xin5: At first I thought it was a joke when a neighbor told me my girlfriend came around last month while I was away in another vicinity. This was someone that knew about my movement, I confronted her when I came back and she told me it's a friendly visit to my landlord house, apparently she was invited by the landlord daughter to come spend time with them unto paddy paddy settings without my notice.
I didn't take it that serious because when she visits me, she always climb upstairs to go greet them....fast forward to this month, I noticed her strange attitudes towards me... no longer likes to visit... always saying we should meet in the mall. To come for my conjugal right is a problem. (I do send her Money, so it's my right).
She broke up with me last week which was okay.. I didn't sweat it. But what surprised me is getting to know she's been seeing my landlord son at different locations. it hurt me deeply because I took this guy like family even though we not close. But his elder sister and the middle one are so fond of me, giving me greenlight last 2 years when I just packed in as a young guy at 22 which I maintained frame but right now I may just do what I have in my mind and damn the consequences.
She's not your gf, it was just ur turn... Move on mate
Nasri100: A Rich Man before red pill wastes his resources on a woman so she can get to like him, have s*x with him or love him. He is basically a simp.
A Rich Man after RED PILL realizes there is no UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and the best he can get is from his mom.
His mandatory responsibilities are his children and family. His wife is not a relative and it ends there.
He is very very stingy with his resources and a girl must work really hard to enjoy them. She has to commit a lot of her attention and body to even enjoy a dime.
He also knows women operate on their feelings and can never be trusted.
She could decide to want a new adventure and try a more handsome man that is tall and well built and has less of his net worth. He is happy for her and understands he owns no human being and everyone has a freedom to choose want they want. Life is simple.
He will be happy for her and write her a check. Life goes on.
Tomorrow he has a new woman on the horizon (if he wants)
When it’s time to have a kid or two, he explores the best medium and makes sure the mother of his children will take care of them in the best possible way and he supports her financially.
Also has so much money to engage in other activities that doesn’t revolve around P*****
Why on earth would a man want to be anything aside being Rich and Red Pilled
Accepted defeat but Couldn't wait for the next setup.
I gambled. Because the trades where not smart from my end. That is not what it means to be a risks taker. Patience is a skill and I must learn it.
It doesn't matter what price you buy or sell. what matters more is what the market is currently doing
Will take a break from trying to get funded and focus on growing the little I have and make a living from it( I have done this consistently but I will do it on a larger scale this time)
I'm a risks taker, I'm not fearful and I'm a rich trader.
If ever I'm going to get funded, I will aim for larger a account size. I was aiming for lx570. I hope I get things right some other time. Back to my live account.
There are Props that has no time limit.... Founded Trading Plus Traders with Edge.... You can experiments with them too
dhiqson: Ohhhhhhhh Anytime anyOne calls my name, i just feel happy
I refer to my self as Taliban reason being that the crop of women out here, are loyal to their feelings only! Do you know what it Means to be loyal to just your feelings (Whatever past sacrifice is done in the past is null and void, only the present and the future matters)
Such things gets to me But as the "taliban" as i am, I don't even reason it one bit When she's done with you, she'll ruthlessly deal with you.
Obinrin buru gan oh
#cUmRadETaliBan
Lolxxx.. Bro.... Won ya werey gan, buh as omo ogbon, u gaz be one step ahead at all times.
emmaodet: For me, have made peace with the way things are.
