...and its still a big shame that their sharia laws arent targeted to people of influence.
When they (boko boys and the jambites) ask for the hands of their corrupt gov'nors,commissioners and LG chairmen which is the penalty for theft under sharia laws,then they would have my attention.

Blowing up churches cos u cant understand why a church shld exist within "muslim territory" is very petty...aim for the big guns.they exist within ur territory.
if i were a gov'nor for a day,i would send every non-indegine amputated beggar back to his/her home. if ur sharia law cuts ur hand(s) for stealing,then the same sharia law shld provide alternative means for ur sustenance and not expect u to live under the benevolence of people whose religion u call infidels...hhow the fvck do u guys reason?

hmm...a new group called JAMB?

I still wonder why these people dont wanna take their balls in their hands and declare a state of independence in the north like they did in Northern Mali,that way we would have a clear cut picture of their acts cos they still shady bout their actions

And i think its a big shame using Allah as a coverup for ur actions.are u more muslim than the muslims in Dubai and Abu dhabi?

for those clamoring for sharia laws,remember the cartoon called Aladin? His hands wld have been chopped off if not for the intervention of princess Jasmine (a woman)..go figure!!!

ROCKSTAND1:

My dear the man is the head of the home. The head never takes instructions from any part of the body. Any home where the woman reigns or where she dominates the man is not a good home. It will negatively impact the children especially the females because they'd expect their own husbands to be subservient to them as well. I have friends whose marriages are dead today simply because their wives were over bearing. One of them dumped his well paid job here in Nigeria to join his wife who ordered him to come join her raise children and do houseboy work in UK. My friend actually sent this girl to UK just to have their first baby and then she decided to stay, now they are divorced and he is back here in 9ja doing very well and even remarried. Women are just wonderful creatures, if you had your way you would open a thread on why men don't get pregnant and bear children abi?

Have u read The Audacity of Hope by Barrack Obama? The chapter under family? The then serving senator changed the diapers of malia while Michelle slept.No nigerian Man wld ever do that given such a position in this country.
its the little things that increases the bond in a family. Our parents did what they did in their time cos thats all they knew how to do. your cultrue and tradition shld be a living thing that get modified as times and society changes (the world isnt static). If u knw better,do what works for ur marriage.Pride has no place in a marriage.
how many many men today have sat their mothers down to ask her what part of the marriage she felt challenging? many men are so used to seeing women work without complaining and the minute she cries out,its seen as a sign of laziness/weakness.
Truth be told,no matter how much the ladies clamor for equal rights,we know that once the babies start coming,the bulk of the responsibilty wld still rest on the shoulder of the mum. Cos whether the man brings bacon home or not,she knows her family has to eat (or why do u think petty trade started if the men were comfortably taking care of their homes financially as they always claim they do)

many men comment bout protecting and providing financially yet i know quite a number of men whose wife pays partly/fully the rents, takes up either dstv/fuel bills,clothing for the kids sometimes,etc...how much do all men earn that they brag bout their financial role?

yet whether u earn a monthly paycheck or not (salary workers),whether u look for contracts and u find or not, ualways expect a home cooked meal,neat appartment and a home u can go to,yet all she asks for is assistance...not thats shes tranfering her responsibiliies permanatly to u...

Petraman: Beside this, if u continue helping ur wife, and either ur friend or family see u doing such chores, they'll take u as a fool, dat u've been given charms. Whenever dis happens, u feel embarrassed

thats strange,a grown-a$s man is bothered bout people think bout now he runs his home wif his wife?

do u all know that President Obama changed malia's diapers when michelle slept sometimes, and we all wonder why their love is so enviously strong?

http: You make ur home the way you want it to be, every home is different, so pls leave White people out of this cos when u talk about family, everone here know that they have failed 100%, they have nothing to emulate regard family values and all of those divorce will come out.

There is no equality between a man and a woman, you can't compare a man and woman together, compare a man to another man, likewise woman.
Our roles and responsibilities are different, the day you stick to that rules, the better things work out. May be you should ask yourself why men die before female mostly in marriages.... Its a must men must provide, protect, guide and bear the brunt on the relationship...

if u know this,then why wld he come and nag bout going stuff at home for the benefit of his own family?
he obviously isnt used to doing stuff around the house.

dear mothers,the earlier u integrate ur sons into domestic living from their early childhood,the fewer such posts make front page on NL..

