Handsome man

romeo:

The Foolish ones are still calling Chief Odogwu names!!

Thank you!

I just found out that Chief Sunny Odogwu,the Ide Ahaba is a totally different person from this clown Sonny Okogwu.Please let's not confuse the 2.
Odogwu is a well respected multi millionaire and a philantropist in his 70's,the owner of Grand hotel in Asaba and a a man who has proven himself in the world of business.He is the holder of several distinguished awards and merited honors both at home and abroad and is well loved by all Asaba indigenes and Igbos at large.

Sunny Okogwu is a tout.
His only claim to fame is being Ndidi Okogwu's brother Ndidi Okogwu went on to become Maryam Babangida and the Okogwu of an slowpoke was a beneficiary of the stolen Nigerian money by the IBB regime.
Please let's make that distinction and not drag Sunny Odogwu's good name through the mud

Ebony-Silk:

chief Odogwu is the foolish one himself.
You ppl would support anything as long as it's Igbo sha.
Are you telling me that the dude's accusation might be true?
There's not even a chance of probability in this one.

Continue to close your eyes until you eventually turn blind

Chief Odogwu is innocent.
Read the thread dear.

Woodpecker:

not much- but she shld be ready to put some effort into the relationship even if its 30%i think thats the best i've read 2nite and its probably the truth but i still miss the "mushy stuff"yea rite, shes asleep rite here and she must'nt see wat am up to

Then why are you bothering us?
Please shut off the generator and turn off the lights let her sleep

Ebony-Silk:

Why do you always got to post shitty news?

I wonder if you ever smile.

Demonic ppl

The stupid character named comfort is mohadana of before.
Very saddistic individual ,criminally minded fellow, full of self hate
He only cuts and pastes crime stories
Never contributes to any threads including his own.
He couldnt even make a simple sentence in correct grammar the last time he tried.

Woodpecker:

i call her every few hours to ask how she is and send txts to show how much i care so its like i'm the type that doesnt show emotion or love. @ least i have the self confidence to show it

If she's not responding,she may have moved on already.
Infact she could be in the arms of another man as we speak
I'm telling you the naked truth.
when people change like that,there's always a reason.
She may not have received what she needed from you emotionally and moved on but is still remaining cordial.
You need to ask some hard questions since you could be courting someone else's woman

Mr Woodpecker forgive me for giving you a hard time
If you show this girl affection,she'll respond with same
It'll be good to have a word with her face to face about your feelings and own up where you've slacked.
all the best!

davidylan:

osisi easy on the dude, as a nigerian dude i can understand a bit. Many of us werent raised to show affection to our partners, it is usually looked upon as weak.

he should then take his recent treatment as a man
You can't sow "awolowo leaves" and tun around to harvest Ugu and waterleaf
It doesn't work that way

davidylan:

I can understand woodpecker to an extent . . . the average nigerian dude expects the chic to do all the lovey dovey stuff, call just to whisper sweet nothings, pamper him, cook him his favorite dish . . . like he said its not the gifts, its the attention he misses.

Dude . . . you havent been doing something right which is why madam has grown cold towards you. no woman who loves you will need to be begged to do simple stuff like call to ask about your day. Something is wrong somewhere and if you marry while sweeping all these under the rug . . . may the Lord help you.

The girl is already moving on small small.
is she allergic to love and pampering.
she has given and given and poor Titilayo is spent
If she flashes him every once in a while,he ought to thank God

Woodpecker:

@osisi u r obviously a very frustrated girl whose immaturity in adult matters is quite appalling. if u had any sense @ all u'd see that its not the gifts i care abt but the effort. if she called me just once 2 ask how my day is i'd value it more than anything she can spend money onshe knows me very well and doesnt mind so who the phuck are u to judge?

do you have leprosy?
can't you dial the phone and call her and ask of her day
stop being needy
that may be why she's beginning to distance herself from you.
Are you biologically male?

DeReloaded:

Osisi, you should just look thru Nairalist. Just for laughs, I swear the number of guys looking for sugarmummies is SOOOOOO alarming. When did Naija dudes lose their ego? Shameless generation.

The place is hilarious.
I went back to yesterdays thread and saw where sharon came after you and I laughed and laughed.
Some of these Nigerian males are comical
I hope these people are less than 20, that's the only reason some of the things they say here could be excused

I want her to give me gifts
I need a sugar mommy
I need nido and digestive biscuits

ah ah!

