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|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 2:41am On Jan 07, 2020|
See how hasty you are to conclude it's mama lekan. Omg, did you first show her my post? Eya, maybe she's not even a Nairalander now oo.
This is 2020 o, go make peace with your neighbor.
My conclusion on you, the way you concluded am mama lekan, it's the same way you concluded the real mama lekan negatively influenced your girl and it's too bad.
You owe her an apology. And if you're intelligent enough, the first thing would be to check my past posts and try to relate it with her. You don't just conclude.
Make peace with that woman and apologize.
|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 2:33am On Jan 07, 2020|
As in ehh
Did you have a meeting with me @tobyecole?
All typed isn't related at all with his claims.
And your story, you picked a girl from the street 10years ago, how old is she now? And you leave with your mother, I see, you are not married and probably training her to wife her or already sleeping with her?
|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 1:57am On Jan 07, 2020|
We decided not to house her.
Na two eyes I get.
She will find help somewhere else.
|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 1:55am On Jan 07, 2020|
Chai, you are very wrong.
The vacant rooms are in the BQ .
You failed to read my post cos if you did you will read where I said I have tried so had for her marriage to work, n she has no kids. I can't say much but she's got a baby for the union but late.
Even if she's not working for me n she's in need of accomodation, I can decide to allow her stay there.
I once house my kids school bus driver until get got a place with his family n leave.
Logic doesn't apply always. You try to use logic plus fiction but you got it all wrong.
|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 1:19am On Jan 07, 2020|
You see siemilaities in all I typed? But I don't see any simility in all you typed.
Don't go fighting that woman cos she's definitely not me.
Read my previous posts, you'll see I can't be call mama lekan.
Am shocked you are accusing me of destroying your family. I respect families, i respect the elders.. am not that woman okay.
I'm not unemployed, check when I posted yesterday and check the time am responding now, I work.
My post is not in any way related to us at all.
*My nanny is not a student
* Not picked from th street, she was properly married into her home - main reason why we keep pleading, what God has joined let no man put assunder is what we believe in.
* She hasn't been married for 10 year! Like you're grooming your little girl for marriage right? This my own is fully grown.
* Both households are not tenants, you and the mama lekan are not.
* My kids go to school and I pick them up on my way home, I help with their assignments.
* The woman who works for me doesn't work all day, she closes latest by 11am because she helps her MIL at her work place.
Hian, all my fellow Nairalander, I don't know this guy from anywhere.
So please calm down, don't kill before you realize you're wrong.
I'm a peace loving easy going young woman. Reason why I don't even want to house the said woman. I consider other people feelings in my decision making.
I live in a serene environment, so you can't go gossiping while you leave a little girl at home doing chores are Tobyecole claimed.
Tobyecole, be careful not to hurt the wrong person.
|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 1:14am On Jan 07, 2020|
Am not the one. He must have tried to add one or two together to arrive at wrong conclusions but not me.
This my own paddy can't tutor my kids cos she is not schooled at all. She's is a totally village girl.
|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 1:12am On Jan 07, 2020|
I don't know who that fellow is.
Am an old member on nl and if I choose to use my identity it shows I've got nothing to hide.
Some people know me well. So I'm not mama lekan, my kids can't even answer lekan. I'm not from the tribe that answer the name
My narrations are not similar to yours but don't go and kill someone thinking it's me cos you sound bitter.
Am definitely not who you think.
You said the mama lekan lives in a 3 bedroom, hmm, did you read when I said I have two unused rooms? Or you mean I use only one room with my kids n hubby?
|Family / Re: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 1:08am On Jan 07, 2020|
First let me thank all� who took their time to respond to me. Baba God bless you all. We are not keeping her at all.
|Family / My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by omonikiba(f): 2:08am On Jan 06, 2020|
This is so urgent now.
This woman is so nice to us, my kids love her and am heart broken she's leaving today.
