Raspberries:
Love exist... You might have not found it yet, but it does...
[From experience]

Only parents has the right to talk about genuine love and not this generation...

Hope the experience you had either of them partner might have been relocated to wheelchair and their love still waxes stronger...!! If not, people will only find love you when it's beneficiary

What type of problem?

Slynation:
Bro...Lemme tell you something, you see women, they are very smart when it comes to manipulation...Now, she told you another guy is ready to drop 100K just to sex her, and requesting 30K from you to sex her...The truth is there is no another guy planning to drop any 100K (shey na gold she carry for kpekus) it's just a trick to guilt trap you emotionally into doing what you don't wanna do so you won't lose her to another. Obviously she knows you loved her, she has seen the 'MUMUny' in you...Even if she's telling the truth, she will still collect the 30K from you and collect the 100K from that other guy...!!

Well... it's your money, and nobody has the right to tell you what to do it, if you like you give, if you like don't give. But one thing I know for certain is that simps will learn the harder ways...

what is paining must is that I don't have intentions of sleeping with her until our relationship lead to something meaningful but how would I pay to have sex with someone I love and care....I have refuse to have sex with girls that offer it to me under a platter of gold because of my self discipline....I don't have intentions of sleeping with her but since she mention it....the whole thing is just occupied my mind and confuse

What type of problem?

oofjm:
what is paining must is that I don't have intentions of sleeping with her until our relationship lead to something meaningful but how would I pay to have sex with someone I love and care....I have refuse to have sex with girls that offer it to me under a platter of gold because of my self discipline....I don't have intentions of sleeping with her but since she mention it....the whole thing is just occupied my mind and confuse

simply put, she has been sexing others behind your back for her to nurture such feelings that the only way to pay you back is via sex...!!

oofjm:
I need my fellow dude to share my problem with personally....don't feel like sharing it publicly.

This is the highest of the emotional blackmailing I ever witnessed. Damn!
If you are capable of leaving the relationship, please do it now but if you are not, then please tell her to have sex with the guy and correct the 100k.
Make she give 40k from the money.
Trust me, you would gain her trust and your heart will peaceful gain her distrust. With time, you will get to have sex with her and equally lose interest in her. That's when you end everything.
Be smart and don't regret any revenge that comes with it.

If we date and no sex it a red flag . is she virgin
If i date you and i don't sex you
Am definitely cheating or i don't love you lol

oofjm:
....okay thanks sir....I just wanted to share my problem in the mid of the reply but not in the topic stage....

I have been with my girlfriend for while....we r both undergraduates but she just graduated while I am about to enter my final year....we have been both helpful to each other one way or the other and sex was not what attracted us to each other...in other words for our 1 yr of dating now we have never had sex.....she is desperate need of 30k to complete her school fees but I told her I don't have....another dude is ready to give her 100k just to sleep with her but she refuse and said if I can pay for her the 30k she is ready for us to have sex....this have been driving me crazy...one thing is telling to do it and another mind says I shouldn't....note have never had sex as guy and that urge is killing me....my girl is driving me crazy at this moment.

Stevenson1:


This is the highest of the emotional blackmailing I ever witnessed. Damn!
If you are capable of leaving the relationship, please do it now but if you are not, then please tell her to have sex with the guy and correct the 100k.
Make she give 40k from the money.
Trust me, you would gain her trust and your heart will peaceful gain her distrust. With time, you will get to have sex with her and equally lose interest in her. That's when you end everything.
Be smart and don't regret any revenge that comes with it.

don't think she will agree to that condition ohhh....can break away....but the pain of being taking as an idiot or simp....have never face this kind thing in my life where I will have to give money to a girl I love and have sex or break way.....very hard but one would definitely have to be taken

If you give her or you no give her. She'll Bleep the other guy

oofjm:
there is no need of you replying....some of you just type without thinking....I need a guy to guy advice that is why I created the topic...instead of posting my problem on the app

You should have worded it like this from the start to avoid confusion. Anyway good luck with your search.

See chairman I didn't want to talk before but let me put mouth �.

