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 Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 6:19pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
He has not caught her red handed. What if? DopeBoss: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: She Deserves To Know But I Have Sinned Against Her by ORAGBON(op): 6:17pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
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| Romance › Re: She Deserves To Know But I Have Sinned Against Her by ORAGBON(op): 6:17pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
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| Romance › Re: Viral Post: ‘husbands, Need More Restful Weekend As Our Wives by ORAGBON(op): 1:41pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
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| Romance › She Deserves To Know But I Have Sinned Against Her by ORAGBON(op): 1:39pm On Dec 08, 2017*. Modified: 8:21pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
I dont how to share my story without being judged or the subject of ridicule. Anyway,I will try all the same. The reason is because I dont want to be seen as a bad person. I have also learnt from my mistake. I dont want other people to make the same mistake. My colleague in the office has a boyfriend. They have been dating for over two years. He was introduced to us by my colleague about a year ago. He used to come and pick her up after work. Sometimes,those of us who live along their route will join them after work. One of those days that I used to join them,I noticed the guy used to look at me through the rear mirror. At first,I found it strange.Later,I began to get amused. We began to flirt with looks in the car and no one saw us. I dont know how he got my number but one day,Gona( my colleagues boyfriend) called my phone and we started talking. He asked me to meet him one Saturday in a hotel and I did. I feel ashamed as I am telling this story but I am also very sorry. That started the affair with my colleague’s boyfriend. The affair continued for the next four months. The guy was good to me. Always giving me money. He was clear that he was not letting his girlfriend. He said she was wife material. They agreed that they will not have sex until after marriage. So Gona would come to me for fun while he was with his wife material. I doubt that I was his only side chick though. As the affair was going into the fifth month,Gona proposed to his girlfriend,my colleague,Amarachi. Everyone was happy for them but I was feeling sorry for the poor girl who didnt have an idea of the kind of casonava she was getting married to. Anyway,I fell sick shortly after their engagement. It started out with the normal fevers and then malaria. I was so sick after like a month so I was admitted into the hospital. I got discharged after about three weeks but I was asked to come back for some more tests. A month later,I was in the hospital again as I had fallen sick again. By this time,my family was getting really worried. To cut the story short,one of the tests that was carried out was HIV......see more http://livelystones.com.ng/2338-2/ |
| Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 12:48pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Assumption! is a destroyer of relationships DopeBoss: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 11:38am On Dec 08, 2017 |
hmnnnn jjman2322: |
| Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 10:42am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Nice one my broda Sulukag: |
| Romance › Viral Post: ‘husbands, Need More Restful Weekend As Our Wives by ORAGBON(op): 10:41am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Jzhane Family 08/12/2017 Recently the concept of the mental load of a woman - particularly a wife and mother - has been highlighted. Dale's post, in part, deals with this. A mom, whether she is a stay-at-home mom or a working mom, is never done with work. ...Read More ....www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 8:23am On Dec 08, 2017 |
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| Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 10:51pm On Dec 07, 2017 |
That is too harsh my dear friend[Qquote author=muller101 post=63074187]Nobody forced you to marry. Carry your cross[/quote] |
| Romance › The Erroneous Things Women Believe About About Sex And Their Sexuality by ORAGBON(op): 6:38pm On Dec 07, 2017 |
Our culture, religion, and society often give contradicting ideas about s*x. It can be difficult to know what is appropriate and what is not. Being a woman brings its own complication to the topic. There are a lot of misconceptions and backwards ideas out there surrounding the topic that destroys their s*xuality. Here are five common things most women believe about s*x that are hurting their own s*xuality...see more ...www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 5:19pm On Dec 07, 2017 |
hmnn. DopeBoss: |
| Romance › Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 4:51pm On Dec 07, 2017*. Modified: 10:57pm On Jan 18, 2018 |
