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Nwa_Nimo:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73XOUuUusew

I just cracked up from this. It's been awhile I heard this song.

Anyway is it surprising that he took a bribe? There is, till this day, no un-corrupt Nigerian politicians. Dude even the citizens are corrupt as f2k.

I trust Nigerians (politicians and people) as far as I can throw the entire country.

Let me get this correctly ogugua from your perspective you see your home burning, your neighbors home burning and your far down the street neighbors home burning, rather than putting out the fire in your house first, you wish to disregard your home and put out the fire in your neighbor’s house first in hopes they will help you put out your home even though there is no guarantee they will do such a thing neither was there behaviors from them in the past that assures you they will do such a thing. In actuality, there behavior in the past assures you they will do the opposite. I am sorry if you wonder why other Igbo refuse to accept your perspective, your way is just destructive for our community and zik taught us this from experience. I am inclined to support every Igbo on this thread and jump on Sam ikenna words "this is Igbo 2.0. We f2king wised up".

The fact you are telling Igbo people to leave Igbo land and ignore the development of the region but focus nationally rather tell us you haven't been back home for a very long time. I am sorry to say this but can you please inform us what development in Igbo land that did not come from Igbo people's pocket as a community? What federal developments have been made to any state in Igbo land and I'm including anioma to this? Sometimes some of the development came out of the governors own pocket (mind you Igbo governors are corrupt as f2k) Let us look at things shall we. The Enugu state airport, though supposed to come out of the FG pocket came out of Enugu state indigenous and other Igbos pocket. Recently I learned the international section, though the FG is taking credit for it is, is actual a private investment. For years now, Igbo people as a community have asked for one thing only, though they are adding more recently, but one thing remains a huge request and that is the remodeling of Niger bridge and till this day such request have not been granted. I bet you my entire life savings that if the bridge ever gets remodeled it will probably come from an Igbo businessperson pocket. Quote me on this. If we follow your way, Igbo land would be nothing but a village even Somalia would be ahead. Like the members, Sam Ikenna, ACM10, Odumchi, etc said well technically it's a summary of what they said, "This is a country where is do me, I do you and everybody is looking out for their damn self and their community, ignoring that fact is a dangerous move for our people". That is why Onlytruth believe would go far in Igbo land because he's thinking for the people. Some of his opinions I've gathered for now are international airport for Igbo land, a seaport, Niger-bridge remodeling, etc. To your average Igbo this is what we need that our politicians are too stup1d to see. I cannot speak on the international airport thing but definitely, the seaport is needed. Take this from a son of a trader who knows a lot of traders, I can honestly tell you right now I've lost count how many Igbo businessmen we knew personally (including my father's ex-business partner) that migrated their shops and business to Lagos simply because they are tired of spending more money than they are making from the back and forth movement of goods from Lagos to east(shipping it from aboard cost money, collecting it from port cost money and moving it from Lagos to east cost money plus the plane ticket to visit Nigeria to make sure your business is good cost money). Nah this is why only truth opinions would gather more support.

Another thing I noticed that I’m trying to interpret: I don't get why you wish Igbo should have protested for oil subsidy when they were busy worry themselves over the life of their people being killed up north and protesting over it. I'm trying to understand where you are coming from? From your perspective, we should have disregarded the life of our own people and worry about oil? is that we you were trying to say? If so SMH. If not, elaborate.

Lastly, Onlytruth did not act superior to you. I cannot read or write in Igbo. If you check my listing, you'll never see me in an Igbo speaking only thread and if I do write in Igbo is only a few sentence and half of the time it's repentance of each other. I'm telling you this because I've been told many times both online and off to keep quiet from Igbo affairs simply because of that, sometimes speaking the language saves me but majority of the time it does not. It is has nothing to do with "I'm more Igbo than you" but instead its saying "you are losing your culture and probably aren't in tuned with what going on back home therefore you would probably gear the community wrongly with your input". If you do not know the meaning, just ask next time rather than getting emotional. Every person knows Igbo people saying aren't always straight forward there is always a deep meaning majority of the time. I personally never took it as you took it; I see it as a motivation, I am learning how to write Igbo now because of it and in the near future, reading Igbo but then again everyone is different.

mscheww. Other Igbo governors na under the bridge they live abi? Their investment na your village goat sabi put am for their state abi

Mchewww. Ewu like you. make you no make me vex for here. If you personally know orji, pass this message along "QUIT, RESIGN, GIVE YOUR POST TO SOMEONE MORE BENEFICIAL"

otondo55: [b]Ojukwu remainth a man with honour and dignity.
His calmness and calculated moves, a true leader who saw tomorrow.

He did see tomorrow. It's a shame he's gone

Ojukwu RIP.

oyb: https://blogs.ocweekly.com/navelgazing/toddler-tricycle.jpg

smile son, you're empowered

BAHAHAHAH

Chei Abia eeh. For some reason I would have expected this from Ebonyi too. I no fit talk, my own governor would do something stupid like this and rush to inform the masses "I've empowered you"

Ozonna: Dis tread is about 2 be turned into Igbo/Yoruba tribal battle.

I hope igbo just ignore them sha.

