Onegai:
And as for the wailing about bad marriages nowadays, ya know, I know a lot of bad marriages that were filled by people in their 70s. Some even got divorced and others divorced by simply moving away. And those are just the ones in my immediate vicinity, countless others exist as well. So, may be this panic about bad marriages is like the panic about Homosexuality: that existed for a looonnnggggg time (read your Old Testament, folks!) But now that is being pushed into mainstream acceptance worldwide, it is creating a panic. Same with Women's rights, Islamic furor, Drug Wars, Race Wars etc.

See a pattern? Maybe, I dunno, try NOT to clutch your pearls and panic...I dunno, I'm just spitballing here..

madam oh gosh,I was waisting for ya story.cos I know you are thae woman who is burnet to tell storizes.oya madam I you wizh to be fortunate you better tell my ya story.

natasha:
Mr angry man, there are women who prayed more than Moses, cook better than our mothers, shagg better than whores and you know what, the husband's still left them!!

That your pastor gives an opinion/advise doesnt mean he is right nor does it mean he is wrong. there is a reason why people cook jollof rice via different methods; there is a reason why 5 + 4 = 9 and 6 + 3 = 9.

Even amongst men, there are men who are prayer wariiors (in their church, holding night vigils and all) yet are sinners. Is the criteria of a good wife based on how "good of a cook she is"?

You do realise that people's tastebuds are different. Whom i may consider a great cook might be considered a good cook to someone else.

Finally, our men of God are human beings like us, they read the same scriptures and holy books that we read and because they say something doesnt mean we should follow suit blindly. What applies in their house doesnt and shouldnt always apply in your home.

When the pastor asks your wives to come and pray in church everyday for 2 hours, you men are the first to jump and criticise the pastor however now that something is said favourably you are all dancing shakiti bobo on the comment.

What happened to the other comments he made about jobless men having no business marrying a wife? where are the articles supporting that please?

hmm.you have a point but at the end I still don't get you.

kennygee:
The devil is attacking marriages now more than ever. If you check the statistics, 7 out of 10 women are the bread winners of their homes. Maybe due to the economy, women are working now or doing businesses to support their family.

Is this a bad thing? No its not. But I think the duties of a man is what makes him the Head of the family. How can a woman totally submit to a man whose bills she is paying? Isn't it better she bought herself a d!ldo or became a single parent?

If the woman isn't submitting, is the marriage being worth called one? If you check the reasons behind some marital issue, money is not far from it.

Men need to wake up to their duties and responsibilities because we have more women these days becoming men since men are neglecting their duties.

May God help us.

madam lie small small.7 out 10 ke.who carried out this research ma.

shaybebaby:

Why? The whole thing is confined to a one web page on my browser.

oya continue then.hope you will post your dp

shaybebaby:

Not your sister, I know where my family is thank you.

madam are you not tired of all this?just quit posting info about Your family.

quivah:

and oh I mustn't let this go, you are really dumb!!

if its the other way around means; if her opinion didn't agree with yours.
your twisted mind does say much about your psychology.. you think every person words revolve around your sick mindset, you must be feeling really important.. idiot!

and oh, I sure will have the capacity to save my self and kids, I Dont wait around for people to help me..but a man leaving his kids in such danger,,,! your hero..

your 1st paragraph does prove your stupidity, the original poster you were trying to shameless defend isn't about the man saved mother,kids or wife palava but her defense when the other person she was arguing with wrote; I pray your husband loves his mother more than you ...that was were I jumped in.. you are really a pathetic idiot.

I expect your reply, but I will just give you the best response stupid cvnt like your self deserve.. ignore and pass.

lol.no need for all this.bye

quivah:

Mr oloyede, I am not the one arguing with the woman, so we have nothing on ground to agree on. however,I'm sure because you guys are on the same page, her insults are well acceptable abi... if it was the other way around, you would've kept shut or even added salts to the injury..that's how nl works
its your kind of men that are very foolish to believe any thing any body says so far its in agreement with your opinion.

and Lol, I am not a kid who needs my husband to do everything for me, same can't said for you husbands(big babies) can it? however there were real kids in the op's situation who were left alone. I do not fault the man, nobody knows what he/she would in such situation...not even the woman you are trying to defend. so anybody's opinion on this matter is just trash!
but few sane people will know its the kids first!!even that woman throwing tantrums around knows this.

