₦airaland Forum

Its a great idea for Thieves, conmen, wife beaters, married men, DL brothers.

The idea is this, why put up fraudsters on a website and turn around to forgive those that do emotional 419? Someone here said that whatever is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

@Poster

Yeah i remember this site.

Some heifer i dated few years ago had me on there. She wasn't even a date, it was just a fling. She got mad 'cause i told her i was tired of the mess. She got mad claiming i used her and put me on there. My co-workers saw me on the site and told me. I threatened her with a lawsuit and slander before she removed my name. I think there is one for men too. Don'tdateher.com or something like that. i know 2 guys on that site as of last year.

The truth about this site is most of these women still want the guy back and they go to this site when all their efforts fail. In my own case, the girl was my boss and she just came out of a relationship. She was the one even stalking and blowing up my phone. Until i changed my number and the job. That's when she went to this site. I all of a sudden became a user, a cheat etc. After i told her that i felt like she needed to go back to her ex because he still wants her. I never wanted the fling but she seduced me into it. Guys, watch out for die hard women. And if you find yourself on this site, threaten her with a lawsuit and i bet she will remove it.

Pele. Just don't take advantage of women when they are in their lowest point again. Women always leave their guards open whenever they are going through emotional hell. Be warned!

So there should be gentlemen and no ladies. I believe in equal opportunity everything and if a woman can make a fool of herself so can a man.

Have you heard of affirmative action? The oppressed in the society are given some priviledges and thats why women have every right to write on that website. White men are the least priviledged because they just have no room for error and are seen to be unhindered by any factor. In the same vein, women are the most oppressed in our society today especially black women. If you want those priviledges, then grow a veejay.

@Poster
That site is not very encouraging, We have all been hurt , YES, but what that site is about is not addressing HURTS its creating more, Did u read those curses n swearing, in the POSTS, ? Thats not Nigeria style, we don't talk like that, is all dirt everywhere
YUCK

Most of these women were severely taken advantage of by these wolves in mens clothing. Nothing can heal that in the life of a woman.

sheniqua and osunAmazon I AM CAPABLE AND EQUIPED FOR D TASK You SEX STARVED GIRLS.

I'm not a girl please.

I think something good will come out of it as long as the follow the due process of law. I just hope they are not setting her up because she's a woman.

It is a good site but hopefully the women are saying the truth too

Thats the only problem with the idea. People being biased,racists,tribalists etc. There is bound to be a high level of tribalism if it is introduced in Nigeria but the core idea of the database is to help women stay off bad men.

There should be one dedicated to men as well.

Why? A gentleman is supposed to let a woman have her way all the time. Only touts that will go and paint women black there.

Omg @ the website, do these men know that they are up there?

I bet you some Nairaland men are up in there. I wont be surprised if I find 4play in there.

Check out some naijas listed on the site:
http://dontdatehimgirl.com/posts/100483/


http://dontdatehimgirl.com/posts/7578/


http://dontdatehimgirl.com/posts/94375/

http://dontdatehimgirl.com/posts/55055/

as though he has what it takes.

Thank you.

We have www.dontdatehimgirl.com here in the US where you can register the name of a playa to protect other girls from falling prey to them.I've personally seen some Nigerian names registered in that site.

Ladies: Will it not be a good thing to have such sites in Naija where you can run any guys name to see what he's up to? It may also help to curb the STD epidemic in Nigeria.

Guys: Will you get mad if you find out that your EX that you PLAYED listed your name there?

I prospose for DontDateHimGirl.com(Nigerian version).

sheniqua and osunAmazon needs to get laid truly.

they are sound as if they lack action.

am happy one of them confessed that she needs action.

You wanna help out?

Men are moved with what they see.

I thought it was what they feel?

