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Lordsonn:
Greetings to you all. I want to go straight to the point. I opened this account because of my marital problems.

From the day I met my wife, she was after marriage. In less than two weeks of meeting her, she started pressurizing me to meet her family members which I succumbed to.

These are what she told me at the beginning of the relationship:

1) She had HND from Kaduna Polytechnics
2) She has Diploma in Computer Science
3) She is a professional cake baker
4) She was three months pregnant
5) That she was 27 years

My discoveries after marriage:

1) She doesn’t have any HND, infact no good WAEC result
2) She cannot even connect laptop to printer and print. She don’t know much about computer at all.
3) She doesn’t know how to bake cake. I discovered that the cake I asked her to bake for me, she gave the contract to her friend.
4) She was never pregnant. She had fibroid and that made her tummy big
5) She was 33 years.

NOTE: the reasons why I believed all she told me at the beginning was because she was a prophetess in her church. She speaks in tongues and prophesy many times and most of the prophecies came to pass.

I was even surprised that in less than two weeks of our relationship, she made move for sex and we started having sex. I did not even think of pre-marital sex because I thought she was a holy woman.

The problems after marriage: several people began to beg me to forgive her and continue with the marriage. I find it difficult but she was still living in my house. I was just being forced my her family and her family members persuaded some of my family members to beg me too. I tried to love her but hatred for her was just building in my heart.

The fibroid surgery was successfully done and she got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. I thought the coming of the child may make me to forgive her but I could not recover from her betrayal. I even hate her more.

She wrote WAEC last session and got nine credits but the memory of her betrayal is giving me a lot of psychological trauma. I love an educated woman and cannot see myself glued to an illiterate woman in the name of marriage.

Major problems that made me sent her out:

1) She refused to go to my church. She always want to go to her church and even want me to join her there which I refused.
2) She doesn’t like education at all. She hate going to school and will never carry book to read.
3) Anytime I have disagreement with her, she will call her elder brother. And they will come and talk to me, sometimes in a very condescending manner
4) She is not submissive, very arrogant and talks with anger, authoritatively.
5) She is a societal woman, she loves joining several associations of women and be going to meetings every sunday which I don't like.
6) She value clothes more than human being. She can use any money from the family purse to buy Hollandis, lase, George etc just to dress to her church for show off. I am introvert but she is extremely extrovert.

I sent her out of my house three weeks ago. She is trying to come back in the disguise that she doesn’t want her child to be only one, that it will make the child suffer in the future but I told her I cannot allow her to my house again. I love my little child and I cannot live with such a woman who is full of lies and pretense. I just have hatred for such kind of people.

What do you think I should do?

seanfer:
Cost how much and can you share pictures

ojeysky:
Is that name of a paint? Am considering changing my white colour Camry to a different colour, only wish there is a good painter in Ekiti or closeby

Someone7:
Thanks for the advice but problem is I'm in Abuja and I don't think it's wise to transport it all the way just for a respray. I don't know much about cars and I'm still even learning about my own
But I plan to contact kingreign when this lockdown is over. He seems very capable so I'll give it a try

Someone7:
Hello everyone, I need honest opinions please.
In may of 2019, I bought a tokunbo Toyota Camry 2012 and so far, we've enjoyed using the car.
Fast forward 10 months later, the car body doesn't look great anymore. And it's understandable because my wife drives it to work everyday, and this our axis is filled with crazy drivers. (If you k is mararaba nyanya traffic!)
The car has scratches and bumps all over and the paint looks to be fading and I'm seriously considering doing a respray.
However from what I've read on Nairaland and heard around, a respray devalues the car. Is it possible though to get a very good technician that can do a good job of painting in Abuja? I know the factory paint is the best but can one get someone do something really good that will last? Car experts in the house, how much do you think a very good paintjob will cost in Abuja?

Thanks all

tensazangetsu20:
There's no cheap Mercedes to own. The 2015 c300 had a lot of recalls for randomly catching fire. This fact is readily available on the internet. How does the e300 have a lower horsepower than the c300 when both cars use the exact same engine.

I am a Mercedes Benz mechanic between and have worked and gotten tired of those cars above. I still maintain the w213 e300 is a more reliable car to buy.

tensazangetsu20:
Get the E300. The powertrain is very reliable. The 2015/2016 C class had a lot of recalls for randomly catching Fire and it has some funny useless unreliable electronic gismos. The E300 is much better built.

Ayomarcel:
Make person use 17.5m car dey do bolt?

FreeMejoor1:
dope ride bro..hw much u got it for..very clean baby.

osy77:
No vex would post at the break of dawn sir

Smartchoiice:
Without posting pictures here?

CarGuideNG:
Definitely Sir.

We are always available.

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Ok thank u i sure would call...a quick 1 pls...with the recall of "some" c300 2015...do u think its advidable to go ahead with the a mercedes benz c300 even if u give a clean bill of health after running the VIN check

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CarGuideNG:
An important part of the VIN report would be determining if the vehicles were part of the recalls which Mercedes Benz USA initiated for several C class variants manufactured for the 2015 model year, due to a fire hazard.

This would be in addition to ownership history, damage, mileage and service/repair history of the vehicle, all included in a comprehensive report.

CarGuideNG:
An important part of the VIN report would be determining if the vehicles were part of the recalls which Mercedes Benz USA initiated for several C class variants manufactured for the 2015 model year, due to a fire hazard.

This would be in addition to ownership history, damage, mileage and service/repair history of the vehicle, all included in a comprehensive report.

tensazangetsu20:
Original equipment manufacturer In this case parts directly from mercedes.

dumo1:
Original Equipment Manufacturer/original part made by the manufacturers themselves in your case by Mercedes Benz and not Chinko parts.

tensazangetsu20:
It's a nice car but you must be very strict on maintainance. Use OEM parts or high end aftermarket parts especially for the delicate sensors. Avoid tokunbo scraps as much as you can.

tensazangetsu20:
Go for a well maintained one. Run a VIN check to ascertain past damages and go with a mercedes Benz technician to inspect everything. The technician should go with an obd scan tool.