PS; yes! she came like a frustrated person..

you gat issues.the woman clearly said in her subsequent post that children comes first however the topic is not about the children rather than the wife.

From your post I can see that you lack the capacity to save your children without your husband help in such a situation.

Wow nairaland have done damage to your psychology wtf is "if it was the other way around" must everything be man vs woman.madam I don't wanna say your are foolish ....
.

quivah:

truly if a man is faced with picking you or his parent,, it better be the parent.
with this uncouth mouth of yours, any man knows better than to live in regret of a lousy and nagging woman, when he had the chance of erasing you completely in an instance.

you could have just passed your message politely, all I could read were rants of a frustrated woman, it made your message full of crap and inconsistencies . Just chill, nobody is wishing you unwell here, no need to throw tantrums around.

and yes we know, you would join him to save his mother while your kids are left to fend for themselves.. we know your type.. just imagine all this insults in your post to one man, strong aggressive woman.

PS; I am already imagining the loads of insults I will get... so I won't be surprised.

madam what your problem.so if a woman doesn't agree with you does it mean the woman is frustrated..you gat issues..its you kind of woman that expect your husband to do everything for you as if you are handicap.

crackhaus:

The man surely has a few loose screws if he couldn't wait till they got into the privacy of their home before descending on her...which is exactly what makes the story feel like a movie scene.


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Did anyone else notice how most of the females commenting readily jumped on this story believing it to be true?
I remember a topic sometime last week where a woman was writing about how her ego and listening to the advise of her friends resulted in the failure of her marriage - notice how the majority of females there dismissed the story and called it fake?

https://www.nairaland.com/3231993/woman-lost-husband-due-ego

Pay notice to the females on that thread in the link above lambasting the OP... some of them are here right now swallowing and salivating on this story..

For some reason (which I am completely aware of), these women will readily believe that someone will just disembark from a plane and without warning go on to beat his wife thoroughly RIGHT THERE IN THE AIRPORT WHERE THERE IS SECURITY... but they do not believe a topic about a repentant woman's pride/ego and how a women shouldn't always listen to advise given by their friends regarding marriage.


I'm not even going to call this story fake, but I'm just wondering which of the two stories seem more like something that would happen on a normal day.

lols some are even writing fake stories to add to the op..

Op.I would sugest that the husband should start a side business cos a man who retires at 40 at this time is a well to do man.
And he should allow the wife to work.
House husband is a no no for me.

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MissHatey:
[size=16pt]I am looking for naughtynaughty [/size]

why do you like derailing threads.its not cool

@op why not

Hy whitegirl.why the obsession about black people?everytime you type its about blaks.why?if you have any problem with the blackman tell us maybe we could help you.cos a know a normal human cannot be so hafeful of another human

halfricanadian:


lol see entertainment just for me
Mehn im d star im d celebrity
Paparazzi with camera mouth

lol.

halfricanadian:


o boy why u pained n*gga get a life

I have a life do you..you behave like a junior school gal that her heart got broken.how old are you self

halfricanadian:


Am happy i was never in a relationship with him

Cos it wud av been disrespectful to all my ex if i add him as one

Glad he was an experiment to me

just shut up.I pity the guy that wiLl date you.insecure girl with fish brain.who ever broke your heart deserve an award.
And am sure you will be one hell of an ugly gal,cos only ugly gals behave like this.