Dear Lively Stone, My wife has not spoken to me for almost two weeks. What happened two weeks ago was that we had an argument which we said certain words. My wife works on the Island . Two months ago,she was transferred to a new unit in her office. That office came with different responsibilities from her former office. What led to the quarrel is that she said she was promoted in this new office but she refused to say how much is her new salary. Secondly,she started to password her phone. And she used to be n her phone chatting after work. Sometimes,chatting late into the night. She also starts to come home very late. As late as 11pm sometimes. All these changes came with her new office and I have been telling her that I dont like the changes. Because to me,not telling me how much she earns now is making me suspicious. Plus,she password her phone. I mean why will she do that if she is not hiding anything. I dont believe that it is because of the children she is doing that. Anytime she is chatting,she will say it is official work she is doing. Coming late is the final suspicion for me. Two weeks ago,I couldnt take it…I demanded to see her phone which she refused. In anger,I took the phone and smashed it.....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/2277-2/ |
| Romance › Ladies:why Do We Keep Going Back To The Wrong Guy? by ORAGBON(op): 2:45pm On Dec 06, 2017 |
We break up with him, take him back, and then break up with him again. For some of us, this might even happen over and over for years. The cycle is never-ending. But why do we keep going back to that one guy? Even when we know he’s wrong for us. He’s the one man we cannot let go. No matter how many times he makes a mistake, he apologizes and says he’ll never do it again. He asks for you to take him back, and, you let him back in. You say you’re not going to. You say that this might not be good for you. You say that maybe it’s keeping you from fully living your life. And in the back of your mind, you know all theses rationalizations are true. But at the end of the day, you love him, and it all doesn’t matter. Thankfully, you’re not alone sis. An estimated 44 percent of people ages 17 to 24 have reconciled and started over with an ex, according to a recent study by Bowling Green State University and the University of Wisconsin at Milwaukee. We all know that we do it, but the question is: Why? Racquel Jones, Clinical Social Worker and Therapist of Transforming Lives Counseling Services, says that there are several reasons women keep going back to the wrong guy or keep choosing the wrong guy. “The first one is that you fear being alone,” she says. “Sometimes women would rather be with the wrong person than being by themselves. Instead you need to learn to love your own company and realize that being alone is okay.” “Number two: You think you can change him. Let go of the idea that you can save or change him. You can’t love away his problems. Remember that change comes from within.” “You don’t think you deserve better,” she continues.” This is the third factor. “Many times the type of man you date is directly related to the value you place on yourself. If you think badly of yourself, you tend to chose the wrong partner. You need to change your thinking and realize that you deserve better.” “And lastly, you haven’t figured out what you truly want in your life outside of relationships. It’s important to work on your own issues to break your old patterns. If you don’t work on it, you’ll continually do the same things over and over again. You’re not going back because you love him. You’re going back because you’re bored. Or lonely. Or because you can’t stand the thought of spending another night laying in your bed, knowing that no one is thinking about you.” The next time he comes back, and you’re struggling with the decision – the solution is simple, sis. It’s time to let him go. Source: www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Will The Cycle Repeat Itself…i Am Too Scared To Believe In Love Again! by ORAGBON(op): 2:13pm On Dec 06, 2017 |
”My madam,are you alright”…Seyi my Driver asked. I was sitting at the back of my car crying and I couldn’t help myself. I was trying not to but here I was crying uncontrollably. Again,I had just had my heart broken after I had invested everything I had into my relationship with Ayo. This is the story of my life. I am 39 years old. A very successful top manager in one of Nigeria’s top FMCG companies. I was unhappy,frustrated,single and heartbroken! I have been in several relationships over the years but it always turns out to be heartbreaking for me. It appears that men do not want to be in relationship. They just want to have their way with you along side other ladies. I have had my share of pain from these men. Even after I took the advice of my friends to come to the level of some of these men. Some believe that being a successful career woman makes it difficult for me to find a responsible man to marry me. Hence,I was advised to come down to the level of the men. I met Ayo a year ago at a party. We got talking and I found out that he was a Marketer with an insurance company. He didnt earn much but he was a nice person. We started dating not too long. I was cautious knowing that Ayo was just coming up. So I didnt want to rush him. But two months into our relationship,he asked me to marry him. I thought he was joking but he planned a surprise engagement party for me with mt friends and family. Some thought he was a gold digger after my money. I didnt care,I was happy to spend on him after all,I was in love and he asked me to marry him. Ayo moved out of his one room apartment in Surulere and moved in with me in my duplex in VGC. I was really in love and we were living like a couple. For his birthday,I bought Ayo a car as I wanted him to have his own instead of driving mine and stop him from feeling ashamed sometimes. Our wedding plans started in earnest. We were preparing for our introduction. My family was overjoyed for me . I was finally getting married! Asoebi plans were in place. I was meeting