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Sonnobax15:
Yesterday being Sunday, so I went to a match viewing center to watch the football game between tottenham hotspur and Everton... After the first half came to an end, an argument arose between an old man and a young man..The argument was all about the merits and ills of polygamy.. The old man's opined that a man who's married to many wives will have lesser marital Problems than a man who's married to one wife..

While the young man was of a counter opinion, insisting on the fact that a man who has only one wife will always have his peace of mind intact

Well, I was just sitting aloof, sipping my black fearless small small . ...But then I thought about a similar scenario happening to my uncle who has only one wife... Their marriage has been blessed with five sons,and of course my uncle is a very well-to-do man...And out of their five sons,three of them studied abroad...

So after my uncle's retirement from the oil company he was working,he sat his wife down and had a discourse with her that he'd love to sell his port harcourt duplex so that he can use the money to build a house in his village here in Delta state...But his wife refused, insisting that everything that my uncle has worked hard to achieve belongs to her son's,that my uncle Shouldn't even dare think of selling anything....That has resulted to a serious pandemonium in their home..And of which my uncle has threatened to divorce her..But his wife has kept on threatening my uncle that she'd wreck my uncle if he should dare divorce her .

The wahala has even deteriorated from bad to worse to the extent that their sons has taken sides with their mom..... One time self,they all ganged up and beat their father .

My uncle has filed papers to a customary court,to divorce the marriage, because all the previous efforts he had made to take his bride price from his in-laws have proved abortive as they have been dribbling my uncle . He has vowed to sell everything,his shopping mall,his hostels,his other two storey buildings.....I even heard him complaining to my popsman that his wife has started to sell his cars and other things he left in his house..... Imagine someone who has different storey buildings now has to be a tenant in a two-bedroom apartment..

At this moment,my uncle has been plunged into a state of so much regrets,that if he had heeded to the advice of his kinsmen back then when they were advising him to marry a second wife,this wouldn't be happening to him .

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

Icouldhave:
how would I know, I don't stay with them only got complains from my mom ending of last year.
he's my dad we respect him very much, that's why we looking for a reasonable way to sort this out.


the last time the family sat and deliberate on this issue, my elder brother asked him if my mom was the one visiting another man, how would he feel.

after that day he didn't talk with my brother close to a month.

DoggoneDogg:
Mbappe is his saviour at PSG.
He knows too that's why he tried to bribe him but Mbappe wasted it on purpose because he is a Christian & hates bribery.

Messi is nothing without Mbappe.

naijapage:
Source; https://dailypost.ng/2021/10/19/epl-solskjaer-unhappy-with-man-utd-board-for-not-granting-his-request/

PraisesPblaze:
1. I heard it's not good to take drugs with MILK.

2. Heard that one can drink intravaneous injection liquid and it will have same effect e.g adding the liquid to coke, even alcohol (gin).

How true are these?

damilola4162:
https://newspremises.com.ng/nigerian-govt-warns-against-end-sars-protests-lists-actions-thatll-be-taken/

chukwuibuipob:
legend Sabi a legend unlike the mosquito@PSG

wisemum:
I am bringing this topic here to see if I can get any good advise from youths of the same generation.

My son returned from schooling abroad two years ago and after completing his NYSC, has been trying to get a job. None has been forthcoming but he tries to keep occupied, trying his hands on different projects. He still lives at home but says that once he is financially stable, he will get his own apartment and move out.

He is generally a calm, law abiding , likeable gentleman until when he recently started bringing home this girl who dresses like a prostitute and who I discovered stays overnight in his room with him. His dad and I have fought him over this subject to no avail. I confronted the girl to tell her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping overnight in my house especially since I do not know her family and will be held responsible if anything happens to her. She apologized to me and promised not to come to sleep over again. However, I noticed that after that, he started sneaking her in at late hours of the night when he thinks we have gone to bed, sometimes when it is past midnight. He hasn't introduced the girl to us as anything to him even though I have asked him several times what his intentions with this girl is but he will just say she is a friend that makes him happy- that's all.

He told his uncle that he likes the girl. I don't even know what else to do. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, but it all falls on his deaf ears. I do not like this girl at all. She comes across to me as a street girl- even though she is generally polite when she meets me at home anytime she comes during the day. I investigated and found out her work place is not far from our house. What I do not like about her is that she dresses, exposing delicate parts of her body and is a chain smoker.

Furthermore, to me, a girl who sleeps out in a mans' parent house, continually disregarding how his parents feel about it, cannot be good news. Once, I caught her almost naked in the night walking along the corridor leading to my sons room. She ran inside his room when she saw me. I was so embarrassed and wondered what if my husband had been the one who ran into her? What kind of thing is this? Only her pant on, breasts bare. It was the following day I traced her to her work place and gently but sharply and firmly told her I do not permit her to sleep over in my house again. His dad also spoke with him. I also spoke to him. Everything has been to no avail.

He still sneaks her in. Or did she jazz him?, Please advise me. Thanks.

haddeylium:
Firstly, Smoking is a degrading action that harms and defiles a person’s body. Paul reminded the Corinthian that Christians must cleanse themselves of ‘every defilement of the flesh’.

