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pyyxxaro:
Broda naa DOG oh

The dog get profit, u fit chop am if you hungry , e fit born many puppies for u and e go loyal

Anytime e see u , e go de shake tail self


But woman , some of them nor get use oh

She fit dodge go lash ur broda or friend

She fit even give u high blood pressure , she fit even born imbeecile self but dog nor de born imbeecile

Trailblazer1:
Lagos State palliative is only meant for APC members.


If you're not an APC member in Surulere, don't even have hope.


Desmond Elliot and Gbaja dey sponsor boys feeding on daily basis for my end here.

But the password is you must be an APC member

cybernaut:
Best guy in my life. If your wife doesn't so happiness to his husband brothers and sisters the same will go to my wife brothers and sisters or better still my wife will go as simple as that. Assume is the wife brothers or sisters she will pand the yam for them. Best guy in my life.

Tina001:
Which one is Women sef? Would you rather enslave your wife to satisfy your brother?? She just finished cooking rice so she should go back to the kitchen and pound yam for him?

Sixfeetbelle:
Then get ready to marry and divorce all your life as long as you continue to be an insensitive prick.

ALCOHOLKILLS:
I stop reading after the first paragraph, what brought about flexing muscle on a lady
You're highly incoherent, I think you have mental issues. Please visit a psychologist Your empty brain did not see where you called your sorry self a woman wrapper. You that need both mental and human re-orientation is talking of psychologist. Psychologist feels so cool in your mouth as if your low iQ even understands what it is. In your mind you don finish grammar there. Nonsense!! like I said take you gutter opinions to some low life forums where you belong and not here. I am not here to pat you at the back for supporting rubbish in the name of masculine ego.

ALCOHOLKILLS:
I stopped reading at bolded. For your mind you're making sense, unfortunately you and your type who idolized women, you're ranting.. Sharing my opinion doesn't mean I am dirty nor lazy but I don't blame you because you're a pussy ass nigga. It has beclouded your sense of reasoning. Kindly crawl away from my mention....... I don't deal with woman wrapper

SweetCunt97:
No all. Entered a corolla and an Benz suv today but refused giving any my number... I simply rolled my eyes and was like "typical". Can't men simply help with a lift without yapping? I simply kept smiling sheepishly until I get to my stop and I alight and bang d door before he says another thing.

Na car person go chop? Mtcheew

StrongandMighty:
Don't act like you are different.. Na una

ALCOHOLKILLS:
a pussy(slay queen) will have quickies with him, if he's hot, handsome and have big cucumber, and block his contact afterwards. But a good woman will clean up the house for him, help him grow and change his life for good

amiibaby:
No death should be celebrated cos it awaits us all

Okeytus:
point of correction, Bianca ojukwu contested with a will(written by husband) in which her husband gave some properties to her as beneficiary, she was even given the Lions share, so she has a valid evidence. so stop bringing situations that don't correlate.

I am not surprised you didn't answer my question, you are just a hypocrite, so if you call domestic discipline, a punishable violent act, I think you and family members should be arrested because you are definitely guilty of it.

Okeytus:
Pls don't quote me again, I am done with this

Okeytus:
be frank with me, have you ever laid your hand on someone in your life or ever fought with someone before? your honest answer to this question will reveal that you are just being hypocritical.
different problems with different solutions, different people with different understandings.

Okeytus:
filing for divorce and alimony are for legally married couples in court.
only dumb Men do court marriage nowadaysd.
according to my customs and traditions, she can't have custody of the children except I permit her.

Okeytus:
This modern age or lifestyle you claim is what is damaging homes today and That's why the rate of divorce is on the increase. you mustn't copy everything white people do.

it depends, if one easily take corrections and tries to do the right thing, it means he or she is matured enough regardless of Age, hence such person doesn't require strict correctional measures but if otherwise, strict correctional measures may be required regardless of age, and applied with care to suit the person.

soldiers are trained to be respectful, loyal and organized hence most of them go through tough correctional measures which beating/drilling is one of them.
so if a man of 50yrs doesn't behave matured, I don't see any wrong in applying any correctional measures that will suit him(he can be flogged, beaten etc).

The point is this: do it when it's needed and with care

Okeytus:
I don't see anything wrong with it if you do it with care and the situation at the moment deserves it.
like I said, don't do it often, if there is no change, send her back to her parents.

Okeytus:
I believe everything should be moderate, don't be cool or hot at her wrongs always, when you are angry show it but avoid doing irreversible things like trying to injure her and avoid getting angry easily.
I don't see anything wrong in cautioning your woman, women that understand you will take corrections but those that can't, will see it as an abomination, stay away from such women!!
And if she doesn't learn from her mistakes and starts being repulsive to your cautions, send her back!!!

domopps:
If you have give.....two wrongs can't a right remember!

temple007:
This thread is quiet is there no information from anybody from NSCDC let make these thread lively please thanks we shall all smile. There are everyday but there is one day when we shall all testify

Contumely:
Not really.
This is Africa.
Here, the government doesn't care. We care for each other.

It's satanic to assert that my parents merely did what they ought to do by raising me. Yes they did but again, they went, at times, beyond the call of duty.

Maybe you had bitter experiences.

Mum sacrificed a lot for us.
Of what value is your money if your loved ones don't benefit from it?

It gives me joy to see my siblings, loved ones or people close smile.

Life is a risk. The fact that few siblings turned to be never do wells doesn't mean it's so in all cases.


The youngest of my uncles had his shop burnt in onitsha main market in the 90's.
The elderly ones contributed and helped.

Today he is the richest among the kindred with houses in Lagos and Onitsha.


He single handed foots most family or village bills now without consulting anyone.

Helping people here is like insurance. The wise ones remember and repay directly or indirectly. The ingrates forget.

It also lifts the burden off you at times. For instance, you could sponsor a nephew in school, he will in turn take care of others, if things turn out well.


Ultimately, virtue lies in the middle. Always give what you can afford.

And hope to make more money for most of these stem from lack.

justwise:
The same reason those Chinese and Koreans are not staying in their individual countries to make it but decided to move to Nigeria.

Did you ask them why they are not making it in their own country? Is China not far better than Nigeria?

mrjojo:
I will be real honest with you man, The problem is not totally your HND, it was your doing also. Why did you rush to get married without having at least attaining a level of stability? It would have been far easier if it is only you. Hope you don't have a child yet though? please hold off on that for now.

Now to job issue, You are Computer Science with a reasonable knowledge of programming and you are jobless? how? when I know a couple of ND and even O'level holders programers changing jobs almost daily.

My advice.

1. Make sure your wife is earning, no matter how little
2, Brush your programming, Learning Javascript(node, angular)
3. Build a portfolio of alll your previous projects.
4. Register of fiveer and take it from there, in no time you will be rejecting jobs

That is the beauty of I.T, you don't need any degree whatsoever to get jobs as long as you know your onions. Goodluck