You see what's right in the mind of your gilr now is that money.

Now probably your girl has been running away from sex with you or denying ,which you didn't tell us , am just assuming.

If you know she's been trying to avoid sex with you and now later asking for 30k and putting you on a manipulative tension, by threatening your ego and emotions by putting another guy in the picture.. then u rather show her the money cash handed and Bleep her then now give her the full money or part of it and take her like a hoe she is..

But if you haven't made any sexual advances towards her , you need to know if she really loves you genuinely more than money, or she's just after that money and if she' actually trying to play you in a manipulative way..

So what I wl advice you do is.. try and hustle for 15k or 30k out of that money without letting her know..

But tell her you don't have that money as of now , after some days tell her you want to have sex with her as a normal gf and boyfriend or just make a move to do romance , kiss and all that.. then if she starts pulling away and saying no , you know all those funny play play..

Then you will know she just want you to pay money before sex , and u can then know what to do later with her..

Cus I guarantee you if truly a guy propose 100k to her , she go later go collect am if she no love u so deeply and actually very loyal..

Adsexpert:
See chairman I didn't want to talk before but let me put mouth �.

You see what's right in the mind of your gilr now is that money.

Now probably your girl has been running away from sex with you or denying ,which you didn't tell us , am just assuming.

If you know she's been trying to avoid sex with you and now later asking for 30k and putting you on a manipulative tension, by threatening your ego and emotions by putting another guy in the picture.. then u rather show her the money cash handed and Bleep her then now give her the full money or part of it and take her like a hoe she is..

But if you haven't made any sexual advances towards her , you need to know if she really loves you genuinely more than money, or she's just after that money and if she' actually trying to play you in a manipulative way..

So what I wl advice you do is.. try and hustle for 15k or 30k out of that money without letting her know..

But tell her you don't have that money as of now , after some days tell her you want to have sex with her as a normal gf and boyfriend or just make a move to do romance , kiss and all that.. then if she starts pulling away and saying no , you know all those funny play play..

Then you will know she just want you to pay money before sex , and u can then know what to do later with her..

Cus I guarantee you if truly a guy propose 100k to her , she go later go collect am if she no love u so deeply and actually very loyal..

okay

oofjm:
I need my fellow dude to share my problem with personally....don't feel like sharing it publicly.

Male dude kwa?
Okay, search very well you ll find male guys.

DoggoneDogg:
Gay alert
Flee for your dear lives oo!!!

I wouldn't be surprised if you're one. Gays with internalised homophobia act the way you do.

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HenryDion:


I wouldn't be surprised if you're one. Gays with internalised homophobia act the way you do.

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Slynation:
Bro...Lemme tell you something, you see women, they are very smart when it comes to manipulation...Now, she told you another guy is ready to drop 100K just to sex her, and requesting 30K from you to sex her...The truth is there is no another guy planning to drop any 100K (shey na gold she carry for kpekus) it's just a trick to guilt trap you emotionally into doing what you don't wanna do so you won't lose her to another. Obviously she knows you loved her, she has seen the 'MUMUny' in you...Even if she's telling the truth, she will still collect the 30K from you and collect the 100K from that other guy...!!

Well... it's your money, and nobody has the right to tell you what to do it, if you like you give, if you like don't give. But one thing I know for certain is that simps will learn the harder ways...

Godbless you for this...you have said it all

oofjm:
....okay thanks sir....I just wanted to share my problem in the mid of the reply but not in the topic stage....

I have been with my girlfriend for while....we r both undergraduates but she just graduated while I am about to enter my final year....we have been both helpful to each other one way or the other and sex was not what attracted us to each other...in other words for our 1 yr of dating now we have never had sex.....she is desperate need of 30k to complete her school fees but I told her I don't have....another dude is ready to give her 100k just to sleep with her but she refuse and said if I can pay for her the 30k she is ready for us to have sex....this have been driving me crazy...one thing is telling to do it and another mind says I shouldn't....note have never had sex as guy and that urge is killing me....my girl is driving me crazy at this moment.

Try get sense.

