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Business / Re: GTBank Website Hacked - Customers Cry Out by Olayetan(m): 11:38pm On Jul 31, 2022
Ooh, no wonder, they have even blocked my internet banking, been trying to login for some hours and didn't know they were having issues.
Car Talk / Re: Want To Sell My 2006avalon To Get A 2009 Accord Coupe by Olayetan(m): 11:35pm On Jul 31, 2022
Not bad, Honda has stronger engine compare to Toyota, and Honda interior is very lovely and attractive.

Instead of the 2009 coupe, why not go for the 2012.

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Romance / Re: Man Refused To Pay Her N7k Transport Fare After He Spent 111,000 On A Date by Olayetan(m): 11:44am On Jul 31, 2022
Both of them dey ment, 111k on a 1st date.
The guy ment gan, just Because you wan chill with person...

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Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Olayetan(m): 10:47am On Jul 31, 2022
Akalia:
I didn't mean to be ruthlessly careless with words in my initial post, all I was trying to point out is that the woman is not alone in this situation since her husband is still in the picture. That special needs child is now partly her responsibility as she is married to the child's father. Marriage makes it so.
Now let me ask you a question and before you answer please take time to critically think out answer - is divorce the ideal way out of this situation for the woman?

To be honest with you, her situation is beyond enduring even though I would want her to stay in the marriage but looking at the situation, it will be difficult for her...


She has married wrongly, this problem is just too much for her and looking at their financial status, you can't be facing financial issues and be facing health issue at the same time...

I just can't imagine her situation.

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Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Olayetan(m): 10:14am On Jul 31, 2022
Akalia:
Madam you really are not ripe for marriage. Your husband made a goof by marrying you. So you can't even stand by your man in trying times? That means you never loved him from the beginning.

Stereotype like you is the reason most single men dread marriage. You want to excuse your ill-motivated resolve by blaming the man for keeping this child's existence a secret as if you don't have any secret you have kept from your husband uptil now.

You can leave him to suffer alone and mock his financial situation in public but believe me you someday God will bless that man and you will want him back but then it might be too late.

Most women supporting you here are not married or they were once married but could not keep their marriage because of bad behavior, so yes they are jealous of married women like you.


Please, choose your words carefully, someone is going through alot already, being so harsh on her will worsen her situation...


Words kill faster than bullet.

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Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Olayetan(m): 9:41am On Jul 31, 2022
Rosaline5000:

So everything they have been writing since you haven't seen it, the husband isn't financially buoyant, he has a 15k job and his side hustle isn't working.
His family members ie Mother and sister refuse to come and help, everything falls on the wife to help out 24/7 when she herself is 7 months pregnant.
This isn't easy for anyone so if she wants to leave for her mental and physical health, she has a right to



She has right to leave to retain her sanity but what about her condition, having a child without the father will also affect her mental health, i guess they should urgently find solution to the special child care.

So many options are there for them, they just need to explore it...
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Olayetan(m): 9:38am On Jul 31, 2022
maasoap:


This is not about her marriage to her husband, just happened that someone else's problem was dumped on her laps. She didn't see it coming, she was "ambushed". It's just too much for her and for anyone for that matter. Haba!

It still boils down to marriage, its the marriage that ties her to the special child responsibility, if the marriage wasn't involved, she won't be facing this problem...

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Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Olayetan(m): 9:28am On Jul 31, 2022
Leaving is a hard decision and staying isn't easy as well, you're 7 months gone and this alone is enough reason why it's not advisable to leave, I will advise you to stay a little and study how things turn out, if it's beyond what you can endure, you can then decide to leave but leaving now is kinda too soon and early considering your current situation.

Just tell your husband to get someone to look after the child as its going to be a huge burden on you to look after her with your current condition, I guess talking to your husband and coming to a solution should be your priority RN...