Maybe that is how God or mother nature designed it because if you are to look at the situation of things logically now, many women are damaged. Using Marriage as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme is bad enough, now making it a Rehabilitation Center should have been the final nail to the coffin. Many women today are damaged - they smoke, consume hard drinks, engaged in 3some/4some/orgies, numerous sexual partners, multiple abortions, bang guys who use hard drugs to sex them thereby turning them to nymphos etc Bro, the list is endless Now, 10/15 years down the lane, these women will want to settle down with a lot of baggage they are bringing. If you can satisfy them sexually......people will call you out for not been man enough to satisfy your wife and you need to buckle up. If she is having regular mood swings (which comes with a woman who has slept with many men) - They will tell you sa a man, it is your duty to make sure your home is in order, you are the head of the family and it is a duty God has ordained on you to do. Just name it - She will compare you financially with her Ex, sexually with her Ex-bedmates, Nothing you do will really entice her (let me expansiate on this) - A lady that has been flown on air, lodged in 3/5/7 star hotels with chiefs, alhajis or politicians, received 50k per night or more, expensive phones etc from her previous bedmates will always feel irritated and angry by a hubby who only brought pad and bras to her on her birthday. She will never appreciate anything you do. And it is your fault according to most women for not making your (Damaged) wife happy. Reason why i said Marriage being a Poverty Alleviation Scheme for women is bad enough (where your properties - car, house, land money etc becomes Our Own but when life happens, she ditches you and run away citing she is tired of the marriage), now making Marriage a Rehabilitation Home (to correct our past mistakes, where you don't have to look or judge her past that will still come to hunt you anyway, where we just need to look away for a woman who has engaged in prostitution, smoking, drinking, clubbing and as turned to Sister Kemi in the church) for many many women is totally bad deal for any man presently
Hmmm.... You have a very valid point here. Women won't be held accountable for anything, and that's where the problem lies.
emmaodet: Another one. She is my SIL Very beautiful during her prime and even still beautiful. I think she is close to 40. No husband nor kids. Frustrated and always crying and praying to God for hubby even though she has been changing men like diaper...........my wife claimed it is the men who are not serious for relationship and just doing chop and clean mouth.....okay now When in her prime..... she was carried away by the beauty and regular attention Then, she was very selective and materialistic (not a bad quality if you ask me anyway) Red flag ..............she stays at Omole estate alone in a 700k apartment. Who does that ? Even me wey dey do better work is a salary far more than her own no go try am. She works with FIRS and i will guess her salary is not more than 150k. Unless there is something i don't know sha. When i pointed out that red flag, wife told me she has a side business now .......buying and selling of gold abi jewelries from Dubai... Okay now During one of their conversations, she blurted out that she is tired of paying the yearly 700k, that is is taking a toll on her. So she can't wait to just get married so that the man will be the one footing that bill. It is all about the mindset of the modern woman. It is never about how to run an effective home/family rather how to use a man.
emmaodet: I know of a lady at ibadan, she graduated 4/5 years ago. She has been looking for work but for where. The ones she even got are private school teaching jobs of 15/20k. She coded sleeps with married men now out of can we just say frustration. During our discussion, do you know what she told me? That she is tired with the rigorous life she is living and she is eager to marry. Atleast, she won't be staying in her father's house or asking him for stipends .... in other words, she is looking for a slave to shoulder her problems. Mostly financial.
Lol...that the game bro. Marriage is heaven fr women, coz if u remove the hustles of life, trying to put a food on the table...wetin remain please? Rides? Na man dey go gaga for dat..
emmaodet: Totally correct bro and unfortunately, that same pussy has been ravaged by previous guys with little commitment, yet a brother will be very happy to personally secure it for himself which comes at a very very expensive price of slaving throughout is remaining life.
Reason why the lower class and upper lower class of women would fight vigorously against men who are kicking against marriage because it is their retirement plan. It is not a bad idea to a slave after all to do the rigorous job of looking for money.
Men are stupid, very stupid when it comes to sexual relationships... Why will you marry, pay a price for a non virgin? Why? Even the religious books doesn't support it.... The game the women are playing is clear, (hook up culture, FWB etc)...they don't want marriage, buh men are still bringing it to them...haaah. it's so sad. Makes me sad when an olosho dey even talk about the standards she wants in a man when she wanna settle .
emmaodet: Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Tbh, i don't know also.
@ the bolded most guys these days don't even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage - To this question - 1. Most don't know. They are not aware about the past of their spouse else they would have taken to their heels.
