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RB007:
yes it's aloud

Okay. It is aloud, but not allowed.

I am going to state two instances that made me ask this question.

1. I had a this girl I liked when I was in school. We were in the same department but she was a year my junior. I asked her out, but she had a boyfriend, so we just remained friends. We were friends till I graduated, and after school, we kinda lost touch. One day, I remembered her number and called her after several years. She was very excited to hear from me and asked if we could meet at the mall. I got there, and she was with her whole family, and she introduced me to her mom. So, we wondered off, aimlessly, just talking, and catching up on old times. She told me she was married, but her husband was in another town. Anyway, when we were leaving the mall, her whole family (brothers, cousin, and mom) were a few feet behind us, and while we were walking, she wrapped her arm around mine. I found that really really odd.

2. Second situation. I got introduced to this lovely girl back in 2014, and we became close really fast. The chemistry was awesome. Then I found out she was getting married in a couple of weeks. My heart was broken, so I kinda stopped calling her. But she didn't stop calling, and even after getting married, we still used to chat once in a while. One day, she invited me for her birthday party at her house. I asked her how that would be possible. She said they would be too many people in the house for anyone to ask who I was. I sensed she really loved her husband, but she liked me nevertheless. In an innocent way though.

I just have been thinking. Is it allowed for a married woman to have male friends?

lala

Esepayne:
what i meant was that women cheat on their spouse with men

ok

Esepayne:
but who are they cheating with

Last Christmas, I met this lady when I went to Lagos for the holidays. One thing led to another, and we ended up having sex. When I returned to my base, I was bored one day and decided to search her number on Facebook. I nearly fainted when I found out that she was married. I saw her pics with her husband and all, and they just got married a few months before our encounter. When I confronted her about it, she apologized and said if she had told me, I won't have slept with her. Men! I have started fearing women more than men these days.

olusola200:
Like my wife is lazy in bed

So I take to be the mother of my kid


She always have one excuse or the other

I work hard I don't drink nor smoke

All I want 3 times a week

I can't kill myself

lol! I feel you jare.

coolcatty:
Abia....see u...as if suleman is not godfearing abi....or even David and Solomon.....man must cheat...just do it with a little iota of respect for ur spouse.... Never sleep with your wife's friends,relatives,neighbours or anyone your wife knows....cheat so so far from home and never ever allow ur wife to catch you.....only mumus get caught.

GBAM!!! You have said it all.

They do so because...

#Women age faster than men. Once females get to age 35 and above, their bodies start looking really unattractive, and the men ain't moved to have sex with them again. So, they go for younger girls. Please note that most men cheat for sex alone, not for affection or love. It is strictly physical for most married men.

#When their wives start ignoring them. I was at a table with friends and friends of friends drinking last weekend, and this guy said his wife had been denying him sex for 10 months now. Please note that this dude got married just three years ago. What do you expect the dude to do in a situation like this?

#And three, some men are never satisfied, they just want more. They want to always conquer a new girl.

#Day 7

By the end of today, I will have 23 days left. So far so good. I have started seeing one of the benefits of abstinence/sexual energy transmutation- sharper brain.

9jayes:
His name is Emeka

lol! I am starting to think all these is just sarcasm.

babyfaceafrica:
fact!!!... With money ,you get away with lots of things

Yea.

Saintsquare:
lol why are you surprised, some people and attaché by force, u suppose know them..

lol! No mind them.

9jayes:
His mother is from ogun dats y d name

I ask again, which Igbo man would allow HIS SON bear no Igbo name, but have TWO YORUBA MIDDLE NAMES? Also, please show me proof that his father is igbo. Is there anywhere online I can go to read that? They interviewed the dude, he didn't speak Igbo,, he spoke Yoruba, but yet you are still claiming him.

tinz:
It's illogical with the way some miopic people think. Sometimes I wonder if some people are born without brain @basic123.

Judging from you already passed judgement on some tribe as to how they claim this or that yet they still remain in an entity called Nigeria.
If you ever been to the school. have you noticed why history is no more thought in schools or the role the UK and US played in the so called war so as to protect their interest. If history is to be told. Don't you remember the war was fought. In about 3 years which the Almighty Nigerian government claim to annihilate in 2 months. I must tell you the sole reason Nigeria is existing today is cus of the UK and US. Aside that you all know the[b] Easterners can annihilate you people in just about amonth.[/b] Believe it or not. I advise you go back to school so you brain can be reformatted that's if you still have one

Chest beating. Typical of igbo people. Superiority complex dey always worry you people.

