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A Saudi Arabian family therapist has released a video giving his advice on wife beating. In the tutorial, Khaled Al-Saqaby says he is "aware that this issue is a thorny one, which contains many hazards".

He adds: "But Allah willing, we will cross this bridge safely." The footage was shot earlier this year then translated and released last month by the Washington DC-based Middle East Media Research Institute. In the video, Mr Al-Saqaby suggests the aim of beating a wife "is to discipline, not to vent one's anger". "The necessary Islamic conditions for beating must be met," he stresses. The family therapist suggests the beating should not be performed with a rod or sharp object, but instead with a tooth-cleaning twig or handkerchief.

He says: "The beating should not be performed with a rod... nor should it be a headband... or a sharp object, which, I am sad to say, some husbands use. "It should be done with something like the sewak tooth-cleaning twig - or with a handkerchief." He explains: "Because the goal is merely to make the wife feel that she was wrong in the way she treated her husband." Before beating one's wife, Mr Al-Saqaby suggests a husband reminds her of "your rights and of her duties, according to Allah".

He then recommends the husband ignores his wife in bed, by turning his back on her or if he or she sleeps on the floor. But he suggests the husband does not go to another house, as the point "is to discipline the wife, and not to air your dirty laundry in public". Giving the main reasons a man may beat his wife, he says the first is arguments between the wife and her husband.

"Unfortunately, some wives want to live a life of equality with their husband," he says. "This is a very grave problem." Other women make mistakes which may lead their husbands to beat them, he adds. Mr Al-Saqaby suggests there are some situations where a wife may hit her husband, because of his "faulty upbringing" in which he may have seen his father hit his wife and be "imitating their behaviour".

He also says he is "sad to say" some women provoke their husbands to beat them.

Credit: http://www.nigerianscoop.com/2016/05/saudi-family-therapist-gives-advice-on.html

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1. There is a NGO that fights for women's right to be topless:
GoTopless.org is an US organization which claims that women have the same constitutional right to be bare chested in public places as men. They often promote (topless) gatherings to claim for their rights.

2. The left breast is usually larger:
No two breasts are exactly the same size, and it is usually your left breast that is bigger than the right side. However, often the difference is so slight you'd never notice they are of different sizes. Nipples also come in varying sizes, not only that, they also point in different directions.

3. Breasts are the first thing men notice in a woman:
No news here. Research conducted at the Victoria University of Wellington showed that breasts are often the first thing men look at, and for a longer time than other body parts. Nothing to be ashamed of since another study said that staring at women's breasts for just minutes a day can improve a man's health and add four to five years to his life.

4. Men can lactate too:
It's exceptionally rare, but since men possess mammary glands just like women do, they have the capacity to produce milk. When male lactation happens, it's usually because of hormonal treatments for diseases like cancer.

5. England is the country with biggest breasts in Europe:
A survey made by bra maker Triumph found that British women have the biggest boobs in Europe. More than half of women in that country wear a size D cup. Denmark scored second while Holland was third. On the other hand, Italian women had the smallest breasts where 68 percent had a size B.

6. The average breast weighs one pound:
The average breast weighs about 0.5 kilograms (1.1 lb). Each breast contributes to about 4-5% of the body fat and thus 1% of the total body weight of an average woman.

7. Breasts get fat:
In your 20s, your boobs are made up of fat, milk glands and collagen -- the connective tissue that keeps them firm. But as you age, the glands and collagen shrink and are replaced by more and more fat. Instead of making your bra size go up, however, the added flab can send breasts down, closer to the floor, if you catch our drift.

8. Breasts augmentation may lead to suicide:
Women who get breast implants are at least three times more likely to commit suicide, a risk that increases with time. As the August 2007 Annals of Plastic Surgery reported, it's unlikely that silicone toxicity causes the correlation. It's more probable that women who undergo breast augmentation are more apt to have an underlying psychiatric problem that predisposes them to suicide.

9. In China, you can major in Bra Studies:
In Hong Kong, you can get a degree in Bra Studies from the Hong Kong Polytechnic University where they teach you how to design and build a bra. Recently, the students exhibited their designs at the ACE Style Institute of Intimate Apparel at the ITC Resource Centre.

Credit: http://www.nigerianscoop.com/2016/05/boobs-and-more-boobs-9-things-you-didnt.html

nafizzey1:
Bsc Holder...

Chai! Nigeria don suffer!!!

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Its a nice concept. I remember when Google Inc was developing that voice search I was one of the people that participated in the voice recordings for Nigeria in 2015. They've started another round now and the contract has been signed and its sitting on my laptop, hope to do the job next week. Its a nice experience though the money is small.

You can participate in this year's own too of you're an online freelancer.

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chebeoc:
I fully endorse this witch hunting or whatever they call it, and i also pray that apc loose next election so the next wining party can witch hunt them also. If it happens like that four times, we can forget about corruption in Nigeria .

Word of the wise!

My first stage is next Wednesday.

emmykk:
tiwasalvage husband is not mature....if you think of the men that have slept with your wife before marrying her you will just die.you can only shout not die if she is still doing it.






go to universities,poly and colleges of education and see how future wives are being gbolashing on a per second billing.

Truth!

And where's the war son?

Oga ooo... May God always keep us.

yemicoal:
loool , start scouting for prospects now... I think mhizdiva and co are taken

Chai!!! I must not carry last ooooooo

yemicoal:
Lol.. This thread Is fast becoming dating and meet-up zone!!!

And I never meet anybody... Chai!!1

teekem:
hope my age will not disqulify me cos am 29 years.

you have nothing to worry about. Age is no barrier.

I'm interested in this business, and I'm on Upwork, pls how can I start?

Booby traps

Berryllove:
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bros don't travel yet o, cos they can invite you before Monday.

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rollUP:
Ontop Whatsapp??

Yea, WhatsApp.

I got a DM via my Twitter handle, @NigerianScoop from a fellow supposedly from Italy, asking me how they can join the civilian JTF.

Though I don't think he's genuine, but how can someone join the civilian JTF?

Smh

sephryneyo:
This is what happen when you fall in love
with Olosho and you marry her

True story!

'Enough said

Na change change the 1 to 11 abi... OK, continue

Smh...