Marriages this days is for the grace, the earlier everyone realized Marriages isn't for everyone the better for everyone...
Business / Re: Pictures of PUBLIC LAUNDRY services In The U.S. by Olayetan(m): 8:50pm On Jul 30, 2022
How many times this thing go hit FP
Politics / Re: Tayo Sanyaolu: Sanwo-Olu's Aide dies in Horrific Car Accident In Lagos by Olayetan(m): 9:19pm On Jul 29, 2022
Fake alloy wheel, the wheel broke while on motion
Politics / Re: We’ve Killed Bandits Who Attacked Presidential Guards Brigade In Abuja: Defence by Olayetan(m): 7:16pm On Jul 28, 2022
You killed them after they successfully launched an attack on presidential convoy, isn't that a big shame on your security intelligence
Autos / Re: Check Out These Lexus ES 350 2008 for 3.3m by Olayetan(m): 1:46pm On Jul 28, 2022
Still available
Autos / Re: Check Out These Lexus ES 350 2008 for 3.3m by Olayetan(m): 5:38pm On Jul 27, 2022
Call or whatsapp
Autos / Re: Check Out These Lexus ES 350 2008 for 3.3m by Olayetan(m): 5:38pm On Jul 27, 2022
Still Available
TV/Movies / Re: Profile Of Diana, Bbnaija Season 7 Housemate by Olayetan(m): 1:32pm On Jul 25, 2022
Lolz, she really is expensive.
TV/Movies / Re: Profile Of Doyin, Bbnaija Season 7 Housemate by Olayetan(m): 11:25am On Jul 25, 2022
Okay
Autos / Re: Check Out These Lexus ES 350 2008 for 3.3m by Olayetan(m): 11:07am On Jul 25, 2022
S.A

Autos / Check Out These Lexus ES 350 2008 for 3.3m by Olayetan(m): 8:26pm On Jul 24, 2022
Sharp Lexus Es 350 2008 up for sale
1st User
Baked on 1st body(same initial colour)
Smooth Engine
Smooth Gear Selection
Pimped Seats
Reverse Cam & Android System
Just Buy & Enjoy!

Price: 3.3m

Call or whatsapp 090(seven)8(zero)1(three)5(six)1

Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Olayetan(m): 4:55pm On Jul 24, 2022
Indriver drivers dey para o, request go enter like this, before you even see where the person dey go, na ride request taken you go see...

Chai, bolt don dull now o

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Romance / Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by Olayetan(m): 4:31pm On Jul 22, 2022
Her type can kill if you cheat on her

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Family / Re: Have You Ever Been Mocked? Share Your Experiences by Olayetan(m): 1:50pm On Jul 21, 2022
Mumben:
Good afternoon N'lders, so we had a compound meeting with d landlord yesterday. Note that d landlord doesn't stay with us.

During the meeting, a female married neighbor raised some complaints about another neighbor whose family are in the habit of wasting water in d compound. Their tap head is spoilt but they refused to repair it, when water is pumping, they can leave their tap on overnight and so on. My husband was also confirming what d neighbor was saying.

During the meeting, the said woman whose family was wasting water came in and was
making some side remarks and even asked the Landlord why he had to call the meeting. The landlord didn't reply but rather asked her to leave the meeting. Am sure this angered her

When she came back from her business place in the night, from the gate she started raining insults on the woman that reported her, my husband,my children and myself. I have never been so humiliated in my life. Of a truth, we re going through financial challenges at the moment and it's telling on us. She called me a skeleton, my children kwashiorkor and my husband she called a Nobody. We were inside while she kept ranting and ranting outside, she later went inside her house and continued her rant from there. She said so many unprintable things to us but by God's grace we didn't even step out not to talk of replying her.

My great n'land family, is the woman wrong to have reported her? and am I wrong to have kept quiet while she humiliated and mocked my family for being poor?

Any advice for me cos I am broken

Don't let her words get to you. Just wave it off your mind and focus on your work and business.

Some people are just frustrated and waiting to pour aggression on someone

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Romance / Re: Is It Proper To Date My Friend's Ex? by Olayetan(m): 1:26pm On Jul 20, 2022
Ladies aff suffered sha, see as una turn a lady to football passing it to each other
Crime / Re: Man Kills Pregnant Wife In Edo State, Fakes Suicide (Graphic Photos & Video) by Olayetan(m): 10:38am On Jul 20, 2022
Make nobody marry again, if it's offspring you want, get anyone you find good and both of you can have offspring together without having to live together or be married.