2. Let's be frank, most men out there are sexually starved and invincible to women. SO when a man sees a lady that is even ready to give him attention, to give him a listening ear, they fall over heels to have her and finally secure her from the preying eyes of many sharks lurking around like you BigBashiru (lol)
Do you know how many guys who have never received any gift from ladies are very high? even here on nairaland, i can bet more than 50% of guys have never received gifts or money from women. Something an average lady gets regularly. There are many things to say but just have to leave it here
Most just want sex, puccy to dig all night long ... But I love women. It comes with a cost 1. Your resources 2. Your freedom At 30years, dey realize, oh, life's hard, I gotta pay all this bills? Not a bad idea if I settle now and have a slave foot all that, I just gotta drop puccy, and even withdraw the puccy if he doesn't comply ...
BigBashiru: Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Donnt get me wrong il be happy & smiling but not excessively happy like most guys typically are...@ the bolded most guys these days dont even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage....
Blue pill matrix He who finds a wife finds a favor bullshit Men are sex starved Majority of men don't understand how a woman understand the word "Love" Men are happy and always ready to be a slave (years of programming) Women are smart species of beings, and I respect them alot.
BigBashiru: Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28-30... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body + dwindling attention which makes them get desperate in late 20s....
so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center. I hv known 23 yo girls on the brink of marriage call of their weddings because they expect a better guy to come...... most keep expecting a better guy until they get old.....
thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found? I dont think such ladies exist... I think the only ones available are the ones their parents force to get married early which is non existent these days since most parents want their daughters to finish school and get a job....
Would you want to settle down in your prime years? They need to enjoy life, den settle later.
UyaiIncomparabl: Any man that follows and digests what that guy churns out is either a dunce, cannot think independently, a wasted element or all the aforementioned. If a man has to follow misleading teachings from another man in the name of nuggets, then he's probably not fit to be a man in the first place. You guys should try to take a rest. Let this guy enjoy his marriage.
grbgrb4: Good day guys No mind my English please Let me go straight up. I've been dating this girl for like 3years I'm just a young guy who's is trying to make ends meet and the said girl is an undergraduate, she is home due to ASUU Wahala. Countless of time i advise her on matters and she does otherwise only for her to come begging when e red. The worst of it all was she was duped online for the same thing i advise her not to venture. To my greatest surprise she called today telling me that she left for Abuja for a job of 30k which i advised her not to because the pay wasn't worthwhile. The same girl learnt tailoring and bag making oh and she is making no moves on that. I wonder what's her drive Please guys i need your say on this on what to do next.
ProphetJeroboam: Saw a random thread on twitter about booking a hotel room and going 7 rounds of sex. The comment section was full of women manifesting and wishing for it or reminiscing similar or exact encounters. Hmmm lol
Cheasystickylov: So if a guy is trying to come into you space- girlfriend of wife, we are supposed to say nothing and just allow the woman reject the guy herself. I thought as a man you should stand up for what is yours
Lol...a banny is never urs....it's just your turn...
DestinyDjohn: Thank God I was able to pass the evaluation test after getting a retry in the first attempt...I also want to thank boss mi @Infofirst for giving me the privilege to participate in series of competition hosted by him,may God replenish your pocket boss .....A big shout to every member of the FTA family you guys are the real MVPs...one love
Sassy256: I don't applaud anything. I just say what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Men do it everyday and the woman is expected to accept it, yet they are the first to cry foul what it happens to them. Please he should endure and pray for her to change abeg.
It was yesternight after work, I decided to stop by a grocery shop to stock up as usual. On coming out, driving through my estate back gate, boom! A cluster of people gathered, some at different sides of the road, others at the scene, I looked closer it was a lady and a guy fighting, and others were just watching not separating them, I pulled over immediately (best decision I ever took). If it was any other scenario I wouldn't have even looked twice, but you see man beating/fighting woman, I detest it!
Before I could come out and asked what's happening, the lady already burst the guy's head open with a stone, he had blood all over his head/face, ah! then joined in another guy slapping her and pulling her hair (she kept shouting OMONIGHO!), I was like what the f***, what if her husband or brother shows up?