I want to know your name and
I want to know if you gotta man (I want to know)
I want to know everything
I want to know ya number and if I can come over and
I want to know what ya like
I want to know so I can do it all night
But you're telling me I'm just a friend
You're telling me I'm just a friend

Oh baby you (oh baby you)
Got what I need (got what I need)
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
But you say I'm just a friend
Cause I can be your (cause I can be your)
Fantasy
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
But you say I'm just a friend

I want to know you in and out
I want to know what you're all about (I want to know)
I want to know what makes you laugh
I want to know about your past
I want to know how you move
I want to know so I can move too (I want to know)
But you're telling me I'm just a friend
Telling me I'm just a friend

Oh baby you (oh baby you)
Got what I need (got what I need, yeah)
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
But you say I'm just a friend
Cause I can be your (girl I can be your)
Fantasy (fantasy, yeah)
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
But you say I'm just a friend

(Woah oh baby you) Oh baby you
Got what I need (got what I need, yeah)
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
But you say I'm just a friend
(Woah) Cause I can be your
Fantasy ( fantasy, yeah)
But you say I'm just a friend (but you say I'm just a friend, girl)
But you say I'm just a friend

(Oh, can you) Give me one reason why (why)
You wouldn't want this kind of guy
Cause I stay dipped I stay laced
And I know you know I'm fly
Girl, stop playing games wit me
And let's get it on tonight (tonight)
You got nothing to lose
Let me do what I do (what I do)
Oh baby you
Got what I need (got what I need)
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
But you say I'm just a friend
(Just want to be your) Cause I can be your
Fantasy (fantasy, girl)
But you say I'm just a friend (but you say )
But you say I'm just a friend

Oh baby you (oh baby you)
Got what I need (got what I need)
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
But you say I'm just a friend (say I'm just a friend)
Cause I can be your
Fantasy (Can I be your fantasy)
But you say I'm just a friend (Come on girl )
But you say I'm just a friend

You can call me anytime you like (oh anytime)
It doesn't matter day or night ( said it doesn't matter)
We can do whatever you (ohh)
Wanna do it's up to you
Don't fight the feeling that you feel (don't fight the feelin)
I can tell that its real (oh girl)
So won't you help me understand (but you say im justa)
Why you say I'm just a friend (but u say im justa, friend)

Oh baby you (oh baby you)
Got what I need
But you say I'm just a friend
But you say I'm just a friend
Cause I can be your
Fantasy (I can be your , I can be your fantasy)
But you say I'm just a friend
But you say I'm just a friend

You must be a good poet.

Sharrap dia you fresh neek

Lol @ fresh neek.

Lordy Lordy mee.Men now rape victims . . . emm sorry i mean boys

Yes you heard right. the world is gradually shifting to the inevitable. Some pundits call it end times.

kick it could just straight out mean he is looking for someone to have sex with, and wondering if you are down with it,

ok; your explanation is different from the women. Ain't that surprising that a guys interpretation confirms my suspicion.

Is this story possible? YES!

Do I believe you? HELL NO!

sound like something you read in one of those naija magazine!

Wonder why you believed that Moji Obasanjo slept with her father and fathers friend but refuse to believe this one probably because the scandal concerns your church.

Lol! I agree some of them can be 'snakes', but that also applies to some women, it goes both ways, anyway sha, like i stated before, i believe majority of men are after sex, but not all, some just want to chill, feel me?

I agree but never try to be cool with the likes of Sly, Klimepet or 4Play, they are rattle[b]cobras[/b]. If you must kick it or be cool, try bawomolo, Kobojunkie or OzimaTv.

Statistically, underaged boys are raped in America more that underaged girls in this century; grown american women are more agressive than american men today. They may not resort to direct rape, rather, they push,shove,squeeze and coerce men into wanting them by harrassing them sexually. In most cases, they resort to calling them gay if they attempt to resist.

In Nigeria, more women are adopting that system to nab men; The Nigerian society is strictly patriarchial and as such, men have no stance on affirmative action; There is a high likelihood that underaged boys in Nigeria are getting raped in drones but nobody cares because as far as we are concerned, women are still more susceptible than men; Nigerian women are agressively showcasing their body parts in the name of fashion just to increase a man's libido.

My question is: Do you think that men in Nigeria are more susceptible to sexual harrasment than women? Do you think our government is insensitive to the plight of young boys who may be silently going through the pains of sexual abuse because it's feminine to cry out loud about such things? With the global increment in the gradual extinction of the male specie, wouldn't it be proper to nurture and preserve our own? Are women increasingly becoming insensitive to the emotional needs of men because they are becoming weaker by the day?.