DeReloaded:

Exactly instead for him to figure out what caused the change, he's yarning dust about telling her about other women

If you supposedly love her like you claim, you wouldnt think of playing such an immature game. I hope when you do tell her she responds wih "I was waiting for you to say something stupid so I can leave without a guilty conscience" then you can come back and make another thread "How Do I Get My Girl Back, I havent Received Gifts In 2 Years!!!"

ROFL
you no go kill persin

ebony silk why are you quoting yourself and responding to your own posts?
ROFL

DeReloaded:

If wishes were horses, BEGGARS would ride.

If you had all that going for you, you wouldnt care about a girl no longer buying you gifts. Hungry!

beggars will ride Escalade my sister.
This kain lie for rainy season?

onyinye2:

Woodpecker. . . . . , I'm waiting for you to answer my question.

What is your vision of an "ideal" girlfriend/fiance?

One who comes bearing gifts of chewing gums, sweets and recharge cards

the guy is a moronic liar.
who dash him company.
agbero yaba that's sulking over some okirika "trozis" his chic didn't buy for this "beffday"
suddenly he's become Julius Berger

i met my current bf ,who is 36 yrs, 8 months ago and all seemed to be going fine and rosy until my family objected to the union. becos of gentype issues.

now i met another guy 2 months back that i really like too but he's my age mate and his genotype is ok for me,

This is scary.
6 months into a relationship you found yourself an undercover lover?
stop giving women a bad name

didique:

what am i doing?

i am a 29 yr old lady. i met my current bf ,who is 36 yrs, 8 months ago and all seemed to be going fine and rosy until my family objected to the union. becos of gentype issues.

now i met another guy 2 months back that i really like too but he's my age mate and his genotype is ok for me,

recently i seem very distanct frm my old boyfriend, that we barely talk and i try to avoid any form of physical contact btw us instead i spend all day talking to this new guy i met. though he hasn't said anything and i doubt if he ever will.

please am i cheating on my old boyfriend or have i just found a new friend in my life

why are you calling him an old BF if he's still in the picture and why are you starting a new relationship when you are still in an unfinished one?
That's unladylike.
Are you keeping the "old boyfriend" as a back-up incase the new man doesn't work out just as you fear?
How are you handling it?
I mean juggling 2 unsuspecting men at the same time
Is it worth it?

My advice

Break off with the 36 year old man cleanly and let him go rather than waste his time with you.
It's obvious your heart is with the new guy.
Let the other man go.You are not being fair to him.Don't you have a conscience?

Real woodpecker.
e don peck the girl, peck am peck am
the omoge come gather common sense come hold her purse tight, zip am
na im e come hia dey talk rubbish

ima1:

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Maybe u need to read ur post again i am sure u did not understand what u wrote.

He's making up the stories as he goes along based on our responses to his "babiallah ways"
He'll soon tell us he bought her a jeep jeep

How did you suddenly go from this

Well my case is quite simple;
AV been dating this wonderful girl for the last 3yrs but the problem is that at the beginning of the relationship she was the one who was all over me, she used to buy me gifts, she was always calling to know how i was. Now she rarley calls- only flashes- and its not like she doesnt buy credit, she hasnt given me jack since my birthday last yr, and she'd rather spend time with her friends than me. i know guys r meant to be the ones in charge but right now it seems like shes the one at the helm of affairs. shes very beautiful and loves me to pieces- she tells everyone who cares to listen- but the problem is that she doesnt show it anymore(apart from the sex ). i just need advise on how to get the old her back cos i miss her like crazy
ps- we're planning on gettin married in the future so i'll be needing the old her soon

to this

Woodpecker:

this is the last time i'll respond to some of the very stupid posts av been seein ie @ osisi and davidylan;
from day one of the relationship av always done a lot for her, i change her wardrobe @ least twice a year, i bought her 2 phones last year, i practically sponsored her final semester in school and yet we finished school together. i've always been blessed financially and i see no big deal in doin stuff for my girlfriend so pls dont insult me, i've been the man i ought to be through out and i'm not bragging its just the plain truth.
whats wrong with a woman trying to show some appreciation for the things her man does for her by doin a little in return? its not like she doesnt work

liar liar pants on fire

The guy is also a pathological liar.
From 1st to 3rd page,his story has changed a million times.
How did it go from her doing all the buying to you sponsoring her final exams and changing her wardrobe ?
You were earlier on threatening to tell her what other girls are buying for you to make her jealous and suddenly you've become an employer of labour with a construction company
do you think the readers are idiots?

