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he already had sex with you.....and he z taking you to the altar. ..mind you going to the altar with a bed defiled is dangerous...no point telling him...no point bringing up the issue...let it stay in your past

please am currently serving in jos,want to transport Irish potatoes to the south but am still looking for buyers.

please do you still have land around odeda axis in ogun state

jdluv:
all this prayer while you are still bangin other people future wives.

lol...imagine o,that prayer won't be answered

jdluv:
all this prayer while you are still bangin other people future wives.

lol...imagine o,that won't be answered

From Mrs Joyce Meyer
American TV Evangelist

A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD WOMAN, WIFE AND MOTHER, EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty (even the anointed
ones)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.

21). Don't be too judgmental with your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home, she will be grooming irresponsible daughters without manners.

29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and husband is a complete failure in life no matter her achievements.

30) A wise woman honors her husband, and respect him, in turn the husband will cherish her and love her dearly - it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God, no woman can stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife except they have lost their value and become less of a real man.

31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

32). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

33). A prayerful wife is very wise and intelligent and she is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family. Conquer all your challenges and problems with prayers, only Christ can solve our problems - not parent, not pastors, not anybody but, only you and Christ.

Rubbiish:
This write up is misleading...

which aspect is misleading sir

*SIMPLE WISDOM FOR WOMEN ASPIRING GREATNESS*

1. *A WISE WOMAN HAS SECRETS*
You can't be too naked with your love, social or spiritual life and expect dignity. Not everyone should know what you are going through.
Be a self-contained lady.

2. *A WISE WOMAN HAS SURPRISES*
There is beauty in a surprise Don't run around announcing things that are not yet.....
It only destroys their beauty.
And when they fail you will suffer unnecessary shame.
Be a self-controlled lady.

3. *A WISE WOMAN IS UNPREDICTABLE*
People should know there is both yes and no in your mouth. Your moves and words shouldn't be too obvious. Be a deep lady

4. *A WISE WOMAN HAS A FEW BUT MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS*
You can't be a friend to everyone and have focus.
You can't be the organiser in every social activity and be a productive woman.
Love all but a close friend of a few!

5. *A WISE WOMAN DOES LESS OF GIRLS TALK*
You can't have too much talk and work at the same time. Cheap talks only lead to empty gossips! A gossiping woman is a shallow woman.

6. *A WISE WOMAN HAS TIME FOR HERSELF*
You can't understand yourself better until you create time for yourself.
Create time to see your weaknesses and work on them. Have time for self correction lady

7. *A WISE WOMAN INTERACTS WITH GOD*
You cannot have the highest level of wisdom until you interact with its source.
Rare breeds of women are found rooted in God's word.

*Give God time lady!!*
God bless all the beautiful women here...�

I hope you got Value?

HOW TO RELATE WITH YOUR CHILD
By Dr B Williams

In psychology, it has been established that a child's personality would have formed by the age of 5. This gives insight into how to relate with a child and as he/she grows up.
1. *Be a parent to the child between birth and 12 years of age*.
This is when the spankings, etc can come in. Whatever you don't correct at this age, forget about correcting later. Correct their perceptions, their orientations, etc. Be available to physically incorporate values into them.

2. *From the age of 13-19, you are to be a friend to them*
Many parents want to do core parenting at this age range. If you didn't achieve that earlier, you may not succeed outrightly here.
Note that one significant factor that can help the child at this phase is the God-factor. If they find God at this age or earlier, they will likely stick to Him forever.

3. *From age 20 and above, the best you can be to the 'child' is a mentor*
At this phase, be an inspiration to him/her. Let your life inspire him/her. Let your marriage inspire. Inspire them to do things rather than wanting to push your way through. You cannot be adopting spanking and slappings at this age. That is if you are not slapped back. Because if you did a good job, you won't have to be slapping a 25 year old.

Conclusion...
1. Never stop praying for your child however old they grow. Never stop committing them to God's hands
2. Never stop being a parent no matter how old they grow, but don't forget that life is in phases and maximize every phase of their lives by the right approach.
Your child is not just the body you see but a soul with an eternity. Parents have a role to play in where that eternity would be.

SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats:

beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:

When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?

5. Keeping malice:

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some
men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
My point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.

jayneebae:
mine is licking nzu..so addicted

which one be nzu again oo

he that believes a prophet shall receive the rewards of a prophet,there are still genuine prophet out dere,the truth is we have prophet from God and prophet of God,how can you no them......by their fruits ye shall no them..lobaaataaaan

dust144:
Clap for him, graduating with 3 certificate

lol abi...baba ibeji

mrbillz:
100% charged and still plugged. They will soon take light
So make I charge till them take am

lol,exactly that's d point

ok

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giftedheart1:
i used to think nigerian girls are the crasiest on this planet until i saw that!

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[quote author=Antoeni post=60427721]Crocodile go dey fresh, while worshippers go dey dry[/quote
lol

[quote author=iAudio post=60279245]Thrash.

Simply put, marriage has no proven formula.

Why do we see handsome guys or beautiful ladies marrying ugly ladies or ugly guys? It is the compatibility which sex is part of.

It is said that a broken engagement is better than broken marriage.

People who know what they want in marriage can talk about sex, experience it and see if they are for each other, if it doesn't work, no one feels cheated. One of the leading causes of marriage crises these days is sex.

What if after the no sex thing, after the wedding you discover that your man is not a man, you divorce him then abi?

Make una shut up joor. No sex before marriage CANNOT guarantee a sweet marriage.

Nonsense. [/quote

and what will you now do after discovering he is capable and later in the future he bcms incapable what ll u do

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[quote author=Benekruku post=60120747]
We finally got him
We will suck his blood till it dries up
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CreamyMoltenLar:
Yes I would. There's nothing belittling about preparing food or cleaning one's environment. I don't understand why people have this backward mentality about chores. Yes, if I had my way I'd rather fix a light bulb or troubleshoot a computer malfunction or fix a car problem, but that doesn't mean I'm incapable of cooking or keeping a clean environment. Both sexes instinctively gravitate towards certain tasks and I guess doing 'female chores' is considered demeaning because we perceive all things feminine inferior to all things masculine. That's why a girl wouldn't be derided for wielding a spanner and getting grimy working under the hood of a car while her guy is busy watching movies, but the image of a man rolling amala while his wife watches telemundo is enough to induce trauma. I don't subscribe to the whole male supremacy crap, I believe everybody should do what they're most comfortable with. If the woman is a mechanical and technological guru and the guy is a wizard in the kitchen, then I say live and let live. Enough of this 13th century ignorance

thank you o....really don't see any big deal helping each other, woman are not meant to be treated as slaves...this ain't efo riro, its called love,an act of service.

MarieSucre:
see that guy from GTA Vice City.

lol.

very childish