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Romance › Re: Is This Ridiculous Or What?…my Husband’s Reaction Is Completely Weird by ORAGBON(m): 12:18pm On Dec 18, 2017

Lol!

pedrilo:
You have a very kind hubby my dear, If i was in his shoes, u will return home wit danfo.
nonsense

Romance › Re: Were Celibate For Two Years,how Could She Lie To Me? by ORAGBON(op): 12:07pm On Dec 18, 2017

Jesu!

Dreament:
not at all, she is not the only girl I hv dated. I hv not seen such a pussy in my entire life. is only porn i do see such pussy. i never thought is real, i thought it was make up pussy when i see such in porn movie. i dont know how she got such pussy. i dont know if it was only her ex that destroyed the pusy like that.

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Romance › Re: Is This Ridiculous Or What?…my Husband’s Reaction Is Completely Weird by ORAGBON(m): 10:36am On Dec 18, 2017

haha, i agree she should apologize for peace

Paulosky1900:
you are very wrong dear..
1. you hugged him in his presence which is wrong..here is africa not western world

2. you sent him to help you drop some stuffs in the boot why chatting withyour ex asin houseboy abi? must you send him such infront of your ex..my dear what are you trying to imply.

3. my dear you better go and apologize to him cos you got everything whole wrong for the sake of your marriage..

goodmorning buddies.

Romance › Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ORAGBON(m): 11:04pm On Dec 17, 2017

we should always consider peoples feelings when we use words...But no vex, didn't mean to offend you.

pedrilo:
how this matter take concern you!!!!!!

Romance › Re: Were Celibate For Two Years,how Could She Lie To Me? by ORAGBON(op): 10:12pm On Dec 17, 2017

this may not be as a result of sleeping with too many guy, but just the way her body is

Jupxter:

Romance › Were Celibate For Two Years,how Could She Lie To Me? by ORAGBON(op): 5:15pm On Dec 17, 2017*

Hello Admin,

I have been a follower of your posts on Facebook and \i am so glad I came in contact with your blog. I love the beautiful articles on your site and your response, God bless you ma’am. I live in Port. Pls i want to remain anonymous.
I have been married for about a year and my marriage is deteriorating right in my eyes and its as though it cannot be salvaged, I don’t think I can help cos am dazed.
After my youth service, I got a good job in port Harcourt and all has been fine. I am God fearing man,at least,I like to think that I am. when I met my wife, she said no sex until after marriage I was not troubled,in fact, I said this is God sent. We met in church and courted for 2years before we got married and sincerely we didn’t do it(had s*x). In fact, on the day of the wedding I was very excited, because I thought I was marrying a decent lady. Though she told me she was not a virgin(I don’t want to go into that for now) I believed her story. As we courted for two years without sex, i counted myself lucky on my wedding day.
But all that excitement was for nothing. You ask why? From the night of our wedding,having intercourse has always been a problem for us.I don’t enjoy sexual intercourse with my wife. Each time we are making love, I don’t feel sensation, its as though am in a swimming pool, that is the only word i can use to described my experience.initially I thought it was excitement. But it getting worse day after day, week n month after month. There is no feeling,apparently,she is quite open in her privates. I have never met anyone like her.
My male organ is not small, so this has nothing to do with me. Unconsciously,I have withdrawn from her, cause this is affecting psychologically. We tried to talk it over, but I don’t even know how to…. she has been worried and she been crying almost every day.
I am so confused, i dont know what to think as so many crazy thought been going through my head.has she been cheating on me all these while?One thing is certain,her sexual experience before we got married must have been something else. Guys talk about sleeping with prostitutes and having no feeling but I never been with one so I honestly couldn’t tell. Is it possible that my wife was once a prostitute?.....see more

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Romance › Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ORAGBON(m): 11:04pm On Dec 16, 2017

pedrilo:
I see a lonely old man

haba, that is harsh

Romance › We Would Have Lost Our House If I Didnt Do This….. by ORAGBON(op): 10:55am On Dec 15, 2017*

Dear Jzhane,

I am a forty two year old man and I have a little problem I need advice on. Recently,I have been having some serious final problems. Where I work,salaries have not been coming in as early as before. As such,things have not been the same. I have a lot of financial difficulties. One of such financial commitment is that my rent has been due for over six months. My landlord has just given us quit notice to leave by the end of the month. My wife and I have been asking for a loan from people we know but non of them have come through to us.