As for thread

It is a shame GEJ is doing this if he is actually doing this. Anyway, I keep saying nto to everyone. Divide una no want, fight una no want, everyone wants to get their own share of the kobo. Whatever happens happens. It is not surprising GEJ is focusing on just his people, this is Nigeria after all.

Ileke-IdI:
You know too many, so you say. ROTFLMAO You guys must think your opinions mean a grain of salt on NL. Esp from tribalists who further post "examples" to support their tribalistic thirst. Una go quench on this thread o. . . .

And what exactly is the "Igbo, urhobo, etc marriages in the SE" supposed to refute from my points. Still pulling on your last string?

As to where you posted about attractions:



Yea, this is what happens when you leave your brain in the microwave while typing. You'd have nothing substantial to say.


I,too, saw something I disagree with and replied. . . . so exactly why are my replies emotional smacking you down? This is not the time to complain, after you've been injected with a higher dose of your medicine.

Mehn, atleast I can say my cocaine is medicinal.

I know too many, it pains you people to actually see how Igbo view Lagos. Poor things. Yes I know alot actually, some are people I met in USA, others are friend while 7 are relative and one is actually my FATHER. The fact remains, people go to lagos and people come back from lagos when they aren't getting whatever they wish in lagos. The same way I've moved around east from Asaba to Ontisha to Rivers to Enugu. The only people chest-beating over an over-grown village is your people. To Igbos, lagos is lagos simple. I barely even see it as anything to write home to mother about especially being a man whose visited places like Nairobi, Casablanca, Johannesburg and Luanda.

As the Igbo and Ibibio marriage, this is what you said

" SE got into all this because the abandoned land is mainly occupied by Igbos. If a married man decides to settle at home, his wife would have to follow (atleast that's how it goes in Nigeria).

Igbo-Yoruba marriage only occurs in Lagos, so it's not much of a problem for Igbo ladies who were born and bred in Lagos."

You said the following words "the reason igbo men seek just igbo women in south-east is because the land is predominately igbo and they have to follow just the women blah blah" and I'll repeat again yet there are Igbo men married to Urhobo, Ijaw, Ibibio, etc and all reside in Igboland or within East and even outside of East. The fact is Igbo men and Ibibio women and Igbo women and Ibibio women marriage is actually the highest when concerning intermarriage relation among Igbo followed by Igbo women and Ijaw men relationship so forth and so on. No be una wey dey chest-beat over Igbo women and Yoruba men blah blah and the saddest sh1t is that relationship isn't even among the top 5 when concerning intermarriage relationship among Igbos even if you do Igbo women alone. Na only una chest-beat over something that you'll even make una look bad. Keep repeating whatever that'll make you feel better as long as it helps you sha.

Last highlighted

Some people take pride in being stupid and take no shame of it at all.

AGAIN WHERE IS THE POST TALKING ABOUT YORUBA WOMEN ATTRACTION of what you accused me off. You didnot accuse me of saying "Igbo men view Yoriuba women as unattractive". Nah I've admitted that multiple times, you accused me of Speaking on what Yoruba women find attractive on men, Yoruba women dating, etc. Don't just pull bullsh1t to suit nor change your line of accusation.

That is highly unlikely. Yoruba/Igbo marriage has more to do with attraction than location. Let’s be realistic, majority of Igbo men do not find Yoruba women attractive thus the rarity of Yoruba women and Igbo men marriage. Naeto C for example: He was born in Texas, moved to DC during his college years, when he moved back to Nigeria, stayed Lagos, interacted more Yoruba men and women than he did with Igbos yet he ended up with an Igbo woman and during his time in DC and Lagos, he barely dated Yoruba girls. If you've ever been to DC, there are more Yoruba’s than Igbo but vice versa for Maryland though. Another illustration: If you've ever been to Asaba, there are lot Yoruba residing there yet it is very rare to see an Igbo man with a Yoruba woman but it is not rare to see an Igbo with an Ibibio, Urhobo, etc. Here in USA, the same, most Igbo men both young and old I’ve seen if they aren't married or dating Igbo women, they are married or dating Akatas or Caribbean women. It is rare to see one that is married or dating a Nigerian but of different ethnicity at least in USA. In Nigeria it is of course different. Marriage in Nigeria has nothing to do with location but more in attraction. Take a look at Igbo and Ibibio marital status; even though there are few Igbos in Ibibio land and very few Ibibio in Igbo land, the marital status between Igbo women and Ibibio men and Igbo men and Ibibio women are very high. In the percentage of Igbo marrying outside, Igbo/Ibibio marriage is actually the highest. Let’s be realistic. Even if a lot of Yoruba women moved into Onitsha, Aba, Enugu, etc., the marital status between the two will probably remain the same or have very little effect. You aren't to waste your time chasing after something you aren't attracted to. There is no difference between Igbo men in Lagos and Igbo men in Igbo land therefore if it is not happening in Lagos then it is not going to happen in Igbo land.

Now do me the favor and POINT OUT WHERE THE MAIN FOCUS WAS AND THE PEOPLE I'M TALKING ABOUT WAS ON YORUBA WOMEN AND HOW THEY VIEW IGBO MEN RATHER THAN IGBO MEN AND HOW THEY VIEW YORUBA WOMEN as you've accused me off.

