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Pprovost:
You are an Ika man that want to cause trouble here ba? Itshekiris have said they are only related to Yorubas but NOT YORUBA. Please respect that!

he is not Ika he is yoruba like me. Just than he has low self esteem

CltrAltDel:
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You aint Yoruba....be proud of your tribe......I-fool yoot
Next!!!
Edit:just went through some of your post...dude, you dont know how to be an impostor...all your post of full of "we yoruba".......stop trying hard to be what you are not......YOU ARE NOTHING BUT AN IFOOL YOOT

if you like call me Zulu all i know is that i've told you the truth as a brother

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you might think you are doing us good but most of we yoruba are being disgraced by acts like yours.

Watch other ethnic groups and see how many that are mad over Ibos and their Biafra like we yorubas.

What a shame

we're in trouble but my people are pretending all is well

my brother it is a terrible thing. He he doesnt regard us a anything. Despite carrying his campaign on our sholders

hmmm those Ipobs call our country a zoo
are they really correct?

our country is finished

and he has not visited we Osunites that gave him all we had.

Are we inferior?

Grammar but fulani is harassing everybody including my people

tankara1010:
Yoruba man...taaar get out from here!

he is same person as hopeathand my yoruba brother

Evil country

rapistbuhari:
Stupidity is when our Yoruba Elite sold out there right of becoming a king even in there fathers land (kwara state)

now tell me who is at the lost side? Yorubas or the igbos?

Go and reclaim Kwara then come back

you shouldnt blame us. It was our fore fathers who lost Ilorin. We just have to focus on our present chanllenges

This is Ipob in action. That group is very powerful but we dont know. We should come together and discuss the basis of our unity rather than call it mere militancy. This was how north and south sudan conflict started.

We yorubas should come out and say the truth otherwise we may not know what those Ibos is cooking until they finish happening.

That is why my sisters can go to any level to mary ibo men.
But we will not agree. they must mary we yoruba men unless there is something we yorubas dont have that ibomen have

kaziblake:
I have said my own...I have better stuff to do

u can now continue with ur fake bible bible quoting my two-faced yoruba sister claiming ibo. That is why other tribes dont marry you people except we yorubas. U guys are burden to us. That is why we marry second wives. Even our ooni married from Edo.

kaziblake:
Ikpu nne gi..aragbagi there..onye ara

i've exposed you.
I want op to know you can't give any reasonable advice.

Imagine an unmarriageable person like you giving marital advice

bring it on, I am enjoying ur frustration. If not i would've called for ur ban

kaziblake:
Anumanu

is that your surname?

kaziblake:
Shut up!i have watch you and that other one with a Yoruba moniker spew trash...you mate are making money,you are here clowning yourself.
Anuofia,

you can continue making money at night when responsible people are sleeping. Later u'll want to force urself on an iboman. I am a yoruba and wont watch pple cheat a fellow man, tribe notwithstanding.

kaziblake:
I bet it's an old man that is behind this moniker...an old man whose life depends on nairaland...an old man who sits at home while his mates make money...pretending to be yoruba while you aren't

thats your business. I am just calling out liars and decievers

Gabby91:
to ikpummadu and his ilk, tribe? race? God is watching us so called Christians. all I know is acts 10:34 says 'At this Peter began to speak, and he said: “Now I truly understand that God is not partial, 35 but in every nation the man who fears him and does what is right is acceptable to him.
u should focus on compatibility, communication and other important factors not tribe.

did Bible also say that marriage is by force?

Chukazu:
that juju that would make me marry from my tribe and miss out from the beautiful diversity of this multi-culturally amazing country will never succeed.

beauty in diversity
must marry outside my tribe

this is why ibos see us as inferior.

kingdavidG:
What sort of RUBBISH is this? People who cherish Unity and Peaceful co-existence doesn't talk this way, I referred to this as RUBBISH because I examined to see if I can find a reasonable point, but unfortunately I couldn't find any. All these "Will you... Will you... Will you..." are targeted at creating negative impression and building tension and fright, which is RUBBISH. Those rites attached to the "Will you(s)" are nothing and lacks the capacity to be a burden or thing of concern. I BE ORIGINAL IGBO BOY, those things ain't Big Deal. Being ignorant of their meaning has been use as tool to create fright.

ogbeni your are my yoruba brother. I know one of us why i sight them

Vickyydera:
I am an Igbo girl from IMO but to be sincere, this is the most tribalistic comment I have ever set my eyes on.

my yoruba brother stop decieving our sister.