lukaino: To start with, my responsibility as the head of the family is to provide for the family regardless of whatever my wife makes(A woman's money is a woman's money), also, it is my duty to spend time to think about how to ensure that the family as a whole moves forward- i do this when she's busy with the domestic chores. Also, as Africans, domestic chores is meant to be a woman's duty which she does with pride, teaching her daughters also. Growing up, i can't remember seeing my father wash dishes , sweep or wash clothes; the guy spent his time providing for the family to the point of ensuring that my mother does not have anything to do with providing for anyone. This is African and thats what the outside world finds amazing with us.
I am not an advocate of working the woman whom i love to death; thats why i take out some very strong tasks for myself sometimes; for this i deserve nothing but appreciation(for over stepping my boundaries )

africa aint nig, speak for ur country!

what type of chores are u afraid of doing?
since farming is almost a thing of the past,what does the son do while the daughter is helping mum?

and when the mum has all sons,she has to hire househelps (human being) to do what her own sons (super humans) shldnt do cos of tradition and culture?

HARDDON:

Huh?

Return here after your soulful expedition and Ask ♏ԑ dis same question when you suddenly wake up oηε ♏☺r♌ing with ballzz inbtw your legs.

Not until den, d man remains d head of the family just as christ is d head of d church .

He has bin saddled ωiƒ the responsibility of providing, protecting and generally seeing to d well being of d bunch.

Dis doesn't sound like rocket science , does it?

If i may ask, what exactly r you trying to propose? The woman take over d breadwinner role? And den she turns around tomorrow and tell him to his face that he is not man enuf? Jeez Fellis.

Like i said ealier on, dnt secret too Much estrogen' in dis case deawie. It aint gono help Ʊ .

one doesnt have to grow balls to know whats its like to be a man.

a woman's money has never been 100% percent hers and you know this! if she marries u and answers ur last name,by all means pls live up to ur role as the husband. now if shes married to u and she splits the financial cost of running the home wif u,then u shld split the efforts in running your home...

the whites hardly kep domestic helps (unlike nig)cos both the man and woman jointly run the home cos at the end,the home is theirs not the husband's or wife'.

if u lived abroad,you wldnt make such comments!

hmm...im deeply impressed by Hussein's actions but was this done before or after his death?

but whats the islams prerogative on this?
is it because it was blood used or cos its Saddam's blood used to write the qur'an?
if all the muslims here use their blood to re-write the qur'an,wld the news make front page?
is there a law that guides who has the right to re-write the qur'an and with what material? (blood)
is this new qur'an holier than the already existing one or just a reason to make tourist attraction?

well,before i'm abused by the fanatics here,pls answer the questions first..

na wa..i havent even started reading the thread and 60% of the comments are hidden..
hide my post too biko...

the madness the Hausa's did to the Igbo's in the 60's is same as the one they are now doing to themselves under the umbrella of BH...i wonder what the S/W wld do if the screw in their brain loosens and they decide to give em a taste of the action...

look at the bigger pix here,even in NL,are we united talkless of the entity called Nig?

CyberG:

You don't know anything about me so don't pretend like you do. I will NEVER meet you in real life and could care less about your existence even if I did. If you want to talk to the Yorubas go and do that, I do NOT claim to speak for them. However, I speak with FACTS: The SS states hate biafra first before anything else and that is why they fought on the Nigerian side. After the war, they would NEVER even let you back in your so-called property till tomorrow or is there NO abandoned property again? The Yoruba you say hates you gave you your properties back with rent collected on your behalf paid in FULL, I don't claim to speak for them. If you have contrary evidence, SHOW IT HERE.

As per oil, there is oil in several states of Nigeria, Lagos, Ondo, Kogi, Edo, Rivers, Bayelsa, etc and the little in iboland will not even be significant. Also, you will either have to refine and use it all in iboland because there's no way you will lay pipes outside biafra land or load it into any tanker for export. These are facts. Life is about making decisions, you only make YOUR own and others make theirs. You can do anything you like in biafra, within the agreement of secession (if it ever comes) but you can never question others (Nigeria) on their own decision. Just like ojuku made his decision and cried later, he still remains responsible for that decision and its consequences including the killing of 3 M ibos. You can't blame someone else for your decisions or expect them to feed you or cloth you after you have made your choice.

your definition of facts is funny...do u think its only Biafra that wanted/wants to secede? the north are tired of power not being in their people hence BH, Ogonni just declared some funny indepedence months back. many Nigerians have outrightly said Nigeria shld split in two if Boko Haram dont want peace...

and as for secession agreement, make me laugh in ur local language...do u think we are living in the '30's? Wake up,we are in a new millennium and counting. No one lives a slavery mentality ok.

i asked before and im asking again, if BH or any tribe declares independence, wld u pick up arms to fight for our umity like our fathers did in the past?

obicentlis:
My dear, you don't really feel what's happening in Naija. Am not a supporter of secession but Nigeria is already divided along tribal and religious lines. It can't be corrected anymore. A lot of injustices if you are from another tribe. Nigeria is already divided in our mind and if that could bring peace,lets confederate. That's the best.

we really are...we are only acting civil on the outside.

i served in crossriver and its shocking to say they have 150 indigineous languages and they identify their own by language. they dont see one as a Cross Riverian but by the tribe he comes from.
even an akwa ibom man wld take offense if called a calabar man yet,the two states were one and same before they were divided.

from the history of the bible, language was used as a dividing factor when God wanted to disrupt the tower of babel...language really is a powerful tool.