with event planners,talking to the wedding IV printers,etc. I got back home that evening to discover that Ayo had moved his things out of the apartment. I was in shock. I though the house was burgled but apparently,only Ayo’s things were missing. I tried to call his line but I couldnt connect. That was when my gateman came in with a note that Ayo had left for me. Basically,Ayo broke up with me with a note.I couldnt believe what was happening. I coulnt make sense of it. I cried all through the night. My friend Jena had to come to be with me. At some point,everyone thought I was going to commit suicide. I actually contemplated it. I was too ashamed to leave the house for days after the break up. I thought about what could have made Ayo do such a thing and I couldnt come up with anything. Jena did some digging and found out that Ayo had gotten a transfer on his job which promoted him to Deputy Branch Manager in their Port Harcourt branch. It was also discovered that Ayos promotion was facilitated with his female boss whom he was sleeping with. Both of them were transferred to Port Harcourt it turns out. The first day I left the house to go to work after all these drama,I was crying in my car when my driver noticed me. He stopped the car and came right back to comfort me. I was surprised but Seyi was very kind to me. He told me he had been watching me and he feels that I have been taken advantage of by men because of my kind heart. Seyi started preaching to me. I was impressed that he was born again as he claimed. He made me give my life to God. Seyi,my Driver whom I hardly noticed gradually...See more www.livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama, How Do I Move On From Him? by ORAGBON(op): 2:42pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
If i show our chat you will cry for this dear lady. After leaving the house for about five months he came back pretending it well, then dupe her of a huge amount she did not disclose. Guess what. she still loves him and want him back. I have join her in praying for him Offpoint: |
| Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama, How Do I Move On From Him? by ORAGBON(op): 2:31pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
The world is turning something else. Satan having a field day messing peoples relationship. just finish chatting with a lady from Kenya. whose husband of six month just moved out and is with another lady. They dated for three years. His excuse they argue alot and he cant coup with that. Offpoint: |
| Romance › I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama, How Do I Move On From Him? by ORAGBON(op): 1:56pm On Dec 05, 2017*. Modified: 8:14pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
I made up my mind to move on from ken. I met ken eight years ago. He was my MD at the time and I was serving as a youth Corper in the Company. He took interest in and we dated throughout my service year. I knew Ken was married but as a Corper then,I was just happy to have a guy take care of me. I was not looking for anything serious. My plan was to get rid of him after service year. Somehow,we were very strong and in love with each other. Ken got me an apartment in one of the choice areas in Abuja. He placed me on a monthly income of one million naira. I couldnt have resisted. As God would have it,I got pregnant the month of my passing out. Ken made me keep the pregnancy. He had promised to divorce his wife as he was no longer i love with her. He begged me to give him a year to sort things out. I believed him and stayed. Our son came in 2014. Ken has been a very adorable father,lover and provider. But this is 2017 wrapping up and he is still with his wife. I know I may be seen as a homewrecker and I have told Ken that I want out. If after almost four years,he is still with his wife,then I need to move on. The only problem is that ken has blatantly refused to allow me go. He says the will take my son if I leave. He keeps telling me to be patient that he will divorce his wife eventually but I am tired of waiting. My younger sister got married last year and is very proud to show the world her husband. I cannot show off Ken as he is not mine yet. My parents feel I am still young ,too young to be a mistress. They want me to be married,so they have asked me to move on. I met someone who is interested in me. He is a young man of 32,just two years older than myself. Ken got to find out .....see more http://livelystones.com.ng/2083-2/ |
| Romance › She Was My Rebound But Now My Heart Belongs To Another by ORAGBON(op): 12:32pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Good Morning madam, I started dating Uzoamaka around May this year. I actually met her like a week after I broke up with my girlfriend of almost two years. I remember that day at the Cinema. We sat not too far from each other but kept glancing at each other during the movie. After the movie,she smiled at me and I couldnt help but go over to her,introduce myself and we got talking. She appeared quite friendly and from our chit chat,we both seemed to like the exact same movies. I took her number and we kept in touch. By the next week,we were already dating. It turns out that Uzoamaka had also just come out of a relationship. Her boyfriend broke up with her and moved on to another girl. We were having fun and things started to get heavier between us. Amaka is a very nice girl. Too nice sometimes but I liked it because for the first time,I was dating a girl who seemed to want to do anything for me. She is also from a well to do home. So most times,she was always spending on me. I enjoyed all the attention she put on me. I got expensive wrist watches,clothes and stuff from her. What I liked most about her was that she was always trying to please me,asking me what I wanted. Towards the end of September, I saw my former girlfriend at a mutual friend’s wedding and even though I didnt plan to,I started thinking that I missed her. It was a nice surprise that Saturday evening to get a call from Frances (my ex). She said it was nice to see me at the wedding. We got talking for a long time and before I knew it,she was in my house the next morning. I didnt even think twice,I was not over in love with her. We kissed and all and it was clear that we both wanted to be back together as a couple. I told her I was in a relationship,she said she is also seeing someone but at that point,we didnt care. We agreed to get back together and thats all that mattered. When I told Uzoamaka that we were done,I didndt expect the kind of reaction she gave. She started to cry at first. Later on,she began to curse me. I though that was over and done with. But Uzoamaka was just getting started.\ Now,this babe is trying to ruin me. She has gone to my facebook and twitter walls to tarnish my image. Talking about how I used her for her money and dumped her. She also was able to find out Frances details fom facebook and she is also sending all sorts of threat to Frances. Uzoamaka also came to my house and vanderlized my car. Its not like I promised to marry her. We were just dating and having fun. I know I wronged Uzoamaka but the truth is,I was still hurting when I met her. I went into dating too quickly. I see that I am not in love with her. I only got immersed with her to try to forget my love for Frances. I am truly sorry for the hurt I caused Uzoamaka but I cannot deceive myself. I am in love with another and I cannot loose Frances a second time. Am using this medium to beg Uzoamaka I. Please stop trying to tarnish my image. I never meant to hurt you but my heart bleongs to another. Please I am open to advice from anyone. What else can I do to make Uzoamaka forgive and forget about me? From Obinna, Festac Source: Livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Please Advice Me: Am I Over Reacting Or Is She Really Playing Me? by ORAGBON(op): 1:13pm On Dec 03, 2017*. Modified: 1:50pm On Dec 03, 2017 |
Dear Jzhane, I broke up with my fiance of three years. Am I over reacting. Ma,I love Sandy with all my heart,there is nothing I have not done or will not do for her. However,it appears she is not ready for commitment hence I broke off our engagement two weeks ago. Right now ,U am wondering if I went too far. Should I take her back? Sandy has an attitude which I feel for someone engaged to be married in February next year is not encouraging. Sandy is unusually close to her married boss to the extent that he buys her gifts and gives her money. She told me herself that her boss is so playful to the extent that he sat on her laps on day in the office. I was shocked and told her that was inappropriate but she said I am over reacting ,that her boss is just playful. This boss of hers is a known flirt in her company but Sandy feels she can handle him. One of the things Sandy also did that got me really angry was that she used her mouth to put chewing gum in the mouth of a guy in her office.I mean that is highly disrespectful. When I told her I will not accept that,we had a big argument and she told me to chill out else the engagement is off. I apologized and we continued but I must say,her constant playfulness with guys esecially her boss gives me great concern. I visited her office once and saw the way she was around her boss. They didnt even respect my being there. I am sorry but I do not believe in all those silly touchy feely play that goes on on offices no matter how innocent. I made it clear that I didnt like how she behaved and this lady had the nerve to say to me that I disrespected her boss. We had a really hot argument and I told her the engagement is off and she said fine. I mean,I was surprised,she didnt even try to fight for our love. Now,I am thinking,did I over react? Is she just naive or being a player? We have had our marriage introduction.How do I tell her parents and mine that the wedding is over? I need your advice please. From Jeff, Akoka, Lagos See more true life stories. www.Livelystones.com.ng 1 Like |
| Romance › I Feel So Much Guilt …I Committed Abortion To Punish Him by ORAGBON(op): 12:57pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
Dear Jzhane, Please help me. I feel so guilty with what I did. I also need you to help me speak to my husband to find a place in his heart to forgive me. About four months ago,I picked a call on behalf of my husband as he was outside washing the car. Immediately I picked,I heard a female voice say: ”hello honeypie”. I was like who is this. The other voice said.who is this too?I responded by saying this is Vanessa,Tobi’s wife….she went silent and the line went dead! I tried to call back but she didnt pick up. I copied the phone number and called her on my own line. She picked and I asked her to be honest with me,woman to woman,who she was to my husband. She said she is sorry but I should ask my husband. Before I could probe more,she dropped the call. At that point,I was livid and when my husband came in,I asked him who was the girl he was cheating with. He looked very surprised. I told him I knew everything and I just finished speaking with the girl who told me her name is Veronica. At that point,my husband of five years said it was some random girl he flirted