I have being trying to manage her marriage, she has issues with the MIL and hubby, they don't want to see her around. Her husband wants to take her back to the village, we've done all our best, I knelt down with other elderly people to beg but the MIL insist she's rude and want her to leave.
I will really be hurt to see her go, who else can I trust my kids with? I leave my rooms open with no fear, she doesn't steal and obey all instructions to the letter. In fact, am soooo free with her around my kids.
I have two vacant rooms around, we don't mind housing her, my husband want her to stay with us but I said no, I thought about it carefully and so said no. My reasons are;
* I don't want to have issues with the MIL, we are both house owners, not just tenants that will depart sooner or latter so I don't want any issue with a fellow landlady.
* She is way older than me, I call her mama. So I hate to hurt an elderly person. Taking her DIL in will surely hurt her. And she might think so instigated the DIL against her.
* I don't want other landlords to see me as a bad person.
* What if something happens to this girl or what of if she starts to misbehave?
*My sister and older relations advise against it.
* Her MIL will do everything possible to tarnish my image in our estate.
This girl isn't a bad girl, she is this village girls that if you manage well, you'll get the best out of them but her MIL n hubby are phycos. Very difficult to be with. She's highly unforgiving. She insist this girl must go because she doesn't fit her status. But they saw the kind of person she is before marrying her.
Enough of too much talk.
What do I do to keep her without hurting her MIL.
If she leaves, the stress will be too much for me and I don't think I'll get someone else due to trust.
I need help.
Ignore my typos pls
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|Religion / Re: Jimmy Odukoya Disguises As Homeless Man To See People's Response by omonikiba(f): 11:40pm On Dec 23, 2019|
May God give you Christmas gift
You will end well dear.
Enjoy His sufficient Grace.
|Religion / Re: Jimmy Odukoya Disguises As Homeless Man To See People's Response by omonikiba(f): 11:38pm On Dec 23, 2019|
|Education / Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Why Babcock University Reserves The Right To Expel Student by omonikiba(f): 7:27pm On Nov 22, 2019|
I think she knew the act was being recorded. She was looking when he went to turn it off.
To me that guy delibrately made her have se.x with him to destroy her life. Am not in school you too should leave. Seriously I pity her.
If her parent wanted to do anything it would been all over social media by now. Babcock is very strict when it comes to sexual offences. During our days, you don't stand/sit together holding yourselves and them catch, they will say you were caught in the 'act' or them catch you after 10pm with a guy, your own done finish be that.
But since it happened outside school, and she wasn't the one who leaked it, maybe a good lawyer will win the case, as a student of Babcock, you don't live carelessly, cos the teaching is you must never bring down the image of the school down, in or out of the school, infact even during holidays.
Most cases against the school are never won, well I don't know of any. All they go to court with is the student handbook, they tell you that it's your second bible, read it, know it. And so many seminars are held to explain the student handbook.
Am sure the part stating the purnishment for her offence was read to her, and she also read it before she was served the expulsion letter.
|Family / Re: I Think My Husband Scammed Me by omonikiba(f): 6:26pm On Nov 22, 2019|
Person when never see food chop na im wan travel?
What I want for her a a good paying job here in naija
|Family / Re: I Think My Husband Scammed Me by omonikiba(f): 6:18pm On Nov 22, 2019|
All I can say now is eyaaaaaa
So sad, I wish an in that position to help you get a job.
Please let a Nairalander who can help help her get a job, only because of the children please. Innocent little once.
But why is your dad saying you shouldn't bring them in, they are his grand kids now or maybe you never remembered your family when it was all good. This is one mistake so many make. Don't forget your family because you are married. What of your mum? I can't condemn or judge you. I pray God help you through it all.
Your family shouldnt deny you of the support you need now, cos family is everything and you are are still part of them.
Were you close to your husband's family when it was all rossy?
Keep applying for jobs, contact friends to help get a job. Are your kids in school?