I reached out to a former boss in a previous company. Mrs X and I were close when I was working for that company. I was not married then. We used to be quite close at the time. When I spoke to Mrs X,she asked me to see her in a hotel where she was having a business meeting. When I got to the hotel,I was asked to wait for her in her room as the meeting was still ongoing. I waited until she came back from her meeting around 8.30pm. She wrote a cheque of N1.5M…which is N500k more than my actual rent. I thanked her but she didnt give me the cheque. She asked me to do her a favour. I asked what it was,she said I needed to make her feel like a woman. Mrs X is married but it is like she her husband is a busy business man who travels alot.

At that point,I wanted to walk away. But she said If I slept with her just once,she would dash me the money,it wouldnt be a loan anymore. For a minute,I thought about it. I needed the money and she said this once. Even though I knew I was hurting my wife,I did sleep with Mrs X.

That happened two weeks ago. I have paid my rent . I made up some story as to how I got the money. My wife does not know but I am filled with guilt. Should I tell her? I know she would be very disappointed in me but I reckon she might understand why I had to. I dont want secrets between me and my wife.

Whats your advice.

Tony,

Port Harcourt

Source:http://livelystones.com.ng/2766-2/

Romance › Her Husband To Be Is A Groom By Day,love-vendor By Night by ORAGBON(op): 5:35pm On Dec 14, 2017*

Jzhane 14/12/2017 Lifestyle No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please advise is needed. I recently attended a friend’s sister wedding introduction ceremony in Enugu. It was a beautiful event o. We came from Uniben and had fun. After the introduction,myself and some of my friends decided to go out that night to see Enugu in the night.

We ended up in one of Enugu’s finest club. We partied till late night. Some of the guys we met at the Club invited us to their hotel room. Well,not saying we are saints but we did want to have fun as well as earn some money by the side.

At the hotel,we were joined by the my friend’s husband to be. I was surprised. I mean,he just had his marriage introduction this afternoon?

Well,we partied all night into the early hours before we left. This husband to be,had himself some real fun with me and my friends. We all agreed not to say anything to our friend. Its not our business right?

Next day,as we journeyed back to school,I began to wonder why men are selfish. He has a beautiful wife to be yet he is still messing around.

When we got back to school,one of us said we should at least warn our friend to let her sister know the type of guy she was getting married to. Do you think we should tell her or keep our mouth shut? If it was my case,I think I would want to be told,what do you think?

Sansy,

Benin

http://livelystones.com.ng/2726-2/

Romance › Re: Opinion:does Virginity Guarantee A Faithful Marriage? by ORAGBON(op): 3:34pm On Dec 14, 2017

On point my friend

MatricNumber:
No but it commands respect and dignity from the husband.

Romance › Opinion:does Virginity Guarantee A Faithful Marriage? by ORAGBON(op): 2:54pm On Dec 14, 2017

Jzhane 14/12/2017 Marriage 5 Comments

“Men will be men” is a commonly used phrase. If you ask a man about his ability to be faithful, he probably would say, “It depends on the woman.” But in all actuality, it doesn’t depend on solely the woman. It is all about choices said man and woman make. However, there are some people that believe that it takes a ‘certain kind of woman’ to make a man commit. The question is, is a virgin woman that kind of woman?

Melissa 28, from Harlem, believes that the love a husband has for his wife, if she is a virgin, is a bit more special, but doesn’t guarantee his faithfulness. “I wouldn’t say that being a virgin will guarantee faithfulness when you get married, but the value and the appreciation that he has for you is that much more. Some men like the thought of a woman being wholesome and untouched. But if they’re going to cheat, they’re going to do it regardless because it’s all based on choices.”

Dominique 24, from Mount Vernon, thinks that a virgin should be ‘it’ for a husband, among other things to complete the package of a wife. “I believe it should. I feel because you’re a fresh pair of sneakers, your husband would be even more committed to you and eager to teach you new things.”

Tyler 20, from Harlem, doesn’t think your sexual experience is the sole influence on the strength or depletion of a marriage. “There are several components that make a marriage thrive. Some people step out on their marriage because their spouse makes them feel not wanted or needed. The lack of communication or the sexual chemistry has faded. There are several scenarios that can play out, but I don’t think being a virgin will guarantee a faithful union. All those other things matter as well.”

Raven, 21, from the Bronx, thinks virginity can be an asset, but it doesn’t solidify a husband’s faithfulness. “I think being a virgin will help a marriage because men like to know that you weren’t out being loose, but instead being patient and waiting on them. It’s kind of selfish, but they like to know that not many men have had you.”

Ultimately, the only thing that guarantees a faithful marriage is the work that you put into it. Consistency, dedication and communication are all key components of a faithful marriage. No matter how intelligent, sexy, loving, or confident a woman is, if a man decides to cheat, it by no means is a reflection of the sexual experience alone.

