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Family / Re: How Did You Choose Your Partners? by oloyede252(m): 2:35pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
baby124:you are funny. I don't like your mentality. people choose each other but being a rich guy will give you so many options (gals ) to choose from. if you rich the probability of a lady choosing you is at minimum. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Poor And Un-intelligent People Should Not Procreate. by oloyede252(m): 1:12pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Gerrard59:what with you and Singapore. |
Politics / Re: Why We Missed October Deadline To Employ 200,000 – Osinbajo by oloyede252(m): 11:34am On Nov 08, 2016 |
Ngokafor:funny you. you act like feminist in one section then in others you are a tribal lord. I saw one of your post that you were wishing for the president 's death. really that way out of criticism. change my friend before hate consume you. |
Family / Re: How Did You Choose Your Partners? by oloyede252(m): 8:20am On Nov 08, 2016 |
baby124:in as much as your post is awesome your opinion that women choose men is only applicable to low income earner because of obvious reasons. |
Politics / Re: Why We Missed October Deadline To Employ 200,000 – Osinbajo by oloyede252(m): 8:30pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
Ngokafor:Lol. my hate for last government,that funny.lady use your brain when typing. I complain about Nigerian women, that new. you just typing B's. anyway why the hate? |
Politics / Re: Why We Missed October Deadline To Employ 200,000 – Osinbajo by oloyede252(m): 3:16pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
Presidiotbuhari:I thought you will be bold enough to upload your dp. anyway I noticed many tribal lords don't always upload their dp. are you afraid? you that you insult the president cannot be afraid I think. |
Politics / Re: Why We Missed October Deadline To Employ 200,000 – Osinbajo by oloyede252(m): 3:12pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
Ngokafor: Lol. your hatred for this government is getting to a point it will consume you. in other sections you cry about How nairaland men hates women but you are the one living in hate. |
Family / Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by oloyede252(m): 9:32am On Nov 07, 2016 |
Emilly2016:419 How many times you wanna post this?. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Poor And Un-intelligent People Should Not Procreate. by oloyede252(m): 8:52am On Nov 07, 2016 |
Lol. this thread is really funny. lot rubbish said in between making your original point,which I do not completely agree with you. I got confused trying to get your definition of poor. on one hand you opined those who can't cater for the need of their children and on the other you opined those who cant afford going to schools that their fee is half a million. the later I agree the other I disagree. on a lighter note you said unintelligent women should not get married. do you want 70 percent of Nigerian women or 97% of nairaland women stay stay single. that not cool. funny thread 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Over Protectiveness Of The Female Child by oloyede252(m): 9:58pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
op seriously Am tired of some parent over protectiveness of their gal child they won't just let us have a field day.calling them in class,lab,club, lounge etc. abeg e Don do abi kilode 1 Like |
Family / Re: Over Protectiveness Of The Female Child by oloyede252(m): 9:58pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
op seriously Am tired of some parent over protectiveness of their gal child they won't just let us have a field day.calling them in class,lab,club, lounge etc. abeg e Don do |
Family / Re: Help - My Wife Wants An Open Marriage by oloyede252(m): 2:00pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Catalin:Lol.. |
Family / Re: Help - My Wife Wants An Open Marriage by oloyede252(m): 1:57pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
aflyingbird:why not comment based on the topic rather than looking for where I copy it from. |
Family / Help - My Wife Wants An Open Marriage by oloyede252(m): 9:14am On Nov 05, 2016 |
I am a 34 year old man. I have been with my wife for
nine years - married for the last five. When I married her,
she had very traditonal values. We had a lot in common -
both somewhat shy, both non drinkers and non smokers -
very respectful - spiritual rather than religious ,ethically
proper and commited to one another. We've always been
very honest with each other as well. Our physical
intimate life started off rather pedestrian - very
unadventurous but slowly grew as we did into something
wilder and special - however we remained monogamous.
One time my wife got very jealous when I told her I had
visited a strip club with friends and was very hurt by it. I
promised her I would not go to one again. This was
about three years ago.
My wife has since had some revelations and has
changed. Long story short - she suggested to me that we
consider an "open marriage". Apparently at work a fellow
she was attracted to hit on her and she was flattered, so
much so that it brought forth an idea she said she'd had
on her mind for about a year now ... the idea that society
puts too much emphasis on sex and that if we can have
our needs met by someone else other than our partner
that we should go ahead and do it. She said she would
have no problem with me being with other women if I felt
it was right.
I CANNOT sleep or eat. I am in agony. I love her so much
and respect what she has to say but this hit me like a ton
of bricks. I have no interest in being with anyone other
than my wife EVER. I told her I would consider it and try
and be a litle more evolved in my thinking but I don't
think i can. The thought of my wife being with another
man makes me ill.
