why would a woman kill her husband.. scary..

Mindfulness:


The moment you have to do it, know that you have chosen the wrong 'partner'. To each their own.

Okay.

this thread has potentials. espada ×Don stan VS cococandy, shaybebaby, Mindfulness and JoannaSedley..

the guys are leading by 2-0

toxic masculinity is masculinity that is toxic.
definition of terms

1. Toxic: harmful, bad or unacceptable.

2. Masculinity means degree of being masculine.

3. Masculine means pertaining to male gender,but for this topic it refers to "having qualities stereotypically associated with the male gender eg muscular, virile, aggressive, strong, provider, courageous, resolute and noble,god like etc.

4. Toxic masculinity; unacceptable qualities associated with the male gender. also seen as a wrong way of showing your manliness or bad way of being a man.
This may include:
violence against the disadvantaged.
emotionless, lazy, weak,Not courageous, easily swayed, BOBRISKY, BUHARI, low self esteem etc...

Thank you,we will complete the note next time.

Where are my guys.. coogar, crackhous, Timbuktu, 5minmadness,truckpusher, MrTv, fransis,seadog etc...
Missed those guys, always making this section lively and the argument alive.. Lol

Also the ladies of then.sambarry, babyosisi Loretta, oniga, bukky, tpai, babe3,ujuan, and other feminist warlord ... am sure by now most are either married or doing other great things .. intelligent ladies, defenders of women.. those are the great women of nairaland..

special shout out to sambarry aka iya wura, mommy dangote.. much love

Oyindidi:
41-19= 21. Fear no catch you as you date man wey fit born your mate.

her mate or her senior to be specific

nice one jarus

Donald95:


ABA and Onitsha is not a village. Movement start as early as 6 am

for sure movement starts by 6 and shops and offices probably open from 9 upward..
Happy remembrance day

people are funny o. you took pictures at 7:36 till 8:30am..are you expecting people to be at their shop at that time.
anyway Happy remembrance day to victims of civil war.

Safiaa:
Everyone has to pick a struggle. You can’t be a whole disaster, you’ll be hopeless.

in as much as I don't really get your point. your first statement is very key to an individualistic pov.. but if you're someone that is larger than life, you should be able to confront and solve a wide range struggles in a single process.

To my post,there are 4 options or categories listed and as we know life is a process and people can move from one option at a time to another. for example a young guy who is a student may take option 2 while a working class guy should opt for 1or 2.

I can't say I know What women want so all I tell my guys is that...
1.if you're Not handsome, have varying personalities and money..
2.if you're broke, have varying personalities and be handsome.
3.if your personality Is bad, have money and be handsome.
4.if you're Not handsome and broke, baba go work

note; varying personalities means you should be able to change or make people assume something about you even if it's a lie..you should be able to be a nice guy for a girl and a bad boy for the other,all you Just need is to know the Kinda guys the girl likes.

hi chinny I'm chinny posted by chinny blog.

SexytorresE:
lol, funny how u can write all this but not understanding it This is really Nigeria...

Lol @Not understanding the song.. the op position in summary is that with the global acceptance of the music most foreigners will definitely believe that statement and use it as a reference point considering the bad image of Nigerians globally

Dank1u:

Go and listen to the song, it's the most beautiful piece of art.
But someone said, falz music is not for dummies, the problem is, most Nigerians are not free thinkers, we require people to think for us, listen to music for us , and to interpret to us. No wonder we have Buhhaha as President. It's a shame that close to 90% could not get the message.
Falz – This Is Nigeria Lyrics

INTRO

Extremely Poor And The Medical Facilities Are Poor.
We Operate A Predatory Neo-Colonial Capitalist System, Which Is Funded On Fraud And Exploitation And Therefor, Your Band For Having Corruption Institutionally

Many Criminal Cases Are; Settled In Police Station

CHORUS

Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Woo X 3
This Is Nigeria
Look How Am Living Now
Look How Am Living Now
Everybody Be Criminal
This Is Nigeria
Look How We Living Now
Look What We Eating Now
Everybody Be Criminal