The US and Uk and any other world power are strong on the world front cos they share a common language...Nigeria cant boast of that.
The only way forward is for us to look inward and accept ourselves and unite despite our diversity.

CyberG: I think the judges should do justice to this case, so let us see. In my opinion though, let the ibos secede but their will be conditions which will NOT be negotiable:

1. Every ibo man will NOT have access or be allowed to live anywhere else that is current Nigeria, except iboland: Anambra, Imo, Enugu, Abia, Ebonyi. They shall have ONLY 3 months to relocate to iboland. Every ibo who is not will be in contravention of secession agreement, will be liable for grave penalty, treason, become a legitimate target which includes capital punishment with all other options on the table.

2. They will be responsible for their local debts to banks, etc in their new country

3. If Nigeria is NOT good enough now, it WILL NOT be good enough for them later on ANYTHING, so no access to Nigeria's ports, airspace, oil reserves not on iboland, coast, currency, etc.

4. There will be NO economic cooperation with it and ANY parts of Nigeria.

5. Their military will be limited to 50,000 or a number as deemed fit by agreement at secession. Like Iran and other states, they shall not be allowed to make or buy heavy weapons, nuclear technology, etc.

6. There shall be an international body (including representatives from Nigeria) to monitor their compliance to 5 above.

7. Any break to the agreement will be met with BLUNT, BRUTAL FORCE that is not aimed at correction as Nigeria will not waste any efforts or resources bogged down in a stupid war over a land less than the size of Benue State. Also, Nigeria shall maintain permanent military bases, missile shields, and forward operating bases in Cross River, Akwa Ibom, Rivers, Delta, Edo, Benue and Kogi States. Nigeria will also assemble new military divisions to be stationed off the Atlantic coasts with a fleet of aircraft carriers, battleships. Dive bombers and heavy bombers shall be stationed in all states mentioned above. Drones shall be allowed to roam biafran skies and fly at not less than 18,000 ft.

8. The agreement shall remain in perpetuity and immutable for NOT less than 100,000 years!

sir,its too early in the morning to sound drunk...

but on the topic of UFO, how do we know it is one cos i know i keep seeing new species of creatures..

do we wait for the US to declare it a UFO or give it a name then it becomes part of us

babseg:

the next one is googleplex

if u doubt it check it up

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Googleplex

i guess that answers the question...

real2fix: Pls i no go skul..... help me say dis fig in word 5973600000000000000000000kg and help me multiply am by 2 which is twice d earth and multiply d final answer by $50 million which will yeild the total amount of this planet...
5973600000000000000000000kg ....my God is rich ooooo...just help wit dis calculation

dont worry,the same people who came up wif the word/figure for Million,Billion,Trillion..etc wld definitely come up wif a new set

Billyonaire:
I am not frustrated at all. I do not expect many people to understand Astrophysics very much cos in Nigeria we actually study much of what brings quick bucks and not what ignites the brainwaves.

yea,i also love brainstorming too thats why ur ccomments got my attention!!!!!
i guess our generation would also be likened to the "stone age" for future generations...

The world might end metaphorically and wif it usher in a new Age...i really wonder what it brings?

remember people we use like 1% of our brains compared to Eienstein who used 10%...the possibilities of the brain and mind are endless...

Billyonaire: That can be handled. What can be done is to load our usual rocket with a nuclear powered vehicle and also use the usual rocket fuel to launch a nuclear powered vehicle on board the rocket to space, when out of the Earth's atmosphere the secondary nuclear powered intergalactic vehicle lifts off from the rocket on the journey. All the heat dissipated will never find way into our planet.

are u a scientist living in Nigeria? cos if yes,im sure u must be pretty frustrated wif the level of her science and tech...

donigspain:
Below has been my stance of argument:
*It is IMPOSSIBLE for man to build a vehicle that will travel 14,600 times faster than light.
*No earthly material can withstand such speed & at such electromagnetic fields without ending up ionized.
NB: I advice u keep silent & watch from d sideline if u don't have a valid scientific opinion to contribute. Pls we're in an intellectual discuss here.

did u ever believe that cloning of life cld be possible?
did u ever believe that a heart transplant cld be possible too?
Did Walt Disney believe 3D movies and cartoons was posibble when 2D (toy story) came out?
did nostradamus believe that air crafts and submarines cld be possible? yet he saw them and called them iron bird and iron ship...