Start pointing.

Ileke-IdI:
This thing dey pain you ohhh.

aren't you the one that said you're off to bed? Anyone can guess that my post gave you a sleepness night. what time is it over there? 4:28 AM?


You said Igbo men don't find Yoruba women attractive. I said yoruba women don't find Igbo men attractive. Is that the reason why you came back with a long azz undecipherable epistle? For who? me? a simple "attractive yoruba woman"?

Nah you said "You started with the thread and continue on till page 10 to rant about the women you do not like?"

Now I asked point out where I, one naira, talked about YOURBA WOMEN ATTRACTION?

Don't run when you are caught in your web of lies

Reposting all my quotes

That is highly unlikely. Yoruba/Igbo marriage has more to do with attraction than location. Let’s be realistic, majority of Igbo men do not find Yoruba women attractive thus the rarity of Yoruba women and Igbo men marriage. Naeto C for example: He was born in Texas, moved to DC during his college years, when he moved back to Nigeria, stayed Lagos, interacted more Yoruba men and women than he did with Igbos yet he ended up with an Igbo woman and during his time in DC and Lagos, he barely dated Yoruba girls. If you've ever been to DC, there are more Yoruba’s than Igbo but vice versa for Maryland though. Another illustration: If you've ever been to Asaba, there are lot Yoruba residing there yet it is very rare to see an Igbo man with a Yoruba woman but it is not rare to see an Igbo with an Ibibio, Urhobo, etc. Here in USA, the same, most Igbo men both young and old I’ve seen if they aren't married or dating Igbo women, they are married or dating Akatas or Caribbean women. It is rare to see one that is married or dating a Nigerian but of different ethnicity at least in USA. In Nigeria it is of course different. Marriage in Nigeria has nothing to do with location but more in attraction. Take a look at Igbo and Ibibio marital status; even though there are few Igbos in Ibibio land and very few Ibibio in Igbo land, the marital status between Igbo women and Ibibio men and Igbo men and Ibibio women are very high. In the percentage of Igbo marrying outside, Igbo/Ibibio marriage is actually the highest. Let’s be realistic. Even if a lot of Yoruba women moved into Onitsha, Aba, Enugu, etc., the marital status between the two will probably remain the same or have very little effect. You aren't to waste your time chasing after something you aren't attracted to. There is no difference between Igbo men in Lagos and Igbo men in Igbo land therefore if it is not happening in Lagos then it is not going to happen in Igbo land.

Of course there are beauties among the yoruba communities. Beauties and wowo's are in every community. You are not getting what i'm saying, I said overall the attraction is not there between the two groups. Even though you'll see it once in awhile here and there but overall if you count the entire community it's a rarity. Maybe another direction might clear what i'm trying to say. Take Ethiopians for a example, once in awhile you'll see an Ethiopian man dating a west African or even akata but overall it not common because of the same attraction policy. Another illustration Ghanaian for an example, even though Nigerians and Ghanaians have been interacting with each other alot longer than Nigerians and Zimbabweans or Nigerians and south-African, Nigerian and South African marital status is alot higher than Ghanaian and Nigerian marriage which again all boils down to attraction. Let's be realistic if it didn't happen in lagos, it didn't happen in asaba, it didn't happen in PH and didn't happen in USA, it probably won't happen in ontisha, enugu, etc.

What is standard for mutual attraction? Looks? character?

IMO both

Omotola Jalade comes to mind. Maybe I need to understand your yardstick for attraction.

Dude yeah. We both have different taste. In my opinion, omotola is very average

My yardstick for attraction is beauty (physical), attitude (confident), educated, strong, can cook, can clean, not-dependent, etc

What false information, dude let's be realistic on this forum. In Lagos, you are more likely to meet an Igbo man with an Igbo, Ibibio, Ijaw, Urhobo, etc. than Yoruba. I was raised in a community where such union should be common and it wasn't and still isn't. I now live in a community, though with little Nigerian community, but within the Nigerian community there are more Yoruba than Igbo and more Igbo men and Igbo women so the union should be common yet it is still rare. Let's realistic... No offense but some Yoruba women exhibit ways Igbo men do not find attractive such as attitude, physical, etc. Even on this forum some of the Yoruba women act ways if an Igbo woman ever does, she would be shun within the community. It can't just be a coincidence if it's the same occurrence everywhere be it US, Lagos, Asaba, PH and probably UK too. If it is not happening where it supposed to happen, then it would not happen anywhere else with an opposite situation. You are in an Igbo/Yoruba relationship so it is understandable our position will differ just like I know an Hausa boy whose mother is Igbo whom tried his hardest to implicate his family union is very common even though we know its a rarity itself.

