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chymystique:
This is the Dumbest question ever! I cannot put myself in her shoes cause am not stupid. I thought you said your gf is working so why can't she buy a phone for herself.. Are you her father/husband?.. And for that matter you are even asking if your gf should collect the phone from the other guy that is asking her out to pay later cause you are broke. Do u think that's feasible? Oh do you think the guy will buy the phone for your gf just like that with no strings attached when you yourself knws he likes her? Think am guy, is that not the height of your foolishness to even reason it AND whose phone was she now using to chat on whatsapp that she had to ignore your messages?


Later you will start lamenting gals are blah blah blah.. Ur gf shld take a chill pill till u can afford to buy her phone or she buys it herself @ least there are affordables smart phones of 5k-10k...

lv ur second paragraph coz it actually answered the question i asked...but that first paragraph...babe u r harsh...all the same tnk u 4 ur input

Hello forumite,I just need your candid advice on this,most especially from my homies in the house.
My GF left my place for office yesterday after spending the weekend. She called exactly 11:32am informing me of her arrival @ the office. Later about 2pm when I called to check on her, her line was not reachable,tried subsequently nd it was still same. Then I checked her whatsapp account nd she was online. I was like "kilode, ur no is not reacheable"
tnx to whatsapp for d blue tick,which indicated she read the msg. Still there was no response. I don begin wan dey provoke. I jst kept calm.
Later she just called with another line informing me that they've stolen her phone while she was asleep inside the office, cause she was kind of feeling feverish b4 she left my place earlier.when I called d line it was already switched off.
Now there's this guy in her office that has been asking her out for so long, now he's offering to get her another fone tomorrow.
Meanwhile me I'm kinda of broke now, cause I have so many project before.
My question is, make she accept the phone with d promise of paying back later? Or make she chill till I can get her another phone next month. nd what are the possible implication of her action nd my inaction for now?

Pls I need una advice
All my ladies can as well drop there advice putting their self in her shoes.

REGARDS

them just pocket for all the pix,,lol...cute though

Toybreezy: Getting into a heated argument doesn’t just put you in a bad mood. It can also compromise your ability to perform everyday tasks—like driving—in ways that could be dangerous for you or the people around you. Here, top experts discuss what you should never do when under the influence of anger, with tips for regaining your composure.

1)You shouldn’t sleep on it
The saying “never go to bed angry” is valid advice. Going to sleep may reinforce or “preserve” negative emotions, suggests a study in the Journal of Neuroscience, which found that sleep enhances memories, particularly emotional ones. “We are learning that sleep seems to help us process and consolidate information we acquire while we are awake,” says Allen Towfigh, MD, a New York City-based board certified sleep medicine doctor and neurologist. So going to bed after an argument will likely cause that experience to be consolidated more effectively than if you went on to remain awake for that same eight-hour period, says Dr. Towfigh.

2)You shouldn’t drive
Operating a motor vehicle when you’re enraged can be dangerous. Research shows that angry drivers take more risks and have more accidents. “When you’re angry, you’re primed for attack, so it’s not a good time to jump in a vehicle,” says David Narang, PhD, a clinical psychologist in Santa Monica, Calif. “In addition, anger gives a person tunnel vision—you stare straight ahead and may not see a pedestrian or another car coming into your peripheral vision crossing the street.” If you must drive when angry, Narang suggests opening your eyes purposefully and looking around you to avoid tunnel vision.

3)You shouldn’t vent
Getting anger off your chest sounds like a good idea, but it may actually make matters worse. In fact, people who simply spent five minutes reading another person’s online rants became angrier and less happy in a study published in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior and Social Networking. An earlier study also showed that venting anger by hitting pillows not only increased anger at that moment but made aggressive behavior more likely in the future. “They feel validated in what they’re saying by venting,” says Narang, “but they’re not less angry

4)You shouldn’t eat
Soothing your anger by reaching for food can backfire in a couple of ways, says Kathy Gruver, PhD, author ofConquer Your Stress With Mind/Body Techniques. “When we are angry, we often make unhealthy food choices,” she says. “No one ever reaches for broccoli. We go for the high-sugar, high-fat, carbohydrate-loaded comfort foods.” In addition, a heightened state of emotions sparks the fight or flight response, where the body thinks it’s in danger. In such a state, digestion takes a backseat to the “emergency” at hand and does not function optimally, says Gruver. This may result in diarrhea or constipation.

5)You shouldn’t keep arguing
Staying in the conversation when you have difficulty modulating your anger makes it likely you’ll say things you’ll regret, says Christine M. Allen, PhD, psychologist and coach from Syracuse, NY. “If it’s possible you will say hurtful things that you’ll regret and can’t take back, ask for a ‘time out’ with intention to come back to the conversation,” she suggests. You may need 10 minutes or 10 days. “It’s the willingness to come back to the conversation and initiate that is key,” Allen says. Use the time out to actively calm the mind and the body so that you express yourself in a more mindful, intentional manner.

