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“Nobody wins when the family feuds”

JAY-Z is set to release yet another music video off his “4:44” album. This one is for “Family Feud” and he features his wife, Beyonce and first child Blue Ivy on this one.

In the 30-second teaser, the Carter family is at a church, JAY-Z sitting in a confessional with Beyonce on the other end. An unidentified man and woman were also seen kissing.


The video will be released exclusively on TIDAL later today.

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Tonto Dikeh’s sister celebrates Churchill Olakunle on his birthday, addresses those criticizing her for it

Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh’s sister, Tatiana Dikeh came under fire yesterday after she wished her ex husband, Olakunle Churchill a happy birthday.....

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Adegbenro7643:
Dez una ladies, una no dey eye guys outside ur office ni

The fact dat u once turned him down made me feel speechless. Who suppose hug am?

Real men don't like trying gals again & again,,,,to avoid embarrassment

Yes it's, but might not be doing it intentionally

Preetiex:
hunt in future? he barges into their bedroom dat is bullshit

But what if it has not done on him yet that his younger brother is married? mind you he is not married yet and might probably still(unconsciously) looking at them as boy friend and gal friend. Just my thut

Geosystem:
well you said ' might' . well methink its not normal for someone to just bash into a matrimonial room without knocking on the door , or better yet wait for the husband to come out from the room before you discuss whatever you want to discuss. the behaviour of that so-called brother is uncool and suspicious

habsydiamond:
Only in Indian films oooo

opportunity lost, sometimes cannot be gotten again

ubunja:
you are not shy. you are just a coward.
face your insecurities and woman up and do the needful

It’s time to claim the love you deserve, ladies!

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Dear Lively Stones,

I have a serious problem and I need your help. My name is Angela and I am 33 years old. I work in an Insurance company and I am doing very well for myself. The problem I have is that there is this guy in my office that I like but I am too shy to tell him. His name is Redo (not real name please). Redo is my junior in the office but he is very resourceful on the job and friendly too.

The problem really is that he is too friendly with ladies in the office. He is jokingly called the ladies man and that is why I am shy to tell him that I am attracted to him. In November,he asked me out and I turned him down. I know,yikes,what was I thinking right?

I thought saying yes immediately was going to make me look too cheap and easy.....Read More


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GraGra247:
Abeg raise your voice joor,if those two baby adults can't behave themselves and tell what is proper and improper.

Elder brother from hell.

thanks, her reaction was not out of place

Might not be totally correct

Geosystem:
that man wants to see your unclad body, and he derives pleasure in that. Pick up the advice of those above me. ensure that the door is always under lock and key.

Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are Unclad or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

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Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

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Considering how important s*x seems to be for marriage; it is amazing how afraid people are to engage in honest adult conversations about s*x. But for a component that’s such a major part of marriage, it’s foolish to not discuss it.

There are three very distinct s*x conversations that need to be had regardless; and all three need to be discussed before crossing that bridge.

Consider these discussions a part of getting to know each other and communicating...Read More


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True talk my dear

donstan18:
She's married, She's yet to divorce.

Stay off a married woman, don't allow yourself to be the reason for their broken home when you re not suppose to be.

Stay clear!!!!
Her husbands beats her up, what do you think that her husband will be capable of doing to you.


Use your head, stop digging our grave.


She's till married until proven single with a divorce attempt.

Be careful

Dear Lively Stones,

I am a divorcee of 48 years old. I have been divorced for almost five years now and I am thinking of moving on to finally settle down with another woman.

I have been dating a few ladies but non of them catch my fancy. There is a lady however,whom I have been very friendly with. Her name is Constance and she is married to a man that treats her very badly. The man beats her,sleeps with other women and does not sleep with her. She has moved out of the man’s house but they are yet to start the divorce proceedings.

Constance is a very beautiful lady whom I find very attractive. Shes been responding to me since we met and we have actually made love once but I said we wont do that again until shes divorced properly. Now,every time I ask her what is delaying her divorce,her response is not always satisfactory. She will say things like,I am praying to God to direct me on the right decision. I have asked her if she wants the man again and she denies that every time. She keeps asking me to be patient with her. That if I want s*x,she is ready anytime. I know she loves me,we spend quite a lot of time together. She is my idea of a perfect wife but this her indecisiveness to finalize her divorce is giving me cause for worry.

I would like to get married soon,should I wait for her or move on?Secondly,is it okay to keep smashing her after all......Read More

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It could be addiction

MrBrownJay1:
is this blogger a novice or what?!? gay porn is watched by gay men.....EOD!

How?

habsydiamond:
I know but if legalised it may open room for rape

JESUSBOIY:
there is a difference between homosexuality and Rape! Been gay doesn't automatically make one a rapist.

JESUSBOIY:
The man is gay simple. He had to settle for a woman because of the stigma and anti gay law in Nigeria. The wife is a cover up!

Wow! On point my broda, this makes a lot of sense

alexialin:
The sentence women are just like igbo got me laughing so hard, lol

Oh Lord.