Source:www.livelystones.com.ng

Romance › Ladies Get In Here! 10 Types Of Men Women Should Never Tolerate by ORAGBON(op): 10:21am On Dec 14, 2017

Jzhane 14/12/2017 Dating No Comments

Ladies,Guys come with all sorts of shapes and sizes, but here are the kind of guys you definitely should not put up with when it comes to relationships:....see more

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Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 10:16am On Dec 14, 2017

Yes, you cant make a fair judgement from one side of the story

Romanic:
I wish we can hear from the wife too to know why she decided to act soo strange.

Romance › Daddy’s Girl! – 7 Things Fathers Must Do For Their Daughters by ORAGBON(op): 6:16pm On Dec 13, 2017

The father-daughter relationship dynamic is one of the most important bonds any girl can have as it shapes and defines who she is and what she will become in her life.

“No one in this world can love a girl more than her father.” -Michael Ratnadeepak

A father-daughter relationship is a bond like no other. LThis unique relationship has a tremendous influence on almost every aspect of a young girl’s life. The relationship influences areas such as her social life, romantic relationships, academic performance and financial acumen....see more

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Romance › Her Story: We Were Having Issues But……(mrs Ebiere Malvin Speaks Out) by ORAGBON(op): 4:31pm On Dec 13, 2017

Jzhane 13/12/2017 Family 3 Comments

Dear Lively Stones,

My husband gave his side of the story of what happened in my marriage. Permit me to give my own side of the story as well.

First of all,I must say that I am very sorry for cheating on my husband with an ex. I am deeply sorry. I know I did something very wrong and unforgivable. The thought of it makes me cringe and I can NEVER forgive myself for what I did. I used to hear of people cheating on their wives and wives cheating on their husbands:never in a million years did I dream that could be me.

My name is Ebiere. I love my husband. We have been married for almost seven years. We are blessed with two lovely children:one boy and one girl.

When Malvin and I got married,we were very happy. One thing though that has been an issue in our marriage is the fact that I have more sexual libido than my own husband. Initially,I accepted the fact that my husband didnt like s*x as much as I did. But after my first child,it got worse. My husband may not touch me for almost one month. It was a miracle that I conceived the second time.

We have been talking about this for some time. He encouraged me to use sexual toys to satisfy myself,even porn. Though that helped but it was not the same. I told him we could seek medical help but he would not listen. He says he cannot go to a fellow man (i.e,a doctor) and say he cannot satisfy his wife,that its a taboo. I tried to get him drugs but he didnt take them as prescribed.

Another major frustration I have is that my husband’s earning has not changed since we got married. The same amount he used to earn is what he still does. Thats not enough for our family of four. Even though I work as a nurse,I also make very little as well. I have encouraged my husband to let me do some side business ,maybe start up a baby clothing shop but he will not agree. He says I should concentrate on raising our kids. Well,I try but we have constant financial challenges and as long as we are not having multiple streams of income,things may not get better. This financial tension causes tension most times. When its time to pay rent,school fees,feeding clothing,etc..we quarrel alot. I stopped asking my mum to assist us after almost seven years because,I was getting embarrassed by the fact that still couldnt stand on our feet.

Recently,I have seen not one,not two…nude pictures that some random ladies have sent my husband. When I asked him,he says he does not know them but how did they get his no? This is really frustrating me. Someone who will nit touch me for almost two to three weeks will be looking at other women naked bodies...see more

www.livelystones.com.ng

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Romance › Kayceelyrikz Drops Two New Hot Singles: Listen Here! by ORAGBON(op): 2:34pm On Dec 13, 2017

Jzhane Music & Entertainment 13/12/2017

Kayceelyrikz remains a faith-lifting music minister, ministering the glorious gospel of Christ in His music in its electrifying uniqueness... stirring the liquid love of Jesus Christ in the hearts of many all around the world ...Read More

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Music/Radio › Kayceelyrikz Drops Two New Hot Singles: Listen Here! by ORAGBON(op): 2:21pm On Dec 13, 2017

Romance › Re: We Were Having Issues But She Made Things Worse By This Betrayal by ORAGBON(m): 1:32pm On Dec 12, 2017

Why are women so venerable when they have issues with the husband of boy friend? You cause this one for yourself, going to seek comfort from your ex...I don't know what you were expecting

LivelyStones:
Hello Admin,

My wife and I have been having issues. The issues are bothered around a few things. The usual things that cause tension among couples: finances,work schedule,pressure,intimacy,etc. We have been quarreling and arguing alot as well. As a result of this,we decided to take a vacation to try and relax,maybe find some time to bond and fall in love with each other again.

