NwaAmaikpe:



She should Clap for herself...
I wanted to call her a big mumu but I realized love makes all of us mumus.


Well she left one part out...
As a woman whose husband is abroad...there's no way she could achieve all that success in business and her work without sexual compromise.
She can't also say she was faithful 100%
So she might not have gotten that STI from him.

I strongly believe her husband helped in fulfilling scriptures for it is written;
Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished: but he that gathereth by labour shall increase.
Prov 13:11

I'd advise she dusts herself up, forget about the man and go for thankswgiving that she was not beaten to death.

You are truly without any doubt a foolish man. And one can only hope your family is visited with such judgement as yours. Bloody idiiot..

Looolll..women no even get your time to answer you.
I wish you happy side chicking and wish your wife happy side boboing...its all for the good of the marriage..
Make i dey go..

FitnessDoctor:
When it comes to attention seeking it is baby mamas for male celebrities e.g Flavour, Runtown Davido and the new addition Tekno
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while for the female celebrities its failed marriages e.g Tiwa Savage, Tonto Dikeh and Toke.
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But we cant lie that Toke does not look stunning in this pic
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I remain your favorite health blogger Paul Samuel FitnessDoctor

Tiwa savage is still married. Amebo...

selfmadeboss:
useless oloshe said she is blocking him but didnt.
some girls are just blatantly stupid. toto wey you dey give poor idiots to Bleep for indomie money na im you dey guard when e reach time wey you suppose open and better your life. i wonder when women go recieve brain.
na so one bin dey allow me to Bleep then when i broke pass the brokest nairalander but she no one give her boss the ponyor even after boss promise am promotion. i hate stupid people

And an idiiot like you will still come here to shout Olosho....see where your own brain reach. Hope your wife will use her toto for promotion when you dey broke.

Muumuu thing...

Olodo...how will he know book? When he is busy smelling women's tooto up and down.
Na God save am say he get music...im for be agbero for road.

Olodo rapata..

When you think you are doing someone but you are only doing yourself.

He has killed his only son and will spend the rest of his life in jail and his daughters' destiny dey for breeze to blow anywhere.

When the head is bad, what can a family do?

Created his home and destroyed it with his own hands.

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?

Young man, your wife is 7weeks along from your calculations.
Next time, if you dont like her friendship or closeness with a male friend, tell her immediately so that she ll know and adjust. Dont act like you are okay with it then turn around to accuse her of cheating with the same person she calls in your presence, and you even advice her to call.

Understand that if your wife is cheating on you, you wont see any sign by way of calls, chats or whatsoever of the other party. She leaves his chat in her phone knowing you have access to it because she sees nothing in it.

Tell her you dont like it and watch things change...its a big insult and hurt for your husband to doubt d paternity of ur pregnancy.

You guys are in your learning stage in marriage...tell her immediately things you dont like from these early days. She sounds to me like someone who is just being her single self not yet adjusting to marital changes.

Let your wife always know your mind and have a peaceful home and I pray God helps her to forgive and forget your doubting her.

All the best.

Myself2:


Without trial ? Infact I give up on you.Keep whining.But be informed that I can sue you if I have a good case against you,the case goes to trial,the judge is at liberty to grant or deny you bail,even if he does grant you bail,I can decide to have you rearrested on amended charges without crossing the line of abuse of court processes

You are going off point. Being presented in court is not the same as going to trial. And the judge has no basis for not granting bail as her offense is not so grievous and she is not a flight risk.

If you believe that there has been a trial, then pray tell us what was her sentence and what's the length of her jail term?

Charge and bail lawyer...

Myself2:


What rubbish injustice are you talking about or are you that ignorant
We seem to have taken so many things for granted that most of you don't know that libel and slander actually offenses that could land one in jail just as it has landed mama Olunloyo.