6)You shouldn’t post about your conflict on Facebook
When you’re angry, broadcasting your feelings to your friends and family on Facebook and other social networks will more than likely come back to haunt you, says Narang. “Posting something publicly can’t be taken back,” he says.

7)You shouldn’t drink alcohol
Reaching for a glass of wine to calm yourself down after an angry encounter often does the opposite, says Narang. “Alcohol makes it more likely you’ll act out your anger because it removes impulse control.” Alcohol lowers inhibitions by acting on the frontal lobes of the brain, which are responsible for controlling the impulses that prevent us from giving in to urges to harm others or ourselves. “This may lead to more permanent destruction by doing things you’ll regret, all from a temporary emotion,” says Narang.

You shouldn’t ruminate
Obsessively thinking about ways the other person harmed you or was unfair to you—known as rumination—does not resolve anything, says Allen. If you find yourself on the receiving end of someone else’s anger, you may be able to calm them down by first keeping your own cool, says Narang. Start out talking to the angry person in a manner that matches his or her level of emotion and then gradually become calmer and steadier as you speak to them. “This leads them to a calmer place,” says Narang.

This originaly appeared on health.con

just broke rule #6...but my friends and family comments actually brought smiles to ma face...so no more anger

98% OF MEN IF NOT ALL WOULD LOVE TO MARRY SOMEONE LIKE THEIR MUM...FACT

OracleHex: Finish the tory nah, wetin come happen

i say YOLO!!!!

There is this lady that came to my desk to complain about ATM dispense
me: how may i help you?
lady: your ATM machine just debited #2000
me: kindly pick a form from that trolley. pointed to the trolley for dispense error form.
lady: should i fill it?
me: yes
after filling the form i directed her to my ATM custodian for further resolution and submission.
she said thank you and left..she later came to ask me how long it will take to the reverse the transaction, i said 24hr...she said thank you and left
she came back for the third time.

lady: pls will i get the alert on my fone?

at this juncture i no say na number she want make i collect...as a sharp young bank(bad) guy
i just give her card...see happiness for her eyes and a louder THANK YOU!...unfortunately i left my phone at home that day when i reach hus see miss calls...called her later that day and the rest is YOLO!!!!!!!!

you all need to check out U-mobile and U-Direct from UBA the best and most user friendly online/mobile banking platform

Pls I nid mth102 material plssssssssss....its not on the portal 4 download

Pls help...I wanted to do my registration 2dai nd dy r telling me reg closed finally...any hope

onyfrank: Bankers are stingy, especially those that studied economics, banking and finance.
Bt as 4me, wat i understnd by being stingy is nt by act of borrowing, bt by giving,showing appreciation. I hav met and work 4 most of them, to pay na wahala, let alone showing appreciation.

Alright let's get this straight, most a times people think all bankers earn this same amount...but its not so...and again most people that render services to us do so @ higher price/rate as compared to other working class individuals as they think we are money bags.
So we try as much as possible to cut cost to avoid artificial inflation by such individuals.

Ambidexter: Tanks 4 bringin dis up. I'm also a young banker n I've heard alotta ppl say 'Bankers are stingy'. In respons, my explanation has always bin dat: Bankers av too many frendz. Even those hu had written u off in lyf wud sudenly becom ur frend wen dey hear u now wok in a bank, n they wud b pourin in dia needs n beggin u 2 assist dem as if u dont av wat 2 use ur hard earned money 4. D important question becoms - can u eva meet al ur family n frend's needs? No mata how hard u try, d ones whose nid u cudnt meet wud stil end up sayin 'Bankers are stingy'

Exactly...what u stated above are part of it all

I Have heard people said severally that "BANKER'S ARE STINGY" how true is this accusation.
USING MY SELF AS A CASE STUDY:
As a young banker, have borrowed friends,family,foes,cronies and even colleague reasonable amount of money and they are not willing to pay back. Some having the notion that "NO BE BANK HIM DEY WORK"
There is this my aunt I borrowed 50k recently , she said she was going to pay me as soon as her husband is back from a trip abroad. Its over 2 month and she's not saying anything, I called her some few days back to ask after the welfare of the family, lo and behold she refuse to pick my call. When I used my friends phone to call, she picked and as soon as I said its me she hurriedly said she was going to call me back...its 2 weeks now...she hasn't called.
in all I have borrowed out over 160K just in a year.
Seems I'm now willing to join the CLIQUE of stingy bankers or what do you think?

