Oizee: Some people don't respect boundary at all, there was a colleague of mine that called me on WhatsApp video around 9:30pm when I was preparing for bed o, I didn't pick, the next day in the office I made it clear to him that I don't do video call with non male relatives.
I respect women that respect themselves.. Well-done ma'am
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KingExalted: Allowing the sisters to live with you is not the issue. But giving it as a condition for the marriage. That's my problem. For your wife to insist that her sisters must be in your house means she has more problems than what you think. Please, check your compatibility with her before you move on.
My brother i took my time to read comments from the very first page to this current page and nobody made mentioned of what you just pointed out? This is the exact response i was expecting, i mean how can the woman insist that the siblings stays with them and went as far as threatening that there will be no marriage if that doesn't happen.. It's her attitude for me and seriously i think men are becoming weaker by the day...quite sad
Nazgul: I'm going to be very honest with you. That girl is a very self centered person. She doesn't love you, she just trying to use you to give her siblings a better life.
For you to even suggest that 2 of her siblings can stay with you after marrying her and she rejected and insisted that it must be 4 should tell you the kind of person she is. She's even ok that you guys can go your separate ways if you're not ready to accommodate 4 of her siblings. Did you bother to ask her if she's ready to cater for the additional 2 she's advocating for? Is she expecting you to feed people you didn't plan for?
My brother, if you marry that girl, you'll suffer. She won't respect you, she would fight you constantly, she won't shift grounds to do anything for you, whatever decision that must stand in that marriage must come from her. Yours wouldn't even be considered. And worse of all, she and her siblings would abandon you after milking you dry.
My advice, let her be, you're not making any mistake, you're avoiding one. Catering for a wife, a daughter and 4 additional people in this era isn't funny. And if she isn't doing any reasonable job to back you up, believe me, you'll die before your time.
All these boys self, always looking for the east way out. I always tell ppl, there's dignity in labour and if you set ur mind in doing a legit hustle accompanied with praying then you'll surely prosper.