Just before I wanted to go and separate them, I just said lemme confirm what's happening... I finally asked, -wetin dey happen?
'Bros, this lady husband just catch her with man dy comot for hotel so, he call secretariat boys to drag her and the man go, na wetin she dey fight so, say she nr wan go'. -were the husband so? 'see am for there'.
Woah! the husband stood behind a highlander jeep on his phone, now it made sense why she kept shouting OMONIGHO!!! Further findings showed that, they've been married for 5years, he has asked her time and time again, their child is always falling sick(he's SS), and the man is (AA) ,she always downplayed the fact... Now, rumor had been going on that's she's cheating, but since he is a bonkery(oil people) worker, he's mostly out of town. From what he said, he said the child looks exactly like the man he caught the wife with now...
Boom! off they drove to secretariat, younger me would've driven along the convoy to see the end... but for my sanity sake, I chose not to.
Now, what's happening with women nowadays? if you see the husband and the man she's cheating with, they're world's apart oh (husband dust am in every facet) is it money, attention, sex, high-libido, urge-to-explore or what exactly??
Some say women don't marry who they love, but who's ready, even at that, you should know you're married and respect the union! Do you know what it means for a man to marry you, provide for you and end up to be training another man's child?
Why do MARRIED women cheat? The men sleeping with the married women are useless oh, no doubt, but you can make a case that some of them don't even know the ladies are married..
I'm getting scared every passing day about keeping an undercover slut at home.. You people pity us(MEN) nah. Most women no longer have shame.. Sodom and Gomorah babes no do reach this one oh.
What do these women actually want?!
Alpha bleeps, Beta bucks. If you don't know what this mean...OYO.
ubunja: okay here's one of the unfinished Miseducations i left hanging when i abruptly stopped writing. I wrote this I think a year or so ago, I hope it makes sense:
THE MAN WHO SITS AT THE TOP OF THE SEX PYRAMID.
There's a sexual hierarchy in society. Levels, if you will. Like the levels on a pyramid. The Incels sit at the bottom getting no pussy, above are the Simps, used for their resources but getting breadcrumbs, above them sit the Betas, or the "patriarchy" - our fathers and most men. These are the "alpha providers" women settle down with. Above this group sit the PUAs, the Pick Up Artists who trick women into bed. Women have a special kind of hate for these fellows. Above these fellows are the Alphas, the Red Pillers, many of whom are former Betas played by women but who now know their worth. Above them are the Players, Thugs, Bad Boys, Chads, Tyrones, criminals and all those men in prison, these are the sexual alphas, but social failures. They get the best and the most sex but manu are uneducated, broke and jobless. They have the best genes, and are the most gorgeous and the most fertile of men. They're the Sexual Imprint of virtually every girl because girls lose their virginity here. Women want to get pregnant here. Single mothers are made here. And wet coochies go here. When women are younger and fresher and wanna experience life they go here. It is women's previously unknown preference for this group that is pushing many men to the Red Pill.
Let's move on,,,,Above these men sit gigolos, male prostitutes, male strippers, exotic dancers, massage therapists and personal trainers, - men paid by women for sex. Where men traditionally are the ones who buy sex, the sheer sexiness and bed skills of this group is enough to flip the script and force women to break with tradition and pay for sex.
AND FINALLY, OVER AND ABOVE EVERYONE, sitting at the very top of the sex pyramid, dominating the sexual hierarchy, chosen and tutored by prostitutes and dealing only with them, is a Man the French call the Maquereau. Or the Mackerel. Who is known in the west as the Mack. But is universally known as the Pïmp.
Beyond this Man whom prostitutes pick, build and then pay to have sex with, who moves in a world opposite every man's - there's no one. He is the best of the best. The Game in the flesh. PUA and Red Pill philosophy is actually a watered down version of Pímp's game.