I pray God help you, I can't imagine how you feel now.
|Education / Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Why Babcock University Reserves The Right To Expel Student by omonikiba(f): 11:32pm On Nov 20, 2019|
It is clearly stated in the student handbook that as a student of the school, you must not carry out any activity that will tarnish the image of the institution. As a new student, you sign a copy of the student handbook and submit, another copy is also given to you to read.
If you can't abide by the rules it's no point wasting your parent hard earned money. That case, no court can win it, because it is clearly stated in the handbook.
How on earth will you allow a guy video your se.x activities with him? Is that not crazy? I blame the girl, this guy has been expelled, you should have cut all ties with him, you can't run your vision with a visionless individual.
I feel for her, like she did it under duress or she was hypnotized.
Accounting is about 800k, ×3, plus the shame she's brought on her family, friends . I hope she won't kill herself.
Girls, please stop being the victims, the guy stylishly cropped his face off the video. Haaaa, wicked, he must have hynotized her. Or her village people are strong.
|Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by omonikiba(f): 4:18pm On Oct 13, 2019|
Human beings unfold daily. Marriage is continous learning and the discovery of each other is daily.
Imagine, your hubby eat beans every other week, and then one day you cook beans and he's like 'don't we have food in this house?', and so many other funny attitudes. You can't know him in all areas during courtship. Whoever tells you you should know everything about him during courtship is not a realist.
Forget all these sweet mouth marriage seminars we attend oo. When you enter, you learn with real marriage experience.
If we know it all, no need to build after marriage. The bible says, only a wise woman build her home
The poster will learn so many things from the man and she will begin to overcome those things that triggers argument with time. And the husband too will grow older to learn to stop reacting rudely to trivial things.
The rate at which marriages break nowadays, the best advise to give any young couple is just patience patience patience not reacting back in the same gesture.
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|Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by omonikiba(f): 3:57pm On Oct 13, 2019|
My granma sends me garri, dry pepper, oil from village, oh, let me not forget she sends yam and plantain too, even melon. Mama can send the whole village if possible.
My hubby enjoys it now. Initialy, he wasn't comfortable with it, I told him mama do that to all her children and am not an exception. She cant travel to your house empty handed, never.
What we do is we give her money in return, there are times i send her money to get me oil. Not an insult at all. All caring mothers do this and it's not because they want to disrespect you. The only thing is give them the cash, more cash to cover the food stuffs and more, buy them cloths and things you know they need. Chikena.
On arguing, you guys are still new, stop running upandan. My hubby n I argued alot when we newly got married. I had to learn to laugh when he start, when I start my own he goes to bed because we never liked the way we argued. You both are still in that 'know me know' you period.
You want to look out, no good man out there ooo, forget getting love outside. Build your home.
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|Crime / Re: Boniface Igbeneghu Of UNILAG Attempts Suicide Over Sex For Grade Scandal by omonikiba(f): 3:39pm On Oct 08, 2019|
Ohhhh, am in so much pain now for this. God can not be mocked. How can you hold bible, pray in Jesus name and prepare bible study notes on the bed of adultery?
What an evil!!!!
In all, he shouldn't kill himself, i pray he repent totally, ask God for mercy. Let his family also be by him. It's so had for him now, i pray he finds mercy and I pray he hasn't even offended the Holy Spirit.
Hmmm wao, and there are so many in public places and churches, even mosque.
All the preach now is sowing seeds. The seed of righteousness.
|TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by omonikiba(f): 7:00pm On Sep 27, 2019|
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|Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by omonikiba(f): 7:35pm On Sep 14, 2019|
eheeen? my renewal an immigration guy asked me to bring 60k!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 10years 95k!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
okay now, na why you see dem riding prado, building 10 buildings in month.
Where did you do it? How early did you go? have you captured?
|Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by omonikiba(f): 6:34pm On Sep 14, 2019|
Renewal or new one?
I was told there is for 5 years and 10 years, so which did you pay for please?
|Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by omonikiba(f): 6:32pm On Sep 14, 2019|
I called my uncle there and he said the process their is not stressful. He promised ot help me find out by monday, I will hate stressing out here in lagos, I might visit Osogbo soon for a ceremony so I might just do it there with my kids.
|Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by omonikiba(f): 6:30pm On Sep 14, 2019|
Hi house, please I have some questions to ask.