VERSE 1
This Is Nigeria
Just Because Am On Tv Now
Person Wey No Get Work Is Checking To See If My Watch Is Original
This Is Nigeria
Where That Madam Felomina Money Varnish For Your Office 36 Million You Talk Say Na Animal
This Is Nigeria
Never Ending Recession Oh
Where Looters And Killers And Stealing Are Still Contesting Election Oh
Politician Wey Still Biillions And Billions E’no Dey Go Prison Oh
Police Station Dey Close By 6, Security Reason Oh


INTERLUDE 1
My Brothers And Sisters
I Want You To Put Your Hands Up Right Now
Because Your Miracle Is Coming This Week
If You Believe Me Let Me Hear You Say Amen

VERSE 1
Aww,
This Is Nigeria
Praise And Worship We Singing Now
Pastor Put His Hands In The Breast Of His Member, He Is Pulling The Demons Out
This Is Nigeria
No Electricity Daily Oh
Young People Are Still Working Multiple Jobs And Them Talk Say We Lazy Oh
This Is Nigeria
There’s Plenty Wahala Sha
Fulani Herds Men Still They Slaughter, Carry People Dey massacre
This Is Nigeria
Bombs In My Area
This Is Democracy
Political Hysteria
Yahoo Yahoo Don Tire Everywhere Now And We Act Like It’s So Cool
Castigating The Pm, Being Castigated Just For Trying To Be Noble
This Is Nigeria,
Look At My Nation Oh
SARS Stop Me For Road Any Explanation You Go Talk Am For Station Oh

INTERLUDE 2
Sir, Sir, Look, Im Sorry, I’m Just A Student, I,M A Student Of The University Of Lagos , Where Just Coming From The Club Okay. So My Friend And I, Wait, No Say, I Have My Id To Proof

CHORUS

Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Woo X 2
This Is Nigeria
Look How Am Living Now
Look How Am Living Now
Everybody Be Criminal
This Is Nigeria
Look How We Living Now
Look What We Eating Now.
Everybody Be Criminal

INTERLUDE 3
This Is Break In Transmission Of, Aww, Transmission, Transmission

INTERLUDE 4
But What Happens Everyday Is That, The System Has Allows It

For Instance, There’s No Law That Allows You To Take Money From The Church
Invest In Business And Privatise It. Noo
It Is Only In Nigeria , Where You Can Take Money From The Church, Money You Contributed By Poor Congregation Members, You Go And Setup A University That The Members Cannot Attend, Cannot Send Their Children To. It’s Against The Rule Of The Law Of God, It’s Against Our Constitution.

Lol.. the song is beautiful song no doubt but that Not the issue.. the issue the op is emphasizing on is the "everybody be criminal " and op only criticized that statement because as the music is getting global acceptance most people who are Not it with Nigeria will definitely accept that statement and with the kind of image we have on the global stage, that statement further give credence to it.
Hope you now understand the op

Slimdoug:

Common sense you don't have

Lol.. it's Not that serious

donstan18 you're really crazy... Just laughing all through especially with the way you counter that lady accusation... am sure she didn't see it coming like that.

SexytorresE:
receive sense and get the content sir. We are been treated as criminals by those Nigeria forces.so he said everybody is been treated as criminals that's what he meant.

Lol @receive sense.
" This Is Nigeria
Look hoW am living nah
Look how am living nah
Everybody be criminal
This Is NigeriA
Look how we' living nah
Look what we' eating nah
Everybody be criminal"
so tell me the context of this chorus miss.

Slimdoug:


I swear most Nigerians don't understand satire nor do they appreciate arts. This thread just shows that 90% of Nigerians are illiterates.

so "everybody is a criminal " is art.
brother you're part of the 99%

LastSurvivor11:
Yes everyone is not a criminal but we all have criminal mindset.

