₦airaland Forum

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Why you come take the last penalty na....

Abi you want take the glory like penaldo dey do

Penaldo go wait make every body take penalty finish....then he go come take the last one make them for celebrate am

France loose guard .....allow Switzerland come from behind
Same way Spain be one take loose guard yesterday

TimmyTen:
When you talk about consistency C.Ronaldo comes to mind. One of the greatest icons in the history of football.

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

Kingstanding:
Well you maybe right due to your financial status. A university graduate collecting 50k per month? Honestly poverty is a disease that can not cure by doctor. Let assuming that is house rent is 7k per month, 1k for electricity per month, transportation 5k per month, feeding 20k per month, calling card and data 2k per month and let say unexpected expenses of 5k per month and total expenses is 40k per month. And you can only spend this amount if you're not living in Lagos, Porthacourt and Abuja. At the end of the month he can only save 10k per month with this money can he even have a family of his own? To be honest with ourselves a graduate should not earn less than 150k per month had it been we have a reliable and passionate leaders. Nigeria is richer than 85% of European countries but our problem is bad leaders.

beautyhd:
Just 21 years.

He will serve Nigeria for 3 years, 2 years in prison and a year in nysc.

Don't do the crime if you don't want to do the time.

Not exonerating him though, but 41k is too small to earn him 2 years, 6 months would have been better.

Our judiciary system favours the rich and tortures the poor.

wink2015:
if Jonathan is so good why are the ijaws suffering in their riverine creeks?

No clean drinking water

No access to electricity

No good road

No jobs for their youth

holarmz:
One thing I observed about Jonathan is that with one single action, he earned lot of respect nationally and internationally

MajesticKris:
Interesting... Congrats but I no dey happy with you ohh...

Cus had it been you resisted the trash results this APC People brought 2015

We wouldn't be going through this HELL..

ArewaNightmare:

ArewaNightmare:

PlayMaker14:
Can you imagine?

Even in defeat, they still pay you a mouth-watering salary that an average Bank Manager struggle to earn in 10yrs?


Maybe I should just drop this Masters Degree program and go for this sport that shows someone LOVE in defeat.

oluwaseyi0:
Guess he need more time to be sure who is allies are

Beancounter93:
Yes, you can make all the fun you want.

But in my life, I have seen too much damage done by the simple matter of a married man having a side chick.

ChiefSosa:
Damn, bro . U no get joy o. But, you're right though. Most women just use marriage to FINESSE men financially, emotionally, physically, etc. Met a man at Kumasi, he had to return back from USA to Ghana after his wife played him. He spent over 40 years there and now he just sells drinks at a small store.

pocohantas:
But it is annoying the way Nigerian men behave. A woman you have been married to since 2009. Even if her money isn’t inside, if she didn’t make the home conducive, you can’t do well at work. It is painful watching the man of your youth go about impregnating strange women while your life is on hold for the kids. It is more painful that the woman would still be blamed for the failed marriage. Let’s be fair to our spouses please- male and female alike.

You don’t want to marry again? Fine. Treat them with respect and fairness. At some point they had your back and if they wanted you dead, you’ll be long gone.

Theunbothered:
I'm only on Nairaland o, I don't exist in the real world

Biglittlelois:
You call Oprah Winfrey a bitch? Truly baby124 is right, the sets of boys here are embarrassing to engage in talks with.

Theunbothered:
What you are seeing from your friend is a father who abandoned his children.

If he was still financially supporting them or he stuck around in the marriage for appearances we wouldn't hear this.

Most women aren't interested in the men they marry anymore, rather the idea of marriage and an expensive wedding.

When the ideal is shattered resentment sets in.

I'm not interested in marriage, I'm not going to deceive myself with the illusion of sticking to one person for societal approval.

Beancounter93:
And if you read the bible, there was no peace in the houses of Jacob (wives fighting with each other), David (children of wives at each other's throat..plus his habit of looking for women for the harem led to Batsheba, and to the death of her husband for nothing), Solomon(wives turned him away from God).

Isaac had one wife. He had peace in his house.

Also, polygamy was common back then because the infant mortality was far higher, and also because of the very agrarian nature of society then.

Ikillbrokehoes:
So what is he thinking with then? the last time I checked a man can marry more than one wife if he wants, he's an African man not an European

ChiefSosa:
ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOU SIGN A PRENUP. FELLAS, FORGET ALL THE EMOTIONS OR THAT TRUST ISSUES NONSENSE SHE MIGHT BRING UP. MAKE SURE YOU SIGN A PRENUP. Look at some famous men that lost MILLIONS and even BILLIONS to women after divorce. Marriage HIGHLY favors women, especially abroad. Some women even get the house, cars and kids, without leaving anything for the man. Then, he'll have to start from scratch while the woman is flexing his life's work. SIGN THAT PRENUP, BRO. I'll take care of an ex-wife if divorce occurs, but NO WAY will any type of law force me to split my things or totally give them up to her.
Dr. Dre was married for over 24 years, yet after divorce, the wife still wants his assets, even after she already has some percentage stake in his billion-dollar companies. She even requested $2M per month, excluding other payments o. BROS, SIGN THAT PRENUP! IF SHE LOVES YOU, SHE'LL SIGN THAT PRENUP. KANYE AND KIM SIGNED!!!

ChiefSosa:
ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOU SIGN A PRENUP. FELLAS, FORGET ALL THE EMOTIONS OR THAT TRUST ISSUES NONSENSE SHE MIGHT BRING UP. MAKE SURE YOU SIGN A PRENUP. Look at some famous men that lost MILLIONS and even BILLIONS to women after divorce. Marriage HIGHLY favors women, especially abroad. Some women even get the house, cars and kids, without leaving anything for the man. Then, he'll have to start from scratch while the woman is flexing his life's work. SIGN THAT PRENUP, BRO. I'll take care of an ex-wife if divorce occurs, but NO WAY will any type of law force me to split my things or totally give them up to her.
Dr. Dre was married for over 24 years, yet after divorce, the wife still wants his assets, even after she already has some percentage stake in his billion-dollar companies. She even requested $2M per month, excluding other payments o. BROS, SIGN THAT PRENUP! IF SHE LOVES YOU, SHE'LL SIGN THAT PRENUP. KANYE AND KIM SIGNED!!!

phemmyfour:
Ighalo is irresponsible. No wonder his glory in ManU was short lived.

Musa went that line too and he became club less before Kano pillars rescued him.

Never joke with the wife of your youth.....the consequences can be enormous

tradepunter:
He's would be worst

Ltherman:
Too much wisdom.

Atiwaye:
This is overstatement coming from over feeding pig
What do you know about Nigeria, you know than Obasanjo?
Obasanjo is ex service men
Obasanjo went for peace keeping in Congo Crisis seria lone Liberian and Nigerian Civil War.
Obasanjo is a deputy military head of state
Obasanjo is a head of state
Obasanjo is a former president of Nigeria
Obasanjo was elected president of Ecowas
Obasanjo was elected president of AU
Obasanjo is a president of world former president
Obasanjo has 3 wives and several concubines
Obasanjo is a farmer
The same Obasanjo appointed efulefu Buhari has a minister of petroleum resources. Femi what do you know about life you are not intelligent than this man you are not more expose than him, you dont have experience than him.

Onyeedum:
In 2015, I told my roommate that FG can't hold Tompolo. Man get guys wa ready to sacrifice dm lives 4m.