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 Romance › Re: He Wants To Take Things Slow: After Chasing Me For Almost Four Years by ORAGBON(op): 9:38pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
hmnnn, why pay evil for evil? onwuakpachris: |
| Family › Happy Ending: How To Get Your Wife Back After A Separation... by ORAGBON(op): 12:54pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
Many couples have been separated because of issues that could have been settled if there was a chance. Sad to say, some couples are very impulsive in making decisions. They make decisions when they feel angry. As a consequence, they come up with decisions that they would later regret. A divorce or separation is not the answer to marital problems. When problems arise and it seems like there’s no hope at all, couples should give themselves time to think things over before making any drastic decisions. One sign of remorse is the feeling of wanting your spouse back after a separation. You still feel within how much you value your wife/ husband. You want to give your love another chance. Sometimes, you can get back what you have lost but more often than not, you can no longer get them back. If you think there’s still hope for you it might be helpful to read some tips and instructions on how to get your wife back after a separation. Pay attention to the following list:....Read More www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Re: He Wants To Take Things Slow: After Chasing Me For Almost Four Years by ORAGBON(op): 12:48pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
haba make una take am easy with the lady naaa, she didnt do it intentionally apholaryn: 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: My Mother In Law Wants Me To Sleep With Another Man by ORAGBON(op): 10:27am On Dec 23, 2017 |
ubunja:okay naa |
| Romance › He Wants To Take Things Slow: After Chasing Me For Almost Four Years by ORAGBON(op): 10:24am On Dec 23, 2017 |
Dear Jzhane, Please help a sister out! There is this guy that has been chasing me for close to four years now. When he started toasting me, I wasnt interested for a couple of reasons. I was not ready to settle down as I was just out of a bad break up. Secondly,I wanted to concentrate on my masters degree. Finally,I wasnt sure how serious he was. Well,in August this year,I finally agreed to date him. He is nice,gentle and very understanding hence,I introduced him to my mom. All was going fine until the beginning of this month We were at a dinner when I told him that I noticed that he has not been calling as frequently as before. I told him that he also does not respond to my whatsapp message on time. He then responded by saying he is busy at work and that if I am going to be nagging him like this,maybe we should take it slow. I was like,what do you mean,and he goes he dosent like women putting pressure on him. After that dinner...see more www.livelystones.com.ng 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: 12 Crucial Pieces Of Marriage Advice You Shouldn’t Ignore by ORAGBON(op): 5:20pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
ORAGBON:Don’t play the blame game— it’s not worth it. Make sure you take responsibility when you’re wrong, apologize, forgive and move on. Men and women work differently Men like to fix things, and women need to be listened to. The sooner you can figure out how your spouse needs to feel love, the happier your marriage will be. Work to fix every problem— even the small ones Fix the small problems before they become big ones. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 5:17pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
| Romance › Re: My Mother In Law Wants Me To Sleep With Another Man by ORAGBON(op): 1:47pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
Nice one! Sometimes people think they are wiser than others JONNYSPUTE: |
| Family › 12 Crucial Pieces Of Marriage Advice You Shouldn’t Ignore by ORAGBON(op): 1:17pm On Dec 22, 2017*. Modified: 10:33pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
When you got married, you probably heard endless pieces of marriage advice. You were told not to go to bed angry, you were told to give each other 100 percent and I can almost guarantee you were told the first year would be the hardest. While all of this advice is valuable, there are other things you need to know about tying the knot. Going to bed happy isn’t going to carry you all the way through your marriage, so here are 12 more pieces of advice you shouldn’t ignore:...see more http://livelystones.com.ng/12-crucial-pieces-marriage-advice-shouldnt-ignore/ |
| Romance › 12 Crucial Pieces Of Marriage Advice You Shouldn’t Ignore by ORAGBON(op): 1:06pm On Dec 22, 2017*. Modified: 10:33pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
When you got married, you probably heard endless pieces of marriage advice. You were told not to go to bed angry, you were told to give each other 100 percent and I can almost guarantee you were told the first year would be the hardest. While all of this advice is valuable, there are other things you need to know about tying the knot. Going to bed happy isn’t going to carry you all the way through your marriage, so here are 12 more pieces of advice you shouldn’t ignore:....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/12-crucial-pieces-marriage-advice-shouldnt-ignore/ 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › My Mother In Law Wants Me To Sleep With Another Man by ORAGBON(op): 12:20pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
