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It depends on who you marry, my wife salary multiply mine almost 3* and if I didn't mention it, you won't know she is the breadwinner, we use common purse, we do everything in common, you know why because we have someone who is the chairman of our marriage and that is Jesus Christ, we live happy life while we both try to get things better,we work as a team, no one is selfish here. There is a big difference between those who are sincere children of God and those who are pretenders,if both couple are children of God nobody will know anything except you spill it out

My dear, nothing is wrong with your marriage, all I can read is that you were not emotionally matured for marriage, even if you have all the money and wealth in this life, a pregnant woman can stiff life out of you, your sweet love will come back, endure her homonal excess until she put to bed, it's pregnancy hormones that is affecting her emotions, learn to understand her and endure

And people believe this shit, it's a game plan as she doesn't secure tinubu attention with the tattoo, the next script is this one, hopefully tinubu didn't give a dam, the next will be to call tinubu out, everything is about cashing out, and as jagaban if he falls for this small trick believe me in the next one week more than 1000 will tattoo him on their face not only back again just to cash out, and at last will ruin Lagos landlord that is saving money for campaign

How much

Dear poster from what you wrote, I think you are good to go, but who is the bride to be, is she a woman with good brain or useless woman.

And about wedding, it depends on your tribe, in Yoruba you can wed with less than 200k and you can spend 10milion that it won't be enough, it depends on the kind of wedding you want, if it's low key with like 20 people in attendance, you are good to go.

And having a steady source of income is the most important, you will only live within your source of income, and however if you want to wait till you have 10million in your account before you marry, you may end up dying single with the current situation of Nigeria. So plan your life within the means

The biggest mistake is marrying a wrong partner.


When I got married I was working and my wife was not doing anything though she just came back from nysc, we were sure of God's leading because out of our five years courtship we kept our bed undefiled, we got married without her having a job and as at that time my own job was in bad shape, as God will have it She secured a job 45days after our wedding and as God will have it I lost my own job.


Op if you will hear the truth she is now the breadwinner in the family and we are fine, in fact I pray for her to keep going higher and I am giving her maximum support and she has never for once insult me.


So op the biggest mistake is marrying a wrong partner. If you marry a wrong partner even let her be working in shell and you a senator she will make your home a HELL for you to live..


The best investment in marriage is to invest in prayer for God who see all secret and that know all hearts to lead you to the right partner, because I can tell you if it is God that lead you and you are sincere in obeying him, even the lady may not be the type of woman you personally desire if God lead you and you go for it,you will come back to testify but if your emotion or mind lead you, you MAY not experience the joy you expect in that marriage. Shalom

I have been coming across EFCC activities recently, though not dealing with the real criminals in the country (public office holders), though has been on the neck of opposition, but what I love about them is their war against YAHOO YAHOO GUYS, they have been arresting and prosecuting them, that's a plus for them, to teach Nigeria youths that, crime didn't pay

npowerng:
Kindly send a mail to volunteersupport@npvn.ng, clearly stating your problem, and reason(s) behind the change of name.

Thanks for your response

[quote author=olayemi85 post=80493066]Please how can someone that has been a beneficiary of npower that did change of name, now want to effect the change of name in his bank account details, will it not affect his monthly stipends? Because his new name will not be the same with the name he use for npower application, please kindly respond, though the account number will still be the same, bvn still the same number but details of account name will change just like a married woman?

@npower still waiting for your response

Please how can someone that has been a beneficiary of npower that did change of name, now want to effect the change of name in his bank account details, will it not affect his monthly stipends? Because his new name will not be the same with the name he use for npower application, please kindly respond, though the account number will still be the same, bvn still the same number but details of account name will change just like a married woman?

May God help us all. Man of God you have spoken the express mind of God, I am guilty of abusing buhari. May the lord help me to Chanel the energy I used in abusing him to be praying for him, despite been jobless that I desperately need job. Seems no hope for people like us who doesn't have any connection with people in government.

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Now I understand that this guy is up to something. Time will tell

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Sorry bro. I advice you add serious prayer to your hobby

nikeballing:
gym,take fruits,drink lot of water,stop watching too much of porn and masturbation.....dont know for other ladies,i enjoy good sex

Thanks, very educative too, I would have love to ask u some private question, will love it if u can send ur WhatsApp number to my email, olayemiolaolorun@gmail.com

matrix199:
Everyone with his own threshold.


