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Do not judge me please!

I am married and live in Ilorin with my husband and two girls. However,I have a son whom I had before I got married.

My Son lives with my mother in another part of the town in Ilorin and he is now a teenager. The story we told him was that I got pregnant for a boyfriend who didnt want the pregnancy. I was sixteen years old and we were both young and foolish.

It is true that we were sixteen at the time,young and foolish but I didnt get pregnant by any boyfriend. I got pregnant by my Uncle whom I was living with in Lagos. When it happened,I was rushed home to avoid anyone finding out and causing the family a huge scandal. We tried to have an abortion but that failed as I was far too long into the pregnancy,it was almost six months. I didnt know as I was like i said,young and foolish.

My Uncle actually convinced me to sleep with him several times so I could continue to live with them in Lagos and not be chased back to the village. I did that until I got pregnant.

My Uncle’s wife does....Read More


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emmanuelewumi:
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Dear Admin,

I am a thirty six year old married woman. I have been married for six years and I have three lovely children.

Initially,during the early years of our marriage,I noticed some pettiness from my husband. I overlooked it thinking that with age he would outgrow some of these pettiness. But after six years of marriage,it is clear this man has no intention of changing and I a really tired.


Three things that bother me that he does:

Anytime its time to spend money for something like children school fees or money to cook in the house,he just looks for something or starts a quarrel with me like few days before the day the money will be needed, He will get upset at every turn. Even if I try to ignore him,he will do everything to make us quarrel. That way,he wont be talking to me when its time to make the payment. He will also pretend not to be aware of the payment. Several times,we have missed important payments because of this attitude of his. It also causes embarrassment and stress
Secondly,anytime he wants to have s*x,he is very nice to me. Immediately after intercourse,he is not. Let me explain what I mean. We dont have a house help so I do most of the work myself coupled with my own career. Its very difficult but he decided that we dont need a house help and for peace sake,i agreed. Now,he doesnt help me at all. The only time he helps,after helping,the next thing is s*X!…Read More



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Jzhane 06/01/2018 Marriage No Comments

Keeping a marriage afloat can feel complicated and difficult for many couples. In the United States, about 40 to 50 percent of marriages end in divorce, while 57 percent of men admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had, and 74 percent of men admit they’d have an affair if they knew they wouldn’t get caught.

“Men don’t leave. They just want it all,” says an article published in Today, in which several women who have relationships with married men comment on how these men “never” leave their wives. Although this does not apply in all cases, it is very common for men not to leave their wives for their lovers. But why?....Read More


http://livelystones.com.ng/hmm-cheating-husbands-not-leave-wives-see/

Exactly!

greatnaija01:
well, maybe the pastor was trying to warn her or trying to sleep with her or trying to do whatever... BUT ANYONE WHO CAN NOT GET PROPER COUNSELING BEFORE MARRIAGE FROM THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN SUCCESSFULLY MARRIED FOR OVER 15-20YEARS, IS NOT READY TO MARRY, they have a wrong mindset and will face the music later.

I am not in support of pastors or against them. BUT before you enter into a LIFETIME PACT as MARRIAGE.... get PROPER DEEP WISE COUNSEL else regrets follow

God first in everything. You have to truly reconcile with you pastor. he probably was seeing this ahead of you and you.....

rebirthforgoody:
In marriage we put God first.sister I believe is still early you kneel to God in prayer secondly try to ask your pastors forgiveness I believe he can back you up in prayer too.

Dear ma,

Please I need help urgently before the worse happen in my marriage.
I was happy before i got married and even after the first two years things were still okay. But now I don’t know who I offended. I need your collective counsel and prayers to God to see me through this trying times.
Dave was one of my admirers and toasters when I finished secondary school. I actually didn’t accept though I liked him then,but I felt I was still young to get involved in any relationship that will distract me.I got born again shortly after my Jamb result came out. I was always in church because I needed a miracle to gain admission, hence I was always seeing the pastor after serve to remind him to pray for my admission, that was how my pastor and his wife took interest in me. When I gained admission to university we became very close and they were of immense support to me all through my university days. I graduated with a good grade, thanks so much to the man of God for always calling and reminding me of the reason I was in school. He and his wife were so encouraging.