You seem the ignorant one here or when has it become acceptable to jail a person without bail or a trial. Even murderers and rapists get bail pending their trial how much more someone accused of libel/slander?
Hope you can deduce that you are not as smart as you believe?

When we support injustice because we don't like the person involved, we have signed a future contract with Karma that injustice will remain with us.

No matter how nasty she is, we all know this woman shouldn't still be in jail.

Speak up now or forever remain silent whenever such occurs to anyone.

Well I hope those 5 guys found those few seconds of pleasure worthwhile as through it they have killed sleep, success and progress of themselves and their children, if they ever have any.

Well I hope all the single ladies in this forum are seeing all the potential wife beaters here..both the open ones and the disguised ones with their ' I don't support it but...'

Just use your tongue to count ur teeth and if you are a mother. ..be sure to do a better job with your son.

I'm out.

See fine young sons of the soil being gunned down for nothing.
Why won't husband be scarce?

I like this..

toogbasky:



There are so many burdens you have to let go as a man,,,,, this is just d first test you got, and you are currently failing,, go to a quiet place, think, re think, and think again, take in fresh air into ur system for atleast 1 to 2 hours,,, think of all d wonderful moments you shared wit her...., dis wud allow u forgive her even without her apology(a simple psychological therapy), call her, do not involve her family, just call her and speak to her privately, remind her of all d good tyms u had wit her, apologise for getting angry, let her know you are only human, let her understand how much it hurts you DAT she wanna give u up just lyk that..., tell her to she shud realise wit you lies her family, and it takes togeda to build DAT family.., den finally tell her how much you care abt her. This wud dig into her conscience, she's surely gonna apologise after dis,,, forgive all my errors oooo

Hmm tales by moonlight.

Fifthcolumnist:
If your story is complete and true then your wife is entirely to blame. Although, I think fuming at her to save face was unnecessary and poorly managed. You know women are proud beings and hate being attacked even when they are wrong.

But, you can't risk loosing your marriage for the sake of pride and "saving face". Infact, if your marriage breaks down after just one week together, you'll have no face at all how much more one to save. You have to loosen up, swallow your high standards, and play the fool for the sake of your marriage before things get out of hand. Apologise to her and her family telling them, the stress of the whole event got to you and you're sorry you managed the situation poorly. Do this in the interest of peace and forget about rightness or wrong. After all, it's your marriage to keep, not theirs' or anyone else's.

No advice this kind thing abeg. They ll ride him for the rest of his life.
My advice: just ignore all of them and continue ur life. No be person go tell ur wife before she begin run come back. By d time her village people begin ask am questions that touch.
They must have seen u love her to an extent and want to suck ur blood ...don't try apologising or anything. Just ignore...manage and be raising ur son...don't pick their calls and don't give them audience.

If possible, if u can handle it well...let another woman be seen around ur house and let it filter back to her that u ve seen replacement...all things will fall into place.
You just can not allow ur wife and her family to control you...it is just too early in the marriage for that.

Don't dull yourself.

That butcher is a big thief!!!!
#bringbackourgoathead.

You are married to a mad man called husband. He keeps beating you and you stay there because you want to build your home like a proverbs 14 woman forgetting that proverbs 14 woman was a loved wife not a battered one.

Now you are dead. Oya feed ur children breakfast now and make sure they are bathing and brushing their teeth.
No more...

You have left them with a jobless hot tempered man who will probably end up in jail for killing you. Now your little kids are orphans..

Who has your sacrifice helped?

kuchikau1:
,..Gals wey blood dey comot frm their stinking, smelling and rotten TOTO evry 28 days. Metchewwwwww.

Just as your mother does..your sister too...
And later your daughter..

Try use your brain to count your sense...

I look forward to the day when the sight of a successful single woman will not burn the heart of inferior men of low esteem and visionless women of no ambition.
Amen.

rainerboy1010:
a lady posted this question sometimes ago;

"My boyfriend says he doesn’t get any satisfaction from having intercourse with me.