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Education / Re: Ogun State Provides Chairs, Desks For St Kizito High School After Viral Pictures by Olayetan(m): 9:41pm On Jul 19, 2022
What they need is beyond just the chair, the school itself needs a total Renovation...
Romance / Re: Do Animals Rape Each Other Too?? by Olayetan(m): 12:34pm On Jul 19, 2022
Islandlady:
I mean do male animals also rape their female counterparts without her consent too undecided

I just read a news where a man raped a 3yrs old girl to death and it makes me wondered if this men are even worth calling an animals

Maybe animals are better than them toh!

Just thinking out loud


Mehn, people are gradually loosing their minds.

What a question.
Crime / Re: IGP Orders Probe Of Portable Over One Million Boys Rant by Olayetan(m): 8:27pm On Jul 18, 2022
Ehn ehn
I talk am say nah hin mouth go kill am
Health / Re: Help! Drug Is Ruining My Relationship by Olayetan(m): 12:48pm On Jul 18, 2022
cRobo:



I had a deep thought about this

And I realize that i don't have any addiction

"Everyone is addicted to something" is a total lie

That's a big lie, we all have addictions and its something we often do when idle to pass time, unless you don't get the meaning of addiction...

Addiction isn't always about bad thing, I can say I'm addicted to video game coz that's the only thing I do when I'm not working.
Health / Re: Help! Drug Is Ruining My Relationship by Olayetan(m): 12:44pm On Jul 18, 2022
Benki003:
Okay I'll try and make it snappy

So am into this new relationship with this beautiful girl, everyman's dream, fun and nice to be with, but the only issues i have is that she abuses sleeping pills
So she told me that before she met me earlier this year, she's been taking the sleeping pills so as to fall asleep. but then after we started dating she stopped taking it and she's now finding it hard to fall asleep naturally without the aid of the drugs.
please guru's in the house how do we handle this situation, am willing to help her find help.



Ps: she's been taking the drug for close to a year and it has been having advert effect on her, also note that she's been to the hospital before and the doctor warned her to stop and she refused to stop then.

If someone is having sleepless nights and all, something is triggering her minds which makes her to bother her minds so much and be having sleepless nights, if that reason is still in the picture, nothing can stop the sleepless night, so she has to open up on what's really bothering her minds and try eliminate then she will have no reason to have sleepless nights over it.

It can be Depression
Anxiety disorder
Medical conditions or anything she's keeping to herself that she doesn't want to let out.
Business / Re: How Profitable Is Uber/bolt Business? by Olayetan(m): 11:23am On Jul 18, 2022
I will advise you relocate to Lagos to enjoy the work very well, if you have someone that can provide you accommodation in Lagos, just move here and use your car for Uber and bolt, you will make your capital within a year and few months with hard work, people i know who does Uber and bolt in PH complains of low fare and low demands too much and I'm not sure surge will be much over there compare to Lagos...


Don't be scared of Road law enforcers, if you're the type that is calm and very observing, you will understand traffic rules in Lagos and map is there to direct you as well, I started driving in 2019 and then, I have no idea of Lagos route, in fact, I don't know anywhere on the island, but today, Lagos map is in my head and I don't even need map to navigate my way, only use map to see where there's traffic so it won't take you much time to understand the routes and you can always ask your rider to direct you when you're not familiar with where they are going...

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Car Talk / Re: I Finally Bought The Car I Went To Lagos To Buy. Now In PH With The Car by Olayetan(m): 11:03am On Jul 18, 2022
Ofemmanu1:


Another lieing Corolla sad-boy.


You did a 160km on an overated 130hp bolt car?!

haha?!

With the way these Corolla sadboys lies, someone will soon tell us he did a 200kph on a 180max Corolla.


Wetin i wan gain to lie on my highest speed?


You think everyone dey lie like you anyhow,
I did it and whether you believe or not, nah your business, I was heading to berger from ijebu ode on that faithful day and that day was the 1st and last i will hit that 160km/h but I dey do 145km/h on 3rdMB on every regular day...

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Car Talk / Re: I Finally Bought The Car I Went To Lagos To Buy. Now In PH With The Car by Olayetan(m): 8:28am On Jul 18, 2022
seniorgozman:
You did 170kph with this car and you are still alive? A car that the maximum speed is 180kph, op easy with your lies
Its possible, I have done 160km/h with mine and I wasn't feeling the speed too much cux all windows were wind up so I won't doubt if he did 170km/h but that speed is way three much cux any little swerve can result to tumble....

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