I tell ya, if I start bringing out Igbo women quotes when they had a discussion on marriage on Facebook and topic, this ileke-idi girl go cry well wellu. They've spoken for themselves all over the internet, just because not many of them are NL member does not mean una need to spread false information about them. Haba, even on NL, on old threads when Igbo women dey for here, na you fight am to tell am they want yoruba men more than igbo men despite them disagreeing with you highly, na you fight Igbo men to tell am Igbo women no want am. Ogini kwa, n'ka bu na by force na by force. LMFAO. It is good to dream so carry on Ileke-idi. The way you talk when concerning Inter-tribal marriage pesin go think igbo women and yoruba men marriage surpasses that of Igbo women and other related ethnic groups like ijo, ibibio, efik. Na wa oo!!! for chest-beating with no head or tail but if it makes you feel better, more power to you. ROFLMFAO

Last bolded: The only person talking about Igbo men seeking Yoruba women but Yoruba women refusing is you ooo!!! As you can see every Igbo man on this thread pretty much just spoke their part. I don't get why you are trying to force this down our throat when we already spoke on it. It is good to dream sha even when reality is staring you in face as long as it makes you feel better.

We all said this and Afam4eva summarized everything.

As for the side step: Imo opinion it has more to do with attitude than simply being a lagos/city born chick, if so Asaba, Enugu and even out of Nigeria Igbo women would have a hard time finding a spouse. Take a look at Genevive Nnaji, the woman beauty is ageless yet because of her terrible reputation, even though she cleaned up her image, still she's having a hard time finding a spouse. Its a shame to know she's waiting for an Igbo spouse. I personally do not see that becoming a reality anytime soon. Take a look at Vanessa Obonna, her sister, and even Tonto Dike, the three females even though they are fine die (excluding tonto), finding an Igbo spouse would be an impossible task for am. Few years ago during my mother's visit to US, I was watching some show with my family and the victoria secret commercial came on, my younger sister pointed out Oluchi and told my mother "she's Nigerian, she's Igbo, she's so cool" the next thing my mother did was point to oluchi again turned to my younger sister and said the following words "Unless she marries an oyinbo or a non-Igbo or a non-Asabian this girl would have a difficult time finding a spouse, don't follow her step". I of course mentioned she's married to an oyinbo and my mother nodded her head in agreement and told my sister "she's not cool, don't follow her steps". In conclusion to the story, it has more to do with attitude than simply being a lagos chick. Girls like Fifi Isiwu Umenyiora (born in Enugu, raised in Lagos) wouldn't have a hard time finding a spouse while her sister on the other hand would.

Biko kwa where did I mention Yoruba women looking at the above post ^ or in respect to anything you replied back to?

Read well. I'm even hoping una would ask me to start bringing out Igbo women's opinion on this thread. A lot of people's bubble would bust sha. Anyway as for your reply: READ WELL. Like I told you before someone deleted my comments for some reason. Stop trying to add more salts to an already salted soup just to quench whatever pain you seem to be getting on this thread. I personally never sorted out Yoruba women, never have and probably never will. All my ex and present girls were either Igbo, ibibio or diaspora.

Before trying to ease your pain at least find out what type of woman the man you are speaking to likes . Na by force na by force bu dis one. adding words into my mouth ewoo

first post Igbo men attraction
second post Igbo men attraction
third post Igbo men attraction
fourth post Igbo women attraction (which I'm even hoping una would ask for their quotes. I feel like busting some bubbles today)
fifth post Igbo women attitude
sixth post reply to you on your misreading of my fourth post because whatever thing dey pain you for this thread.
everything else is me trying to comforting you in this your pain. Ndo ooo!!

Now as I gladly ask quote me where I, one_naira, talked about yoruba women attraction to men or what they value in men or anything where the main focus was on Yoruba women.

Don't use me to lie. I don't like people using me to lie, if you want to soothe your pain, then do so but don't lie about me when doing so and don't try to switch story to your favor by yet again adding words wey no dey there.

another repost of my quote

hey ya. The poor thing, ewuuuuuuuuu, eeh. Her Igbo celebrity men busted so she resulted to thread wey pesin get eyes can see the yoruba women discussion has long been ended at least in the Igbo men part, the only people still talking about them is the yoruba men. The igbo men conversation for pages and pages back were all about Igbo women in lagos and those in igboland. I would gladly start reposting every ones quote, highlighting it for ya. Person wan lie bad to soothe her pain Chei and till the point she's even lying about me. ewuuuuuu eeh. I continue to ask this woman to pls point out where I, one_naira, spoke of yoruba women attraction but she refused. I even offered that I'll gladly repost everything I spoke on this thread and she can highlight exactly where I, One_naira, spoke of yoruba women attraction but she still dey refuse. The poor thing, she's now copying me just to soothe her pain. I might be laughing but I was being sincere tell me the emotions you want me to feel and i'll gladly feel it just so you can better Ileke-idi. Kpele eeh. I hope when I return tomorrow, the pain would have subsided. Ndo Ebezina.

Chei. Your reading ability sucks bad and you are older than me therefore your reading ability should be way better than mine.
Learn how to read WELL or if your inability reading is because you are adding salt to soothe your ego then if you are going to add salt, add salts that are not easily disputed.

BlackPikiN: ^^^^ No mind the hugly duck!