I got a good job immediately I pass out from youth service. And six months down the line I met Dave in a fast food, we exchange numbers and before I new it, we were dating. In another six months he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted. I was 24 years old then.
Excitedly I told my pastor the following Sunday. He, seems not happy from his expression, but then I cared less.


He requested to see Dave. I knew that was not possible because of his(Dave) personality. When I told him, he was upset, started venting all manner of things. saying what right has my pastor over me, is he my father, or am I having something with my so called pastor. That was how I stopped the church to prove to him I didn’t have anything to do with the pastor. I also stop answering my pastor’s calls.
We had our introduction and traditional marriage and I immediately moved in with him. One year later we had a son after which I started seeing strange behaviour, keeping late night, getting drunk and nagging about everything and anything became habitual. Sometimes, I hear things like your are unkept, not looking attractive and pretty any more, my food don’t taste well……etc


Things got worse when he lost his job. He is always drunk now....Read More



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taylor88:
damn

Jzhane

Your internal feelings and external actions directly affect how successful you will be in all facets of your life, but especially when it comes to relationships. That’s why it’s important to be positive, committed, and above all, confident. All of that is easier said than done, however. In this article I will explore seven things you should be doing to help build confidence in your relationships today....


http://livelystones.com.ng/here-are-seven-ways-to-start-dating-with-confidence/

Dear Admin,

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now after knowing each other for 10 years. We have been living together for two years and overall have a wonderful relationship. He has always known marriage is something I want and he has told me it is something he wants too. This past year, I’ve made it clear I’m tired of waiting for us to truly start our lives together and that I’m not happy with where my life is at now. He is also aware that I have become quite depressed with all our friends getting married and having....See More


http://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-depressedalmost-six-years-aftermy-boyfriend-has-yet-to-propose/

