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Romance / Saudi Family Therapist Gives Advice On How To ‘beat Your Wife’ by olempe(m): 8:37am On May 12, 2016 |
A Saudi Arabian family therapist has released a video giving his advice on wife beating. In the tutorial, Khaled Al-Saqaby says he is "aware that this issue is a thorny one, which contains many hazards". He adds: "But Allah willing, we will cross this bridge safely." The footage was shot earlier this year then translated and released last month by the Washington DC-based Middle East Media Research Institute. In the video, Mr Al-Saqaby suggests the aim of beating a wife "is to discipline, not to vent one's anger". "The necessary Islamic conditions for beating must be met," he stresses. The family therapist suggests the beating should not be performed with a rod or sharp object, but instead with a tooth-cleaning twig or handkerchief. He says: "The beating should not be performed with a rod... nor should it be a headband... or a sharp object, which, I am sad to say, some husbands use. "It should be done with something like the sewak tooth-cleaning twig - or with a handkerchief." He explains: "Because the goal is merely to make the wife feel that she was wrong in the way she treated her husband." Before beating one's wife, Mr Al-Saqaby suggests a husband reminds her of "your rights and of her duties, according to Allah". He then recommends the husband ignores his wife in bed, by turning his back on her or if he or she sleeps on the floor. But he suggests the husband does not go to another house, as the point "is to discipline the wife, and not to air your dirty laundry in public". Giving the main reasons a man may beat his wife, he says the first is arguments between the wife and her husband. "Unfortunately, some wives want to live a life of equality with their husband," he says. "This is a very grave problem." Other women make mistakes which may lead their husbands to beat them, he adds. Mr Al-Saqaby suggests there are some situations where a wife may hit her husband, because of his "faulty upbringing" in which he may have seen his father hit his wife and be "imitating their behaviour". He also says he is "sad to say" some women provoke their husbands to beat them. Credit: http://www.nigerianscoop.com/2016/05/saudi-family-therapist-gives-advice-on.html
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Romance / Re: Boobs And More Boobs: 9 Things You Didn't Know About Boobs by olempe(m): 7:10am On May 12, 2016 |
Lalasticlala, can u pls move this romance section? Thanks you. |
Romance / Boobs And More Boobs: 9 Things You Didn't Know About Boobs by olempe(m): 8:08pm On May 11, 2016 |
1. There is a NGO that fights for women's right to be topless: GoTopless.org is an US organization which claims that women have the same constitutional right to be bare chested in public places as men. They often promote (topless) gatherings to claim for their rights. 2. The left breast is usually larger: No two breasts are exactly the same size, and it is usually your left breast that is bigger than the right side. However, often the difference is so slight you'd never notice they are of different sizes. Nipples also come in varying sizes, not only that, they also point in different directions. 3. Breasts are the first thing men notice in a woman: No news here. Research conducted at the Victoria University of Wellington showed that breasts are often the first thing men look at, and for a longer time than other body parts. Nothing to be ashamed of since another study said that staring at women's breasts for just minutes a day can improve a man's health and add four to five years to his life. 4. Men can lactate too: It's exceptionally rare, but since men possess mammary glands just like women do, they have the capacity to produce milk. When male lactation happens, it's usually because of hormonal treatments for diseases like cancer. 5. England is the country with biggest breasts in Europe: A survey made by bra maker Triumph found that British women have the biggest boobs in Europe. More than half of women in that country wear a size D cup. Denmark scored second while Holland was third. On the other hand, Italian women had the smallest breasts where 68 percent had a size B. 6. The average breast weighs one pound: The average breast weighs about 0.5 kilograms (1.1 lb). Each breast contributes to about 4-5% of the body fat and thus 1% of the total body weight of an average woman. 7. Breasts get fat: In your 20s, your boobs are made up of fat, milk glands and collagen -- the connective tissue that keeps them firm. But as you age, the glands and collagen shrink and are replaced by more and more fat. Instead of making your bra size go up, however, the added flab can send breasts down, closer to the floor, if you catch our drift. 8. Breasts augmentation may lead to suicide: Women who get breast implants are at least three times more likely to commit suicide, a risk that increases with time. As the August 2007 Annals of Plastic Surgery reported, it's unlikely that silicone toxicity causes the correlation. It's more probable that women who undergo breast augmentation are more apt to have an underlying psychiatric problem that predisposes them to suicide. 9. In China, you can major in Bra Studies: In Hong Kong, you can get a degree in Bra Studies from the Hong Kong Polytechnic University where they teach you how to design and build a bra. Recently, the students exhibited their designs at the ACE Style Institute of Intimate Apparel at the ITC Resource Centre. Credit: http://www.nigerianscoop.com/2016/05/boobs-and-more-boobs-9-things-you-didnt.html