Kingnonny:
My friend's sister Nikky just wedded last Saturday to a handsome dude from Osun while she's Anambra, my point is that you guys need both parents consent, approval and blessings. Since the marriage seems more important to you. Look your assignment is your man he needs to man up, I wish I know you personally. But all the same you must talk sense into your man's head, if truly he loves you then you must make him understand that his sources of happiness(you) needs a strong support cos I believe all they want for him is just the best . See let me tell you the family is trying to be over protective over their son, if you can make them understand you know what they are doing and that you must not let them have any regret for marrying you. You have a duty to make him talk sense into his people they must not really like you over night but just get that little approval from them and be a good woman to them. I have seen lots of Yoruba-Igbo marriages that more harmonious & successful. But in everything there is a hand that controls the heart of men, I'll advice you move that hand to favor you.

go to literature section and start releasing stories

MysteriousPrinc:
i am a yoruba man married to an Ibo lady and her older brother is married to a yoruba lady. Prior to that, my late wife was from Calabar. I am a strong believer that for as long as there is love between you two and he shares what you feel then screw the rest of the world. I couldnt care less where my wife was from cause i dont see Yoruba, Ibo or Hausa. All i see is a woman. Some people had things to say of course but thats all they were to me.....things. I see folks saying dont marry him and stuff but then i ask, when will this stop? its only in Africa that we seem to bring tribe into everything. I pray for the day that we can look pass tribe and live life to the fullest, men our nation will be so great. I pray God gives you strength and helps you make the right decision but as far as i am concerned and my opinion is sit him down, talk to him, what are his own beliefs, discuss your fears and get a common ground and then make your mind up from there. Good luck.

liar!

IGLE25:
I don't see why parents of this generation still back on tribal differences in marriage matters. I was in your shoe some years back but I have to let go of the relationship. I dated this Ibo girl for 12 years and was thinking of proposing to her on our 12th year of courtship when she broke the news of her dad not in support of the relationship and she was asking what is my take on it. I told her bluntly to go with whatever her mind chooses and she went with her father's mandate. As I am writing to you now she will be 31 this year and not in any serious relationship, I am not making gest of her but her father brought this into her life. By the grace of God I will be settling down with my Oyinbo Canada in July. I don't really know what to advise you but do what you know is best for you and the most important thing seek the face of God in this situation and all will be well with you. Goodluck in making your choice.

super story

you are not heling our sister by fabricating stories

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op

see the people giving you advice

some of them claiming ibo girls are yoruba guys like me

that is how desperate we yorubas can get

Kobicove:
What makes her a tribalist?

Love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage, period!

Don't marry someone from a different tribe if you can avoid it ...the headaches you will face in future are just too many.

Marrying someone from the same tribe but from a different background and upbringing is challenging enough, so why would you want to complicate things by throwing tribal difference in the 'mix'?

I'm from the south east and I almost made that mistake by marrying a lady from the Niger Delta area.

Trust me, it's not worth it!!!

if you are ibo
better dont take most people on this thread serious. They are yoruba like myself claiming ibo and attacking anybody who is against inter-ethnic marriage.

Inferiority complex is the greatest problem in this part of the country.

femmefetale:
My igbo brothers are the most tribalistic folks in the world, especially Anambra men. The Imos are more flexible, the Abians too.

@op, please leave that guy because he will not marry you.If he is an Anambra guy, better run because he will NEVER marry you o, except by the spirit of God and his angels. As an igbo gurl from Anambra sef, I already have huge restrictions as to where not to marry from.


If you are an foreigner dating an Anambra man, better remove marriage from ya head except of course your in laws to be are dead!

my yoruba sister forming ibo girl.

Are we cursed?

Are we inferior?

Lagos is the only city in yorubaland. Therefore i am not happy

I told my people ibos have since left us behinh

YorubaHighness:
Came here to see who will blame Yoruba.

how can people blame us?

We are always peaceful...just that most people think we're cowards