If am renewing my passport, will I be required to capture again? my funny question though
If I fill the form online, how many days will it take for me to be called to capture if am capturing.
What do my kids need to get their int'l passport? is NIN just enough?
|Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by omonikiba(f): 7:58pm On May 20, 2019|
Everyone will testify by God's grace.
This thread will soon be 10 years. I know God has something good for every woman here to celebrate the decade.
|Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by omonikiba(f): 7:53pm On May 20, 2019|
Zeezzy, waoo I remember you well. One of the oldies. Wow, congrats dear. 11 good years!!!!, all tears are wipes off, all thanks to God Almighty.
|Family / Re: Snake In My Roof by omonikiba(f): 12:05am On May 20, 2019|
Walahi, heeennn, who put fire on the roof and sleep? I wish I don't read this post, cos if I dear here any movement there on the roof I'll think it's snake.
Not all posts are worth reading!
Haaa, snake for two plenty years, haaa. I weak!
|Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by omonikiba(f): 1:55pm On Apr 29, 2019|
Thank you all mothers who responded.
I'm takien noted of all you have all said, I will try more and pray more. Really appreciate Babythug for your inputs.
|Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by omonikiba(f): 12:45am On Apr 29, 2019|
Please I need help.
My kids are too active, too hyper active. Never seen such busy kids!
One is 5 and the other is going to be 3, it's being crazy.
We always cause a scene whenever we go out. From running away and me running after them to so many other things. Car almost ran into one of them some weeks ago. I felt weak, someone even insulted me and looked at me disgustingly cos of it, like i wasn't watchful or stupid not to put them to caution.
Once i pack they are ready to jump out of the car and begin to run. People say i dont allow rhem to go out, where dem wan go? Afterall they go to school.
My hubby is pisssd and am stressed over this attitude of theirs. I can't sit beside them, my 3 years old will turn my body to her play ground. I lock myself in my room 70% of the time. They hadly take a nap.
How do engage them properly? For now it's tv or playing with toils (which they dont fancy that much), i buy different toils and they get tired easily with them.
Am thinking of stopping oat for them, they take oat almost monday to friday before leaving for school. Could oat be the cause?
I don't want to start beating them so they wont get used to it and become stubborn.
Am seriously thinking of resigning my job, get a shop where they come to every day after school. Let them begin to go out now since them say I no dey allow them go out. Whenever we go out they become weird.
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|Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by omonikiba(f): 11:00pm On Apr 05, 2019|
Hello Mothers of great generations. It is good to always come around to say hi.
The Lord who did it for those early mothers will do your own.
Somebody will laugh very soon. You will laugh and laugh to the point you will already be calling your son Laughter (Isaac) before he is born.
And someone is saying but no, I want to laugh but I'll rather call my laughter the mother of nations (Sarah), why not? Call your laughter any name you choose, you will have what you have named.
My God will perform it in Jesus name.
|Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by omonikiba(f): 12:32am On Apr 02, 2019|
My attitude towards my husband is about 80% of your wife. I don't ever post my husband's pics on social media not even on my dp. To me it is immaturity. I don't post my kids pics either. He's is not complaining though, he doesnt have time for all those social media immaturity stuffs.
On showing appreciation, that is an attitude of a self controlled woman, she is not greedy and strong willed. I dont ask my husband for money and when he got me a car all I said was and it's over due! Later I prayed for him and that's all. No special excitement, pictures and all of that. He was even asking i send the pics to my friends and am like that's pride!
I'll rather my friends and family see the car as a surprise not announcung myself. Some of these social media show offs eehhh, if you go deeper, you'll see and know that the only excitement is in the smiles they put up while snapping to show off. Nothing special that spice up their union.
Be ccontempted of your wife's attitude and chatacter, some men are looking for such a woman to wife.
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