They transferred the husband's money to her account. So they finished the money to the extent she couldn't take the child to hospital. SMH

rezzy:



Baby things are expensive, no doubt

If the money is there, no problems,
People that don't have money, spend less than 150k.

There are cheap baby clothes to buy
Normal net bed for baby 4k in 2021 patapata 10k now
Baby cabinet, last time I bought was 17k in 2022. Patapata 30k now
Baby bath 7k in 2021 Patapata 20k

She knows her husband finance, that's why she is demanding for more money

Net bed is still around 5k-6k

fxexperts:
Baba i can never be as broke as you. and i am not broke shaming Op but the truth is op needs to learn that thing are very expensive in the market now. a baby jean now just one cost about 15k now. do you know how much children close cost ion the market now. you guys are just broke instead of you and the op to sit their wife down and talk he is here bragging like 400k is a big money. baba 400k will not be enough unless op want his wife to be using napkin for his baby, then he can cut down cost.

You are a gunny person. Talking as if we too are not buying from same nigerian market. How much are they sellijg baby jean at PEP store?

larryUG:


You are right, It is my first. The baby is yet to arrive so I may not know all the things needed like the bed. Yes people advised against getting the court that he may not likely sleep in it but then, lets just get it. My wife went to the market to buy all these with her friend and she is a very prudent person. Like she bargains more than me. As for the pump, she ordered it so it was a fixed price, could have been the brand

Even when it was my first baby, I never spent unnecessarily. Even the things we bought for the baby weren't even used. After all this spending, also know ọmụgwọ is there too coming up. Things the baby will outgrow within months.

larryUG:
Baba, I spent close to a million for my baby stuff.
What you need to understand is that baby things are generally very costly. Secondly, escalation has taken a toll on the prices of things . It seems a lot of people have not taken into account the effect of the naira losing value in the economy
I gave my wife 350K initially but she bought wasnt substantial.
She added her money and i gave her additional.
BEd alone is 170k-200k depending on the quality. Breast pump (for when your baby my not have the mum around) is 50k in the market. just these 2 items have taken 220-250K out of your 400K. now talk about feeding bottles, diapers, clothes (there are several types your baby will need), Powder/soaps, baby oils, shoes, other stuff, wardrobe alone for kids na 120K. Haba

Oga na you wan spend unnecessary money. All this things you bought, did the baby use all of them. Breast pump 50k. Many of us have babies too, the wife and mum are reaping him off forget about things being expensive.

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can the 6a go for 150k?

where in ikotun. 100k, willm pick one up on friday

Through saving and planning for the event. Any othee financial support is just an added advantage. You don't plan wedding or burial based on financial promises.

I have used the 4 of them several times. I have used train thrice but the rest is a regular. I enjoy 3 out of the 4. I hate tricycle for the way it is being driven and also when it is raining.

Nely77:
Some mothers in-law could be annoying. They are so domineering that they would want to detect for their sons in-law what should be in his own house. Showing no single respect for the person marrying your daughter. I cannot tolerate such. Meanwhile, there are some good ones who know their boundaries and respect their sons in-law. The later is always welcome!

This is exactly what i am facing now

Please how many Nigerians earn more than that 50k per month. Most people highest they earn is 100-120k. Remove 50k from that salary, plus other utility bills and tell me how much is remaining. OP still buys the bags of rice and other things in the house. Your wife is not prudent. As a wife, is she not supposed to support you with funds to increase the upkeep to 60k at least.
Some women can be selfish indeed. She works and still collect 1k transport from you. Oga if you die of HBP, life goes on. She will not die with you.

Better give yourself brain and live long for your child.

Phone of 116,200 you are calling 120k. You dey para oh

Distress sale for 700k. Nawa

Thebraveman:
Just to remind every landlord just as you have your own right over the tenants living in your house is the same way the tenants has his own right in your house. If you know you know.

Every landlord and tenant have right in a property as stated in landlord and tenant law. This rights are also mentioned in the tenancy agreements. Now, how many tenants do comply to these agreements? Tenants will not read agreements and just sign at the end of the day issues keeps arising.

Joyceaile:
Building is near completion,I have to do a through investigation before I let any any out,I don’t want police,lawyers,pastors,imams as tenants,elderly people too so I won’t be doing mummy and daddy in a house I built

Lmao. Especially those that claim man of God or alpha, they hardly pay rent. Always wants to be pitied because they serve God.

