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bustyhelen: There are some girls that you should just never date. These girls are either too bossy, too possessive or total psychos! However, when it comes to the subject of dating virgins, men are undecided.
Most men, at least Nigerian men actually want to date girls who are virgins. They get a certain sense of security from knowing that their girlfriend is chaste.

So, what if we told you that you must never date a girl who is totally chaste? Don't pick up the brick bats, we can prove it with logic that there are many disadvantages of dating a virgin girl. And as the disadvantages outweigh the benefits, you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity.

1 Chastity is a state of mind: Girl may be a virgin physically but that does not mean that her heart is chaste. She may have loved before and lost her chastity emotionally.

2 She does not have a benchmark: Well she cannot compare you to her abusive ex-boyfriend. So she will not understand when you compare her with your psycho ex-girlfriend. She will be jealous of your exes because she has no similar experience to set precedents. It can put you in a difficult spot because most of us like to be on friendly terms with our ex-girlfriends. That is the sign of matured relationships.

3 You have to be her guardian: Dude you are getting into a relationship, you are not signing up for adoption. Girls see their father in the men they love. So if your are going to start dating Daddy's virgin girl, then you will have to start behaving like her dad. Trust me, it is not a nice feeling.

4 You have to commit to her: Most guys try to date virgin girls only when they want to marry them. However, this approach interferes with the natural progression of a relationship. You meet a girl, fall in love and then think about marriage. What if you commit to the girl and then don't think she is the right one later?

6 She will have romantic ideas about making love:

Most virgins think that making love is like an 'end of the world' experience. They don't realise that it is a normal human activity like bathing or eating. So you may seriously disappoint her and bear the brunt for it.

6 You may not get lucky: If no one else has managed to get lucky with her then odds are not in your favour. If you are dating a virgin girl just to maneuver her into the sack, then it is a very bad idea. Never date any girl with such intentions.


These are some of the reasons for which you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity. What is your opinion about this?

jhimmy: *SAD*... what do you do...?
What type of machine ?
What kind of Job?
What are your skills?

hotwax: Seen P. of Interest ?

I have seen 24 hours...full episodes and seasons

TrucksCEO: Please how can I stop this habit, I'm tired of chasing anything in skirt, its so bad that last week in the bank, I got slapped by a worker for openly, confidently flirting with her, I even wanted to take her home for lunch.

Please help me, I really want to curb this habit. Thanks

Lolaabokoku: Go to synagogue for deliverance!

iceberylin: Cut off ur Dick

LMAyedun: Remember, God helps those who help themselves.

LMAyedun: Remember, God helps those who help themselves.

damilarelr: We are blessed bro.

Dpress: Abeg what number is Moyes?

ketoprofen: Soka is not for money. I think its about enslaving your neighbors to ensure they don't prosper while you too won't prosper.
I will prefer money ritual to that.

TITOBIGZ: GUY FOR USING MY NAME itz over

LeslieChow: You asked for opinions and ended up throwing up thrash at people (even though their criticisms are anything but constructive), but you should have shown enough maturity by playing it down or ignoring it.
You will meet interviewers who will bring you down in front of other panelist. If you cant handle anonymous criticism, how would you handle it when it is thrown to you face to face.

To answer your question, if you are going for a serious position, discard the attire and look professional.

OkikiOluwa1: You this young girls with fish brains & cartoonic behaviour!
Many among you are elebi, ebinna, talakanaire, hungry girls. Food & money has injured most of you & your friend's type. Yet, you girls wont learn.
Some of you prefer money with suffering to real love.
The boy that's caring but not rich today can become rich tomorrow.
How can a sane girl stick with a man that beats her cos of money?
Poverty is a wicked disease!
I don't v any advice for you or your friend cos most of you end up going with the rich guy that beats you. Cos girls like you & ya friend need money.
Let me even ask, your friend no dey collect money from home?
Does she v very poor parent?
Infact, I suspect you. You are the one in a dilema, not your friend.

leshluap: 21 WAYS TO MAKE ME FALL FOR
YOU
Big question. I have been asked
several times. Let me answer.
1) Ignore me. Act as if I am non-
existent. That works like magic.
2) Smile a lot. That kind of infectious
smile that makes me stare. Just don't
stop smiling.
3) Be very quiet. A talkative quite
wades me off. If you are very quiet
and calm, I may look your way. Trust
that!
4) Know a lot of things. That attracts
me like chocolate cake. If you know
too much, I may fall very much.
5) Don't hang around boys. I don't
like a product everyone is gathered
around. Makes it look cheap. You
understand, right?
6) Dress smart, but not sexy. I want
to see you as beautiful and decent,
not as sexy and indecent. Dress well
in a way that make me care.
7) Your English should make sense.
You may not be the best user of the
English Language, but you should
impress me. Like seriously, impress
me.
Don't always be around. Let me
always look forward to seeing you. I
want your face to be scarce. Like
very scarce.
9) Never let me see you quarrel with
someone. I don't know why. But just
ensure you never quarrel with
anybody in my presence.
10) Either know how to write or sing.
Either will attract me like magnet. I
may not know how to sing, but I'd
love a lady who does. Very well!
11) Hate excessive makeup. That will
make you special and not attention
seeking. I do have a strong flair for
that.
12) Like politics. You necessary do not
have to be involved, but have an
interest in it. I like politics, and would
extra like a lady who likes it.
13) Read and love my writings. Okay,
this is not so difficult. Even if you
really do not like them, just pretend
to.
14) Talk about your family always. It
shows you have so much value and
concern for your family. That points
to something. If we ever start a
family, you'd value it too.
15) Don't like parties. If you are the
party-type, then I am not your type.
Definitely, you are not my type.
That's all.
16) Dream big. I really do not get
attracted to people with small
dreams. Big dreams pull me off my
feet. So have a big dream!
17) Be very bold. Like David, be able
to deal with a lion. Timidity makes me
angry. If possible, be stupidly bold!
18) Always give me a good handshake.
I prefer a good handshake from a
lady to a hug. Hugs don't really work
for me, handshake does.
19) Be interested in my family. My
family means so much to me, and if
you show concern for them, I will
show concern for you. I mean that!
20) Love Movies. I cannot stay
without movies. If you can stay with
me for hours watching movies, you
are good to go. Yep!
21) Love God. You really don't have to
be that kind of demon-casting sister,
but you've to be passionate about the
kingdom.

destante: Truth is except on special occasions, I hardly even wear make up.