This world is wicked. Life has been unfair to me. I am encouraged to write my story as I have read many shocking stories on your blog. Mine will add to the others.
My name is Kate. I am 43 years old. My heart is heavy and troubled even as I wrote my story. My greatest fear is about hunting me.
I am from Ebonyi State. I met Tunji a Lagos boy ( omo eko) immediately after my secondary school and had no one to take care of me. My aunt who brought me to Lagos abandoned me because I objected to start using my body to make money(prostitution). I usually make money to take care of myself from Hawking. I was a tall beautiful young girl, very gifted in the right places. I was the type that get guys to look back or stare whenever i walked on the street. Everyday, I would would get offers from at least two or three men offering me money to sleep with them. But I was smart,I would tease them so they buy my goods but I never slept with any one of them. There was never a day I came back with my goods,I always sold out.
On one of the days I was out hawking stuff,I met this fine boy called Tunji. I think it was love at first sight.He was different. He spoke eloquently and was kind to me. We both fell in love with each other. It was like magic and everything happened with the speed of lightening.Instantly, Tunji asked me to move in with him in his one room and I did without hesitation, just to get away from where I was living. He was my first and only love, he introduced me to all his friends showing me off.
Immediately I moved in I told him my story. He didnt really believe I was a virgin. He thought my experience with men made me a LovePeddler. But when we did it the first time(had s*x) he was surprised. And I think he was very pleased I was was a virgin after all. That made him very proud of me. He would boast with me to his friends. (I think it was a guy thing). I thought that meant he loved me so much. Not too long,I became pregnant.
That, was the beginning of my woes!
When my pregnancy was three months, we went to see his parents. At first sight,I was rejected by Tunji’s parents. I was an Omo Ibo. They didnt want me. They called me all manner of names. Tunji did all he could to convince them but they didnt want to hear it. Tunji’s sisters were the worst. I dont even know hwy they hated me so much. If only I was smart at the time,I would have terminated the pregnancy and moved on with my life. But Tunji kept telling me all will be well and that I should be patient.
Tunji, was quite supportive and very encouraging during my pregnancy.However, things began to change as my stomach grew bigger. He became less kind. He would snap at every opportunity. As I got closer to my due date,He took me to stay with his mum. Both of us had no experience with pregnancy. My aunt didn’t want to set her eyes on me and I am an orphan.
During my stay with Tunji’s parents,I did everything within my power trying to please his mum and sisters but all to no avail. They didn’t care if I lived or die. They were mean to me. Even with my heavy stomach,they made me do their laundry. I was asked to pound yam for them several times. One time,I was pounding,I started to bleed. They didnt care. I called the neighbors who took me to the nearest hospital.
Thankfully,I gave birth to my first son after a difficult labour. When I was delivered, his mum and sis didn’t care and didn’t visit me in the hospital. This same neighbour took care of me, took me home after I was discharged . She would come to take care of my baby and I. After I returned to the house after giving birth,there was no night I didnt have a spiritual atack. Every night,I was afraid to sleep as I would fight in my dreams with Tunji’s mom and sisters. At a point she (Tunji mum) appear to me in a dream and said she will kill me If I don’t leave her son, and somehow I said to her in the dream you cannot kill me. The attacks were also physical. They would slap and beat me at any slightest provocation.
I returned to Tunji’s place after six months. It was tough,I used to cry and be sad but I managed through it all. Almost two years later,I took in again. This time,as soon as I told Tunji that I was pregnant,his behaviour changed totally.He started sleeping out and coming home late at night.Then I started having nightmares. Everyday, I will see either his mum or elder sister chasing me in dream. One day I woke and as I opened the front door, there was dead tortoise and some other fetish things.as
At that point, I knew I needed God for the battle....Read More


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About Two years ago,I lost my job as a Marketer with one of the banks. Before then,I was the breadwinner in my home. My husband was not working. He Driving School instructor and most times,the business was not doing well. The loss of my job was a big blow to us. I tried to get another job but nothing was forth coming. Almost after one year,I took to selling food items in front of our house just to keep body and soul together.

Not too long after that,my husband abandoned me and my sons (6 and 3 years old). I heard he went after a Sugar mummy who was taking care of him. I was heartbroken. Deji has always been a lazy man,always depending on a woman to feed. He never really could fend for himself.



I moved out of our self contain apartment when I couldnt continue paying the rent. I got a room in a face me area. I was still selling food items. Anything I could lay my hands on just to make a living.


Lanre,was one of the customers of the bank where I was a marketer. He used to toast me at the time but I was not interested. After two years since I left the bank,Lanre tracked me down and started visiting me where I was living. He started taking interest again in me and I was happy as I was getting attention from a man. He would also assist me financially. Lanre is separated from his wife whom he married traditionally. Fortunately,they dont have any children.

I have been seeing Lanre for almost three months and he is already talking marriage. That seems like the right thing to do but the only problem is that Lanre wants me to leave my children with my parents. He says he doesnt want another man’s sons in his matrimonial home. He says they can come later after we have had our own kids. Lanre feels like seeing my kids from my former husband might be a hindrance of some sort.

Of course I refused the condition but even my mother says...Read More



http://livelystones.com.ng/he-has-only-one-condition-for-marriage-or-my-kids/

Not really a bad idea to me since your kids will be with your parents and not strangers

LivelyStones:
About Two years ago,I lost my job as a Marketer with one of the banks. Before then,I was the breadwinner in my home. My husband was not working. He Driving School instructor and most times,the business was not doing well. The loss of my job was a big blow to us. I tried to get another job but nothing was forth coming. Almost after one year,I took to selling food items in front of our house just to keep body and soul together.