But hold on,,,, while there's no one greater than the pímp in the game, while no man is better than him when it comes to women, there's Someone equal to him. Someone who matches him and with whom he shares the top spot. Someone who knows what he knows and who moves how he moves. This Someone inhabits an entirely different world, but that is as filled with women and pussy as the pímp's own world is. Time and again this Someone hits the news for his sexual debauchery and scandals but is judged far less harshly and always given a pass. And it's not surprising that many pímps when they retire, they become him.
This Someone is the Preacher.
Outside of the Pímp, no son of Adam dominates women as completely as the Preacher. Besides the pímp no other man understands female psychology as intimately as the Preacherman.
And it definitely doesn't help that many pímps have preacher-like monikers, eg the pímps Archbishop Don "Magic" Juan, Minister Seamore and Pastor Troy: Video title - "Pímp Interview: Pastor Troy"
Add to that the pímps' penchant for quoting scripture and oftentimes referring to the IZM as the "gospel"; hearing a pímp talk is no different from hearing a preacher preach.
But it is the pímps who retire to be preachers that is the master stroke. This is an impossibly genius move that takes the pímps from one world of women to another world of women. From pussy to pussy. It's almost as if women escape the pímp on the streets only to meet him at the pulpit. And terrible is the financial and sexual exploitation women have experienced in the hands of the Pulpit Pímp.
He has more power over their minds and emotions than their own husbands. And they would rather disappoint their husbands than disappoint him. You only have to see how women's faces light up when they talk about the preacher, fondly calling him, "my pastor" or "the dear Man of God". You only have to see the massive female following preachers have. How women vastly outnumber men in their congregations. Then you'll appreciate the scale of the pímping that is afoot against the female gender. Observant men are starting to joke, "if you want coochie, start a church!" It used to be, "If you want money start a church!" Now with the nonstop rumors, sex exposés and scandals it's becoming clear that churches are as rich in pussy as they are in money.
The easy way: Let him go ahead and learn from the experience.
The hard way: If he still has some measure of manliness in him, this should work. Arrange the roughest tout you can find, one or two abokis and let them have their way with her and record(or find a way such that he will see the stuff himself, live action), if he doesn't change after seeing how thoroughly ran through she is that day, then know that there is no hope for his level of madness.
In my opinion, nothing cures you of pedestalisatiion, like seeing that lady you value so highly being fuqed roughly, without mercy, and she sliding the diick back inside her pussy after it slid out. If only guys see how mercilessly some ladies were fuqed and roughened up, you'd never want to.come within two feet of her.
Meedon: House, can a man change a hoe? There is this girl in my area that everyone is sleeping with. My friend came visiting and saw this girl. He started to disturb me, always talking of how he loves the girl and that he want to marry her. I told him exactly what he needs to hear. I told him that this girl you are trying to commit to is a hoe. He said it doesn't matter that he would change her. That he would stop her from going to other men. He said that after he has changed her, he would marry her. He really loved this girl. Maybe it is because of the big ass, I don't know.
infofirst: God bless you boss mi. You stated it as I would have loved to. Follow the trend. The big or next question if I may ask before I share my thoughts as well. How do I know the trend?
Well, if you good with PA, it's easy to identify trends....Price action is the key here, coupled with pivot levels.
EmiDon11: Hi nairalanders., So sad that the girl i've been craving to start a relationship with has said no., Despite all my efforts to make her accept, she said that relationship is not what she want to be in, for now and not even in the next 5yrs coming. To tell you the truth, i didnt cry but tears rolled down of my left eye which i wiped up immediately. Jeon listen, i know that u a woman that want to build urself first b4 falling in love. I like it, u are a woman who dont want to depend on ur man but i assure you that even in the next 10yrs, i will wait 4 u. I will stop mentioning you on nairaland but i wont give up the love i have 4 you., U have stolen somebody's son heart jeon, and u cant help it out, not even me can., So jeon, i will start loving u all my life and wont stop., And i assure u that we will post our prewedding photos here. And i will also pray that kollins11,silentgroper,orgasmgiver and stallionhorse of all people will be alive to witness the event. It is not over till it is over jeon., LUV U JEON