He does not know when he's being ignored. All his ids exhibit this behavior. For me, the dude is weird-ing the f2k out of me now-a-days. I think he's a downlow brother. Seriously this nigg@ is exhibit behaviors only DL nigg@s have. First he's always boasting about women he plenty get yet he's always online chasing after women like a man that is not getting any outside and at the same time he keeps striking out with each woman. secondly on this thread, I can get men talking about whom fine better but nah no sane man would want to start posting pictures and asking other men to post pictures of themselves for beauty contest. Nah only gay men and both hetero and homo women does sh1t like that. Thirdly, the two face-ness thing, nah dude. You might think I'm trying to clown him, I've clowned him before and even on this thread on some post I purposely left alot of grammatical error to help Mr.English teacher out but he did not take bait and that is me clowning him. But as God is my witness, right now on this post I'm not. I'm for real, I think this nigg@ is motherf2king DL.

Ileke-IdI:
You started with the thread and continue on till page 10 to rant about the women you do not like?

Omo, either the thing dey pain you too much or you dey vex that even nl Yoruba chics no dey look y'allz way. See as the thread just dey vacant, but filled with Igbo men's rant about Yoruba girls who are busy looking another way. If na Yoruba men thread, your chics would have camped on it aplenty.

But you must excuse me, I'm certainly bored, need to have a good laugh

hey ya. The poor thing, ewuuuuuuuuu, eeh. Her Igbo celebrity men busted so she resulted to thread wey pesin get eyes can see the yoruba women discussion has long been ended at least in the Igbo men part, the only people still talking about them is the yoruba men. The igbo men conversation for pages and pages back were all about Igbo women in lagos and those in igboland. I would gladly start reposting every ones quote, highlighting it for ya. Person wan lie bad to soothe her pain Chei and till the point she's even lying about me. ewuuuuuu eeh. I continue to ask this woman to pls point out where I, one_naira, spoke of yoruba women attraction but she refused. I even offered that I'll gladly repost everything I spoke on this thread and she can highlight exactly where I, One_naira, spoke of yoruba women attraction but she still dey refuse. The poor thing, she's now copying me just to soothe her pain. I might be laughing but I was being sincere tell me the emotions you want me to feel and i'll gladly feel it just so you can better Ileke-idi. Kpele eeh. I hope when I return tomorrow, the pain would have subsided. Ndo Ebezina.

Ndi-igbo have you seen what una have done?
The other one is crying and this one is adding salt. Chineke meee some people letting a faceless forum hit am well. See pain sha CHEI. Biko kwa ndi igbo. I no sabi wetin dey pain am on this thread but something is seriously written up here that's hitting am. Just apologize sha, I've done my part because it seems my "misplaced assumption" hurted one am thus I recanted. Just recant because some people are getting too emotional, some are even bringing out there other ids just so they can rant out their emotions. Biko nu recant everything nah.

People truly want to give themselves hypertension over this faceless forum. Na wa oo!!

bittyend: Shameless effeminate buffoon arguing with a girl. No wonder you're from the homo region of Nigeria.

I have no time for you today shymmexx/bittenyend. Go back to your two face-ness.

Ileke-IdI:
Nobody is refuting that part, just supporting it with our own side of the coin. We're just letting you know that Yoruba women return the feeling, mutually. [b]E dey pain you? [/b]Is that why your brothers came here to deny our side of the coin with "examples" they drawed out of their azz. Esp NRI PRIEST and his "cousin"

My brother, calm down o. Igbo men and their "Yoruba women ugly smell bla bla bla", but will say on a thread past ten pages to rant/rant about the same women they cannot stand

How would it pain me when I didn't even reply on this. Think sha . You do not need to copy me. LOL

Umm i read this entire thread. All they've been speaking of that reached it to 10 pages where about Igbo women and Yoruba men. Yoruba women conversation ended 7 pages back. The yoruba are the ones continuing to bring yoruba women into the condo. Read well!!!

Ileke-IdI:
ROTFLMAO!!!! Seems like you need to be spoon fed. SE got into all this because the abandoned land is mainly occupied by Igbos. If a married man decides to settle at home, his wife would have to follow (atleast that's how it goes in Nigeria).

Igbo-Yoruba marriage only occurs in Lagos, so it's not much of a problem for Igbo ladies who were born and bred in Lagos. And they don't usually decide to move back to the SE.


[b]Dude, you say you don't care, yet you've been here since the beginning with your endless no head/ tail posts. [/b]Imma need you to brush up and come back with something more realistic than all these fantasies you've been posting o.

LMFAO. My aunt's was born in Lagos and she doesn't not live there no more. hmm I wonder why? Come to think about it I know way too many. I can name countless of people celebrity wise and non-celebrity whom born and raised in lagos but does not live in lagos. Lagos itself is an overgrown village so I'm one of those that never understood why people chest-beat over the city. N

Yet there are lot of Igbo and ibibio, Ijo, Urhobo, etc marriage in SE. Whatever you can say to quench your pain as long as it makes you feel better

I'll say this READ MY POST. WHERE DID I MENTION YORUBA WOMEN ATTRACTION on this thread? I'll gladly bring back all my post for you on this thread. Saw something I disagreed with and replied to it (first post) and all my pot following reflected back to that FIRST POST. If it makes you feel better that I care about una attraction, more power to you. After all na you speak for everyone

I asked you to provide me what feelings i'm suppose to be getting to help you out sha and you refuse to give so I'm heading to bed. Soothe yourself anyhow sha

Ileke-IdI:
Not talking about Uche Jumbo either. So UJ was Mr. Nigeria? Yo, you so dunmb fo real.

