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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Carlyboi(m): 2:22pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
pocohantas:Pocahantas my love lol @all this small boy sef why are you wicked like this you’re not even given the young gentleman any hope at all you just make his morale die finish with that line btw I found you something hun....maybe she’s your long lost sister?who knows
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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DenreleDave(m): 2:23pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
fatymore: I don't understand.. Bedsheet for the childhood frnd or for the real bf.. Who wan use the Bedsheet knack d babe |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by cozy7(m): 2:23pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Brunosamel:I know I'm commenting late but I really hope u read this, bcoz I'm not d type who comments Alot. I understand y your sad, but u should look at d bright side. Call this babe, sit her down n let her know d plans u hv for her, also make it clear (assuming she doesn't know) that u don't hv d means to spend that much on her now. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT U TELL HER YOUR TRUE SITUATION, PLANS N HOPES (don't u dare lie). Then tell her to follow her heart. Bro, when she leaves your presence, don't call, text or chat... ALLOW HER THINK.... U just watch. This a true test of her luv for you. If she goes, trust me, a better girl awaits u in future. Remember one door must close for another to open. I've been in your shoes where I couldn't even afford N4 SMS on her birthday, today I'm training her in university n paying all bills.. WE ENGAGED. So Plz be honest with her, allow her decide. Most importantly, PUT YOUR TRUST IN GOD. CHEERS! |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Pauladex(m): 2:24pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Rule of life, never combine been broke with been weak .....I chased medical doctor away from my baby even with 50k salary orente no dey complain. |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by highcurrent: 2:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
pocohantas:lol see as you finish the guy |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Donald7610: 2:27pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Nigerian women has no Mercy for poor guy Pls hustle |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Alexun(m): 2:29pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
YungMillionaire: As funny as it sounds, I think the Op made the right decision. He trust his girl so much. My ex once said such. Asked her what if I told her "No", she said she didn't say it to seek my opinion, but as a "point of information". They are both still waxing stronger now!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by jaxxy(m): 2:33pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Brunosamel: Let her know such men only want to use and Dump her. Pls they can never respect her cos she wasn’t there when they made their money neither does she know how he made his money. It’s a huge risk of well packaged temptation. If she has any sense in her head she will keep her distance and not rush into anything with that man. When u have smbody worth it only stupidity will make u leave them for smbody else because of fancy things. Is she having challenges in her skoling and other things? Well she will have a decision hopefully she makes the right one. Not all that glitters is gold. Tell her the truth and tell her ur plans and let her decide. |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DexterousOne(m): 2:41pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This thing is beyond your control. And it rests squarely in the hands of the girl It's her choice Not yours If she decides to follow him (very likely) Just wish her well And go your way No need to expend emotions over Any thing |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by osy77(m): 2:45pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
My brother hustle oh |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Adeevah(m): 2:46pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
fatymore:07036...whatsapp |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by galaxy2020(m): 2:54pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Don't force her to love you or you will forever regret it. You guys need to sit down and talk on the way forward, girls Love material things a lot, especially Naija girls. You shouldn't have agreed to her going out with the guy in the first place. Let her tell you her mind period, so that you will not suffer kinetic heartbreak, am talking from experience. |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:59pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Brunosamel: There's nothing for you to do, the test is on your gf not you. A childhood friend I wont lie he has a stronger holding than you plus the fact he is also established and you guys have just 6 months. Just focus on your career, if she stays then you are lucky. It now depends on your baby's character but since she's in a dilemma already that's bad enough luck already. Welcome to the single club lol 1 Like |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by fatymore(f): 3:03pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
DenreleDave:abeg leave me |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Dextre(m): 3:03pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
praz001: yh freedom is important but allowing ur girl go out with our crush is absurd. Abeg don't confuse freedom with common sense. It's beta she finds a way and the guy shouldn't knw sef. Iru ere wo lomo aja bekun se |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Dextre(m): 3:06pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Pauladex: That doctor weak. If not,na from consulting room,ur babe for don evaporate 1 Like |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Dextre(m): 3:08pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Pauladex: Plus broke na broke...there is no combination therapy anywhere. Your babe loves you finish,u no pursue anything. 2 Likes |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
YungMillionaire:I was wowed with that line and you said YES!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Dcaliphate(m): 3:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
YungMillionaire:lol, leave am na, he was forming liberal man with babe, him never see anything 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by freeman67: 3:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
joyandfaith: Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in humans whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship. It is a form of courtship, consisting of social activities done by the couple, either alone or with others. Wikipedia |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Bahddo(m): 3:35pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Lol. What are the chances you'd win this battle? How deep is your pocket? She loves you but how much? Are you are her first love? You stood on the losing side the moment you gave her permission to go on a date with her childhood crush. Sorry man. There is hope though. The fact that she told you about it means she wants you to try to convince to stay. You know her better than us, all the best. If you fail to keep her, don't take it hard on yourself. Women are hypergamous by nature, they would likely leave for whoever they think is the best amongst her options. No kill yourself put, there would be other women. |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by BamideleOJ: 3:36pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I agree with those who opined that you talk work sense into her head and let her go and think about what she wants to do. Bros don't risk your ☮️ peace and joy either now or in the future for love that is readily threatened o. Have a frantic discussion with her, listen carefully to her response �, take a decision. Conclusively, if quitting is best, don't be afraid to let her go. Infact don't waste time to break up with her first. |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DexterousOne(m): 3:47pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Brunosamel: That is the spirit |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by koyyess: 3:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Op, let her go and marry the man that has promised to send her to school so that she can be independent. This is something you cannot give now and your full character has not popped up yet because you are cashless. The girl has suffered enough with you. Abi she no try? As e be say the era of suffer head don end tey tey because una wey never get money like to betray person up and down the minute una get one kobo for pocket. Go and find money first before you think of woman. |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DexterousOne(m): 3:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This society is finished From the comment I read It is evident |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DexterousOne(m): 3:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
koyyess: This mindset is very very wrong |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DexterousOne(m): 3:52pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
AntiRiot: Another good suggestion |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by mrkings84(m): 3:52pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Just be successful and u gonna have dozens of shemales chase after u |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by rahztafari(m): 3:53pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
pocohantas: Haba. . .only your post on NL can give guys heart attack!! You need to chill out with Naija guys oo. @Op Just focus on yourself. Love is a beautiful thing that can easily be destroyed with poverty!! |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DexterousOne(m): 3:53pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=Sweeetheart post=85344559] Your story is sad and funny at the same time. My guy start looking for another girlfriend A lady you're dating tell you someone is crushing and disturbing her, she asked for a permission to go out with him and you allowed her? What sort of dumbness is that. If I burst your brain that this lady have been chopping this guy dick nko! Will you believe it A lady that truly love you will not grant any guy audience not to talk of bothered about the person disturbance. She's gone, she's just shy to breakup with you yet, so prepare for the worse While you await the total dissolution, do send forth for her in the oza room because you might not have the privilege again in few weeks to come I can't settle with non virgin, I use to tell guys this [\quote] Exactly Tho I am not sure about the bolded |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DexterousOne(m): 3:59pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
insperyadyou: Na wrong applications of English 1 Like |
Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Azeeztaophic(m): 3:59pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
The first mistake you made was when you allow her to visit the guy, but all the same if she love you really she should change her SIM, just to avoid the guy. |
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