Dear Jzhane, Please advise me. I am totally confused,and I dont know what to do. I have been married for almost four years now. We have been trying to conceive since we got married but it is yet to happen. Last Year,after plenty arguments,my husband and I started fertility treatments. During the process,one if the tests showed that my husband has zero sperm count. That means,he does not produce sperm,that means he cannot father a child. We were both heart broken and we started looking at other options we could acquire to help us have children. We were looking to adopt and we had started looking into the possibility when my mother in law invited me to see her in Owerri. I went to see her and she told me not to adopt another man’s child when I can still have my own. She said that there is nothing like having your own child. That the adopted child will never feel like your own especially when they grow up and begin to ask questions I was wondering how she meant we should have our own child when it was clear that my husband,her son is impotent. It was at that point that my dear mother in-law told me that she has a plan for me to have our own child if I....see more www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › My Mother In Law Wants Me To Sleep With Another Man by ORAGBON(op): 12:06pm On Dec 22, 2017*. Modified: 9:27pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Dear Jzhane, Please advise me. I am totally confused,and I dont know what to do. I have been married for almost four years now. We have been trying to conceive since we got married but it is yet to happen. Last Year,after plenty arguments,my husband and I started fertility treatments. During the process,one if the tests showed that my husband has zero sperm count. That means,he does not produce sperm,that means he cannot father a child. We were both heart broken and we started looking at other options we could acquire to help us have children. We were looking to adopt and we had started looking into the possibility when my mother in law invited me to see her in Owerri. I went to see her and she told me not to adopt another man’s child when I can still have my own. She said that there is nothing like having your own child. That the adopted child will never feel like your own especially when they grow up and begin to ask questions I was wondering how she meant we should have our own child when it was clear that my husband,her son is impotent. It was at that point that my dear mother in-law told me that she has a plan for me to have our own child if I....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/my-mother-in-law-wants-me-to-sleep-with-another-man/ 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 5:32pm On Dec 21, 2017 |
He will forgive and not talk about it again LivelyStones: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: 5 Signs He Wants To Get Away From You But Doesn’t Know How To Tell You by ORAGBON(op): 5:29pm On Dec 21, 2017 |
hmnnn Olifiz: |
| Romance › 5 Signs He Wants To Get Away From You But Doesn’t Know How To Tell You by ORAGBON(op): 12:15pm On Dec 21, 2017 |
Whether it’s someone you’re dating, friends with, or even a spouse, sometimes it is hard to be direct. While women tend to be pretty good at being subtle, men often use the art of subtlety to try and tell you something in a less-direct way. If you notice any of these five signs coming from your man, be warned – it may be his way of trying to get away from you....see more www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Re: Ladies: How To Know When He Is Emotionally Unavailable by ORAGBON(op): 11:04am On Dec 21, 2017*. Modified: 10:15pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
 Romanic:You get word for mouth shaa my brother. Pls don't discourage anybody here |
| Romance › Ladies: How To Know When He Is Emotionally Unavailable by ORAGBON(op): 11:23pm On Dec 20, 2017*. Modified: 10:15pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Meeting a good guy who’s actually unattached can be exciting. But looks can be deceiving. He might be single, but that doesn’t mean he’s available. Even if he has no girlfriend and some free time, that doesn’t mean he has room for you. So here are five early signs he’s emotionally unavailable....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/recognize-emotionally-unavailable/ |
| Romance › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 10:34pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
i concur LivelyStones: |
| Family › How Keeping Secrets Can Destroy Your Relationship by ORAGBON(op): 6:10pm On Dec 20, 2017*. Modified: 10:20pm On Jan 17, 2018 |
