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Romance › Re: Bitter Truth Every Guy Has To Face That Also Comes With Pain by oofjm: 12:57pm On Sep 16, 2020
nonsense post I thought na better talk self...."bitter truth that comes with pain indeed" can't u make money fr urself,family and unborn children...immediately I here the world girlfriend girlfriend my tune change for the post...girlfriend no be wife...
Romance › Re: At 22, Mean But True Advise You Will Give Me by oofjm: 12:51pm On Sep 02, 2020
Lordmykel:
you are young but won't remain so forever. know that people who are old and some who have died were once 22, have at the back of your mind that someday your time will come, so live life well.

Think deeply especially about the future, this is the period you should plan your future. remember if you fail to plan early, you plan to fail early.

Quest for knowledge, read books, read history as this will give you the knowledge of men of older generations combining it with the knowledge of your generation, you will be outstanding among your peers and this will also give you foresight, a very necessary attribute for growth and success.

have at the back of your mind that "fools also grow old". it is a norm in our African society to listen and obey all that elders say. but I tell you, elders are not always right, believe in yourself, trust your instincts and follow your heart, Learn from your parents and other people's mistakes, make your own mistakes and correct them, gather experience, you'll need them.

Observe judgements and adapt to positive change. e.g, they the older generation believes men are superior to women, but your generation Comes with equality. be intelligent, never forget that The illiterates of the 21st century are not those who can not read and write but those who is not able to learn, unlearn and relearn new things.

Don't do drugs, Alcohol inclusive it may ruin you. say no to cultism and other social vices. he who lives by the sword, dies by the sword.

never make women or a woman your priority, the women in your generation feel they are entitled to men's money, they are a liability for a young man who wants to grow. yes the cravings for sex will be there but realize that self-control is a gift 98% of your generation peers do not posses. stand out.

if you want to grow, realise that girls/women are only wants, they are not needs, your needs are education, food, shelter and clothing.. if you are not independent enough to get these needs for yourself then forget wants, you'll get your wants when you have your needs.

have an aim, pursue a goal, discover yourself now that you are still young, take positive risks else you'll regret when you get older.

dismiss the get rich quick syndrome, take care to only make money LEGITIMATELY, don't trick people to get favours, don't scam people of their money. yes your mates will be living large and soft lives, trust me illegally gotten money does not last. learn from Hushpuppi's story.

spend more time being productive than on social media. social media is addictive, never let it control you. spend more time reading news, spend time on discovery and reseaching on the internet.

if you are in the University, study hard, it's just 4 - 6 years of study after that you can flex your whole life, the sacrifice is worth it. School is not scam like your mates say, if school was a scam then millions would not be applying for jamb yearly.

You will always enjoy your life later, you still have time, but at 22 never miss that rare opportunity to lay a good foundation for your future. pay now, play later.

be a gentleman, always smile, help people, help make the world a better place and the sky will be your starting point and the ends of space your limit. ♥
this one na for every young man out there I swear...this ur wisdom na excess
Christianity Etc › Re: 8 Reasons Sex Should Wait Till After Marriage by oofjm: 10:14am On Jul 19, 2020
samsard:
The most successful people in the world weren't even doing no sex till marriage. Keep being brainwashed by your pastor.
There's nothing like Destiny if you aren't smart and hard-working.
what is bad is bad...u don't need ur pastor to tell u that sex before marriage is a sin even if we youth are involved in the act...i can involve in bad act to be successful in the world but what about after death...forget this ur talk.
Christianity Etc › Re: 8 Reasons Sex Should Wait Till After Marriage by oofjm: 10:04am On Jul 19, 2020
even when something is not going right the way u plan it concerning ur future...the guilt of sex u had will always seems to be the cause to u especially guys...nice list op
Romance › Re: 14-year-old Pregnant Girl Commits Suicide In Nasarawa (photo) by oofjm: 7:02pm On Jul 14, 2020
Nawao...if u know u can't take responsibility why not abstain or protect with....
Romance › Re: 31 Love Secrets Men Needs To Know About Women! by oofjm: 3:55pm On Jul 08, 2020
mirabel9:
it seems you have been agrieved of late by someone you have truly loved

sorry for all this
the guy is right oo...women don't like good guys...try to tell her I love u almost all the time...she will think u can't do without her and she will begin to misbehave..."u r now a boring guy"
Education › Re: Professor Godwin Achinge Is Dead by oofjm: 7:54pm On Jul 05, 2020
if u survive this yr just know that God has done u a big favour and u ought to be grateful...
Business › Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by oofjm: 2:56pm On Jun 29, 2020
Trayceey:
are you serious?
as in ehh,what to ask the same thing...
Business › Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by oofjm: 12:59pm On Jun 29, 2020
dammiecool:
Try invest ur money in stanbicmutual funds, u will definitely get more than 4k in a month
can u explain better
Politics › Re: APC Caretaker Panel Meets Today, To Set Up Convention Committees by oofjm: 5:40am On Jun 29, 2020
me tired of apc news...
Romance › Re: Meet Benita,the 16 Year Old Influencer Gaining Popularity For Her Stunning Shape by oofjm: 2:34pm On Jun 21, 2020
the girl na simple babe cha...well matured in attitude...her real name is Pamela Silas...she studies at University of Jos...she is 22 not 16...
TV/Movies › Re: Louisa Ejenavbo: Ramsey Nouah & 'living In Bondage' Team Didn't Pay Me by oofjm: 9:54am On Jun 17, 2020
it hurts when your work is been used for greatness but you are not appreciated for it...
Education › Re: Cross River Public Schools To Resume June 16 As Government Mass Produces PPE by oofjm: 6:03pm On Jun 10, 2020
make them resume their thing abeg,person don tire for this coro matter...
Romance › Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by oofjm: 6:15am On Jun 06, 2020
pls what is ur take on this people,my ex girl friend broke up with me and block me 5 months ago claiming that she has loose interest in the relationship and block me when trying to ask her good reason for the broke up...it hurts me so much that I blocked her as well...but to my surprise she has unblocked me back few weeks ago...I have refused to unblocked her...right choice?
Crime › Re: Uwaila Omozuwa's Sister: Police Demanded For Money Before Taking Up Rape Case by oofjm: 6:49pm On Jun 02, 2020
Nigeria police like money pass women Allah
Romance › Re: (NEW)* Truth Or Dare: Only For The Brave (18+) !!! by oofjm: 5:51pm On May 18, 2020
true
Romance › Re: What Does My Girlfriend Mean When She Said This To Me? by oofjm: 2:22pm On May 18, 2020
you see this love and relationships of a thing ba, if una carry am too much for heard una go die before una time...

you see op too much of everything is bad,the more you tell a lady "I am sorry"even when you know you are not at fault,the more she gains an advantage over you...she is now seeing it as if she is doing you a favour by dating you...
Education › Re: Does First Class Degree Guarantee One A Job? by oofjm: 4:40pm On May 10, 2020
eleko1:
Waste of time. U are likely to spot dem during job interview with borrowed suit,fade trouser plus shoes wey don bend/See beta days
don't be jealous,there are also some first class student who are well productive & rich even after putting their certificate aside.
Education › Re: Does First Class Degree Guarantee One A Job? by oofjm: 4:21pm On May 10, 2020
[quote author=Oladayo12 post=89380928][/quote]no vex o but are you sure you graduated with first Class? you don't sound like one with what you have written...and on a nutshell which course did you study get first Class?...because to me this days some courses with first Class no even reach some other courses with third class...no be to go to university go study one useless course that is not lucrative nor self employed...
Romance › Re: What Has Love Made You Do That Annoys You Anytime You Remember? by oofjm: 5:51pm On May 03, 2020
penisilin:
Like someone said - it has been flogged very very well but women matter will continue to flog men as long as them still get yansh and bleast cool.

One of my many mumuness.

It was 2000, I was very young (after SSCE) and had a girl crushing on me but for reasons known to only God & devil, I just no send the babe.

But for the mumuness in me, I was seriously pursuing one yeye girl because of her yansh so tey in my bid to win her favor, I took a family cherished flask and made a sumptuous chocolate beverage with bread and sardine (from money I fapped from my sister) for her on a rainy day.
I told her from our balcony that I was coming with the goodies and she beckoned on me to come quickly. Only for me to reach her house, she asked to carry the flask follow her until we reach her boyfriend house angry. She jumped on him and said "Thank you Ola, shebi you have given me the flask" and they shut the door while I was standing there and smiling like Ganduje.