I once told you you are naïve but you have added foolish and stupid to it.

mhisbliss:
like you know me

i believe you are a reasonable person.

mhisbliss:
see your life? Hope you're wrong though because i disappointed you by not replying you with abuses, you're not sure but you quickly condemned me earlier now you hope you're wrong, i thought you're sure of yourself, next time say something you're sure of, you're as i predicted nonsense

.lol.and your are quick to type without thinking.are you sure you wil do what u typed on ur first post.i guess ur not sure and you added assumptions which is practically incorrect.
In the same vein i analyzd ur post bringing out assumed assumptions just like you did.....anyway i believe those assumptions are wrong abt u

mhisbliss:

lol.Hope am wrong tho

mhisbliss:
Oh my God thats a range rover evoque, if my hubby says i should return it, this is what i see in it

When we get married i won't be allowed to make my own choice

He will make me a full time housewife and i wont have a life or a say in anything

He will be jealous childish and overly possesive

He wont trust me, since he assume that getting a gift from your ex means you're still getting down with him

So nope am screwing the marriage and taking the car

wow.unconciously you telling us how dumb and stupid you are not to have noticed this all during your dating period.wow again

Also as you have forcasted his hidden behaviour lemme do so to yours.

1.You won't be a good wife
2.Your selfish and only care about yourself
3.You worship material things
4.Your not contented with whaT you have
5.You will be a jealous wife
6.You are likely to coMmit adultry
7.Your not reliable

.

So it will be better to end the marraige and start driving your ex car.that will be a good decision for botH of you

I dont believe in dating a poor girl..poor girls should date poor guys and vice versa..

And op you unconciously describe ladies as a never do well individuals.quite sad

@op your question and yoUr line of thought is faulty regerding the issue.firstly if we shouldn't bother about if a member is a guy or female then the gender identification should be scrapped also tell me what the nEed for dating and meet up zone?
Futhermore its wrong to pretend who your not then still uploading the wrong picture.its all wrong bro

Why should I cry because of a girl. Its highly impossible unless she's about to die.

slyIsaac:
kidnap their parents.... it works errytime...

lol.

tomquest:


1) Who's a newcomer? You need to realize that so many people have been on NL for years as GUESTS before they finally decided to create an account.

2) The rest of the things you wrote all suggest one thing: you belong to the category of NL guys that are so jobless and idle to be poking noses into people's profile. Even Osewa hasn't that fvcking time! Get busy with your life!

3) Oh! so some of you guys- including you- actually fall in love (lust actually) on NL? And your annoyance now is that some of the females are actually males? Do you have a love life outside the internet? I doubt. If you do then I swear the last thing you would do on NL would be to be checking females' profiles.

3) I think you have a lot of growing up to do! Being a man is not about dating cheap hoes on social media. You should be matured enough to fvcking know that this is SOCIAL MEDIA and it's not your fvcking business to decide who's fake or real!

4) Get a job, if you are so idle.

hy why you angry,if you don't like what he typed then ignore it.no need for insult..

slyIsaac:

sorry bros... i 've spoken to half these ppl on phone n they are very much female....... have a nice day in fücktown

guy how you doing it.

mrwonlasewonie:
impotent he goat hobiiiii
As he oro na dun

lol..you are a goat i swear...

mrwonlasewonie:
in your mind now you've made a point? Arindin oshi.ehenn if I be baby mama nko? If e pain you go and die.Where are your children at least I have mine

Impotent he goat.maybe them Don castrate am sef.wo go and bark elsewhere jare.alaraka


Painment

Hobiiiii

lol.e pain am.jumping from thread to thread posting trash no wonder he didnt marry you.
Impotent?nah bt i dnt know of your daughter's future husband.

mrwonlasewonie:
Mrs woman you get time o

After how many years on nl.is IT a little boy young to be your kid brother That you'll be arguing about the dynamics of marriage with

If you went to go and que in Lagos traffic for nothing it's more valuable expending your energy typing this because he won't understand and he'll still be justifying himself

wow.baby mama telling single guy he knows nothing about marraige.who dash monkey banana..orishirishi

Run away my brother but if you have a spare kidney you can marry her

@jade am a banker.pm me let reason transaction