Let them not defend themselves. How does that correlate to me correcting your misplaced assumptions

Biko kwa na dis they pain you. Chei

I said Igbo men do not find Yoruba women attractive which many even on this thread and out of thread agreed upon therefore Agbworo proposal wouldn't come true at all if it isn't happening in places it should happen, it wouldn't happen in Igboland. An attraction means everything a man seeks in a woman (for some it's attitude, for some it's beauty, etc) So na this dey pain you? ewooo kpele ooo. Are Igbo men having an opinion on yoruba women now the ultimate truth. Just because we have preference does not mean what we do not prefer, others don't. No be una way say na marry edo, hausa, etc so wetin they worry you self? eeh calm the f2k down. Igbo men do not even prefer Hausa women, did u see am on NL crying over spoilt milk. Ndokwa, Agbaworo statement will come true. My assumptions is wrong. Are you happy now?

As for Mr. Nigeria

Nwanyi learn to read well

requoting myself again

Uche Jumbo turned yoruba when? Na wa oo!!! The man you are speaking of is with Uche Jumbo.

The key term there is WITH

Ileke-IdI:
Irony! Igbos do not like marrying out, yet you want this "wowo pro/stitute" to come out of her village. Why don't you come out of your cave first?

We're basically giving the same reason as to why Yoruba women do not find Igbos attractive; they do not want to marry out. If they must marry, it has to be closed to home. All the way in the S.E wey SE'ners sef abandons? Women bear must of the marital burden, so thy have to be more careful.

My mom has told me that na me go travel to Ghana myself, she has begged me to marry close to home.


As for learning about others, y'all are making it easy by teaching others about yourself on this thread. Noticed that I'm like the 2nd Yoruba woman here? That's how interesting una dey. Mtchewwww!

If na cave I dey, then obviously you haven't even evolved yet so either way I'm still ahead of you. Always have and always WILL. Na insult you day give yourself sha and effort to insult me. whatever suits u.

As for the bolded on Igbo abandoned S.E? first how SE got into all this? na you sabi. Second am I from S.E therefore I must feel whatever pain that's suppose to create? Na you sabi . Lastly keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better. ROFLMFAO if igbo people no dey there, Na oyinbo dey there BAWAHAHAHAHAH

The pain is big sha that this girl is telling me what her mother told her or what yoruba women found attract. Look through my post, I never once mentioned anything about what or whom yoruba women find attractive but rather yet disputing a claim made by someone. I no care. I'll keep saying this, Find out what the man you are talking to likes before trying to che- you know what never mind just tell me what feelings am I am suppose to be feeling ileke-idi, just tell me now so I can pretend to have that feelings therefore soothing whatever it is that's hurting you. I'm too tired to argue today so just tell me and i'll have it as long as soothes whatever pain sha. Pain na only una sabi why una are getting it.

Ileke-IdI:
I wasn't talking about deji bakara. . . the one wey all your Igbo ladies dey post him picture as sexiest Igbo man. Wetin be his name sef?
And no, it's not just baby daddy drama.
Pain over what? Your retarded self wish I'd sit back and allow all the insults on Yoruba girls. Ti t for tat, sweety.

Uche Jumbo turned yoruba when? Na wa oo!!! The man you are speaking of is with Uche Jumbo.

Did you see the Igbo women on NL fight at the insult threaded to them? Na only yoruba woman were insulted?

You are paining hard, stop denying it. If not, you wouldn't have misread my post as you did.

bittyend: Flat heads having, palm oil looking ugly ibotic monkeys shouldn't be in the same sentence with good looking..

And your women with hairy chest, muscled up arms, and fvcking beards can't even compete with gorillas.

Thread closed.

DAMN why are una letting this thread pain una bad till the point you are even crying? I can see the tears in each your post without actually seeing your face. Chei ka ndi kwa serious, Never once did I think this thread would hit people's ego.
Is this not the same man chasing every Igbo woman he sees on NL now he's speaking the opposite yet underneath this same thread with a different Id, he claims to be neutral. Kpele!!!

One adding salt, the other crying. Na wa oo!!! Igbo we need to stop. Some people are getting emotional bad.

Ileke-IdI:
Abeg, let them keep coming with more excuses.

Was it not a Yoruba girl that refused one of those P-Square rat's proposal?

Or is Mr. Nigeria (Igbo man) not currently dating a Yoruba woman?

If Yoruba women had eyes for Igbo men, you would have more Yoruba women- Igbo men union. But they're picky. . . . and we know Yoruba men will hump anything.

What sort of pain are you getting on this thread that you continue to add salts into everything? Na wa oo!!.

Deji Bakare is not Igbo first of all. Second of all, when did p-square proposed to lola? Aren't they just doing baby-mama akata style stupidity. (no offense to any akata wey day NL).

I no sabi wetin they pain you but whatever it is chill the f2k down.

Didn't you say you are married so why are you letting opinions on a faceless forum affecting you so? na wa oo!!

Ileke-IdI:
Your mother is simply a racist. . . . . if Oluchi had married a Yoruba man, she would have said something likely to that.

She, herself, is not a good role model.

Wowo Ashawo wey come online to prost1tute herself. What a sad life you must have ileke-idi. Come out of your village and learn about others

Some Igbo do not like marrying out and a lot of Igbo would even back me up on this. To name a few ontisha, Anioma's especially Asaba, Enugu, Ebonyi, etc communities would prefer their children to stick within or round communities within rather than out. Like you've been saying "na by force to intermarry", if my mother caution her daughter not to act a specific way in this way she can get a husband, a husband she can relate to, she has very right to do so. if it pain you for reason best known to you, let it pain you. Na your mama she be? commot.

Ileke-IdI:
Quote me and post crap again, see if I don't slap the flatness out of your forehead.

Do you guys really believe the jargons you spew on NL everyday? Since I've been on NL, I've yet to see Yoruba chics dying for Igbo men as y'all wanna claim. It must be hard feeling rejected from "ugly" women huh? Get over it.

Do you have a reading problem. i said WOMEN

Requoting myself

I tell ya, if I start bringing out [size=13pt]Igbo women [/size]quotes when they had a discussion on marriage on Facebook and topic, this ileke-idi girl go cry well wellu. They've spoken for themselves all over the internet, just because not many of them are NL member does not mean una need to spread false information about them. Haba, even on NL, on old threads when [b]Igbo women [/b]dey for here, na you fight am to tell am they want yoruba men more than igbo men despite them disagreeing with you highly, na you fight Igbo men to tell am Igbo women no want am. Ogini kwa, n'ka bu na by force na by force. LMFAO. It is good to dream so carry on Ileke-idi. The way you talk when concerning Inter-tribal marriage pesin go think igbo women and yoruba men marriage surpasses that of Igbo women and other related ethnic groups like ijo, ibibio, efik. Na wa oo!!! for chest-beating with no head or tail but if it makes you feel better, more power to you. ROFLMFAO

Last bolded: The only person talking about Igbo men seeking Yoruba women but Yoruba women refusing is you ooo!!! As you can see every Igbo man on this thread pretty much just spoke their part. I don't get why you are trying to force this down our throat when we already spoke on it. It is good to dream sha even when reality is staring you in face as long as it makes you feel better.

Biko kwa where did I mention Yoruba women looking at the above post ^ or in respect to anything you replied back to?

Read well. I'm even hoping una would ask me to start bringing out Igbo women's opinion on this thread. A lot of people's bubble would bust sha. Anyway as for your reply: READ WELL. Like I told you before someone deleted my comments for some reason. Stop trying to add more salts to an already salted soup just to quench whatever pain you seem to be getting on this thread. I personally never sorted out Yoruba women, never have and probably never will. All my ex and present girls were either Igbo, ibibio or diaspora.

Before trying to ease your pain at least find out what type of woman the man you are speaking to likes . Na by force na by force bu dis one. adding words into my mouth ewoo

I said it before and I hope there are massob members on NL, If not, someone continue to pass this message until they get it. MASSOB should STOP the non-violent route. Ojukwu is dead and gone, the man that told una to be a non-violent group is gone, you've respected his wishes well enough, follow Mend route and pick up a gun. Una refuse to fight because of the life of your members but yet they are already killing you, the smart thing to do is protect yourself. This is a woman's husband, children's father and parent's son and daughter just gone like a snap of the finger. If una become a militia, watch as they will leave una alone. This country is just THAT BACKWARDS. It is very stupid to act civilized in an uncivilized nation. MASSOB continue to disappoint the masses yet they wonder why more Igbo are opening up Biafran organization rather than joining their own. If you count all the Biafran organization around the world, Massob member's would be a lot higher than it is. SMH!!! Seriously uwazuruike should just quit or give the power to the younger generations. the youths will go the distance an elder refuses to go. SMH, what an 1diot uwazuruike is to follow Gandhi and mendela's route yet forgetting unlike Gandhi and mendela, they reside in a country where non-violence is the wrong route. Very stupid to act civilized in an uncivilized nation. Personally I'm in support to hand the organization to Ojukwu's son. At least that man have his father's fighting spirit.

R.I.P to the dead and for the following massob member still around if there are some on NL, an advice either 1.) change your route or 2.) join other organizations with a different route. Na my own advice, take am or leave am. SIMPLE!!

The 6.18 billion naira Abacha loot both the British, france, etc returned back to Nigeria and even admitted the loot came from Abacha's family na who dash am? your papa dash eeh?

What of the 400 million naira still in process to return back to Nigeria was it your papa that dash am eeh?

Majority of us were raised during Abacha reign, we all remember life during that reign therefore stop trying to spin bullsh1t on our faces.

If this is actually the real Buhari posting, if you still dey wonder why people refuse to accept you as a leader, this threads is in high volume enough for you.

Onlytruth: Na wa o. I'm surprised that a lot of Igbo guys here are not saying the ultimate truth about why there are less Igbo men marrying Yoruba women.

I even saw Ileke-Idi claiming that it is because Yoruba women don't like Igbo men. lol
If I have never been to Yorubaland, I would not have known better.