9jayes:
His father is from Okija in Anambra but he was born in Lagos thats why he can speak Yoruba

Okija kor! Kidada ni! Dude's name is Anthony Oluwafemi Olaseni Joshua. Which Igbo man will allow his son have two Yoruba middle names? The guy has his roots in Sagamu, Ogun state. Stop claiming the dude.

GloriaNinja:
TRUE, LAZY NIGGAS ON NL NEEDS TO READ THIS THREAD

WORD!!!

MissCuppy:
You can't get away with cheating or domestic violence in relationship if you have money, especially when you are dating someone like me.

Speak for yourself. What we see in the news everyday is evidence men get away with cheating if they have money. The only thing they can't get away with is domestic abuse. And I don't support that.

Every now and then, I read posts on Nairaland where guys are condemning girls for liking money and putting it over love. I used to be like those guys till I saw the light. This quality in most Nigerian women is to our advantage guys. Today, I am going to point out 3 reasons why guys should be happy women like money.

1. It Motivates You to Work Harder
If you like a girl and she turns down your advances, it might annoy you, but it also makes you want to become successful. If the anger is strong enough, and you have a genuine mind towards business/work, that anger will fuel you towards success. The owner of Facebook was ridiculed by his ex girlfriend, and that gave him the drive to work harder on the social network website. Later when he became successful, they asked him if he went back to that girl, and he said he had totally forgotten about her. That girl that would motivate you to greatness because she turned you down would not even catch your fancy again when you eventually make it.

2. You Can Get Almost Any Girl You Want
Note I used the word "almost." Yea, with money, you can get almost any girl you want. Hugh Hefner is 90 years old, but he is still dating girls in their twenties. Just get that dough, and you would be able to pick from a host of girls. Instead of chasing women, chase that money with a lot of determination. Girls can smell money; they are the ones that would come chasing you when you get that money.

Money might not be able to buy love, but it sure creates the conducive atmosphere for love to blossom. With money and patience, you can get just about any girl you want.

3. You can Get Away With a Lot in a Relationship When You Have Money
I am not saying you shouldn't be nice to your girlfriend or wife (as the case may be), but we ain't perfect. You might have some bad habits like coming home late, or not calling all the time, or not being romantic...but when you shower a woman with lots of surprise gifts and money, you can get away with those negative sides of you.


So guys, stop abusing girls for liking money, money is very essential in running a family so don't blame the girls for wanting security. Just double your hustle and enjoy life.

Halfpenny:
30 days without sex isn't an achievement, try 2 years.

I am not trying to be a monk or impress anyone. I am trying to harness the energies of my high sex drive for a greater good than an orgasm. And 30 days a big achievement for someone with a high sex drive. You might not understand if you have a low libido.

I made it to the end of Day 6, but it wasn't easy. I felt a strong urge to have sex this afternoon after a nap, but I had to quickly watch one old horror movie on my laptop to get my mind off it. The urge is really strong right now, but I know things will get better if I can go through this next couple of days.

#DAY 6

This is the beginning of day 6. I woke up with a hard-on and had to watch the Logan movie to get my mind of sex. I will be heading to church in a bit.

PetroleumJelly:
D fruit

Hmm! Okay.

Draei:

Huh! guess you are still underage.

No sir. I am in my early thirties. I just wanted to say something to stop them from turning my thread to their discussion ground.

This two are actually falling in love with each other and they don't even know it. Hmm!

PetroleumJelly:
am goin to av sex wit d watermelon

Real life watermelon or boobs?

PetroleumJelly:
Is true sha

Op I start wit u from Tuesday after av finish using ma watermelon dis weekend

Using your watermelon? I don't understand. I thought watermelon was a fruit that people eat. Do people use water melon for something else I don't know about? Please enlighten me. Thank you.

Are you guys falling in love on my thread or what

SINZ:
I'm 27

Male

God fearing and my body is a temple.

That's great.

SINZ:
#TeamVirginAndProud

Are you male or female? And what age range are you?

BiafranBushBoy:
you wan eye my babe??

take time ooo...

You have a sexy babe and you have not had any form of sex for two years? Why do I have a feeling you are not telling us the total truth.