Men have lower threshold than women. Most men have low threshold. The average time it takes most men to climax(cum) is within 5 to 7mins. It's perfectly normal for a man to cum within 5 to 7mins. Don't feel bad if you do, it's perfectly normal.


Most women have high threshold. The average time it takes for most women to climax(orgasm) depends on the intensity of the stimulation, their mood, and the stamina of their partners. Few women climax(orgasm) within a short time of intercourse.


So, don't expect to get your partner to cimax(orgasm) if you have low a threshold, and she has a high threshold.

very educative, thanks so much

nikeballing:
1hr is ok

can u as a woman cope with one hour. Please what is average without been induced with haber or drug?

Please I think I need help, please be sincere without been under Haber or drug influence, what is the average time for a man to use during sex to bring a woman to orgasm. Thanks in advance

I thought you said she is spirit filled and have been engaging in formication? She open her leg for you for all night sex and thereafter you will start speaking in tongue, my brother you are both bunch of hypocrite, as I was reading your story, I was weeping for you. Who has deceived you these way, who is your pastor that has hidden the truth from you? Which church did you attend? I guess it must be daddy freeze church.

Now to your issue, your destiny has been succefully been caged by your strange girlfriend, she knows about the blood? She is purely posses and the blood is serving a purpose that only her can tell you now or until you start seeing the result in future. I will advice you to go to a Bible believing church and see a pastor for counseling, I just hope you won't go from frypan to fire by meeting another fake pastor. Shallom

Congratulations to them

OK I will put it in mind, useless people everywhere. I will be looking at the outcome of the primary

Many of us are so quick to conderm fake pastors spoiling the body of Christ, we forget to balance it up. If there are no fake church members there won't be fake pastors, many of fake pastors are pastoring congregation of hypocrites, they claims to be followers of God but won't see holiness life a priority, many of them know true church of God but they chose to live a fake life by attending churches of the pastors who will tell them what they want to hear, some prefer a place where pastors will cut corner for them, arranging some questionable items for them in the name of prayer, some are so gullible that some fake pastors will ask them for annoited sex ( pure adultery with the so called man of God) and they still believe such useless being are pastor, dear the truth is fake pastors strives because of many fake church members. We should rather chastise both fake pastors and fake church members. There is a very sad event happening in my vicinity of a fake pastor who never know lying is a sin until we had a discussion and told him to his face that he is full of lies, reminding him of some lies he has said in my presence before, and another one is telling the entire church members about his adultery with one of his member. I expect the church to become a graveyard immediately but alas they are still there clapping and dancing making and from their episode I came to conclusion,. FAKE PASTORS STRIVES BECAUSE OF FAKE CHURCH MEMBERS.

[quote author=Zeus124x post=67274265][/quote]Are u not tired of this message on nearly every thread

Thanks this is so informative and educative

dasparrow:
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Not every woman enjoys sex contrary to what most men believe. In fact, research has shown that most women do not get an orgasm just from dick/penile penetration into the vagina. Google the article from Psychology Today titled "Why so many women don't have orgasm". It is very insightful and sheds light on the issue.


Men and women are wired differently and their bodies are different and respond to sex differently. Women who were sexually abused, raped or molested as children or adolescents often times hate sex but because Nigeria is a country that pressures and shames her citizens into getting married, many women force themselves to get married despite the fact that they don't look forward to the sexual demands that come with marriage.

Some women have low sex drive. The desire to have sex is just not there due to stress, tiredness, not feeling loved by their spouse, depression, etc.

Many women experience pain when the inflated, hard, elongated dick gets shoved back and forth into their fragile vaginas but they don't say anything because they don't want to hurt their husband's fragile ego. They just lay there like a log of wood hoping and praying in their hearts that the man orgasms quickly so that their poor hurting bruised vagina can rest.

So yes, there are many reasons why some women will not moan and groan during sex. I mean why should a woman pretend to enjoy sex when in actuality she doesn't?

Maybe you are bad in bed. Maybe, you don't caress and romance her enough before starting the act of sex. Maybe you are too rough when you are thrusting your hard, inflated, elongated dick inside of her. Maybe, you don't know where her center of gravity is.

Maybe, you don't stimulate her clitoris enough before penetration. Maybe, she is not sexually attracted to you. Maybe she is not just into sex. There could be many reasons.

Perhaps, you should talk to your wife. Ask her what's wrong. Only she can give you an answer. We here on Nairaland can only speculate.