You cannot be rich in Nigeria until you cheat someone.
This is Nigeria, where no one want to hear the truth..

but am sure you're Not comfortable when it was alleged that buhari said Nigeria youths are lazy

adadike:
Donald Trump , pls come to our aid. Our president is a Muslim fanatic who love shedding Christian blood in order to fulfil his promise of Islamizing the country. America, help! All Christian nations, we are appealing to u, help! Igbos, get ready o. we must defend our land with all we v got.

quite funny you think like this

SAMBARRY:
so you were wishing me death before?
Well since you are shocked i'm still alive,yes i'm alive.hale and hearty.your evil intentents and motives towards my life did not materialize.glory be to God and shame unto the devil and his agents

Lol @evil intents
it's Not that deep...may God bless you

SAMBARRY:
you just cant type without getting into my mention.

Sambarry has really humbled you o

Wow so you're still alive...

RuthlessLeader:

Decode what message? This guy started his post with Dear Nigerian Wife not Dear Nigerians. You are just here defending sexism by saying that it deserves to be interpreted in another way

Bro... don't know What you're trying to prove but the content was directed to Nigerian wives.. and anybody who is intelligent enough should know that in most homes it's the wife that is mostly in charge of cooking for the family.. so I don't get your disapproval

personally I believe respect should be given everybody in general irrespective of gender, race or association.
in marriage I believe respect is already given considering the fact that you wanna marry the person, however the respect varies. with time actions and inactions will determine the level of respect for such individual.
in the world not Africa alone as most ladies would like to believe, there is nothing like master and slave marriage or partnership in marriage, people tends to say my marriage is partnership because it's cool. the person that plays the piper dictate the tone of the marriage. that how it work but the LEVEL OF RESPECT either earned or given determine the perception of the marriage..

in all for a marriage to succeed the level of respect should be high because the absence of this leads to chaos.furthermore no marriage is partnership.

omonnakoda:

People have the right to insult and it is not for you to randomly constitute yourself into defender of politicians, let them defend themselves.
Who is the judge of what is an insult,you?

yeah people have rights but insulting the president is wrong..
so calling out what is wrong is defending politicians. lol.

cstr1001:

It is not wrong.

Presidents are not gods. They are leaders. Leaders are not meant to be comfortable.

you are correct but criticism is different from insult . you critizes the government to do better not insult them.

jrusky:


Don't answer him was he dead when Jonathan was being insulted? Was he dead when jonathan mother and father were brutally abused here and Jonathan won the award the most abused and insulted president in the world? And now apc pigs want respect for Buhari, no way Buhari is the grand master of terrorist anybody not happy with my word can go and die.

this is funny. is wrong to insult the president of any nation at any given time. it is wrong

Iyajelili:

You are trying too hard to sound reasonable nigga. Stop this nonsense and face your life at least to improve this year.

definitely and you too. may this year be our year of greatness.

Iyajelili:

You are trying too hard to sound reasonable nigga. Stop this nonsense and face your life at least to improve this year.

definitely and you too.

ogechukwubliss:
Teacher Iyalili and Oyedele are fighting over what i dnt knw

lol. I'm a lover not a fighter.

Iyajelili:


For you to have included my father it means you lack fatherly love and you must be dejected therefore reason for the attention online to feel better. You can me stupid? How will you grow from where you are if you continue asslicking your mates butt and fighting people online?
Good day

hello iyajelili, what you just typed does not make sense.
1. if you don't have respect for the president how will you respect your father. it's because you lack fatherly love reason you could insult the president of Nigeria.
2. you are actually stupid
3. telling you you're wrong for insulting the president is asslicking. lol... refer back to no 2
4. we not fighting my dear.
5. May God bless you as you change

Iyajelili:

I respect your loyalty but i'm disappointed you are not doing what you preach. Of course i have freedom of expression and so do you but must you insult me to pass your message? I put it to you that you are either mad, frustrated, suicidal or unfortunate in life for you to feel too important to reply me with insults.

you actually deserve the insult, if you can call the president of Nigeria such I wonder what your will call your father.
Also to critic the government does not mean to exhibit stupidity.
good day