Not too long after that,my husband abandoned me and my sons (6 and 3 years old). I heard he went after a Sugar mummy who was taking care of him. I was heartbroken. Deji has always been a lazy man,always depending on a woman to feed. He never really could fend for himself.



I moved out of our self contain apartment when I couldnt continue paying the rent. I got a room in a face me area. I was still selling food items. Anything I could lay my hands on just to make a living.


Lanre,was one of the customers of the bank where I was a marketer. He used to toast me at the time but I was not interested. After two years since I left the bank,Lanre tracked me down and started visiting me where I was living. He started taking interest again in me and I was happy as I was getting attention from a man. He would also assist me financially. Lanre is separated from his wife whom he married traditionally. Fortunately,they dont have any children.

I have been seeing Lanre for almost three months and he is already talking marriage. That seems like the right thing to do but the only problem is that Lanre wants me to leave my children with my parents. He says he doesnt want another man’s sons in his matrimonial home. He says they can come later after we have had our own kids. Lanre feels like seeing my kids from my former husband might be a hindrance of some sort.

Of course I refused the condition but even my mother says...Read More



http://livelystones.com.ng/he-has-only-one-condition-for-marriage-or-my-kids/

Hello Jzhane,

I am a 33 year old young Lady.I started dating Tom in September 2017. Things have been going strong and I expect that he would propose anytime soon. How do I know,well,he has been giving hints like,saying am his wife..that he is saving money to buy me a proper engagement ring,that our wedding will be the talk of the town,etc.

I love Tom,hes cool. The only problem I have started in late November. When we started to date,we used to meet in restaurants and sometimes in my place. Later,when I started visiting his place,it would be on Saturdays and Sundays. But in Late November,anytime I visited,Tom would ask me to help wash his clothes,plates,clean and other petty house work. I didnt like that. I was like taken aback so I limited going to his place just so I wouldnt have to force myself to clean and wash. I mean,we are just dating,now am washing and cleaning..when we get married,maybe that will be my full role.


Dont get me wrong,I am not being spoilt but there are ways of doing house chores these days. There is washing machine for instance. As for cooking and others,I feel I should not be obligated to do so as a girlfriend,only when we are married right?

Over the christmas,Tom and I had a fight. He wanted me to shop and cook for christmas. I did grudgingly. Where I got upset was that,after cooking,sweating in the kitchen for hours,he asked me to clean up as well and also do his laundry. I told him I was tired that he should help me. He got angry and said I am a spoilt brat and that I am not a wife material. That really got me upset and I left his house...Read More



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Hello Jzhane,

I am a 33 year old young Lady.I started dating Tom in September 2017. Things have been going strong and I expect that he would propose anytime soon. How do I know,well,he has been giving hints like,saying am his wife..that he is saving money to buy me a proper engagement ring,that our wedding will be the talk of the town,etc.

I love Tom,hes cool. The only problem I have started in late November. When we started to date,we used to meet in restaurants and sometimes in my place. Later,when I started visiting his place,it would be on Saturdays and Sundays. But in Late November,anytime I visited,Tom would ask me to help wash his clothes,plates,clean and other petty house work. I didnt like that. I was like taken aback so I limited going to his place just so I wouldnt have to force myself to clean and wash. I mean,we are just dating,now am washing and cleaning..when we get married,maybe that will be my full role.


Dont get me wrong,I am not being spoilt but there are ways of doing house chores these days. There is washing machine for instance. As for cooking and others,I feel I should not be obligated to do so as a girlfriend,only when we are married right?

Over the christmas,Tom and I had a fight. He wanted me to shop and cook for christmas. I did grudgingly. Where I got upset was that,after cooking,sweating in the kitchen for hours,he asked me to clean up as well and also do his laundry. I told him I was tired that he should help me. He got angry and said I am a spoilt brat and that I am not a wife material. That really got me upset and I left his house...Read More



http://livelystones.com.ng/i-really-want-to-get-married-this-year-but-is-this-a-deal-breaker/

Its happen to most people, it's your ability to say no to the temptation.