Why Do I decry this trend?
My  sister called me yesterday to tell me about her neighbour's daughter  in UI that has been raping her 5 year old son and my heart bled because women are becoming something else in todays world. it wasn't like this  back in the days y'all. Men are no more qualified to be called dogs alone, women too are becoming dogs. It's a pity that in no distant time, boys will be guarded by their parents/guardians more than girls like they use to so us back in the days.

Shiooor, not all guys are after sex you know, yes a majority are but not all, some just want to be friends, give them a chance, I have plenty of friends that are boys and we just chill, sex doesn't come into it at all

Do you blame me for being afraid of snakes? guys are rattlesnakes.

Or kick it could just straight out mean he is looking for someone to have sex with, and wondering if you are down with it,

'Are we cool?' To me that means, are we friends, nothing more, nothing less, sometimes girl misunderstand the things that guy say and that's why they always end up thinking the guy wants to date them, we can just be friends ya know

I think it's a guys creepy way of telling you to be his FWB's? Guys cannot be trusted you know.

Bottomline: They are looking for avenues to embezzle money without the EFCC raising eyebrows. pathetic nation!

We are pretty much more racist since we see ourselves solely as the ones on the receiving end of racism. As a result we don't see the ugly racist lurking in the darkest corner of our mind. Look at Nairaland and the ridiculous 'tribal wars' where some people find it difficult to make their point without the insertion of inflammatory and derogatory lines against other 'tribes'. Some call it tribalism, I call it RACISM.

I just love every inch of this statement.

If an acquaintence of the opposite sex says to you, "So you want us to be cool?" what would that mean to you?

Similarly, if someone of the opposite sex said he or she was looking for someone with whom he/she could "kick it," what does that mean to you?
sounds innocuous to me. i think they connote, "I'd like to date you," but I take it they may have individual meanings?.

Christians and their judgements. Before, it was catholics that worship demons(that was in the 90's when the pentecostals were looking for a foothold into the mainstream Nigerian christendom that was largely held by orthodoxy. Now, they are fighting themselves using the same bible they claim to have overt knowledge of and abundance of holy spirit looming all over them. The same bible that said that one of the fruits of the holy spirit is unity. If both parties claim they have this spirit, why the division? This sharmans are getting out of hand and they are doing anything possible to hold on to more flocks just for financial sake.

Until christians go back to basics, forget this high fly lifestyle, ignore these career pastors that paint the streets of lagos with exotic cars and love-vendor suits, they can never see the light.

Even when it was obvious that late pastor Oduyemi was a 419 and sleeps with his members wives, some sheepishly stuck with him;  When Benny Hinn was defrauded by pastor Kola(can't remember his full name)  to the tune of $4M thereby disgracing Nigerians in the international media, some still believed in his innocence; when it was obvious that after Idahosa's death, the church openely brought an American pastor who knows nothing about it to help them complete the act of nepotism by making his wife who's been away in America for long the presiding bishop claiming the holy spirit directed them to do so. More are yet to come, Chris oyakhilome will eventually hand over to his daughter or wife, madubuko to his wife, pastor Ezekiel to his daughter,Oyedepo to his son etc. Is this not a type of  religious dynasty? I don't know why EFCC refused to arrest pator Kola for playing religious 419 on Benny Hinn.


Again, my question is, why are most mega churches in Nigeria centered in lagos? Does it mean that it's only lagos residents that needs salvation? Why are these pastors afraid of going to a typical village in Ekiti or Gombe to start evangelism just like the white missionaries did centuries ago in Africa? Don't we have enough churches already in lagos? we even have gay churches and gay pastors that are ready to preach, deliver,hook up and marry gay people. Why build more churches in lagos?

As for TB Joshua, he's also a sharman in another form. The truth is that christianity displaced the jobs of babalawos and prospective babalawos decided to wear love-vendor suits and carry bibles to deceive the feeble minded. The real pastors/priests of God shall prevail.