Many people tell me they keep secrets from their partner because they think telling the truth will make things worse. Or they believe that their significant other simply couldn’t handle the truth and that it might end the relationship. For instance, Kerry never told Brad that she was married briefly in her early 20s even though they’ve been dating for over a year. She explains: “I don’t really see a reason to tell Brad because it was a brief marriage and we ended on good terms. I just don’t want him to judge me harshly because he was raised Catholic.” When I attempted to explore with Kerry the distinct possibility that Brad might find out someday — especially if they decide to get married — Kerry said: “We’ll cross that bridge when we come to it.” At this point, I asked Kerry to consider that mistrust erodes the quality of any relationship and that keeping important secrets isn’t a way to build trust with a romantic partner. Recent research shows that one in five people are keeping a major secret, such as infidelity or money troubles, from their spouse. Surprisingly, a quarter of respondents in this study said they kept this secret for more than 25 years. Further, one in four of those people who kept a secret in this study said that it was so big, they worried that it would destroy their marriage. Common secrets reported include money troubles, pornography and various forms of betrayal such as infidelity. While trust is an essential element of an intimate relationship, it can be easily broken and hard to repair. When your partner withholds important information from you regardless of their reasons, it’s normal to feel betrayed. For many people any form of deceit can be a deal breaker. For example, Leah, a 29-year-old occupational therapist explains: “Trust and communication are major difficulties for me. It takes a lot to build my trust and if it’s broken, there’s a possibility it may not be earned back.” According to author Kristen Houghton, relationships are made up of many components and people will put up with many quirks to keep a relationship going. She writes: “But if you are consistently made to feel uncomfortable or uneasy because you feel as if you cannot trust your partner, then making the decision not to take him or her back is the logical one for you. Life needs quality and a sense of security.” In other words, by keeping secrets or lying to your partner, you run the risk that you will lose their trust and put your relationship in jeopardy. Five reasons why it’s a good idea not to keep secrets:....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/keeping-secrets-can-destroy-relationship/ 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › How Keeping Secrets Can Destroy Your Relationship. by ORAGBON(op): 6:00pm On Dec 20, 2017*. Modified: 9:31pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Many people tell me they keep secrets from their partner because they think telling the truth will make things worse. Or they believe that their significant other simply couldn’t handle the truth and that it might end the relationship. For instance, Kerry never told Brad that she was married briefly in her early 20s even though they’ve been dating for over a year. She explains: “I don’t really see a reason to tell Brad because it was a brief marriage and we ended on good terms. I just don’t want him to judge me harshly because he was raised Catholic.” When I attempted to explore with Kerry the distinct possibility that Brad might find out someday — especially if they decide to get married — Kerry said: “We’ll cross that bridge when we come to it.” At this point, I asked Kerry to consider that mistrust erodes the quality of any relationship and that keeping important secrets isn’t a way to build trust with a romantic partner. Recent research shows that one in five people are keeping a major secret, such as infidelity or money troubles, from their spouse. Surprisingly, a quarter of respondents in this study said they kept this secret for more than 25 years. Further, one in four of those people who kept a secret in this study said that it was so big, they worried that it would destroy their marriage. Common secrets reported include money troubles, pornography and various forms of betrayal such as infidelity. While trust is an essential element of an intimate relationship, it can be easily broken and hard to repair. When your partner withholds important information from you regardless of their reasons, it’s normal to feel betrayed. For many people any form of deceit can be a deal breaker. For example, Leah, a 29-year-old occupational therapist explains: “Trust and communication are major difficulties for me. It takes a lot to build my trust and if it’s broken, there’s a possibility it may not be earned back.” According to author Kristen Houghton, relationships are made up of many components and people will put up with many quirks to keep a relationship going. She writes: “But if you are consistently made to feel uncomfortable or uneasy because you feel as if you cannot trust your partner, then making the decision not to take him or her back is the logical one for you. Life needs quality and a sense of security.” In other words, by keeping secrets or lying to your partner, you run the risk that you will lose their trust and put your relationship in jeopardy. Five reasons why it’s a good idea not to keep secrets:....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/keeping-secrets-can-destroy-relationship/ |
