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Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Mucokey(m): 4:34pm On Sep 12, 2012
Serendipity:
You just commited fallacy of hasty generalizations and irrellevant conclusion.
And I dare tell you that your own case is an exception as exceptions are not the rules.
The fact that you had a grim experience with an ingrate doesn't make your case generally applicable.
Let me also add smartish that buying of gifts has always been and will always remain one of the feasible ways of showing that you like a person.
So keep your specious and misleading riposte to yourself.
Even as a liar (lawyer)...haven't u ever found urself in exposition of large amount of ignominious exhibition in place of reasonability in the mist of ur ignoramus village women ?
Too much incoherent grammars re never signs of intelligibility. Get a bit of life!
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Okontami: 4:35pm On Sep 12, 2012
freecocoa: You are one to call another an animal? shocked shocked shocked

Still in shock.
Awon Iyalaya e lon ba wi
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Nobody: 4:35pm On Sep 12, 2012
solidbroda: no wonder you look so ugly. Many men have made mistakes on you. SMH U need relationship counseling so that you know how to respect men the more. I can't blame u for being single.
lol! all these for me? berem don hear am today! wetin carry me enter man talk? choi! cant stop laughing!
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Okontami: 4:36pm On Sep 12, 2012
berem: no mind the otondo wey dey call pesin animal! For dis cold weather na im pesin dey write novel make I read! Shioor!
Awon agbalagba ile yin ni otondo. Omo Ale
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by buchibabe: 4:36pm On Sep 12, 2012
Isale_eko:

Apology accepted. You won my respect.


Wow! See how guys just reconcile sharply. If na babes now,e for enta 4th world war smiley
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Okontami: 4:38pm On Sep 12, 2012
@Flakeey Awon Iyalaya e lon ba wi
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Nobody: 4:43pm On Sep 12, 2012
berem: lol! all these for me? berem don hear am today! wetin carry me enter man talk? choi! cant stop laughing!
are u sure u are laughing, not crying?? undecided
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Nobody: 4:45pm On Sep 12, 2012
I chase her for almost 3 years but in the end,i bought her a blackberry torch barely a month after it was launched for her birthday and she fell for it. . . .fuuuuuuuck anybody that says money cant buy a woman.Everybody has price,all you need is to get the price right.

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Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by kunletade(m): 4:49pm On Sep 12, 2012
REALLY over the years I have wonder why women that I date never respect me I think am just too mild with them, I will try this and see if it works although I believe it will work @ OP thank a million times





















10000 likes
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by nyameke: 4:50pm On Sep 12, 2012
Socratez20: Nice 1 @poster, love gurus and experts on nairaland, pls what does a guy a guy do when he asks a girl out and she says 'yes' do d persn stares at her, kiss, hug her...what does he do?
its all about attraction bro.. if she gets attracted the moment you guys met you all can do whatever you want to do. Kiss, hug, etc..

If you have not done enough to attract her to you yet you would come off as creepy and desperate and might be the last time you will ever see her. If you're unlucky you might even get a hot slap for that..

Btw most women don't have a problem with "hugs".. you can use hugging a woman most times to send a message that you're not intimidated by her. Just don't go around trinna kiss a woman who is not attracted to you yet..

Just act normal, be yourself and take her out and if she likes you, you will have her.. just don't try to impress her to get into her pants because that will get you nowhere..btw I will say about 99 percent of women know the moment they meet you if there is the likelihood that they would sleep with you or not so the impressing thing that guys do is absolutely unnecessary ..
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by destinedtee(m): 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2012
[quote author=Okontami]Animals are everywhere on Nairaland. If you can not add value to a post, why write rubbish. This thread is meant to be commented on by people with common sense and intelligence. If you are so dull to comprehend, please get your filthy life out of here [/quote
take it easy bro.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by nyameke: 5:12pm On Sep 12, 2012
Rolling.:

I chase her for almost 3 years but in the end,i bought her a blackberry torch barely a month after it was launched for her birthday and she fell for it. . . .fuuuuuuuck anybody that says money cant buy a woman.Everybody has price,all you need is to get the price right.
lol see stu.pidity. you Chase a woman for three years and she finally gives in after you buy her a blackberry and you're actually happy? What other things did you buy her within those three years..

Btw she only gave you sex and not her love. I will say she did out of pity for all the trouble she put you through for three years and being nice to her on her birthday..