with but no serious thing happened with her. Of course,I was not convinced. I did my own investigation. I quizzed my husband’s driver whom I promised would not loose his job. The Driver told me that Oga had been seeing this lady for almost a year. He described the lady house for me. I went to the Lady’s house with two police men that I bribed heavily. On seeing me and the police,the Lady broke down and confessed that Tobi didnt tell her he was married . In her confession,she revealed that she had been seeing Tobi for about eight months. I warned her to leave my husband alone and she promised to do so. Tobi had the nerve to confront me at home for going to Veronica’s house. I was so angry,I couldnt believe this man! See,Tobi and I had been together for almost seven years before we got married. Now,after five years of marriage,I deserve more than what he is giving me. Even though he said sorry to me,I felt he was not sincere in his apology. He hurt me so deeply. I could never forgive him! In this whole saga with Tobi,I discovered I was pregnant with our second child. I was really upset and I dont know where the thought came from,I felt the way to pay Tobi back for this pain he caused me was to abort the baby. In my rage,I did abort the pregnancy. I did that and now I am filled with so much guilt. Even though my husband doesnt know,I feel like I owe it to him to let him know and ask for his forgiveness. The thought that I would feel better after carrying out the abortion was not happening. I feel so bad. I feel as guilty as him. He cheated and destroyed our trust and love. Now,I have committed murder,a crime against an unborn child. I feel so horrible ma. What do I do? If only Tobi didnt cheat. I blame him so much for the mess our lives have become. After the cheating,I cannot look at Tobi anymore or even trust him. I want peace in my heart and I want us to go back to being the way we were before. How do we begin to find healing,forgiveness again? Vanessa, Lagos Source:: Livelystones.com.ng |
| Romance › Livelystones Charisma Hangout With Jzhane by ORAGBON(op): 7:01pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
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| Romance › Re: Why Are Women Such Devils? My Friend’s Wife Wants Me! by ORAGBON(op): 5:56pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
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| Romance › Re: Why Are Women Such Devils? My Friend’s Wife Wants Me! by ORAGBON(op): 2:07pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
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| Romance › Why Are Women Such Devils? My Friend’s Wife Wants Me! by ORAGBON(op): 1:29pm On Nov 30, 2017*. Modified: 11:09pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Jzhane 30/11/2017 Ask Jzhane 3 Comments Man,ladies are bad! They are devils in short. Its so unfortunate that we as men cannot live without them. I will be brief and go straight to the point. Kunle and I were room mates in school back in U.I. Everything was great with us until he started dating this Sheila girl. The babe hot to badt!. Very curvaceous, Sexy and omo fine like die!. Their relationship was one that many of Kunle’s friends used to envy. Like,everyone wants a girl like that now. Unaware that Kunle’s babe was still in the room,one early morning,I rushed out of the toilet stark naked. Sheila was standing face to face with me. Kunle had gone for his lectures. It was time for those very early morning ,7.30am kind of lectures and all I was thinking was that I was running late. I entered the bathroom when I actually heard Kunle close the door behind him. I had no idea that the babe was still around. When I saw her,I was like: shit!..I quickly grabbed a towel to cover up. When I turned around,this devil bitch was laughing. I almost died of shame. But she just complimented my thing and left the room. After that day,this babe started making moves on me. She said she liked what she saw and wanted a piece of it. I ignored her. I mean,its a gentleman’s code thing or so. I couldnt do this to my friend. But the babe persisted.I ended up giving in to her towards the end of the semester. I dont know but she told me she wasnt getting any from Kunle. Later on,I found out that Sheila was a very wayward girl....See More See more TRUE LIFE ARTICLES..... http://livelystones.com.ng/1830/ |
| Romance › Re: My Aunty’s Husband Is Sleeping With All The Sales Girls by ORAGBON(op): 12:47pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
It two ways; either he is jealous or he is doing it from a sincere heart to protect the aunt careytommy7: |
| Romance › Re: My Aunty’s Husband Is Sleeping With All The Sales Girls by ORAGBON(op): 12:45pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
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| Romance › Re: He Wont Leave Me Alone Even Though I Am Married by ORAGBON(op): 9:13am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Hmnnn MissRaine69: |
| Romance › Re: He Wont Leave Me Alone Even Though I Am Married by ORAGBON(op): 10:22pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
I forbid it in Jesus name. Amen optional1: |
| Romance › Re: My Aunty’s Husband Is Sleeping With All The Sales Girls by ORAGBON(op): 5:58pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
Lol! edubaba: |
| Romance › Re: He Wont Leave Me Alone Even Though I Am Married by ORAGBON(op): 5:56pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
that true! he must be a the type that doesn't take his eyes off anything on skirt with plenty cash to throw away on pretty ladies VERDA: |