My dear in this life, a better choice always comes up. You cant blame her for sucking another dude, because that dude she was sucking is her bf back then. And she can't just drop her bf, cos one guy is determined to woo her 4years!
You sef check am nah

Most babes with boyfriends, guys do woo them. So u can't tell me they should drop their existing bf to any guy who comes up to show interest. That Wil be highly gross and unfair to the existing bf. You sef won't like it nah, if your gf dump your assz or start cheating on you with any guy who is wooing steadily for 4years . You will say women are hoes . She did the right thing, stuck and stayed faithful to her bf, ignoring the 4years wooing bobo .

Which is normal and ideal but unfortunately at the end, her bf fucvked up. Which is not out of the ordinary.

Now, this guy now is behaving like Jagaban.

Abeg bust his Assz jor!

Better bobo will come, and this time no dulling.

Fear of the unknown is what's killing some people.

I Wil tell the babe, no fear! Whatever will be, will be.. Don't short change your happiness. If I were she, I won't even date the 4years wooing bobo. Cause I know, him coming back will not be pure. He go one do e own back.

Which is true.

LivelyStones:
Are you insinuating he is after her money?

money command a lot, especially with the economy

LivelyStones:
hmnnn, you want to cause world war 3

Same here

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Dear Fans,Friends and ambassadors of Lively Stones,we wish you all a very Merry Christmas.

Here’s praying that you will continue to stand with us to change the narrative on marriages and relationships. Marriage and healthy relationships requires faith,love,patience and hard work…thank you for believing with us.


Merry Christmas from our Team to all of you,we love you!



Jzhane.

Nice one, but what if he is gay? hope this will not affect the marriage some how, some day? ma'am you just have to pray and dont kill yourself

Romanic:
To be candid,if your husband does not want to talk about it,then you better not get high blood pressure on the matter.
Its something he needs to deal with. My only concern is: is it affecting your marriage in any way?
Your husband has an addiction,its until he realises it,he is the only one who can decide he needs help to overcome the addiction\
You…you just love him all the same…same way you over a sick spouse and pray that they get the help they need soonest
Get on your knees too and start praying for him

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Dear Admin,

I dont know if I should be worried but recently I discovered my husband has a huge load of gay porn videos on his phone.

I usually do not go through my husband of eight months phone but a few day ago,he left his phone when he went to the Mechanic. The phone is passworded but he called me from the Mechanic to get a buyer’s no from the phone he forgot so he gave me his password.
After I gave him the number,I was just curious and began to go through his phone gallery,I just wanted to see pictures he has. I saw quite a few pictures that I know of,but then,I saw one picture of a naked guy. I was like,maybe he downloaded it by mistake. It was when I clicked on his video collection that I discovered he has quite a number of porn videos and all of them are gay videos.
I was so shocked. I was alarmed and as soon as he got home,i asked him why he has all these videos. To my surprise...Read More

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amakadihot87:
Just ignore.......d way am ignoring mine now......life is too short o

ubunja:
what does a 26yr old young man want with a 38 yr old granny someone who in 2yrs will be 40? what the actual fvck??
his friends have betrayed him by not saving him from this predator of a woman.no granny can use sex to brainwash a friend of mine.i would do everything in my power to stop this improper unbalanced unhealthy union.
why do young men of today lack standards?not everything with a pvssy is wife material.
dude must be dating gals YOUNGER than him. gals between 19 and 22.but he is busy making plans to marry a fossil. and for what? easy sex? is sex worth that much? once she hits 40 she wont be able to give u kids. the best u can squeeze from her is 1 kid. when she reaches 50 you are fresh at 38.c'mon what kind of pvssywhipping is this?? cant u get gals your age? smh.
the boy is stupid X 100 000 000 000 000 000.

nice one, i agree totally with you.But been abandon for 2 years not easy ooo

Rosarie:
u want to become baby mama 2.u lack self control and that is the truth.how can u allow such discussions in the first place.u re just sex starved and what u guys have is lust.betterbstop this rubbish talk and cut him off.u re like a senior sis to him

Lol

pedrilo:
him eye never clear

Jzhane 24/12/2017 Ask Jzhane, Dating 1 Comment

Dear Lively Stones.

I decided to ask this question as I perceive your platform is a no judgement zone.I am a thirty eight year old single mother. I have a four year old son. His father has moved on.For almost two years,I haven’t dated anyone.

Recently,my neighbor’s younger brother finished NYSC and moved to Lagos for greener pastures.


Casper is a nice looking young man who is always willing to assist me with stuff like putting on my generator or lifting heavy stuff from my car to my apartment.

We hung out in my apartment one day,he stayed with me all day,It was a public holiday if I remember. The gist got to girls who can knock out guys with s*x. He boasted that no girl could do that to him. Well,we dared each other and we slept with each other.

Since that day,we have been sleeping with each other as we both find it hard to resist the attraction.

I wanted to put a stop to this but Casper would not hear of it. He says he loves me and would want to marry me. He is 26 years old. He has said he would get his apartment once he gets his first job so we can be together. But when that will be,I dont know. He is fresh from school with no job and he is almost 12 years younger.

My greatest fear is if his....Read More


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my sister you are a lady ooo, agreed he must have had it with her.and his persistence was to prove a point not because he really loves her

Amarabae:
No be only you sabi do shakara.
He must have had sex with you and is now Wondering if the 4years wooing stress was worth it

ubunja: