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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by emerged01(m): 5:55pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
ibinaboonline:I wont lie to you,I didnt propose. It didnt occur to me that I should propose before I marry. Now she is with kids. No be matter of propose,na matter of readiness to take responsibility. Prepare yourself for second half of your life. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by silibaba: 5:55pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
jeromestarks:think am joking right? Just take a stroll there. You never go service? When you go you will will understand that 99.9% Nigerian girls are olosho,that is why a man will say, I want to tie the nut or I want to get married.but a girl will say, I need a good husband(man that is loaded financially) or they will say, I want to settle down this year which means they have been fuuucking around all this while. Boyfriend use ordinary indomine and egg divirgin person future wife. It is well. You wey want come chop left over go come receive bill of N500000-and above. Mean while na boyfriend chop the hymen ooo. Life no balance at all. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by seanwilliam(m): 5:57pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Wishing you the best brother. But look before you leap 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by FrauleinBlossom(f): 5:57pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
It's not really about being ready to propose, but about having the necessary emotional maturity to handle what marriage entails; if he is sure of that, then no special advice is needed. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Aidejay(m): 5:59pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Does She Have Any Other Rings? You Can Use One Of Them To Compare. Or Size Your Fingers With Hers It's A Coded Way To See If Any Of Your Fingers Are Closely Related In Shape & Size As Her Ring Finger. Or Measure It At Night When She's Asleep. Use A Thread. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Umunze1stSon(m): 5:59pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
jeromestarks:Chai! You no well 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by nedekid: 6:01pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Make sure you don't do it in public, so we don't watch you on social media entertaining us. Do it in private and all the best. |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Umunze1stSon(m): 6:02pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
ibinaboonline:Don't mind them, they are all void of counsel. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Eileene(f): 6:04pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Abeg @ ibinaboonline do not mind these bitter guys ooo.. you know sometimes I just laugh at the way Nlanders make it seem as if marriage for a guy is an evil thing simply because they lack knowledge on how to build a good home... Yes I agree most girls and ladies of nowadays are nothing to write home about but even in the midst of bad there is good and op if you've found a gem in your woman congratulations to you. As for the ring part look for the closest female in her life who can keep a secret to help you out. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by OutOnBail(m): 6:07pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Don't mind the comments from these spoiled morons whose lives are worthless and always dissing ladies. They've never been loved in their lives, not even by their mothers. Best is you find her close friend and tell her to keep it a secret, her friend can actually get her ring size for you, it's just a matter of she testing out fashion rings with her without raising suspicions. That's what I did when I proposed. ibinaboonline: 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:09pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Eileene: Of course...which other statement will I expect from a gender that marriage benefits...we are telling him to avoid jumping inside fire but what what do we know now...my dear you're not a man...it is of more risk to us to get married 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Dididrumz(m): 6:10pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Beebah2000: You never marry? |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by drnoel: 6:11pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
jeromestarks: This young men here are pained 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by drnoel: 6:11pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
ibinaboonline: OP don't mind those pained young men. Go for it 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by OutOnBail(m): 6:12pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
jeromestarks: He sought for advice on ring size and not this gibberish! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Are u mad or wat? Upon all your wailing. Hundreds of marriage ceremonies are conducted every Saturday. Take ur bitterness away. Is it ur marriage? Wen u give birth, may ur daughters remain unmarried for life. I speak into ur life. No man will look the way of all ur daughters Nyascobar1414: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by OutOnBail(m): 6:15pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Are you married, have you ever been married or attained age requirement or success level to marry? Raised by a single parent or come from a broken home hence the unsolicited advice? Answer those pertinent questions before we take you serious. Rayban25: 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Are u mad or wat? Upon all your wailing. Hundreds of marriage ceremonies are conducted every Saturday. Take ur bitterness away. Is it ur marriage? Wen u give birth, may ur daughters remain unmarried for life. I speak into ur life. No man will look the way of all ur daughter Rayban25: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
silibaba:A friend just confirmed what you said to me. Only a fool will marry a non virgin. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:17pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
OutOnBail: That is the problem...do you need to be married before you can see that the cost outweighs the benefits?...ask a 20 year old boy if he would be eager to wed ladies of this generation that are not chaste and let him give you his answer. |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:18pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Tamilore11: No be me chop your noodles oo...go and cry somewhere else |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by AyeMoJuba: 6:19pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414: Best post of the day. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Searchingvictor: 6:20pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Quick question, is she a virgin? Violent question. Question that gives Nigerian girls nightmare. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by orchin(m): 6:21pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
AyeMoJuba:Guys dey para ooo.... |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:21pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
vicksbaba: Any man that follows and digests what that guy churns out is either a dunce, cannot think independently, a wasted element or all of the aforementioned. If a man has to follow misleading teachings from another man in the name of nuggets, then he's probably not fit to be a man in the first place. You guys should try to take a rest. Let this guy enjoy his marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Solumtoya: 6:21pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
ibinaboonline: Buy a ring for your small finger. Then wear it on your finger in her presence, then playfully try it on her ring finger and see the fit. If it's too small, you know to buy a size bigger or two sizes bigger or if it's too loose, you buy a size less or you may be lucky and it would be perfect fit. If she wears rings, better for you, steal one and take to a ring shop for measurements. You can buy her an affordable jewelry set: necklace, earrings and ring. Make sure it contains a ring. You can check the fitting and know what size to buy for engagement. Remember to tell the shop where you buy the engagement ring that you will come and exchange it if it doesn't fit. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Natbrowny: 6:22pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
I dnt knw how ring stuffs work. But here's my input Once u wanna do it, do not f*cking kneel. I repeat, do not f*cking kneel. That sh*t is a borrowed culture. Be creative in doing it. So many creative ways are available depending on ur kinda woman. Finally. Incase she says NO. No stress, No vex. Just get ursef a plate of catfish(head preferably) and support with 2 big odeku. Incase u don't do alcohol, then do whatever u normally do to stay sane. EXPECT DISAPPOINTMENT AND U WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED. FINITO 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by OutOnBail(m): 6:23pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
I don't need to ask a minor or inexperienced person such advice. You have probably been asking minors like yourself such questions but I also believe a lot of 20 year old are more sensible than this and would never think so low like that Rayban25: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by orchin(m): 6:25pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:26pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
OutOnBail: The gibberish you typed up there shows you're not living in the reality of what is going on now...by the way why am I responding to a cowardly female hiding behind a male account to sound like shes making sense?..abeg shift |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nairanation2: 6:26pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Kinda easy. When she's asleep, use normal sewing thread to measure d finger. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Anakazo22: 6:28pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
virginprincess: Stop talking like a fool, but you will want your sister (if you have) or daughters to get married abi. The ladies you are calling useless are people's sisters, daughters, cousins and relations for your information. So keep your sadist to yourself and allow those that want to marry in peace. 2 Likes |
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