“2 Corinthians 7:1 Therefore, since we have these promises, beloved ones, let us cleanse ourselves of every defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God”
So is Caffeine, Alcohol, Sugar, etc that are not considered sin. Therefore based on your scriptures, these things should be sin also?
It's a common knowledge that smoking is very addicting. It contains nicotine acts as a stimulant as well as a depressant. Smoking delivers nicotine to the brain quickly and repeatedly.


Smoking is lethal and being enslaved to any lethal habit that enslaves someone is not the best way to give your ‘all’ to almighty God.
Smoking kills at a faster rate than coronavirus. Averagely, 6millons people die every year because of this habit.

God teaches us to have a proper view of our life, our body, and our faculties. His Son, Jesus, pointed to this when he said:

“You must love Jehovah your God with your whole heart and with your whole soul and with your whole mind.” Matthew 22:37

Clearly, God wants us to make good use of our life and body and to treat them with respect.

If you want to learn about the true God and his promises and what he has done for us. Even, tips on how to overcome the addiction (if any). Visit JW.ORG

PriestlyLawyer1:
Lionel Messi.. You forgot how Liverpool brought you to your knees. The likes of Inter Mikna and Man Utd ahead of Liverpool, the Parc de Princes is having a negative affect on messi's mind.

LilMissRobbie:
My dear, it felt like the world was ending. Social media is life honestly

LilMissRobbie:
Thank God o

TrincoMarley:
Breakfast will reach everyone.
Other tech giants better brace up. Hope they're taking notes. An attack on them will be a disaster.
Cc: Google, YouTube...and our Nairaland

Tokskob2008:
Keeping it till marriage is good but displaying it for everyone to see on social media like this couples did is plain stupidity. Some things are best kept private.

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

mariahAngel:
I thought South Africa was a thriving country...

How come the citizens are japaing?
What’s their excuse?

Mercychen:
It's a bond. Once you share a bond with someone, you begin to like what they like.
Act and sound like them sometimes.

Even when they do the stupidest things, it looks good to you just because you have become a part of them and vice versa.

Love is a powerful thing.

Define bond?



Nope, I disagree. This type here stems from the affection in the bond you share with this fellow. Where acting, sounding and doing everything like them gives you that special joy. It's not just something you do with anyone you're not in love with or a casual friend.
There has to be a bond.

You no go understand.

Wow! First To Comment!

Celebrations galore for me.

Mercychen:
It's a bond. Once you share a bond with someone, you begin to like what they like.
Act and sound like them sometimes.

Even when they do the stupidest things, it looks good to you just because you have become a part of them and vice versa.

Love is a powerful thing.

Toeze:
This kind of thinking from this man, where excuses are given to explain away gross mediocrity, was where Arsenal's downfall gradually began unchecked years ago and now it's full blown. Wenger should've left arsenal much sooner and taken his likes with him before infecting the club with this terrible mentality they're now suffering from today.

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BKayy:
Why would a reasonable human being wear suit outside in a weather like what we have in Nigeria?
Buhari might be an idiot but its like his stupidity no reach that level unlike idiots that trek in suit.

Kingjay007:
It's becoming a series. An interesting watch.

Africans are the audience... grab your popcorn!

motayoayinde:
THE REAL TERRORISTS NOW ARE THE ONES SPINNING THESE SICKENING, SHIITTY PROPAGANDA BASED ON HEARSAY (according to the crappy report) AND OF COURSE THOSE WILLING TO BELIEVE AND POMOTE THEM OUT OF SICK HATE.

YOU ALL SHOULD TELL AMERICA THESE WON'T CHANGE A THING.

timesup234:
The US military is the greatest coward on Earth. The Nigerian female falcons football team can defeat the American military in combat. American military supremacy is a myth brought to you by Rambo Hollywood movies

oyatz:
Nigeria is different from Afghanistan. The Taliban succeeds in Afghanistan because majority of the populace share their religious identity and/or ideaologies.

In Nigeria, if Boko Haram capture Aso-Rock, they will only be able to rule over the core North and this will speedily leads to disintegration of Nigeria.

uniqueuser:
Salah...mah FPL captain 2 assist 1 goal

Wiseandtrue:
Let's discuss this fam


What is the BB Naija doing right that the educational system is doing wrong

How come the entertainment industry is doing their work so well that the education system is not really showing the beauty of education

How can we get huge grant outside the country and our best heads look up to the uneducated for help

The politicians, doctors, lawyers, engineers, pilots, nurses needs one qualification or the other to show that they are ideal for the post

Which means they all passed through a teacher but teachers are the least paid

Immoral shows like BBNAIJA gets sponsors why can't the best graduating student not get a car or a home to make people value education the more

Why What could be done Who is to do what And when can it be done

Chijeep:
I'm still repeating myself, continue defending nonsense...
So you want to tell me that those people benefitting from ritualists should continue abi...?

Chijeep:
Okkk.. continue defending rubbish.
Maybe u r making money 4rm it

Chijeep:
How it'll change your life and destroy thousands of many teenager's lives abi

This Nigeria self they act as if they no get problem S