Yeah she should talk to the Pastor

Romanic:
Na real waoh....

In respect to your husband,I will say keep quiet. But you can also try speaking to your pastor or someone older and responsible in the family to speak to your sister inlaw and your husband.

Just apply caution shaaaaaa.

Dear Lively Stones,


My husband is an only son from a family of four. All his three sisters are not married and they are all in their forties and late thirties.

Recently,I found out that one of the sisters is messing around with our church member whos wife and children are abroad. From my findings,this affair started almost two months ago. When I confronted my sister in-law,she said she does not mind being a second wife or mistress as age is not on her side. According to her,the man likes her and his wife not being around,he is needs someone to keep him company.

Over this Christmas,this man traveled to the US to see his family. I wanted to use this time to encourage my sister in-law to break the affair but she wont listen. saying that I am married thats why I dont understand what it means to be single and without a man.

My husband too has told me to mind my business that the two people involved are grown adults. ...Read More




http://livelystones.com.ng/my-sister-in-law-is-disgracing-our-family-my-husband-is-not-bothered/

Beautiful! since the men no wan propose, the ladies are taking the bull by the horn

mikejj:
ugadahn girl

Dear Lively Stones,

My Sister In law is disgracing my family and my husband does not care.

My husband is an only son from a family of four. All his three sisters are not married and they are all in their forties and late thirties.

Recently,I found out that one of the sisters is messing around with our church member whos wife and children are abroad. From my findings,this affair started almost two months ago. When I confronted my sister in-law,she said she does not mind being a second wife or mistress as age is not on her side. According to her,the man likes her and his wife not being around,he is needs someone to keep him company.

Over this Christmas,this man traveled to the US to see his family. I wanted to use this time to encourage my sister in-law to break the affair but she wont listen. saying that I am married thats why I dont understand what it means to be single and without a man.

My husband too has told me to mind my business that the two people involved are grown adults. ...Read More




http://livelystones.com.ng/my-sister-in-law-is-disgracing-our-family-my-husband-is-not-bothered/

hmnnnn

Tajbol4splend:
Traffic gives them food, you want them to be hungry

Gbam. This makes alot of sense

drmuri:
madam u never for once said your husband maltreated you nor your children even after his marriage to this other lady. in order words, if not for his gossip driver, you wouldn't know he married another person since apart from skipping weekend visit occasionally, he still provides for you and your children.
my advice, let sleeping dogs lie. your husband is human, he is prone to error, forgive him and learn to at least tolerate the other woman.
trying to fight him and cause mayhem may push him totally to the awaiting bosom of the other ladies.
the fact is: some men cannot just be contented with one pussay. it has nothing to do your actions or in actions. just move on with your life and focus note on loving your children

Yes she should think thru any action she want to take because of her kids. i know of a lady in a similar situation. but hubby is back to his senses. Though he is now with his real family but his children have no regards for him as their dad> because while he was still in active service and was making a fortune, he lavished it on the outside wife. now he is retired. she doenst have his time. His wife n kids he kinda neglected financial are all doing well now

SpyAC:
for the sake of ur kids, stick wt hm.

it could be, but we cant say for certain. besides, he had not given any sign

RoyalBlak007:
Probably you've done

[color=#F5A215] something bad to "$hegun" that you hiding [/color]