My wife argues I am being possesive and territorial. She
is being great about this , by the way, she is simply
expressing her feelings and being honest with me - and
given the situaltion I couldn't ask for more. My wife is
prone to quite analytical and is a real thinker and we
have considered this is just a phase she's going through.
But what if it isn't?
I want her to be happy and I don't want to supress her in
any way. But I don't think I could deal with her being
with other guys.
Please help - thank you in advance. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: If You Get Divorced, Whose Surname Would You Rather Use? by oloyede252(m): 9:39pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
TheArchangel:we are saying the same thing |
Family / Re: If You Get Divorced, Whose Surname Would You Rather Use? by oloyede252(m): 9:35pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
LadyMercedes:lady I was only responding to your opinion. the question you asked is very simple with straight forward answer which is you go back to using your father's name. for the rest of your post you are Just contradicting yaself. |
Family / Re: If You Get Divorced, Whose Surname Would You Rather Use? by oloyede252(m): 8:21pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
LadyMercedes:English can't be that hard. "if" in that your post means you already have the thought of your marital failure at heart so you are just been pro active in your actions by the time you get divorced. please don't get married with this kinda of mindset even of you wanna use your father's name that a silly reason to justify your action. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: If You Get Divorced, Whose Surname Would You Rather Use? by oloyede252(m): 8:07pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
so you are already planning you marital doom.well done 12 Likes |
Family / Re: Is Feminism Really Destroying Marriages In Africa? by oloyede252(m): 11:46pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
Joy1706:can you prove your first sentence 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Is Feminism Really Destroying Marriages In Africa? by oloyede252(m): 11:43pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
Joy1706:you don't need to write it, you said Nigerian marriages is nothing to write home about and o guess your point of view is shaped and influenced by your immediate environment (your family ) 2 Likes |
Family / Re: 30 Things Every Nigerian Husbands Want And Expect From Their Wives by oloyede252(m): 7:22pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
iPrevail:oga who told you to demand? the op said want. try reading the title again |
Family / Re: Is Feminism Really Destroying Marriages In Africa? by oloyede252(m): 7:06pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
Joy1706:I agree with you that your parents marriage is nothing to write home about,but they are in the minority so no problem. wait How many Nigerian states have you visited? later you will say it's bad to generalize. |
Family / Re: Is Feminism Really Destroying Marriages In Africa? by oloyede252(m): 2:09pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
megareal:Lol. why you angry? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is Feminism Really Destroying Marriages In Africa? by oloyede252(m): 12:37pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
megareal:older people in your family are miserable and they are advising you and your sisters to endure anything and be submissive enemy when they are dying. I think they want you to continue your family heritage. incidentally ko accidentally ni. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Is Feminism Really Destroying Marriages In Africa? by oloyede252(m): 12:12pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
megareal:magareal so your mother and grandmother lived a miserable lives and aged overnight. sorry dear it will be well,don't think about it the future will be better for you.once again sorry for what your family experienced. @joy feminism should be encouraged but the pattern at which Nigerian women are going it is hypocritical in the sense that they only apply the concept of feminism to what suit them. 11 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Are Some Father's So Wicked? by oloyede252(m): 1:13pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
you're still a student right. that maybe your father trying to scare guys away from you or man has calculated the amount he spent on your education abroad so he needs a refund if you want to get married now.you can't invest and not expect profit. I love your dad.he is my role model |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Often Resent Each Other? :( by oloyede252(m): 12:54pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Amelian:Lol funny you. so your boyfriend Is a women wonderful guy and men are thorn in the flesh... you Okay |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Often Resent Each Other? :( by oloyede252(m): 12:48pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Pidggin: really. are you talking to uneducated people here. silly assertion |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Often Resent Each Other? :( by oloyede252(m): 12:46pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
cococandy:Yeah you can point that out but the topic was based on op experience in his environment..why do women recent each other?can you now answer that, if you can answer it it's Okay . |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Often Resent Each Other? :( by oloyede252(m): 7:08am On Oct 31, 2016 |
cococandy:you don't like the topic because it as to do with women alone. if the topic was about both gender you won't have problem with it. as you said both gender engages in the act of resentment but women have taken this to a whole new level. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Often Resent Each Other? :( by oloyede252(m): 6:54am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Amelian:same person who called you. girls like you love it when men are fighting each other. anyway fighting make the world more entertaining especially by women |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Often Resent Each Other? :( by oloyede252(m): 10:23pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
Amelian:wait I don't get you..who is asking for tips |
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