Joeadamxx:
One thing most people should note is that, most landlords were once tenants themselves. No one set out to be wicked but circumstances of the matter determines your reaction to some issues;
I am a landlord of a mini-estate comprising 9x2BR and a 3BR flats in Ajah. What I found out is that some agents although claiming to work for you as a landlord are really sympathetic and will ruin you on behalf of tenants if you are not firm and careful. My agent collected 50k per flat as service charge and gave me a bill of 137k per flat for services. As I do not live locally and the contracts were signed behind me, the tenants insists that is what they will pay. I have to pay that for a year and gave them all quit notices, now they are all now managing it themselves and paying directly to the agent and paying 150k per flat!
Also, the most vocal tenants are the ones who always owe rents. They know their rights but not their responsibilities! So many issues that in a good market, I will sell the house and spend the money on other things. The Lagos state law that tenants can owe for up to 6 months also do not help. Tenants now rent with the intent to owe subsequent rents. Most tenants also rent houses they can ill afford, especially all these yahoo boys and single girls depending on Sugar daddies to pay their rents!

Sir, lagos state landlord tenant law does not state that tenants have free 6months to live in a house. You can issue the tenant 6months notice to quit to expire with the tenancy period. Even if the rent expires and you issue the notice to quit, the tenant is supposed to pay for the 6months period you served to quit. The issue is because our legal system is very slow.

She is also a good comedian. Once I see her in a movie, she must put comedy into her acting.

Realmi:
it may not be that he was poisoned, it could be wat he eat maybe an expired food or sour food...any body that eats out most time are prone to food poisoning because we dint know the kind of water, seasoning, etc that was used to prepare the food


Na God dey save person

It could be what he ate and not that he was poisoned by someone. Food poisoning is real. Imagine that same food poisoning happened to me yesterday after eating vegetables soup (efo riro) at one restaurant in surulere. I had to rush and drank red oil before it subsided after some hours. I was rolling on the tiles crying.

vickydevoka:

Does alcohol cause kidney failure? It doesn't abeg.
Main causes of kidney failure are:
1. Salty food consumption.
2. Going to toilet late.
3. Use of some drugs.
4.not drinking much water.
5.drinking of too much caffeine
6. Too much meat consumption especially red meat.
7. Most importantly late treatment.
I'm writing from experience. My family was saying it was alcohol. Buh I hate alcohol. Once it's detected early you will well. Buh u go drink water tire. Water na de cure

Thank you for bringing this here. Some people would just be shouting alcohol like it is the major cause of kidney failure. People don't know that there are other things that causes kidney to fail. Even drugs we take do make liver fail too not to talk of kidney.

Was on my way to East, the bus AC was blasting very high na so possibly hold me. Driver no free stop oh. As I no fit endure am again, I piss for body and the nonsense AC still dry am before we reach where the driver say na official spot to stop their buses.

tightpussy156:
@ poster if you monitor those bitches you go catch cold or commit suicide.that one na the one you take your eyes see.it clear that the bobo don they Bleep your girlfriend for long.why you be maga another bobo they chop the wet wide toto blue and red.Those bitches aint loyal Bleep and pass to the next nigga.No carry there matter for head if not you go commit suicide.Even wife when you marry for house they go outside go Bleep come back pretend say nothing happen.mostof them have turn there wet pussy to national cake.so swim inside an come out,dont give a dawn who have been swimming inside,dont give a dawn who will swim when you are swimming and dont give a dawn who swim after you are done swimming.Who.quote me hug transformer.

Omo I go quote you and I no go hug transformer... this your talk na true talk oh. Woman toto no get meter, so Bleep your turn and leave am for another person to Bleep him turn. No send even if na your wife, if not you no go live long for this life. Just no send women and their wahala, live your life to the fullest till death comes.

In fact of you get opportunity, her am as you like because any style wey you don do, another person fit don do pass you

Bros that man don already Bleep your babe several times. Talking from experience. Once your instinct gives you those vibes, bros forget am. She has been bleeped and refucked

skit66:


sorry officer then pass the document to the right hand and over to her would have avoided a lot of unnecessary drama and show of power. believe it or not dealing with does men on uniforms someone has to be very careful
ever since i witness police officers killing a young bike man because of 100 naira bribe... 100naira oo money wen nor go even reah buy bread or cup of beans..... evr since den i start to avoid them by all means and i advice everyone to do thesame

My brother if it is about our police force, I avoid them like plague because many of them have been soaked in the oil of corruption, bribery and wickedness due to the power they feel they have due to the uniform and being a member of the force. Many of them are sadist as you are looking at them. They can not be trusted at anytime because their allegiance is on highest bidder.