I Have heard people said severally that "BANKER'S ARE STINGY" how true is this accusation.
USING MY SELF AS A CASE STUDY:
As a young banker, have borrowed friends,family,foes,cronies and even colleague reasonable amount of money and they are not willing to pay back. Some having the notion that "NO BE BANK HIM DEY WORK"
There is this my aunt I borrowed 50k recently , she said she was going to pay me as soon as her husband is back from a trip abroad. Its over 2 month and she's not saying anything, I called her some few days back to ask after the welfare of the family, lo and behold she refuse to pick my call. When I used my friends phone to call, she picked and as soon as I said its me she hurriedly said she was going to call me back...its 2 weeks now...she hasn't called.
in all I have borrowed out over 160K just in a year.
Seems I'm now willing to join the CLIQUE of stingy bankers or what do you think?

still waiting here in NIger state....can i use my phone to cover the solar eclipse just asking

loba: Noun take upper credit in computer. Am also DE student in Noun.

Hw about lower credit pls...is it accepted pls? And hw is d nature of the course...I await ur kind reponse pls

@ all pls i have lower credit computer science 4rm a fed poly. Pls can i apply for DE with it @ NOUN. TNX

Mehn!!! d exam take style hot ooo...no current affairs, there were calculations that needs calculator,paper n biro. generally it wasn't wat I was expecting...I was caught napping

this is GOD!!!! i scored 233!!! i wrote mine on 18th...use of eng=64 maths=48 econ=61 phy=60...make una help me thank GOD ooo...wishing others success

Get_Ova_Me: pls guys is it true dat d computer based tests and the pen on paper tests will not be conducted d same day april 27?? Does d cbt hav seperate dates?

I guess so, mine is for 24th of April. Hw about u?

29AE8ADF pls bro I nid it toooo...tanx in advance

berniceu: Happy new year,it is with great pleasure to announce to u all that UBA is now among d first 5 highest paying banks

In the spirit of PROJECT ALPHA...I grit u sir

congrat 1ce again 2 those invited 2 banking school @ marina lagos. Jst want to give u guyz some tips.
1st Dress code
white/blue shirt(long sleve o)
black/grey pants(trouser)
carton brown chinus on friday only.
jacket(suit) vry vry necesary...pls if u dont av borow 4rm ur fwend b4 going 2 banking school
2nd feeding
is @ the 17th floor of uba house
tea break @ 10am
lunch @ 1pm
all na free o, u wil b giving a meal ticket worth 600 evry day tru out d cause of ur banking school training.
3rd acomodation/transportation
for those outside lagos u r own ur own. U r expected 2 bear d burden of acomodation/transportation.so its beter u get fwends nd relative close to island,vi,obalande etc u guyz shuld b able to sort ur tp fare from the weekly/monthly stpipends u r entitled to as containd in ur banking school letter
4th Test
u must score atleast 60 in ur banking school assement, else na go b that o,..even if u knw philip oduoza(GMD/CEO UBA GROUP) and u get blow 60...na waka b that...so try as much posible to grasp more in class...coz that HANDOUT wey dem go give una jst 2 big 2 asimilate within the period of training. Nd ALWAYS REMEMBER 2 PUT UR GOD FIRST...
Thats al i av 4 nw feel free to ask any question...wishn u al d bext @ uba banking skol.

Bontia: Olulove my guy, d prophecy has been finally made manifest. I am joining u at UBA as earlier proclaimed. Just got my invite for banking school. Thanx bro for ur insights. Loving meeting u soon.

congrat bro...awaitin ur mail @ubagroup.com...meanwhile banking skol no b moi moi o...u must undastand nd read 2 pax @ least 60% else...u wil b shown d way out...bt i believe D gud Lord that saw me tru wil c u tru also...nd again prepare ur jacket coz na kold rum dem go pak una put...(AMPHITHEATRE)...ENJOY D FUN OF MARINA BRO

evry muslim shuld jst stay clear of xtian area e.g Goni gora, Romi, television nd Sabo, same aply to xtian in muslim area e.g kawo,rigasa, tudun wada etc...he that has ears let him hear

Aizek B: u are a big ful 2 say islam is nt resposible. Come sabo or Romi wia i dey say somethin like dis na ur ashes ur gramdfather go come pack. Idiot

ANGWAN ROMI...HMMM NO MUSLIM SHOE SHINER ND OKADA ON SIGHT AGAIN

sheyma: I hv a tour for sale 6k, though its ruff and d balls aint working well dats y am selling it cheap

hw much ar u gona sel it last? Were is ur location?

how much do u want me 2 add wit my clean nokia 6120c?

6k wit my clean nokia 6120c,

7k wit my clean nokia 6120c

7k wit my clean nokia 6120c.