Thanks so much for this. Its normal I feel somehow since we are young couple just few months in marriage]BRO... am sad you feel this way because I am so sure your mum didnt moan when your father had sex with her while u were in the same house o

MOANING/SCREAMING/CUSSING/TALKING/ORGASMS is the Marketing Material that MAKES POOORNOGRAPHY SELL and they are all lies.

You married a WIFE not a IndecentStar or SLAYQUEEN or HAARLOT...... enjoy her for her character and stop expecting her to be like the PERVERTs that you have watched or heard about.

SEX in MARRIAGE is called LOVE MAKING not FILM MAKING.... so PERFORMANCE is not the ultimate but rather SATISFACTION IS. AND if you can only be satisfied when she MOANS then teach it to her... you can tell her to let you know during sex if she is enjoying it or what more you can do for her to enjoy it or what she would want u to do..... THESE THINGS OUGHT TO HAVE BEEN TAUGHT IN YOUR MARRIAGE CLASS IN YOUR CHURCH SINCE YOU MARRIED HER AS A VIRGIN.

Pornography gives very UNREALISTIC and DECEPTIVE expectations for sex that kills the purpose of it in the first place.

Bro pls be careful.... you may go and make the shiiitty mistake of WATCHING POORN with her and then she too begins to expect you to have a BIGGER JOYSTICK or to be as RUTHLESS like the male actors or as crazy with positions like them... and as AGE increases you will PAINFULLY LEARN THAT THOSE THINGS DO NOT LAST.[/quote]

Each time I make love to my wife, she doesn't show any sign she is enjoying sex, does it mean she is enjoying it but just don't like screaming or moaning during sex. We are Christian we courted for five years with God grace keeping bed undefiled, I married her as a virgin when I too don't really know much about sex than reading about it online and some relationship books we bought in the cause of courtship.


Please I need women with experience to advice me. Does it mean my wife is not enjoying sex or not that is why she doesn't moan or scream. I need candid advice. Thanks in advance

Nigerians are intellectually lazy ---- femi adesina

Nigerians youth are lazy----- PMB

now my resolution, none of the above statements can be proven otherwise because how on earth did Nigerians youth sold their vote so cheap to propaganda? NIGERIAN YOUTH BEGGED HIM TO SIGN NIGERIA PEACE CORP BILL, he refused, and he has the audacity to insult us that we are lazy, RENO OMOKRY HAS BEEN ASKING HIS SUPPORTERS TO NAME JUST A SINGLE PROJECT, HE CONCEIVED ABD EXECUTED IN HIS 3YEARS IN OFFICE? NOBODY HAS BEEN ABLE TO NAME ONE, how can an old man of 75years be a president of a national where we regard civil service years to end by 65yrs, because we believe they have nothing to offer again, they need to go and rest. Anyway we need fresh blood in aso rock come next year. Any youth and every youth than campaign for old people in the coming election is TRULY INTELLECTUALLY SICK AS FEMI ADESINA HAS SAID

Nigeria police force just released the names of offa bank robbery suspect, about three out of the suspect were arrested with phone number of the robbery victims, and I guess those guys were arrested in offa as well, their story made me had a flashback to a particular incident that happened in IROPORA EKITI many years back, it was a beautiful afternoon, a driver was traveling along the route likely coming from ADO EKITI on his way to IDO EKITI, he made used of iropora axis, we don't know what actually happened, he had an accident as he drove into the bush at odiolowo, the noise of accident made everyone to come out to offer whatever assistance in our capacity, lo and behold it was a BMW car that had the accident, the accident victim was told to sit down as we helped him to push his car back to the road, in the course of pushing the car, a guy from EYIO EKITI, opened the driver door side pretending to be a well wishes, took the accident victim's phone Nokia 3310 and pocket it, it was while pocketing it he looked back only to discover that his eyes and mine are in contact, he said 'we will discuss later ' I didn't say anything I just closed my mouth and pretend as if I didn't see anything, to keep record straight I didn't walk up to the guy to demand for any share.

Now to the main issue, these guys paraded as criminal with the evidence of been in possession of bank robbery victims, might be one of those bad boys who took advantage of the room robbery incident to pick some things from the dead body on the floor, they could be part of people that clear the corpse, question to ask, what will a thief that had a successful robbery been doing with his victims phone or sim card? I guest they are like that boy who picked that man phone after he had accident. I pity them somehow sha.


Lesson, learn to live a clean life that is what can safe any man