I have had encounters with them. My issue is on the discuss on if it is good or bad to use left hand to issue things to people. To me, I see nothing wrong in it so far the person is left handed. Definitely we all know majority of humans are right handed and I feel that is why it became strange accepting someone that is left handed in our culture which dated to years ago. Had it been that most humans are left handed, the right hand would have been looked at strangely too.

These are issues albinos, also face in this world. If we talk of culture, back then when twins were killed, was it not morally right for people not to accept the birth of twins until that part of culture phased out.

I have collect things from people that uses left hand to hand it over to me without even putting mind in whether it was right or wrong. We should not be taking some trivial things too serious.

angelfallz:
I would decline your contract cheque, even if it were blank cheque. It shows you have no respect for me. It is only a hungry man that would swallow his pride to receive that contract from you. Like the saying goes a beggar has choice.
So, it is only beggars that your left handed insult would work for.

You and I know what you said is not true.

skit66:
dear op what i can sense from here is that you're a trouble some person, stubborn and you have no regard for the officer. someone told to change your hand and you refuse because you think you know your right very well and the officer is not qualified to ask you that. if it wer to be your husband, employee, visa personnel or even your pastor that asked you same thing you would have done that immediately considering it won't have effect your existence or take any thing from you... next time know when to leave peacefully with people everyone of us has different views and character.. learn how to co-exist with other humans

Still on the issue of co-existing with other humans, the OP told the officer to receive the papers with her left hand if she felt offended. That was a mutual ground of understanding for both of them to reach. So why would the officer withhold her papers because she felt offended that OP stood on her grounds.

Any body in uniform would just feel they have upper right over other people. If na money OP dash her with left hand, shey she no go collect am like that?

angelfallz:
It is rude plain and simple. Which one is liberal thinking? Unless she was handicapped at the moment

So it is in handicapped situation you will understand. So why don't you see it at that point that the person is deformed and different from other people that uses right hand. We need to have free mind with so many things we take serious in this life. I still ask, if I offer you huge contract cheque with my left hand as a left handed person, will you accept or not?

Meritocracy:
What does it takes you to change to your right hand and move on? You will just be wasted and put your family in sorrow. You're claiming your right infront of uniformed criminals.

This OP is left handed. So if in case of a handicapped person, the person has only left hand. You will not accept things from the person. Oh I forgot Nigerians are morally right people, they will say the person has only one hand. Lol.

sagod:
OP, the truth is that whereas the police officer may be seen to be a bully, but then you were rude by using left hand to hand your papers to the officer.
This is not issue of Yoruba culture. Perhaps, you need to know that it rude to either give or receive something with left hand across all cultures, and if you must unavoidably, you must be courteous enough to appeal for the other parties understanding. The reason even kids are corrected whenever they attempt to do that so they do not grow up with it.
You and your supporters will agree that you even sounded impolite, rude and showed crass arrogance and stubbornness.

I still stand that it is not rude anywhere to issue things with left hand. Then why is it not rude to use only left leg to play football? There are humans that are left handed, why would you force them to use the other hand which is your right hand in your body. The simple logic is to receive something from a left handed person with your left hand if you feel offended. Your right hand to a left handed person is his/her left hand.

We all need to be liberal with our ways of thinking. So if I come to your party with the kind money sprayed in cubana mums burial, and spray you money with left hand, you will return it? Human beings can be funny at times.

sammirano3:
And why cant you give her with right hand. Una go just dey find trouble.

This op is left handed meaning her right is her left hand. The police woman has not said what her problem was jare. So if it was money the OP was giving her for dash, she will insist on OP using right hand.

All this people that claim not to accept things given with left hand are funny. So if they offer you employment letter or contract cheque with left hand, you will demand the person uses right hand. Or I give the police woman huge money with left hand for free, she will be demanding for right hand. She is not serious at all.

This is an issue our parents are not looking into and most of these ladies don't even contribute anything when they get into the marriage. I am on this process of marriage rite after I just buried my dad two months ago, I have told my gf I will only do the best I can. I will not steal or engage in fraud because I want to do flamboyant wedding.

Imagining giving her half his salary for food upkeep plus buying most of the food items at home and she is complaining. Someone that is not contributing anything to the house except her vagina that made her pregnant.

All this people shouting 50k is not enough, how much do you people earn as salary or side hustle? Tell me how any families buys things in bulk in this country self. Once you buy things in bulk at home, that 50k should be enough for upkeep.