Dear Lively Stones,


I read your stories and articles daily and sometimes, I wonder and ask if these stories are actually real.
Behold, the evil I fear has dread so much has met with me. In short, am almost running mad at my discovery.
I asked can men be so heartless? Does it mean we don’t have honest men anymore? How could Segun do this to us after all these years and all we have been through? I have given him a male & female children! I stood by him when things where hard! I have been faithful!What else should I do? I feel useless! I feel like falling down and dying!!
We have been happily married for 15 years before now. I have never had cause to suspect my husband. He is loving, caring and everything. Seven years earlier, when things look a bit tough for him, i supported with all my savings to ensure he didn’t feel the financial burden his out of job was putting on him.I tried everything I could to ensure he was happy always until….
When the offer came from Lagos, I was not bothered, all I wanted was for I’m to have a job, cos that would make him happy.In fact, when he hesitated I encouraged him to take the offer. Had I known the devil was right there at the corner waiting to put an end to my joy. Had i known i was sowing my husband to the demons in Lagos I would not have allow him.One year after he got the offer, he was promoted to a senior manager with an official car, driver and so many other benefit.
Meanwhile, sequel to his promotion, he visits us every weekend in Abeokuta, and ensures all our needs are met, that made us not to feel his absence during week days and the thought to relocate everyone to Lagos. Also, his lavish-titude blinded everyone of us even when his weekly visit became irregular I just swallow what ever he tells me.
Well all that changed few months ago. I ran into my husband driver who worked with him for over three years. He was loyal. Bode was a good man, I never had the chance to find out why he was sacked.
So, that fateful day presented the opportunity.Before, i could finish asking after the all the….Bode let down the casket of worms....Read More


http://livelystones.com.ng/15-years-marriage-discovered-husband-another-wife-another-city/

Dear Lively Stones,


I read your stories and articles daily and sometimes, I wonder and ask if these stories are actually real.
Behold, the evil I fear has dread so much has met with me. In short, am almost running mad at my discovery.
I asked can men be so heartless? Does it mean we don’t have honest men anymore? How could Segun do this to us after all these years and all we have been through? I have given him a male & female children! I stood by him when things where hard! I have been faithful!What else should I do? I feel useless! I feel like falling down and dying!!
We have been happily married for 15 years before now. I have never had cause to suspect my husband. He is loving, caring and everything. Seven years earlier, when things look a bit tough for him, i supported with all my savings to ensure he didn’t feel the financial burden his out of job was putting on him.I tried everything I could to ensure he was happy always until….
When the offer came from Lagos, I was not bothered, all I wanted was for I’m to have a job, cos that would make him happy.In fact, when he hesitated I encouraged him to take the offer. Had I known the devil was right there at the corner waiting to put an end to my joy. Had i known i was sowing my husband to the demons in Lagos I would not have allow him.One year after he got the offer, he was promoted to a senior manager with an official car, driver and so many other benefit.
Meanwhile, sequel to his promotion, he visits us every weekend in Abeokuta, and ensures all our needs are met, that made us not to feel his absence during week days and the thought to relocate everyone to Lagos. Also, his lavish-titude blinded everyone of us even when his weekly visit became irregular I just swallow what ever he tells me.
Well all that changed few months ago. I ran into my husband driver who worked with him for over three years. He was loyal. Bode was a good man, I never had the chance to find out why he was sacked.
So, that fateful day presented the opportunity.Before, i could finish asking after the all the….Bode let down the casket of worms....Read More


http://livelystones.com.ng/15-years-marriage-discovered-husband-another-wife-another-city/

Jzhane 30/12/2017 Family No Comments


Everyone had always told me that unconditional love between two adults was impossible. As much as I thought I might love my future husband, they told me the moment I had children I would realize that the love I have for them is true unconditional love.

I remember asking myself: What makes marriage so special if my love for my kids will easily trump my love for my spouse? Just the thought of it made me sad, to be honest.

I walked into marriage believing that all it would take is one mistake and my husband’s love for me would crack. Or if I did not fulfill every commitment and I was not the perfect wife then he would stop loving me. Because after all, our love for each other was conditional and not as strong or deep as a parent–child relationship, right?


I’ve since realized this was not the case at all. I truly believe that the love in a marital relationship can be unconditional.