Anger no gree me sleep for 2 days
lol "while I was standing there and smiling like Ganduje"���
Education › Re: How Useful Is/was Your Bachelor's Degree? by oofjm: 12:37pm On Apr 19, 2020
IamgratefulLord:
Hmmmm.... I studied Building from Unijos and I regret ever studying that course. I wanted Medicine or even Pharmacy but I wasn't given. angry
Guess what I do for a living?? tongue
I'm a teacher. I own a school. If I had known I would end up teaching, I would have read education. However, I had to do a PGD in Education and a TRCN professional examination.
cheesy I bless God because I derive joy in teaching and feel fulfilled impacting knowledge to pupils.
smiley
Bros u were not determined to succeed in the building industry,ur mind were somewhere else why because u wanted to study medicine or pharmacy...so u just focuses on the theory rather than the practical aspects out of ignorance of not knowing that building is practical course and that without getting the practical aspects of it u can't succeed in that area,and u can't denied the fact that alot and even some of ur course mates who graduated from the same department and university have make and are making millions from building...ur success in life depends on how u plan to succeed without degree...u were expecting too much from your degree...but thank God u discovered were u belong.
Education › Re: What Course Did You Study In The Tertiary Institution And What's your job now? by oofjm: 10:13pm On Mar 21, 2020
oyedav:
i Bet more than 90% of d folks here didn’t practice what they studied. Main reason I attest to d fact that there are courses that are useless as far as Nigeria is concerned.

If you’re not in d medical field, then BOOM, oyo na ur case.

Law students self Dey drag u make u come swear affidavit for their side. If I get any Wuhan scholarship laidis, oooinn, na to Jakpa.
LOL
Romance › Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by oofjm: 4:08pm On Mar 17, 2020
seriously something is wrong with you...as in u don't know what to do?infact your relationship won't last because they is no trust in it...the girl is not afraid of losing u but u r afraid of losing the girl...Bleep off and act like a man joor...a man should not be worked up because of a woman...tell her what u just wrote and if she didn't not change,back off and face your studies.
NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by oofjm: 10:02am On Mar 07, 2020
please can someone clarify me on this nysc age stuff...for those that use neco results during jamb registration,is it the neco age or ur jamb dashboard age which is the same with the school dashboard age that u will be use to mobilize for nysc?because the age my school put then during neco registration exceed my real age
Education › Re: Parents, Students Lament High ‘Acceptance Fee’ In Public Universities by oofjm: 7:35pm On Jan 21, 2020
Unijos no longer collect acceptance fees since 2016 session...just 45k for pre registration and school fees which I think is fair enough...60 -70k should be able to do a new student for registration apart from accommodation.
Romance › Re: How Were You Able To Forget About Your Ex? by oofjm(op): 6:38pm On Jan 11, 2020
djoe21:
The issue is that he is trying to solve the problem as an algebra where you look at your X and wonder Y. Tell him to rather see it as Economics where he is allowed to make so many ASSUMPTIONS. He can assume that;

1. X is unwise
2. X is irrational
3. X is erratic
4. X is selfish
5. X loves only money
6. Og > or = X. (Where Og means Other girls).

When he starts seeing it this way, he will be fine. grin
lol...u have a point there though.
Romance › How Were You Able To Forget About Your Ex? by oofjm(op): 5:41pm On Jan 11, 2020
my niqqa(best friend) is finding it hard to forget about his ex for almost 3 months+ Now...this guy loves this girl to the core no thought about that...throughout the cause of their relationship he never double date but this girl chat him one day & that she has loose interest in him...we have hag out with this guy for so many times just for him to forget about this girl completely but this girl is still in this guy head fah as no girl seems to interest him...so my question is how were u able to forget about your ex you love to the core.He was faithful but now paying for it
Career › Re: How Lucrative Is Bsc Building Compare To Bsc Architecture by oofjm(op): 12:54pm On Dec 13, 2019
Vincentdechris:
Hi friends, I really need your help,
I applied for Architecture during jamb but was given Geoinformatics and surveying by the university and the polytechnic I put gave me the Architecture.
Which one should I take,am really confused.. please no insult
the best I can say is follow your heart
Romance › What Is The Difference Between Lust And Love by oofjm(op): 4:10pm On Feb 01, 2019
Often many times most guys fall into lust thinking there are in love with a particular girl.Relationship and Marriages are no longer lasting because guys fail to understand the difference between lust and love...take for example you meet a girl in a street and immediately you are falling for her already without knowing anything about her character,would you categorized that as being in love or lust.how can one know if he is in love or lust? a friend ask me this question and I want to know you guys opinion on this because the question look simple but it is not to me...your opinion please!
Career › Re: Civil Engineering: Aspirants And Practitioners by oofjm: 4:49am On Sep 20, 2018
Sidmac:
Can a Bsc Architecture apply for PGD Civil / Structural engineering programme
why do you want to divert
Politics › Re: David Jang Meets Bishop Oyedepo Over His 2019 Presidential Ambition(pics by oofjm: 8:25pm On Sep 17, 2018
amaniro:
BTW I think Jang is too old for that seat. We need newbies with good ideas to foster the economy.


Oyedepo looks lost self
lol
Romance › Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by oofjm: 10:22pm On Sep 16, 2018
let me ask something...the first church on earth is which church?

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