| Romance › She Saw Pictures Of Me Messing Up But Nothing Happened by ORAGBON(op): 5:43pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
My girlfriend and I were having so much issues last September.We then decided to take it cool. During that time,I went to town. Maybe I was trying to drown my pain . So I went after alot of women. I did some things that I am not proud of. During the time,I hung out with my ex and a few friends. But I didnt really have s*x with any of them I got back with my girlfriend early this month of December. We both realized we love each other so much. I missed her that period. I was so happy we got back that I proposed to her last weekend. It was a beautiful proposal,our friends and family were there to witness the happy moment....see more www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Family › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 2:18pm On Dec 20, 2017*. Modified: 11:15am On Dec 21, 2017 |
Not easy like that my friend Romanic:Truly, might not be that easy |
| Romance › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 2:14pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
sorry thing idibe24: 1 Like |
| Family › My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 12:13pm On Dec 20, 2017*. Modified: 10:17pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Fourteen years ago,I married Tim who was the love of my life. He was a very handsome young man who swept me off my feet.Tim had just returned from the US to start off his music career in Nigeria.I was fresh out of law school. But we were so in love,we didnt care whether we had money or not. We just wanted to be together.Our wedding was made possible by all the things we borrowed from friends and family.We moved into our one room apartment in Surulere and we were so happy. We worked so hard and before long,things started looking up for us. By the time we had our first child,we were already making enough money to start a building project. Tim and I were a team. We did everything and planned together. Our future seemed promising. In the third year of our marriage,Tim cheated on me. That betrayal changed everything. Changed our lives. I was so hurt, I cried for days and weeks non stop. I wanted to leave the marriage but my husband and family members kept pleading and asking me to forgive him. One day,my brother in law,my husband’s elder brother who was working in Chevron at the time came to live with us for the weekend. He was unmarried at the time. That weekend,my husband had a show at the island so I spent Friday night watching movies with Roy. We watched a movie about a lady who cheated on her cheating husband. It looked as of the movie was talking to me. Long story short,after the movie,I started crying and Roy tried to comfort me. Things had not been the same since the affair,I felt so warm and loved when Roy held me. I was still very hurt by Tim’s betrayal. Roy held me like he knew i wanted to be comforted,held and loved. From that day till 10 years later,Roy and I have been sleeping with each other when we have any opportunity. We just continued anytime we could. No one suspected us. We were very discreet. Even when Roy got married four years later,we still continued. People only knew that Roy saw me as his favorite sister in law. No one ever thought that we were doing more than that. Through out my almost 10 year affair with Roy,I knew Tim was not faithful either so it made it less difficult to feel any guilt. Unfortunately, this year.last July,Roy’s wife found out about me and her husband....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/my-brother-in-law-has-been-my-lover-for-more-than-10-years/ |
| Romance › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 11:38am On Dec 20, 2017 |
mature ke? well, anything is possible Romanic: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 8:54am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Hector09:Pls don't my broda. We should only emulate good things. Evil has its way to boomerang 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 10:03pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
looks like an hopeless situation. anibirelawal: |
| Romance › My Brother In Law Has Been My Lover For More Than 10 Years by ORAGBON(op): 6:23pm On Dec 19, 2017*. Modified: 9:55pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Fourteen years ago,I married Tim who was the love of my life. He was a very handsome young man who swept me off my feet.Tim had just returned from the US to start off his music career in Nigeria.I was fresh out of law school. But we were so in love,we didnt care whether we had money or not. We just wanted to be together.Our wedding was made possible by all the things we borrowed from friends and family.We moved into our one room apartment in Surulere and we were so happy. We worked so hard and before long,things started looking up for us. By the time we had our first child,we were already making enough money to start a building project. Tim and I were a team. We did everything and planned together. Our future seemed promising. In the third year of our marriage,Tim cheated on me. That betrayal changed everything. Changed our lives. I was so hurt, I cried for days and weeks