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Family / Re: Women In Ancient Nigeria by oloyede252(m): 11:19pm On Jan 08, 2017
Mindfulness:

My apologies.
okay.

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Family / Re: Women In Ancient Nigeria by oloyede252(m): 8:50pm On Jan 07, 2017
@ bukatyne with your obsession about chores I wanna say its mostly the same standard everywhere in ancient world. one if their main function is to keep the house in oder.
they are the household general.
Family / Re: Women In Ancient Nigeria by oloyede252(m): 8:35pm On Jan 07, 2017
bukatyne:


There were a lot of differences across tribes.

In Sparta for instance, the women did physical sport to have strong babies & they were in control of the home cos their men were more preoccupied with defending the state. In general, they had better lives than a Athenian or Greek wife for instance.
Sparta society is based on military strength. so the duty of women is to give birth to strong babies that will later become soldiers. not to forget the child will be sent to military camp at an early age leaving their mother's alone.. in short Sparta women suffered loneliness, many became widows and were forced to marry again.. many young ladies were also used as sex slaves for soldiers refreshments. also they actively engage in agriculture so I don't know how they are different in general terms.

Athens women suffered similar fate..

in southern Africa especially the San women were tribal chiefs ,they control their household and land area. so I can say they enjoyed slightly than their European counterpart.
Family / Re: Women In Ancient Nigeria by oloyede252(m): 8:19pm On Jan 07, 2017
Mindfulness:


I already have.
no you haven't. your comment was meant to be an insult and don't know what compelled you to try insult me by typing "your mama too" when the context of the discussion is ancient women.. that quote is my own summation of the plight and status of the ancient women putting into consideration different societies and cultures.

so no need to get defensive or rude dye to your lack of compression and misinterpretation.
Family / Re: Women In Ancient Nigeria by oloyede252(m): 6:33pm On Jan 07, 2017
Mindfulness:


Your mama too?


she is still alive so I don't get your point.

"so in general women are seen as a disposable household
general." that the best description of ancient women, if you disagree state your point
Family / Re: Women In Ancient Nigeria by oloyede252(m): 6:22pm On Jan 07, 2017
funny thing is that there is very little differences between ancient women of Africa, Rome,Mesopotamia, Athens, Aztec etc. however focusing on Africa there are different cultural society some are matriarch eg Xhosa and ,Khoisan of southern Africa while most societies are patriarch eg Bantu people of western and central Africa...
so in general women are seen as a disposable household general. Lol
Family / Re: Most Men Get Married Because They Need A Maid by oloyede252(m): 4:44pm On Jan 06, 2017
pocohantas:
It's time for your lunch
when is it time for withdrawal.
Family / Re: Most Men Get Married Because They Need A Maid by oloyede252(m): 4:09pm On Jan 06, 2017
pocohantas:
Very true.
The only thing some of them know how to do is be the head of the house, this title is for them because they have a pe.nis.
Yet they complain when women want the best of the lot, like everyone doesn't want the other for something.

This is why the whole men should help out in the house is giving some of them erectile dysfunctions. They are okay with being figure heads...

Some of them don't know how to even make love. Love making is similar to atm withdrawals for them...insert, punch keypads and withdraw!
you quite dramatic.
@your last statement it's quite a pity men have turn you to ATM machine so I understand your frustration..maybe you smell bad, you can't blame them

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Romance / Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Porn? by oloyede252(m): 3:52pm On Jan 06, 2017
Estharfabian:
Eh, I thought You already did your background check? undecided



First, you said I'm shy and Other stuffs I can't even begin to think of how you got ahold of. undecided Lol.
Lol only jobless people does background check on anonymous people.



nah I wrote that based on what you wrote. I quite simply you know.
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Porn? by oloyede252(m): 1:52pm On Jan 06, 2017
Estharfabian:


Okay, now, I'm confused. shocked


okay.

reading your diary will give insight on your being (personality, behavior and orientation ).and that fun for me
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Porn? by oloyede252(m): 1:41pm On Jan 06, 2017
Estharfabian:

lol. grin

lol. rude. don't make me go ballistic on you now.


Eh, almost everything. but I'll say 25% Right. tongue


reason I don't want you to go ballistic is because o wouldn't see your face. I dislike online ballistism.

almost everything, I agree.. am curious to see your alter ego .
you have a diary,cool will mention you on a separate thread lemme read a little
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Porn? by oloyede252(m): 1:19pm On Jan 06, 2017
Estharfabian:




And eh, ThankYou. for the compliment. grin

no need, only added that as an incentive for you not to go ballistic on me...

so which one did i get wrong (considering the fact that only you know yourself 90%
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Is Your Take On Porn? by oloyede252(m): 1:05pm On Jan 06, 2017
Estharfabian:


Alright. I'll be the only legit lady here. grin



I Watch porn. sometimes. like Some of my Course mates could just be like ''Esther, You've gotta see this move''. and bam! They show me! and I watch. lol. it's mainly as a comic relief tho. 'Coz the faces they make and the moans are usually FAKE with a capital ''F''. so, It's usually Hilarious Asf. grin like Biitch, we know it's fake.



So, it's basically Just to learn a few Athletic move or something. grin
And The view is nice too. some of those dudes are hot asf. tongue the muscles, biceps, And eh, Yanno? cool
don't know why I find this your post funny.
in one post you outline several reasons you watch 'it"
1.comic relief (that a lie tho cos nobody watches a movie because of the actors acting.
2.to learn sex moves not necessarily athletic moves (considering you still young and a virgin this reason is non realistic )
3.you enjoy the act of "it"(considering you only fantasize about it to do what you do best )
4.you seeing naked men and their member (considering you haven't seem a naked man in real time view)
5.you enjoy watching porn with your friends (don't know which you into male or female )
6.you shy (quite obvious )


you cool, I commend you.
Romance / Re: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by oloyede252(m): 4:11pm On Jan 03, 2017
1bkaye:
I prefer not to communicate with people outside of the forum, nothing personal smiley
for sure, it's your choice but will mention you later

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Romance / Re: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by oloyede252(m): 3:56pm On Jan 03, 2017
1bkaye:
Just me, thank yousmiley

welcm.if you cool let chat off nairaland.. it will be fun knowing you.
Romance / Re: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by oloyede252(m): 3:37pm On Jan 03, 2017
1bkaye:
Lol yes it is

don't know what led me to your dp.but is that your family or just you cos you all look good.
Romance / Re: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by oloyede252(m): 3:34pm On Jan 03, 2017
CaraJewel:
Thanks.i didnt read all the comments tho.but most people didnt get d idea of weird.just seeing boobs and butt,natural Face.straight legs.all those things aint weird and something personal
okay I guess most guys don't really have weird things to look out for in a lady except the basic stimulants. anyway cara what the weird things you look out for in a man so I can cross check myself. lol
Romance / Re: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by oloyede252(m): 12:20pm On Jan 03, 2017
CaraJewel:
Just here to read Weird comments
lol .so which comment is the weirdest.
nice nose .
Romance / Re: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by oloyede252(m): 12:17pm On Jan 03, 2017
moderate and sexy leg not yam tubers, shape of nose .

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Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Guy To Help/Assist His Girlfriend Or Wife In The Kitchen? by oloyede252(m): 12:10pm On Jan 03, 2017
Stupedinluv:
Most Nigerian men are slow
Give them two centuries more tongue
.
Really. hope many of them are from your family.
Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 9:52am On Jan 01, 2017
cococandy:
After you'll wonder why you're disliked.

I don't get you. you dislike me for advising the op to give his wife the needed rest during and after pregnancy or telling the man to help himself during the period.. it's a win win situation foe both of them. so I don't get the dislike.
Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 8:09pm On Dec 31, 2016
Amelian:



Because he has some chicks on his hands that wants to hook down a married man by fire by force.
I know his type

Op beware of this guy Oloyede orelse your placing your wife's safety and peace at home in great jeopardy if u listen and contact him.
He's bad news.
hy girl do you know me? why would you say am bad news.
Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 12:16pm On Dec 31, 2016
PresVA:
SMH embarassed .. will you also advise a woman to do same if her husband falls ill at some point in marriage and is unable to meet her sexual demands?


Op, you stated that your wife has been in and out of the hospital which means she may not be 'fit' enough to have sex at this time...

You just have to control yourself, you don't have to let your emotions overwhelm you. .you're in charge of yourself..
or would you rather your wife doesn't get pregnant at all so that you can have sex? or would you prefer a miscarriage?

Have you also wondered how your wife copes or you think her 'condition' is pleasing to her?

Try to occupy yourself with other things and the joy of holding your baby soon.. also, be supportive to your wife, she needs you very much at this time...

Soon, you'll have your baby and everything will return to 'normal' ... nobody has ever died from lack of sex..

pay no mind to those telling you to cheat, I know you wouldn't want to destroy your family with your own hands...
All the best.. smiley
for sure will give same advice to the wife in similar cases. and my advice is the best option for the wife and the op
wife rest while husband get enjoy himself. it's a win win situation
Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 12:00pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ishilove:

I hope us women are allowed to cool off with other men when our husbands travel for a long time? After all what's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander
Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 12:00pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ishilove:

I hope us women are allowed to cool off with other men when our husbands travel for a long time? After all what's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander
I don't get your goose and gander analogy is suppose to achieve but what I know and sure of is that if your husband travels for a long period eg 9 months to a year I would advice you to get yourself a side bobo that will help you sexually till the time your husband is around. anyway contact me if you interested in their service. include your location.

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Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 10:27am On Dec 31, 2016
Catalin:
Why are you encouraging cheating?

this not cheating, it's a way of giving the wife the needed rest and time to recover.
Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 9:52am On Dec 31, 2016
Catalin:
You just have to understand her and manage, pregnancy is not easy at all. Marriage is all about understanding. But Bro eh if you can't cope now she is pregnant and giving you small sex then how will you cope when she give birth? that place will need a lot of time to heal before you guys start to copulate.
. cooling off with another lady at this time for him is not
cheating. it's like helping his wife cos you don't wanna disturb her
with your demands. let her rest well but for the main time enjoy the
service of a side chick. am sure the wife will understand.
Family / Re: Married Men. How Do You Cope With No Sex When Your Wife Is Pregnant by oloyede252(m): 9:29am On Dec 31, 2016
@ op. cooling off with another lady at this time for you is not cheating. it's like helping your wife cos you don't wanna disturb her with your demands. let her rest well but for the main time enjoy the service of a side chick. am sure your wife will understand. anyway contact me for unilag babes, yabatech babes etc that will give you styles that will make you forget your wife till she is ready.



p.s am not married o.

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Family / Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by oloyede252(m): 7:43am On Dec 31, 2016
cococandy:


@bold being the operative word.

Some have managed to grow beyond accepting things that don't make sense just because that's how it always has been. Those I don't dislike.

We women are also a product of the same society. And you can see the pathetic manifestation in the words and carriage of some women too.
Does that mean I hate Nigerian women?

See?

what have they manage to grow beyond? you didn't specify so it's impossible to guess what you like or dislike .cos I believe there are some things your doing now in which your daughters and sons too will continue just because that how it as always been.

I like that you agree that we are the product of the same society so it will be right to say you dislike some Nigerian women not that you necessarily hate them Cos hate is a strong word.
Family / Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by oloyede252(m): 12:46am On Dec 31, 2016
cococandy:

Yes it is between me and him. If he is ready to let go and I still love him, I'll stay.

No you're not a realist. You're a product of a sexist chauvinistic society who has his head buried so deep in his ass ego that he can't see the truth right in front of him. You keep telling yourselves what you want to hear to make yourselves feel better about being randy goats about town. But it doesn't change the FACT that when a man cheats, he evokes in his wife, the same exact feelings he would feel when his wife does the same to him. None is better than the other.

You use shame, religion, traditions built on foundations of misogyny and whatever tools you can lay your hands on to enforce tolerance from women. It doesn't change the fact that it is just as bad. If women were built to tolerate it, many men would not have lost their lives at the hand of jealous wives. Men wouldn't be getting STDs if philandering is what they are built for.
How's that for being REAL? Versus the idea of the 'man's world' AKA fool's paradise that you have been imbided with from birth and which you're hell bent on passing onto the next generations.
wow.
one question for you " are you not product of a sexist chauvinistic society"

I see reason why you dislike Nigerian men.lol
Family / Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by oloyede252(m): 12:37am On Dec 31, 2016
This thread is funny. some ladies way of thinking is also quite amusing. anyway i agree violence can't and won't solve any marital problem. but this kind of situation which I believe many married women have faced and will continue facing is not an issue so simple to solve as you ladies are making me believe. it's a complex situation in which I believe there is no rule to follow.

note: most people who gives online advice don't always follow the rules they set.
Family / Re: Santa Thread by oloyede252(m): 7:58pm On Dec 21, 2016
dear Santa

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