You dey call Olosho your gf. You must be a pussy ass simp. That girl is trying to manipulate you using sex. U better dump that Olosho and move on, there are girls everywhere!!!

Seriously what's is the benefit of being In a relationship, if every thing is monitized, why will I spend 30k for sex when I can pay hookup 5k for the same sex?. The love of money and its glorification from ladies has made me stay away from relationship. And it may remain like that for a very long time.

oofjm:
....okay thanks sir....I just wanted to share my problem in the mid of the reply but not in the topic stage....

I have been with my girlfriend for while....we r both undergraduates but she just graduated while I am about to enter my final year....we have been both helpful to each other one way or the other and sex was not what attracted us to each other...in other words for our 1 yr of dating now we have never had sex.....she is desperate need of 30k to complete her school fees but I told her I don't have....another dude is ready to give her 100k just to sleep with her but she refuse and said if I can pay for her the 30k she is ready for us to have sex....this have been driving me crazy...one thing is telling to do it and another mind says I shouldn't....note have never had sex as guy and that urge is killing me....my girl is driving me crazy at this moment.

NEVER EVER PAY FOR SEX.
Tell her you don't have and stand by it.
Even if you have the money, don't give her because of the condition she gave.
Sorry to say, your gf is a hoe.
Keep her as a side chick and look for another gf.

DoggoneDogg:
Gay alert
Flee for your dear lives oo!!!

If he commit suicide now, na you go first book space for FP and start saying “suicide is never an option”

AlphikkaTech:
NEVER EVER PAY FOR SEX. Tell her you don't have and stand by it. Even if you have the money, don't give her because of the condition she gave. Sorry to say, your gf is a hoe. Keep her as a side chick and look for another gf.

make sense thanks.

oofjm:
....okay thanks sir....I just wanted to share my problem in the mid of the reply but not in the topic stage....

I have been with my girlfriend for while....we r both undergraduates but she just graduated while I am about to enter my final year....we have been both helpful to each other one way or the other and sex was not what attracted us to each other...in other words for our 1 yr of dating now we have never had sex.....she is desperate need of 30k to complete her school fees but I told her I don't have....another dude is ready to give her 100k just to sleep with her but she refuse and said if I can pay for her the 30k she is ready for us to have sex....this have been driving me crazy...one thing is telling to do it and another mind says I shouldn't....note have never had sex as guy and that urge is killing me....my girl is driving me crazy at this moment.

save that 30K n upgrade yourself ma nigga, its all format she is using on you, be streetwise man

oofjm:
....okay thanks sir....I just wanted to share my problem in the mid of the reply but not in the topic stage....

I have been with my girlfriend for while....we r both undergraduates but she just graduated while I am about to enter my final year....we have been both helpful to each other one way or the other and sex was not what attracted us to each other...in other words for our 1 yr of dating now we have never had sex.....she is desperate need of 30k to complete her school fees but I told her I don't have....another dude is ready to give her 100k just to sleep with her but she refuse and said if I can pay for her the 30k she is ready for us to have sex....this have been driving me crazy...one thing is telling to do it and another mind says I shouldn't....note have never had sex as guy and that urge is killing me....my girl is driving me crazy at this moment.

Technically she wants you to pay for sex...?


Bros that your babe will still sex that dude with 100k...

Rubbish ...

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SenecaTheYonger:


If he commit suicide now, na you go first book space for FP and start saying “suicide is never an option”

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Suicide is a very good option for gay fagggots

Your "girlfriend" is a yahoo prostitute
She is a fraudstar, she created competition and offered it to you at a giveaway price

Find your self respect young man and walk away now.

oofjm:
what is paining must is that I don't have intentions of sleeping with her until our relationship lead to something meaningful but how would I pay to have sex with someone I love and care....I have refuse to have sex with girls that offer it to me under a platter of gold because of my self discipline....I don't have intentions of sleeping with her but since she mention it....the whole thing is just occupied my mind and confuse

Heh. You hear sex your thinking faculties have gone upsidedown.

Abeg where are her parents or family members?