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Mumusaphire:
To me, if atiku want to win, he should use woman as his running mate. Like okonjo iweala.

I tell u....ur head get oil

AlphikkaTech:
NEVER EVER PAY FOR SEX. Tell her you don't have and stand by it. Even if you have the money, don't give her because of the condition she gave. Sorry to say, your gf is a hoe. Keep her as a side chick and look for another gf.

make sense thanks.

Adsexpert:
See chairman I didn't want to talk before but let me put mouth �.

You see what's right in the mind of your gilr now is that money.

Now probably your girl has been running away from sex with you or denying ,which you didn't tell us , am just assuming.

If you know she's been trying to avoid sex with you and now later asking for 30k and putting you on a manipulative tension, by threatening your ego and emotions by putting another guy in the picture.. then u rather show her the money cash handed and Bleep her then now give her the full money or part of it and take her like a hoe she is..

But if you haven't made any sexual advances towards her , you need to know if she really loves you genuinely more than money, or she's just after that money and if she' actually trying to play you in a manipulative way..

So what I wl advice you do is.. try and hustle for 15k or 30k out of that money without letting her know..

But tell her you don't have that money as of now , after some days tell her you want to have sex with her as a normal gf and boyfriend or just make a move to do romance , kiss and all that.. then if she starts pulling away and saying no , you know all those funny play play..

Then you will know she just want you to pay money before sex , and u can then know what to do later with her..

Cus I guarantee you if truly a guy propose 100k to her , she go later go collect am if she no love u so deeply and actually very loyal..

okay

Stevenson1:
This is the highest of the emotional blackmailing I ever witnessed. Damn!
If you are capable of leaving the relationship, please do it now but if you are not, then please tell her to have sex with the guy and correct the 100k.
Make she give 40k from the money.
Trust me, you would gain her trust and your heart will peaceful gain her distrust. With time, you will get to have sex with her and equally lose interest in her. That's when you end everything.
Be smart and don't regret any revenge that comes with it.

don't think she will agree to that condition ohhh....can break away....but the pain of being taking as an idiot or simp....have never face this kind thing in my life where I will have to give money to a girl I love and have sex or break way.....very hard but one would definitely have to be taken

Slynation:
Bro...Lemme tell you something, you see women, they are very smart when it comes to manipulation...Now, she told you another guy is ready to drop 100K just to sex her, and requesting 30K from you to sex her...The truth is there is no another guy planning to drop any 100K (shey na gold she carry for kpekus) it's just a trick to guilt trap you emotionally into doing what you don't wanna do so you won't lose her to another. Obviously she knows you loved her, she has seen the 'MUMUny' in you...Even if she's telling the truth, she will still collect the 30K from you and collect the 100K from that other guy...!!

Well... it's your money, and nobody has the right to tell you what to do it, if you like you give, if you like don't give. But one thing I know for certain is that simps will learn the harder ways...

what is paining must is that I don't have intentions of sleeping with her until our relationship lead to something meaningful but how would I pay to have sex with someone I love and care....I have refuse to have sex with girls that offer it to me under a platter of gold because of my self discipline....I don't have intentions of sleeping with her but since she mention it....the whole thing is just occupied my mind and confuse

appreciate all ur advice

DoggoneDogg:



The Gays have arrived
Tufiakwa

.....there is no need of all this Gay thing dude....my issue is been posted in the mids of the topic

harqinhola:
Please go ahead , share it with me .

....okay thanks sir....I just wanted to share my problem in the mid of the reply but not in the topic stage....

I have been with my girlfriend for while....we r both undergraduates but she just graduated while I am about to enter my final year....we have been both helpful to each other one way or the other and sex was not what attracted us to each other...in other words for our 1 yr of dating now we have never had sex.....she is desperate need of 30k to complete her school fees but I told her I don't have....another dude is ready to give her 100k just to sleep with her but she refuse and said if I can pay for her the 30k she is ready for us to have sex....this have been driving me crazy...one thing is telling to do it and another mind says I shouldn't....note have never had sex as guy and that urge is killing me....my girl is driving me crazy at this moment.