As they say,this world ends this year...lets hope the new world bring wif it knowlegde into the cure to Aids,Cancer,the invention of a time travel machine..etc

i know UFO's exist..i just believe they've been inside their closet the same way Gay people have been...

Billyonaire: I have concrete proofs of the existence of Aliens and I will rather not go there, cos it will become a subject of religious debate which will set this thread on fire due to extremism. Someone can open a thread on UFO then we can have all the proofs we need. And I can assure you, a lot of people will lose their belief system but for now, lets stay with the diamond planet that requires 300,000,000 x 60 x 60 x 365 x 40 = [......] to get there. And what machine can be used to even attain this speed and even faster.

i like how u reason and i'll be looking out for ur views in future threads and topics...

onyxo76: If aluu people didn't kill those boys then who did? Am very sure they know all the killers by name so they had better expose them. Honestly those people must be out of their minds demanding for the cheifs release.this issue is far from being over so they had better give those killers up now. Already boyz are warming up for more attacks just wait and see. Useless people and rubbish nigeria police.

if he isnt released freely,i bet u, boko haram wld bomb the prison and set both him and other cell mates free...

This country is fvcked...

what i dont get is how a village in PH cld be run buy a man called Alhaji Hassan Walewa...when Boko Haram strikes in Ph,im sure u all wld see that they have a base there...the more u look,the more u see and the less u understand!

because the authorities here turn a blind eye to sex abuse here, Nig think it is same anywhere in the world?

i hope he and his wife are able to release their own book so we can compare notes and facts when they are out in 2022 and 2027 respectively...

Toktee: Igbo man will do anything to get quick money and this is another means,i dont know weather am the only person smelling this

yea,u are truly the weather...very sunny weather!

learn from them and stop bickering on here...

bymigokeph: shun dis tori! naija dey speak french, hw she manage write d book in french. bad bele go b bad bele. afta polishing her. dose she look like an enslaved. Naija every body 1 make am fast. if am lying den make d book b free so d poor & co-enslaved can afford.
Soon na election she go 1t contest 4 Naija in name of i was enslved in france so VOTE TO STOP MODEN SLAVERY. USE UR HEAD OOOOOOOOO. NO DIS IS NAIJA NOT FRN

hmm,if reading and understanding is ur problem,pls borrow Brighter Grammar from ur neighbors son...didnt u read where they said she was in france andthe book was written in french and latter translated to english?

no matter how u guys wanna twist the story, the nigger is serving a 10yr jail term...go figure!!!

in nigeria, the guy wld have been a walking legend...how many times have we heard Nig "celebrities" been arrested by the police?

This goes to show why many nigerians wld never believe in the our justice system and jungle justice wld always continue...

Rooneyboy: Acidosis pls take note : Nigerian couple ---not couples.

Back to topic---that is what marriage is all about,

Critically speaking the woman looks like a bag of rice, so one could understand the man's frustration.

...and everyone can understand ur stu.pidity!
I believe ur mum is still as slim as ur current gf...

francescainnoce: if only [b]the likes of her wil atleast forfeit a litle percent of dir income [/b]in aprehending the stupid foolish youths of ALUU and give justice to those guys....then i wil atleast knw wats dir value....u see all dis celebrities ith dir funky funky largge lives...God wil judge

people like u always love to feed on bad news or ur day isnt complete.
Where were u on the day of Allu killing that genny being in miami is a crime for God to judge?

Everything doesnt bore down or circulate round money ok...after all,ur parents also give u an allowance so make good use of a lil percent for it.

If ur comment cant relate to the topic,check urself...

nyameke: most of you have been so brainwashed that when you hear or see the word END in any prediction or prophesies all you think about is destruction, wars, end of the world bs. END does not equal or indicate DESTROY and could mean anything. In our case the DEC.21 2012 AD 11:11GMT end is just the end of a human era and another one will be ushered in. the earth is not getting destroyed on DEC 21 just the end of an human era or period. The next era will see mankind do amazing and mind blowing stuff which would have been considered impossible in this current era.

although im not conversant wif this Mayan prophesy, i get ur point.
There was the industrial era which ushered in iron birds (planes) and iron fishes (submarines)...etc
End dont just mean full stop...as they say,they end of something is the begining of another.
I do hope the new era brings wif it the cure to Cancer,Aids,Poverty,ozone depletion...etc
Why do i have a sick feeling the Dynasty of America wld crumble wif it....? i guess its time for a new world power!