He says my vagina is too big. His penis is of average size. Until I met him, I didn’t think I was that big.

I’m hurt by what he has said. Are any positions we could try or any exercises I could do to help our problem? Although we love each other dearly this could become a major difficulty in the future, I feel. He also thinks the problem isn’t helped by me becoming so moist during MouthAction.


I am starting to feel slightly abnormal." ..

You need to get a husband with a bigger size. YOU shouldn't be blamed if he is too small for you. FIND your size.

I bet if a dude had come here saying his girlfriend left him stranded to take her father home, the same people that are shouting mother is this and mother riz dat will say she should go and marry her father then, doesn't she know her man is her no 1 priority? Is that how she ll be under her father's control in her husband's house?...Nigerians . ..repent ooo...

That said the girl's head is not correct...

I'm out..

Looollll...I Don die....abeg who be mod here. Na Lalasticlala? Make we hear from naiaraland females ooo..Chai! !

freshvine:


Why will I run a circus with you when your brain has been tilted towards non objective application?

You don't have the rational mind to sustain this argument cos it's glaring your myopic standpoint is sentiment driven and I don't want to give you that pleasure to fantasize to oblivion.

I know your nectar is sweet and free, why not patronize those with what you live for?

The lady provided the template for crime to exercise and you want me to exemplify her and condemn the guy. Because arm robbery is a crime, will you leave your doors ajar at night and hope they don't come?

If you condemn the action of the girl, you've succeeded in dealing with the root problem and rape will reduce drastically in the society but if you keep saying "no matter what" other young lady will think it is legal to deceive a man into believing they're in a relationship with him with the notion of zapping his wealth with no benefit to the guy and such demeanor encourages rape.

I know that someday you'll will have a son and your advice to him when he is of age won't be different from the others, "beware of the foolish girls who's after your money and would want to render you useless". This girl represent one of those mothers warmed their male children about and in this case, the guy was smart to extract his wages.

Men this right here is why I advise all the females I know to buy a small knife, the foldable kind like d one used in the movie Face-Off. So that if any nigger tries anything..You render him childless immediately.
Abi is it not because they know they are stronger physically than girls that the Ops supporters are making mouth up and down?
Ladies just equalise by having a very sharp object handy at all times. Then we ll know what's up.

Pascalville:
really... Don't start this here pls...why will u collect money from someone...is he her father

Why should he want sex? Is she his wife?

In the voice of Don Corleone of The Godfather....' A real man always spends time with his family'..

Nice one ..

Who sai! !!
Tiwa na queen now..haba!!! See beauty, see shape, see packaging, see swagger, see konnect....

Abegi. ..Ribenna and Zobo is not the same thing..
Dem get their own market.

Abeg belle dey pain me...This my contry people sef.

Sanchez01:

No, she meant generations would call her blessed meaning, fortunate, privileged, to have carried Christ in her womb. Like I'd say to Mary lovers, there was nothing special about her from the outset because Joseph was working his way on humiliating her before an Angel of God came to enlighten him. You could use Adam Clarke's commentary to ease your understanding.

Rather than acknowledge the source, you people acknowledge the vessel that was used. Rather than worship the Origin of all, you acknowledge a piece in the story and scheme of things; a woman who later went on to conceive 'sin' like every woman in the world and had sex, just like every woman. You ask this same woman to pray for you. Thousands of people all over the world scream Hail Mary night and day, at the same time, indirectly giving her the one powerful attribute of God - Omnipresent.

Guy ur mama na vessel? If u become president tomorrow, we go call am vessel leave am for village ba? Needing a favour from the presidency and getting it from his wife or mother no concern anybody. At least you sha get what you want. Google Mary...everybody from every nation and race can not be lying..haba!! Even armed robbers and ritualists avoid people wearing the rosary cuz of wetin their eyes they see.

This led to the rosary becoming a fashion item even put on by people who don't understand it.