We decided to go to my wife’s home town,Calabar. We figured that we could stay in their home as her mom was not around,she was visiting her other daughter in the US. The house is big and they have domestic staff who could attend to our needs.

We dropped our kids with my mom in Abeaokuta and headed to calabar. Our plan was to also spend some time in Obudu cattle ranch during our time there.

Our vacation was going well. We spent most of the day going out and seeing places. My wife took me to some places in her town. It was nice experiencing where she grew up.

One early morning,a man visited us in the family house. He was introduced to me as Timi. According to my wife,he was a family friend who came to check on her hearing that she was in town. I greeted him warmly and tried to get into conversation with him but he said he just came to say hello and was in a hurry. My wife saw him off to the door.

Later that day,around 1pm,we were relaxing and my wife said she wanted to go to the market. I asked her to send the domestic help but she said she wanted to also see a friend as well. I wanted to come but she said she just wanted a girl time alone with her friends. Ebiere left around 1pm and came back around to 8 in the night. I had tried calling her but her nos were not going through. I was really upset and asked why she went out for so long and didnt call back. We quarreled that night. She said I was being childish,that she just spent time with friends.

We didnt speak to each other that night. Next morning,Ebi left the house quite early and didnt tell me where she was going. I was very angry as well. She came back towards evening around 5.30pm. By then,I was worried. She came to me and said she was sorry. I accepted her apology and decided we make up. We were kissing and caressing but when it was time to make love,she started crying and saying she is sorry. I said ok but she kept saying Malvin I have wronged you,I am so sorry. I had to ask her what she means. She kept crying and said she was so angry last night with me that she went to her friend for comfort this morning but she ended up...,.see more

www.livelystones.com.ng

Romance › Re: My Marriage May Be Over….and My Husband Is Blaming Me For It. by ORAGBON(op): 9:44pm On Dec 10, 2017

adeniyisamuel59:
What is the title of this film?

Romance › Re: My Marriage May Be Over….and My Husband Is Blaming Me For It. by ORAGBON(op): 2:09pm On Dec 10, 2017

Hmnnnn

TheCabal:
Is this a dream... nairaland girls giving good advice.

Not the normal .. tie him to stake, rub kerosene on his private's bushes and set it on fire as you sing _____ "some stupid song frm Beyonce's latest CD."

Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 7:38am On Dec 10, 2017

Keneking:
But where is Lalasticlala sef

Romance › Re: My Marriage May Be Over….and My Husband Is Blaming Me For It. by ORAGBON(op): 7:36am On Dec 10, 2017

thesicilian:
Sorry o. I don't know what to say. Let's wait for the professional marriage counselors, they'll soon be here.

Romance › Re: My Marriage May Be Over….and My Husband Is Blaming Me For It. by ORAGBON(op): 7:39pm On Dec 09, 2017

Nice one, She should discuss with him first same advise from the site where the story came from

IAMSASHY:
nobody wl like her man 2 cheat bt d worst u can do is 2 find out and den reduce d love and care u hv 4 hm bc dat will eventually take hm fully out of ur reach,dis ws where ur first mistake came in. And y ar u in hurry to leav ur home 4 anoda woman? Stop d divorce processes 4 now and discuss wt hm first.

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Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 7:29pm On Dec 09, 2017

All these assumptions not fair. We didn't hear her part of the story

Romanic:
Its possible the lady has something she is hiding.

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Romance › My Marriage May Be Over….and My Husband Is Blaming Me For It. by ORAGBON(op): 5:42pm On Dec 09, 2017*

Dear Admin,

I want a divorce. I have not discussed this with my husband but this is something I have been thinking about and it seems like the right thing to do.

The problem is,my husband and I have been married for almost 11 years and he is having an affair.

I found out about the affair this year and he is blaming me for the affair.

My husband and I met while in school almost 18 years ago. We dated throughout university. I got pregnant and we had a child while I was in my 300 level. Unfortunately,we lost the child six months after the child was born. Our little baby was with my mom while he fell sick,he died a few days later. My husband’s people blamed my mom for his death but we were young at the time and we tried to put that painful incident that behind us.

A year after school,we got married. Since we have been married,we have been trying to have children for several years without any success. My mother inlaw did not give me one minute of breathing space. Anytime she has the opportunity,she reminds me that its my fault that we dont have children because we killed the child God gave us during university days. My mother inlaw is a very wicked woman. My husband tries his best to put her in her place but its very hard. There is constant quarreling. Sometimes she hardly speaks to us for months.