non stop. I wanted to leave the marriage but my husband and family members kept pleading and asking me to forgive him. One day,my brother in law,my husband’s elder brother who was working in Chevron at the time came to live with us for the weekend. He was unmarried at the time. That weekend,my husband had a show at the island so I spent Friday night watching movies with Roy. We watched a movie about a lady who cheated on her cheating husband. It looked as of the movie was talking to me. Long story short,after the movie,I started crying and Roy tried to comfort me. Things had not been the same since the affair,I felt so warm and loved when Roy held me. I was still very hurt by Tim’s betrayal. Roy held me like he knew i wanted to be comforted,held and loved. From that day till 10 years later,Roy and I have been sleeping with each other when we have any opportunity. We just continued anytime we could. No one suspected us. We were very discreet. Even when Roy got married four years later,we still continued. People only knew that Roy saw me as his favorite sister in law. No one ever thought that we were doing more than that. Through out my almost 10 year affair with Roy,I knew Tim was not faithful either so it made it less difficult to feel any guilt. Unfortunately, this year.last July,Roy’s wife found out about me and her husband....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/my-brother-in-law-has-been-my-lover-for-more-than-10-years/ |
| Romance › How I Fell In Love With An Idea Instead Of A Person by ORAGBON(op): 12:56pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
He wore an argyle sweater vest over a buttoned up dress shirt. Literally, a shirt buttoned all the way up to the top, every last button buttoned so that his collar was tight round the nape of his neck. His glasses made him look studious, and his kind eyes let you know that he was an old soul. He was 20 at the time I first met him, but he had earned the respect of an old man, or so it seemed to me. Our teachers adored him and he spoke eloquently and passionately in class in such a way that made me think he’d be the president some day, or that he could be if he wanted to be. I joked with my friends that I had “an intellectual crush” on this guy. But whenever I tried to talk to him I got so nervous and tripped over my words. I borrowed a book from him once, hoping that we’d get into a deep conversation about it, but when I returned the book I instead got bashful and said “thank you” and left quickly. A year later we found ourselves in the same social circles, at the same church, in the same classes at school. And I was beginning to notice that this guy in argyle liked me. He told me so one day, and started asking me on dates. But I was still somewhat terrified of him. He didn’t seem quite relatable because he seemed so put together and polished. I was intimidated by him, thought he was too good for me. I was nervous, afraid to say something stupid. I remember studying with him one time and trying to read the words on the page, but not even being able to concentrate enough to get through a paragraph. I was too paralyzed with worry about making a bad impression. Meanwhile he sat next to me flipping through pages at a rapid pace and making astute comments along the way. My stomach sank a little. He is going to see through me and realize that I’m not as smart as he thinks I am. I had an idea in my mind of who he was—basically that he was faultless—and I was letting that idea keep me from being myself around him. I was also letting that idea keep me from seeing who he really was. If I had stayed in that state—the state that is all about making a good impression—I would have never actually allowed myself to get to know him. I would have remained so preoccupied by my own insecurities and my concerns about what he thought of me, that I wouldn’t have noticed all the things that made me eventually fall in love with him. I still remember the first time it struck me that he wasn’t only a really smart guy who I admired—but a normal guy who was complex and interesting and, well, human. We were sitting together in the library and he had taken off his glasses and I caught myself looking deeply into his dark brown eyes and really seeing him as if for the first time. In that moment—just for a moment—I took him off the pedestal I’d placed him on and found that he was David, just David—a person I was excited to get to know. And from then on he kept surprising me....see more www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Re: Were Celibate For Two Years,how Could She Lie To Me? by ORAGBON(op): 8:06pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Lol!you guy go dey force somebody to laugh for serious issue like this stonemasonn: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Were Celibate For Two Years,how Could She Lie To Me? by ORAGBON(op): 4:08pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Haba, that may not totally be correct habsydiamond: |
| Romance › Re: Were Celibate For Two Years,how Could She Lie To Me? by ORAGBON(op): 4:07pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Marshalxv: |
...am I mad.?even if u are bill gate's only daughter..well one bad turn deserves another...