DoggoneDogg:
Gay alert
Flee for your dear lives oo!!!

there is no need of you replying....some of you just type without thinking....I need a guy to guy advice that is why I created the topic...instead of posting my problem on the app

I need my fellow dude to share my problem with personally....don't feel like sharing it publicly.

if this one still cheat on his wives to sleep with another woman na course be that ohhh

the truth is always better but here is it in group

1...medicine/pharmacy/dentistry/Nursing/Radiography

2....Architecture/Civil engineering/Building/Estate management/computer science or computer engineering

3....Accounting/Economics/Business administration....


with group 1 and 2 you can be self employed....choose wisely.

Nigeria loosing this match to Tunisia pain well well...could not sleep the normal way I used to...never knew I love this country like this

there is big hope for the cup if we exceed round 16

smelling nice is a good thing....want to try something new...recommend a good perfume for guys and the amount...

hmm

janetakan:
If I could turn the hands of time, I would go back in time and fight to keep my mother alive. My world changed since she died and I miss her every day.

I miss her badly.

sorry about that...

JABAIDO:
You have valid points, but how would someone who earns 15k monthly save not to talk of investing?

the problem is not as if some people don't know how to invest...you don't earn much to take care of ur bills then how do u invest....no 1 is for the medium rich and above

Candidlady:
And your day one Niggarr is starving to death somewhere!

smh!
date a responsible girls that wont be a liability una no go hear!

modified- op you are a broke as$ niggarr!

you spent 300k span of 4yrs! Meaning 75k in a year, meaning 6250/mnth!. The girl is a fowl for stil putin up with ur broke being!

how many times do you have sex with her in a day/week/mnth/yr? You this broke nagging gay'hot of a man

lol...u wan compile his problem...the way u de analyze e go pain person more.

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

anybody weh e no marry woman weh e de appreciate no matter how small na wohala ohhh...

Fahdiga:
How much do you give to your mom monthly? Let's start from there

una just the burst my head with correct answer

iLegendd:
I noticed you just started stalking me today. Let me be careful how I reply you to avoid provoking you. I'll be kind in all replies I give you.

I hate provoking someone who is frustrated or depressed. By the way, drop your account number make I send you small thing to buy food, weed or ice. 2k.

Offer expires at 3:59 PM.

Guy...lol...if na me I go collect this offer ohh

No be small thing

you cannot view this forum a day without..."why are girls....so on...simp complain everyday...

for you to type this,the love don sak u tired...I was ones there but my own na just one yr ohh...and sometimes I ask myself so na me get feeling for this girl without moving...chai...the girl that is better than her has not arrived that is why u still feel this way...just flirt with girls without anything serious with time u go free from the bondage of love...just try the comot,hagaut,meet new people,get Engage,something to occupy ur mummy mind,exercise it helps alot...

if I can own a house before getting married I will be the happiest...

but at least the guy is trying...if na another governor they for don forget this issue ohh

bigcee:
Thank you

bro cool hair...what hair cream are you using?

SweetVibe:
I wished I took this advice 4 years ago

no time for regrets bro and the school u went is not a waste as well...u need to realize this and start from somewhere...it is never too late...as an Op I seek this advice 4 yrs ago and no regrets all as I was able to pick some of the advice and leave some.

Iyaebe:
I can't help a boyfriend till he signs a prenup.

hahaha....okay now....but u should nt be thinking that way now if he does alot to make u happy I guess...

qtguru:
Personally I give to her and never collect, the same way I do to guys, if you matter to me, I'll help you with no payback in mind.

kudos

Iyaebe:
Agreed a girlfriend is not a housewife but hope you don't demand wifely duties from a girlfriend?

sex is something that enjoy by two parties...when a take care of every girl needs he becames a simp to the girl...in a relationship helping should be vice versa....although u must be a girl...U win