywhere on Nairaland. If you can not add value to a post, why write rubbish. This thread is meant to be commented on by people with common sense and intelligence. If you are so dull to comprehend, please get your filthy life out of here.

Maria-G:
Common sense no common at all

Maria G, please explain your self clearly. When people come here to share their life experience, they are here to get sincere advise and not sense*less phrase like this. Where did you hide your brain?? If you can not be clear with what you mean by Common sense no common at all, then get your fil*thy mouth ,life and soul out of here.

@Poster, you will never learn. I am angry with your attitude. Do you think you can do it alone? The bible said " by strength shall no man prevail"? Do you think he can change just because of your shouting and warning. I said take it to the Lord in prayers and you will see what he can do. You are not acting like someone who believe in God. Your believe in God looks like just a lip service. You are in for plenty troubles and problem if you continue this way. You could even loose your husband to his mistresses if you don't acknowledge God's power and what he can do. The bible said, i am the Lord of all flesh, is there anything too difficult for me to do. If you speak to the mountain to move , it will surely move with faith. Take my advise and Love him more. That is the key to your breakthrough. If you follow the word of the worldly people,you will regret it.

@All, another thought about this post make me to really have a word for ladies out there. A lot of women want a man to pamper them, take them around the world, meet their financial and emotional needs.now traccy husband is meeting all these needs but he is cheating on him which is making the poster to have a hell of a marriage.a word for ladies out there, in as much as you want a made man , who will satisfy all your needs, pls also look for a Godly man that will give you rest of mind. Relationships should not be about material fulfillment alone. Spiritual upliftment is also key. Ladies, pls always watch and pray. You could have the whole world without happiness. Make a wise choice. Stop being a biatch

deniyor: The world is going too crazy for me mehn! Someone whose user name means itchy prick is quoting the bible. Damn

Even the devil was once the head of choir for heaven.

@poster a Nairalander have been so kind to tell you that you should bring your yansh instead of selling your wife for money. Why not comply instead of wasting time. Am sure your yansh go commot blood

@Postern the Bible says love you husband as Christ loves the church. He gave his life for us and loved us un conditionally. So what you should focus on if you are a true christain is the Lord's commandment. Will you cheat on him and ignore your marriage vows and be condemed to hell fire? Your regrets will only startif you try this. You will never be able to forgive your self if he continues to show you more love. You will hate your self on this. My church member was in this your shoes and she took the wrong advice, cheated on his husband and all hell let's loose. She became more miserable. Its your duty to pray along with your husband. The world is becoming devilsh and that's why all these are happening. Take it to the Lord in prayers and you will testify to God that there is nothing God can not do. He is able and very much abundantly able to deliver those who trust in him.This is my little advice from my life experience.

@Traccy, please appreciate the love he has for you. Discuss your pains lovingly with him and you will see that he will change.

guy , wey the link now? Send am sharp sharp

@Poster, do you know how many women are praying to God to just give them a man that they can answer his name? You have yours , you confessed that he showers you love and care, now you are not satisfied. Please don't allow this issue to break your marriage. Just communicate frequently with him ignore his negative tendencies. His conscience will prick him when you are not focusing of his activities. The point is communication, keep talking calmly about the situation with him and you will be amazed he will change. If you cheat on him, you will regret it because it can never be a pay back to him but a degrading of your humble self and dignity in the society. You will wish you never did in the future.

@Poster . Please kindly do a true and sober reflection and analysis of your present life , state 3 values you want to add to these men. Please note that sex should not be part of your list. Thank you .You better don't be a burden. Do something meaningful with your life. Add value to it first. OKONTAMI

slimyem: I know there's almost no basis for comparisons here except that they are both successful american women.
Given what i've known about men in my twenty-something years on earth,i'd opine that lots of men would rather opt for the hot,alluring and desirable Kim K instead of the warm,open,down to earth,not as pretty but well-groomed Michelle O.
Men who prefer trophy women to real assets..
Men who have thrown out wheat for chaff..
Men whose hormones have held hostage instead of their brain..
They abound especially amongst Nigerian men.
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Now,i ask that you NLers be sincere with your answers.
.
Men,What kind of women have your preferred in the past and now?
The Kim Ks or the Michelles?
What kind of woman are you with now?
A Kim K or a Michelle?
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Ladies,what kind of a woman are you?
A Kim K or a Michelle?

Now you appreciate the value she has added to her husband and herself,What value do you and others add to your partner. Is it only the se.xual gratification of KIM or the fulfillment of Michelle. OKONTAMI

asdf:jkl ha ha :
Is true sha n also naija pple can be annoyin at times

Abi were ni awon iyalaya e ni

I will want to conclude that most relationship have no values added. Since there is no body that can constructively state just 3 values they are adding to their partners. Most relationships is money for pus.sie. Its so unfortunate that most people are parasites, low lives, who see their partners as a means to an end. The Focus is " give me money", "pay my bills", "take me out", "let's go clubbing", " my school fees", "my house rent", "my siblings need doe", "my mum is sick", "let's go on a holiday", "buy me the latest accessories and gadgets" and in return all that can be paid back is with sex. We need to watch it. Naija people, we must not continue this way. Its so pathetic, shameful, and disheartening.