When I was pregnant with my first child, I had this nagging fear that my husband wouldn’t love me through it. It was a really rough pregnancy. I had days and weeks where I would get super behind on dishes, laundry, cleaning and on top of all that, feeling miserable. I was hyper-emotional, over-sensitive, and hormonal to the extreme! After weeks and weeks of this, I was annoyed and tired of myself. I couldn’t imagine how much my husband was annoyed with me as well.

Yet, during the worst moments my husband continued to show me love. Even when I couldn’t stand being around myself, he would purposely come home early to spend an extra hour or two with me. When I was hormonal and emotional, he would rub my back and feet and tell me how beautiful I was. When I got extremely behind on household chores he would wake up extra early on his few days off to make sure the house was clean when I woke up.

He went above and beyond over and over again, loving me despite my shortcomings. I realized and am still realizing that through my faults and failures my husband’s love for me is unwavering. Through many trials, disagreements, and miscommunications he loves me not just as much as when we got married, but more. And I feel the same way about him. We have only grown closer and stronger in our trust and love for one another.

All those comments people made to me about how marital love cannot be unconditional are wrong. I now have three children with my husband. I know what people mean when they say the love between a parent and child is different from any other relationship. But that doesn’t mean my relationship with my husband is any less deep or profound. I would step in front of a bullet for my kids, but I would for my husband as well. And I know he would do the same for us.

Everyone had told me that two people cannot love each other this deeply; I never would have thought that our love could grow so much stronger and more secure through the years we’ve been married. I am so pleasantly surprised that mutually unconditional love is my reality.


http://livelystones.com.ng/possible-love-someone-unconditionally/

God bless you. Some guyz even say they prefer gals who were wild before. This was delibrated on the whatsapp group. You won't believe what we heard from holier than thou brethren

ekanempatrick28:
bro to tell u d truth i will advise u stick to ur girl but talk to her about ur sexual expectations. the truth is dis most husbands seek Ladies outside becos dere wife dont satisfy dem. she should learn. cos its for the benefit of both of u.

Greedy!

habsydiamond:
Na people like u dey make ladies bash guys for here....u get better girl but u dey find something else....in short, I pity Ur condition oo...oloju kokoro oshi

Dear Admin,

Help a guy here. I am not a player by any means but I have a situation I would like your help to sort out.

So I have a girl,we been together for a while,almost like three years. A year ago,she a job in Lagos and it was too good an offer to turn down. We agreed she should take the offer and see how it goes.


Eight months after we got engaged. Long distance relationship is hard but we make it work as much as possible through constant calling,skyping…she also visits once a month.I visit sometimes too.

Two months ago,I got friendly with a lady I met at a gym. I told her I was engaged..she also has a boyfriend. But as time went on,I realise how comfortable I am with her. We havent done anything yet but she is such a down to earth kind of person. We talk deep and sometimes dirty. I like that she is open to experimenting unlike my girl. Am sorry its like am comparing both of them but this girl makes me envy her boyfriend. The things they do,how they play,how they tease each other. I mean,I was talking with her in the car one day and she was talking about her relationship and I was really getting an erection….my bad but I have been thinking seriously about my relationship with my fiancee.

I read one of your articles which was talk about s*x expectations with your potential spouse.So I talked with my girl and I found out she is not into things that I like. Like oral s*x,and other stuff. She is the typical good girl. Meanwhile,this my gym girl does not mind. I jokingly asked the gym girl if she would break up with her boyfriend for me..she said,I....Read More





http://livelystones.com.ng/destiny-just-carried-away-lust/

Super eagles player, kenneth omeruo, will be getting married to his fiancee, chioma nnamani, in enugu state tomorrow, december 30th.

The professional footballer, who is a chelsea defender but currently on loan at turkish club kasimpasa, proposed to chioma in september.

He took to social media to share their pre-wedding photos as well as photos from their introduction





http://livelystones.com.ng/pre-wedding-photos-super-eagles-player-kenneth-omeruo/pree/