No one should be happy for getting a woman or sex because of money spent.. You're basically telling yourself you're not good enough for..
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by karpentar: 5:13pm On Sep 12, 2012
berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

lol! some folks have all the time.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by andyanders: 5:13pm On Sep 12, 2012
Euroclydon: Hey, if you aint patient enough to read thru this bulk,then there is no point starting in the first place...Cheers!

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A Nice Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date jerks but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how nice a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that powerful attraction.
And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but you need to get over it if you want to change how women respond to you.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever!
You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being reasonable with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will make them like us, us guys are always doing things to get a woman's approval or permission.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... ever.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women badly for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things," think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen A LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only natural when this happens...
That's right, I said natural.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as manipulation.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge, and unfortunate, mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they feel too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have experience.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, really like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to attraction.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over ten full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things other than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman.
But it's not an accident.
You have to learn how to do this.
But the great news is...
ANY guy can learn to do it.
If you'd like a FAST, SUCCESS-GUARANTEED lesson on making women start paying attention to you (without YOU ever having to say a word, or the woman even REALIZING why she's suddenly feeling it for you)



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, confident young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten times!
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is vitally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About ten years ago, I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


-David DeAngelo
http://www.doubleyourdating.ca/articles/0011-ten-mistakes-guys-make-with-women.htm


Good one. You said it all. Only the wise than can understand what you stated here. The blind cannot see hence their response. They are the ones that needed to understudy what you have stated here. Good work men.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by andyanders: 5:13pm On Sep 12, 2012
Euroclydon: Hey, if you aint patient enough to read thru this bulk,then there is no point starting in the first place...Cheers!

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A Nice Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date jerks but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how nice a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that powerful attraction.
And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but you need to get over it if you want to change how women respond to you.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever!
You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being reasonable with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will make them like us, us guys are always doing things to get a woman's approval or permission.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... ever.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women badly for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things," think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen A LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only natural when this happens...
That's right, I said natural.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as manipulation.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge, and unfortunate, mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they feel too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have experience.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, really like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to attraction.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over ten full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things other than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman.
But it's not an accident.
You have to learn how to do this.
But the great news is...
ANY guy can learn to do it.
If you'd like a FAST, SUCCESS-GUARANTEED lesson on making women start paying attention to you (without YOU ever having to say a word, or the woman even REALIZING why she's suddenly feeling it for you)



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, confident young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten times!
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is vitally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About ten years ago, I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


-David DeAngelo
http://www.doubleyourdating.ca/articles/0011-ten-mistakes-guys-make-with-women.htm


Good one. You said it all. Only the wise than can understand what you stated here. The blind cannot see hence their response. They are the ones that needed to understudy what you have stated here. Good work men.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Euroclydon(m): 5:13pm On Sep 12, 2012
Socratez20: Nice 1 @poster, love gurus and experts on nairaland, pls what does a guy a guy do when he asks a girl out and she says 'yes' do d persn stares at her, kiss, hug her...what does he do?

there will be an awkward stare and possibly silence...u could break the ice by teasing her lightly...just a suggestion sha,i no be guru or expert o!
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Euroclydon(m): 5:17pm On Sep 12, 2012
kunle.t.ade:
REALLY over the years I have wonder why women that I date never respect me I think am just too mild with them, I will try this and see if it works although I believe it will work @ OP thank a million times























10000 likes




You are welcome bro.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by MrHim(m): 5:40pm On Sep 12, 2012
cool@Euroclydon, only God will bless you for these sailients points! Any man that does not want to listen, well his to his tent. Women are very funny creaturs that you must handle with a firm grip. I dont express any emotion to them, just do my thing and move on. I have colleague at work dying for one silly lady like that, he was acting all prince charming and all and in return was being treated like trash, he became the romatic comic relife at the office. The lady in questions was blabbing to her friendsthat she cant see herself being with a "she-him" why, because he was too nice, imagine!? Being good is now a sign of weakeness!

As for me, i am very physical and dont take any nonsense from women no matter how beautiful, educated or mature, i put you in your place sharp!! No time! Additionally, if you want to keep them, the occasional brushing adds to the mix,women love violent men, simple and short. Comprende!?
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Nobody: 5:41pm On Sep 12, 2012
@ poster
If all women are the same this would be about right. However the general point is clear "Always be yourself whether you are with a woman or a priest grin

It would be foolish for any man to take this as a testament and put all ladies in thesame jacket in order to "avoid mistakes"


Nice post though
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by goofie: 5:42pm On Sep 12, 2012
buchibabe:


Wow! See how guys just reconcile sharply. If na babes now,e for enta 4th world war smiley

na u sabi o.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Saecula: 5:53pm On Sep 12, 2012
Mucokey:
Even as a liar (lawyer)...haven't u ever found urself in exposition of large amount of ignominious exhibition in place of reasonability in the mist of ur ignoramus village women ?
Too much incoherent grammars re never signs of intelligibility. Get a bit of life!
This is nothing but a case of the butterfly thinking itself a bird...
Without sounding immodest, you are in the caudron of obscurantism and have made a dimwit of yourself by mimicking the inimitable.
It's doleful and abysmal.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by perez019(m): 5:55pm On Sep 12, 2012
pro01: Una no dey tire to rehash all this copy-and-paste nonsense? Boys need to grow up and focus on what's important. Wasting too much time worrying about how to please random, insignificant women is the WORST mistake men make with women. Make una go find work.
Abeg sharap der.. Na person lyk u dey go sitdown for salon dey wait for woman.. Shey all d work wey u dey do, finally no b to bleep woman with d money.. Must u comment on every thread. @op, u try jor.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by poyet(m): 5:56pm On Sep 12, 2012
Kudos, bro! kiss
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Saecula: 5:59pm On Sep 12, 2012
Mucokey:
Even as a liar (lawyer)...haven't u ever found urself in exposition of large amount of ignominious exhibition in place of reasonability in the mist of ur ignoramus village women ?
Too much incoherent grammars re never signs of intelligibility. Get a bit of life!
Mucokey:
Even as a liar (lawyer)...haven't u ever found urself in exposition of large amount of ignominious exhibition in place of reasonability in the mist of ur ignoramus village women ?
Too much incoherent grammars re never signs of intelligibility. Get a bit of life!
This is nothing but a case of the butterfly thinking itself a bird...
The fact that you coudn't twig or catch my drift doesn't by and vestige way depicts that the post is incoherent rather it casts aspersions on your sanity and soundmindedness.
Without sounding immodest, you are in the caudron of obscurantism and have made a dimwit of yourself by mimicking the inimitable.
It's doleful and abysmal.
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by StepG: 6:00pm On Sep 12, 2012
Euroclydon: Hey, if you aint patient enough to read thru this bulk,then there is no point starting in the first place...Cheers!

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A Nice Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date jerks but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how nice a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that powerful attraction.
And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but you need to get over it if you want to change how women respond to you.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever!
You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being reasonable with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will make them like us, us guys are always doing things to get a woman's approval or permission.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... ever.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women badly for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things," think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen A LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only natural when this happens...
That's right, I said natural.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as manipulation.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge, and unfortunate, mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they feel too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have experience.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, really like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to attraction.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over ten full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things other than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman.
But it's not an accident.
You have to learn how to do this.
But the great news is...
ANY guy can learn to do it.
If you'd like a FAST, SUCCESS-GUARANTEED lesson on making women start paying attention to you (without YOU ever having to say a word, or the woman even REALIZING why she's suddenly feeling it for you)



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, confident young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten times!
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is vitally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About ten years ago, I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


-David DeAngelo
http://www.doubleyourdating.ca/articles/0011-ten-mistakes-guys-make-with-women.htm
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Nobody: 6:00pm On Sep 12, 2012
Euroclydon:

Noted.
Nice One, now i can read with easezzzzzzz!!!
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by realsammie(m): 6:08pm On Sep 12, 2012
@op..this ur article sometimes does not apply to real life experience. the truth is that no matter ur personality, there is a woman out there that will luv u for who you are

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Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 12, 2012
@ poster grow up
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Ekans: 6:36pm On Sep 12, 2012
onila: I got too much game cool

Any nigga can open up 2 me. .I can make any nigga drop his pride down to get 2 know me

I an so sweet-that U will see him giving me his account numbers smiley

Onila 4 life!
.Onila,is it you or someone else?.When did you become pretty?,today?
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by LondyC(f): 6:53pm On Sep 12, 2012
@poster,You are right,
Though your concluding statements make me wonder why you pride in dating so many women(i hope u're nt lying). If you know all dat u've stated in ur article,why havnt u been able 2 stick to one lady. Is d long list of women u've dated part of ur C.V or wat? Mtsheeew!
Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by Euroclydon(m): 7:03pm On Sep 12, 2012
LondyC: @poster,You are right,
Though your concluding statements make me wonder why you pride in dating so many women(i hope u're nt lying). If you know all dat u've stated in ur article,why havnt u been able 2 stick to one lady. Is d long list of women u've dated part of ur C.V or wat? Mtsheeew!

no vex abeg...no be me originate am...i put the name of the originator there na...haba mana.

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