Mynd_44: I am not in a relationship right now so I would not know

Nice one Mynd. Now try to have an open mind to this question. What 3 values will you add to your relationship when you finally get into one. And what are the 3 values you want your lady to add to you. Thanks. OKONTAMI

Thanks Richarts, a lot of people might not have answers. I am waiting for ladies to prove me wrong.

It is now common that almost every boy or girl out there have a partner. Please kindly do a true and sober reflection and analysis of your relationship. Please be sincere, state 3 values you have added to your partner. Please note that sex should not be part of your list. Thank you . OKONTAMI

Sisi_Kill:

Abeg stop projecting. . .Go open your own therapy thread and we will discuss all the women who have left you for flashier guys.

Sisi Kill, Thanks a lot. Am not boasting , am happily married and very very comfortable

jennykadry: ^^^You are such a psychopath and an egostical Buffon. Look at him putting all the blames of a failed marriage on a woman. Who brought you into this world? Do you have sisters at all? Any female relatives?

Where did you come from? A man hits his wife and all you can say is keep quiet, be nice, don't compare him with someone etc. who dropped you head first on the ground when you were a child? Who scattered your brain cells? look at this cow. I have not seen you put a single blame on this op's husband even after knowing he panel beats her and hates his son.

You are such a low life

Madam, i love and appreciate your passion. There are different ways to express one's self. This is the way you have chosen. I am not blaming the woman or taking sides. I said she has an option, either keep quiet and ensure less talk or leave the house to a place where she will not be accused wrongly. Any one who guard his tongue don't usually get into trouble. I will take your harsh words as merely how best you can express your views. OKONTAMI

@All, I am not trying to derail this tread but do you know a lot of women are very much clueless about what marriage is. They rush into it and sometimes are in pain. They leave that guy who was taking all their non-sense, they call him names (maga, mugu, etc) . At the end they break the heart of that guy who has shown them love. They run after Mr flashy and flashy things who they barely know or understand. Mr flashy quickly propose and yes yes i will marry you they say. When nemesis start to catch up they come to nairaland for succor. Any way ladies please advise the younger ones coming behind you, share your life experiences and mistakes with them. Dont marry who you dont know. Courting is still important. OKONTAMI

@Poster, your problem is simple ignorance. There are ways you can curb an abusive man, but it take s a lot of sacrifice. The truth is you will now be more calm, less talk, less complaint, you must not compare him with any one , do not abuse him back, do not argue with him. Do everything that will make you faultless. You will say this is slavery, but you have 2 options in an abusive marriage, keep mute and be the big full or act wise and have no future with the man. Its so clear that most abusive men grow to be very loving and kind men who have regrets for all the evils they might have done against you. But if this involves your life, please run away and give him a break. Run to his parents house preferably before you are accused of infidelity. The Lord is your shepherd o.

Mrs Chima, Koyoke ti fe do e pa

Moderator, he no go better for u. See how u hide post. How old are u or are u just power drunk. We want to relate make we nak swedish babes u dey do anyhow. Be very careful.

1) Never spend too much time during smoking break

2) Never Fu**Ck your boss cos she will be the one to do your appraisals

3) Never fu**Ck your subordinates cos they will disrespect you

4) Please dont Fu**Ck your external auditors and regulators eg PWC small girls etc
5) Be smart but don't be over zealous
6) Never fu**ck your cleaners , PA , Security, Canteen ladies, Canteen woman, gardeners , house helps .
7) Dont fu**Ck any one in HR /pay roll . Its very dangerous.
When you go for field work and other conferences or trips pls what happened there stays there. No stories when you get back to the office.

rokiatu:
Is this an ex dedication or a fu...ck buddy dedication?

Roki Baby, its a pity that nothing lasts forever.Have you heared of fu**CK buddy turns lover. She was very sane when we were just fu**CKing our selves o. The moment i mixed pleasure with business everything went wrong(meaning trying to WIFE a Biatch.) Na so i run o

AINT NO FUN BY SNOOP DOG

When I met you last night baby Before you opened up your gap I had a respect for ya lady But now I take it all back
'Cause you gave me all your pu*s*sy And ya even licked my balls Leave your number on the cabinet And I promise baby, I'll give you a call
Next time I'm feelin' kinda h*or*ny You come on over, and I'll break you off And if you can't f*uc*k that day, baby Just lay back and open your mouth
'Cause I have never met a girl That I love in the whole wide world