On the eight year of our marriage,my husband agreed for us to adopt a baby. We didnt inform any of our families. After almost a year later,we were able to adopt a baby girl. Chito was a beautiful baby,a joy that I fell in love with at first sight.

My husband on the other hand found it a bit difficult to connect with Chito. His mother didnt even want to see her. The first year Chito came to us,my husband only held her for a few times. I didnt know when he started listening to his mother who was filling his head with ideas.

Its not been easy but I was hoping that with time,my husband would really come around. And I did actually think he was trying to make an effort. We celebrated Chito’s birthday and he indeed tried to participate. I was beginning to get hopeful.

Unfortunately,this year,I found out that my husband was having an affair with someone. I found out the lady was a younger lady. I dont know how they met but I totally was heart broken. The affair was a heavy blow to me and I couldnt forgive my husband. I discovered three months after I discovered the affair,my husband was still seeing the woman. I asked him why,he said that I pushed him to the woman because when I discovered the affair,I became cold to him. He went back to this woman and now she is pregnant....see more

http://livelystones.com.ng/2390-2/

Family › How Dangerous Are Fantasies? Mine Is Embarrassing Me,please Help! by ORAGBON(op): 8:47am On Dec 09, 2017

Dear Jzhane,

Your blog is amazing. I see how comfortable people are with sharing their issues.

I have an issue o. One that I am very ashamed of. I cannot bring myself to ask anybody so I am quite happy for this opportunity.

I have a problem and a question. First the question. Is it a sin to fantasize about someone else when you are married? By that I mean,I fantasize seeing myself having sex with a particular colleague of mine. I mean,this guy in my company is not even close to me o. But I see him from afar most times. What is troubling me is that the fantasy with this guy happens anytime I am having intercourse with my husband. I feel so guilty,I actually feel like I am committing a sin. But no one knows about this,not even the guy.

Now to the problem. Something happens to me anytime the guy is around. I begin to feel wet and shaking. I actually begin to stutter and I dont know what I am saying.

How can someone have an effect on another person like this without even knowing? I have read that sometimes,people have fantasies but the way it is happening to me,is that how everyone experiences it?Is it normal?

Please help me. I want to stop,I really do. I feel quite ashamed of this. And I dont know if its a sin on my part.

God bless you ma.

Rachel,

Ikpaja,Lagos

Source:www.livelystones.com.ng

Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 8:33am On Dec 09, 2017

Hmnnnn

boookworm:
Don't let this post distract u from the fact that Ronaldo has won his 5th Balon D'Or tonight in Paris, to equal Messi's 5 times record. after Messi blew a 4-1 lead. Now it's 5-5

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Romance › Re: How Dangerous Are Fantasies? Mine Is Embarrassing Me, Please Help! by ORAGBON(op): 8:29am On Dec 09, 2017

Lol!

Swaggzkid:
La click La bend

Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 10:49pm On Dec 08, 2017

You may be correct. But where is the trust then? What if he his responsible for her change of attitude?

DopeBoss:
Oh he wants to catch her first b4 he gets the fact right well he just might never catch her if she plays her game well ...Btw with all you listed above it's no rocket science that she's cheating on him

Romance › How Dangerous Are Fantasies? Mine Is Embarrassing Me, Please Help! by ORAGBON(op): 10:11pm On Dec 08, 2017

Romance › This Free Event Tagged Lively Stones Christmas Hang Out With Jzhane Is Only 2 Da by ORAGBON(op): 7:58pm On Dec 08, 2017*

This Free Event Tagged Lively Stones Christmas Hang Out With Jzhane Is Only 2 Days To Go!!!

So,Are you ready huh

Date :10 December 2017

Venue :Redahlia Consulting, 43b Emina Crescent off Toyin Street, Ikeja.

Time :2-5pm

Invite your friends and family… Even your enemies!!! grin

If you know me very well, I know how to turn up, so this event, we will turn ALL THE WAY UP!!!

Highlights of the event :

*A workshop on purpose and achieving results in your relationship
* A talk show panel consisting of the best and finest resource persons on real life relationship issues
*Sessions on business opportunities for you
*Relationship Myths and Deal breakers
*Question and answer sessions
*Cocktail,networking and fun time!

You don’t want to miss this…. You won’t forgive yourself

See you there!

I can’t wait ……yayyyyyyy!!!!!

J

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Romance › Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(op): 6:32pm On Dec 08, 2017

God bless

Sulukag:
These are the challenges of marriage bro,it not something one can forsee. At this point i think you need to talk to her and also pray that God should disgrace whoever is diverting her attention from you,something is not right bro.

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