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Sports / Re: Sesugh Uhaa, Nigerian WWE Wrestler Makes A Debut by olempe(m): 9:28am On May 09, 2016 |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 12k/month Teaching Job At A Private Secondary School by olempe(m): 10:54pm On May 08, 2016 |
nafizzey1:Chai! Nigeria don suffer!!! 3 Likes |
Phones / Re: Here Are Some Of The Best Android Shortcuts You’re Probably Not Using by olempe(m): 2:38pm On May 08, 2016 |
For everyone who's been mentioning me for how to participate. Go to http://www.upwork.com and register as a freelancer. After that, fill in your profile up to like 80% then quote me with your Upwork profile link, and I will send it to the team head, if they think you're qualified, they will email you with details. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Here Are Some Of The Best Android Shortcuts You’re Probably Not Using by olempe(m): 12:19am On May 08, 2016 |
Its a nice concept. I remember when Google Inc was developing that voice search I was one of the people that participated in the voice recordings for Nigeria in 2015. They've started another round now and the contract has been signed and its sitting on my laptop, hope to do the job next week. Its a nice experience though the money is small. You can participate in this year's own too of you're an online freelancer. 3 Likes |
Health / Re: How Does It Feel Going For A HIV/AIDS Test? by olempe(m): 10:44pm On May 05, 2016 |
Oga, wey the result na |
Crime / Re: App Of Death: See The App That Tells You When You Will Die And How by olempe(m): 9:20am On May 02, 2016 |
Yeye app. |
Politics / Re: Anxiety Grips PDP Chieftains Over Buhari’s Extradition Plan by olempe(m): 5:49pm On May 01, 2016 |
chebeoc:Word of the wise! 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Africa Courier Express Interview by olempe(m): 11:56am On Apr 30, 2016 |
My first stage is next Wednesday. |
Celebrities / Re: #TeeBillzOutburst: Fans Blast Tiwa Savage On Her Instragram Page by olempe(m): 9:08pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
emmykk: Truth! |
Crime / Re: See Live War Between Boko Haram And Nigerian Army. by olempe(m): 10:30am On Apr 26, 2016 |
And where's the war son? |
Travel / Re: Trailer Skids Off Lagos-ibadan Expressway (photos) by olempe(m): 7:12am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Oga ooo... May God always keep us. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Etisalat Customer Care Job by olempe(m): 1:11pm On Apr 16, 2016 |
yemicoal:Chai!!! I must not carry last ooooooo |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Etisalat Customer Care Job by olempe(m): 12:58pm On Apr 16, 2016 |
yemicoal:And I never meet anybody... Chai!!1 |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Etisalat Customer Care Job by olempe(m): 9:59pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
BLACKPANTHER: |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Etisalat Customer Care Job by olempe(m): 9:58pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
teekem:you have nothing to worry about. Age is no barrier. |
Phones / Re: Mtn Has Started Wiping Their Free Data Given Yesterday by olempe(m): 8:00pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
heed101: |
Business / Re: Virtual Assistance Can Create Job Opportunity For Nigerian Youths by olempe(m): 4:07pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
I'm interested in this business, and I'm on Upwork, pls how can I start? |
Politics / Re: Soldiers Dig Out Bombs Planted On The Road By Boko Haram Members (Pics) by olempe(m): 3:45pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
Booby traps |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Etisalat Customer Care Job by olempe(m): 7:11pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Berryllove:bros don't travel yet o, cos they can invite you before Monday. |
Sports / Re: Photos Of Super Eagles Players Training Ahead Of Match Against Egypt On Tuesday by olempe(m): 7:23am On Mar 28, 2016 |
Good one. We wants results. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Etisalat Customer Care Job by olempe(m): 7:02pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
HayTeeHem:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1QrqhYJP7TYKq3pghoRZLdoAr6to0JKP0wj3EkVK6AeQ/viewform?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C2086997340 |
Investment / Re: See Guy's Legendary Response To Online Income Scam by olempe(m): 2:18pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
rollUP:Yea, WhatsApp. |
Politics / How To Join The Civilian JTF by olempe(m): 2:15pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
I got a DM via my Twitter handle, @NigerianScoop from a fellow supposedly from Italy, asking me how they can join the civilian JTF. Though I don't think he's genuine, but how can someone join the civilian JTF? |
Politics / Re: Late Joshua Ocholi’s Dream That Was So Cut Short by olempe(m): 7:26pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Smh 1 Like |
Family / Re: Mother Of 2 Wears Bum Revealing Outfit In Public (photo) by olempe(m): 6:47pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
sephryneyo:True story! |
Romance / Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by olempe(m): 7:35pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
'Enough said
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Jokes Etc / Re: Everything In Nigeria Is Now Expensive - Photo by olempe(m): 11:08am On Mar 18, 2016 |
Na change change the 1 to 11 abi... OK, continue |
Jokes Etc / Everything In Nigeria Is Now Expensive - Photo by olempe(m): 10:54am On Mar 18, 2016 |
Smh... 1 Like
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