The simple reason why there are more Yoruba men marrying Igbo women than Igbo men marrying Yoruba women is because Ig[b]bo men are HIGHLY Igbo (or Eastern Nigeria) focused while picking wives. A wife is a HUGE DEAL for an Igbo man. It is even hard to convince an Igbo man to marry a Bini sef talk less of marrying further westward. FACT.
Igbo men simply love Igbo women (especially the ones raised in Igboland). Period.
If they miss Igbo women, they go for Akwa/Cross river, or Rivers babes. Ultimate truth.[/b]
Several of my relations in Lagos dated Yoruba women for many years, but still headed back to Nnewi and environ to pick their wives. The poor Yoruba babes felt used and dumped.
The Igbo men even side step Igbo girls born and raised in Lagos. Yes it is like that!

Like Odenidgbo-Aroli said, the Igbo women marrying Yoruba men are the ones who were born and raised in Lagos or Yorubaland, and I would add that they are those who couldn't find Igbo husbands (those who were side- stepped by their tribes men). FACT.
An Igbo girl born and raised in Lagos who marries an Igbo man is VERY lucky(most of them want to, but can't find Igbo husbands) because it is rare. I have a few female relations (cousins) who were born and raised in Lagos, who are still single (in their mid thirties now). One out of desperation married a guy from kwara state( some 5 years ago), while her senior sister is still single even now.

I don't have an opinion about whether it is right or wrong for people to be choosy in picking spouses.
We should only state facts so that people can find TRUE solutions to their problems.

We all said this and Afam4eva summarized everything.

As for the side step: Imo opinion it has more to do with attitude than simply being a lagos/city born chick, if so Asaba, Enugu and even out of Nigeria Igbo women would have a hard time finding a spouse. Take a look at Genevive Nnaji, the woman beauty is ageless yet because of her terrible reputation, even though she cleaned up her image, still she's having a hard time finding a spouse. Its a shame to know she's waiting for an Igbo spouse. I personally do not see that becoming a reality anytime soon. Take a look at Vanessa Obonna, her sister, and even Tonto Dike, the three females even though they are fine die (excluding tonto), finding an Igbo spouse would be an impossible task for am. Few years ago during my mother's visit to US, I was watching some show with my family and the victoria secret commercial came on, my younger sister pointed out Oluchi and told my mother "she's Nigerian, she's Igbo, she's so cool" the next thing my mother did was point to oluchi again turned to my younger sister and said the following words "Unless she marries an oyinbo or a non-Igbo or a non-Asabian this girl would have a difficult time finding a spouse, don't follow her step". I of course mentioned she's married to an oyinbo and my mother nodded her head in agreement and told my sister "she's not cool, don't follow her steps". In conclusion to the story, it has more to do with attitude than simply being a lagos chick. Girls like Fifi Isiwu Umenyiora (born in Enugu, raised in Lagos) wouldn't have a hard time finding a spouse while her sister on the other hand would.

Ileke-IdI:
Divorce is low in Igbo land because of the " Do death do us part" pledge they live by. Are you saying that if Igbo women wanted to leave, they can just leave? No. such animalistic and prehistoric behavior is the reason why Igbo women seek other men, i.e Yoruba men. I feel sorry for igbo men once Yoruba men starts traveling and living in the SE enmass.

Like others have said, Yoruba men marry anyone because culture is not as restrict on men to not marry outside. just as you don't see Hausa/Fulani men marrying Igbo women as much, you don't see Igbo men marrying Yoruba men as much. How that became a problem is what I'd like to know

Once again, I still believe that the main question is why Yoruba women look MidWest rather than SE when they need to marry from other tribes. Apart from Igbo men's tribalism due to Biafra-Nigerian war, why else do Yoruba women side step them?

I.e we've read more complaints about Igbo men saying Yoruba families don't want her to marry an Igbo man on this NL. It's not by force to get into an intertribal marriage o.

I tell ya, if I start bringing out Igbo women quotes when they had a discussion on marriage on Facebook and topic, this ileke-idi girl go cry well wellu. They've spoken for themselves all over the internet, just because not many of them are NL member does not mean una need to spread false information about them. Haba, even on NL, on old threads when Igbo women dey for here, na you fight am to tell am they want yoruba men more than igbo men despite them disagreeing with you highly, na you fight Igbo men to tell am Igbo women no want am. Ogini kwa, n'ka bu na by force na by force. LMFAO. It is good to dream so carry on Ileke-idi. The way you talk when concerning Inter-tribal marriage pesin go think igbo women and yoruba men marriage surpasses that of Igbo women and other related ethnic groups like ijo, ibibio, efik. Na wa oo!!! for chest-beating with no head or tail but if it makes you feel better, more power to you. ROFLMFAO

Last bolded: The only person talking about Igbo men seeking Yoruba women but Yoruba women refusing is you ooo!!! As you can see every Igbo man on this thread pretty much just spoke their part. I don't get why you are trying to force this down our throat when we already spoke on it. It is good to dream sha even when reality is staring you in face as long as it makes you feel better.

afam4eva: I think the reason why Igbo men usually don't look outside for a wife is because their women have all the qualities that they could possibly look for in a wife. It's only when you don't have something at home that you go outside to get it.

Exact a mundo.

That's what I've been trying to say. It all comes down to attraction. The main reason Igbo men do not marry out as often and If they do seek outside for wife, they go after women whom are similar to Igbo women.