@agaba, we cant really trust ourselves when it comes to things like this. can we?

I have a girlfriend now whom i cannot trade for microsoft corporation let alone someone who hurt me.

Does this make things a little clear?
Would you have prefered if i just ignored the girl and never say anything about it on this forum?

What is the romance section here for if not to share experiences so that others will learn?
A little girl who is about to dump her boyfriend could stumble upon this and learn something from it.
Lets us get serious and make things a little clear instead of accusing me of hiding a feeling that died since 2003.

I am kind of surprised by what she said and by what she proposed. Thats just the point here.

N.B

Even if all the members of nairaland and facebook combined together asked me to go back to this girl,
The answer remains negative.

Oh ,you have girlfriend ?
Just be a facebook friend to the other girl
It's kinda rude not to accept friendship from someone who knows you especially since you're not married.
Theis is an easy situation to handle

Sam milla
didn't know you were such a romantic.
The beginning of that story was so wonderful.
Pure love in action.

My advice

From what I read the incidence with her leaving you suddenly happened when she was in secondary school
we all do and did very childish things as teenagers.
It's obvious you still have a soft spot somewhere in your heart for this girl.
She is older and more mature
she found you on facebook because she still loves you.
and you're single right now abi?
My brother if you stiull feel something for this girl,give it a try
You never know

2nd paragraph should have read "Thank God " not "that God"

Well my case is quite simple;
AV been dating this wonderful girl for the last 3yrs but the problem is that at the beginning of the relationship she was the one who was all over me, she used to buy me gifts, she was always calling to know how i was

and what exactly did you bring into the relationship?
a needy personality?

. Now she rarley calls- only flashes- and its not like she doesnt buy credit, she hasnt given me jack since my birthday last yr, and she'd rather spend time with her friends than me.

and some people say miracles ended with the apostles
That God she now has a life and is using her money for better things.
Go buy youself chewing gum and tom tom

i know guys r meant to be the ones in charge but right now it seems like shes the one at the helm of affairs. shes very beautiful and loves me to pieces- she tells everyone who cares to listen- but the problem is that she doesnt show it anymore(apart from the sex )

The sex part will soon fade away,give her some time.
her eyes don begin clear small small
very soon you'll be history

.

i just need advise on how to get the old her back cos i miss her like crazy

You miss the pampering and gifts,is she your mother?
Don't you know the way to Balogun and other markets?

ps- we're planning on gettin married in the future so i'll be needing the old her soon

It won't work
you are planning on getting married,her plans have changed.
Go find another "mommy Christmas"

Woodpecker:

@czar
she's the not bossy @ all, on the contrary she usually allows me have my- infact shes almost perfect- the only down side is her lack of effort. am thinking of makin her jealous by tellin her abt stuff other girls do for me. maybe then she'll sit up

Oh no you didn't !
Thank God the girl is beginning to see that she's wasted 3 solid years of her life with a loser.
Hopefully she'll close her legs wave you a final goodbye

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where in the world did the modify button go?

The culture of greed, bribery and corruption is what I hate the most in Nigeria
Evil has permeated the fabrics of the nation that the line between good and bad is blurred.
Criminals and looting politicians are celebrated  and highly esteemed even though everyone knows they got their wealth by illegal means.

I hate the culture of rudeness and lack of customer service
Everone seems angry and frustrated and ready to vent their spleen on innocent people

I hate the culture of using the Lords name in vain
Evil men pretending to be men of God while fleecing people of their meagre resources

I hate the culture of low expectation
The average Nigerian thinks he deoesn't deserve much from the elected officials and so we don't hold them accountable

I hate the culture of lawlessness and selfishness.
where individuals are constantly thinking of how to swindle the next man for quick bucks

I hate the culture of asheworism that has turned our young girls into pop corn begging whores
some with the parent's  passive consent

ibkaye:

What the f. . .? What culture is this?

Sadly,some women especially in some rural areas in Igboland,Yorubaland.Ijawland,northern Nigeria and other areas are either coerced,"encouraged" and in some cases forced to marry their dead husband's relative.
I think it's a dying culture and that makes it rare.
Most people have only heard of it and never seen it happen.
see my earlier link