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Family / Re: I Killed This Snake Near My Toilet At Midnight, Help Needed (Photo) by Otade: 8:38pm On May 14, 2020
See as una spoil the snake body.
Romance / Re: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by Otade: 11:07pm On May 08, 2020
EXLOVER:
you're right, there was a girl very tall neat looking, I was with my niggas that day, so excused them, I and the girl secured a nice spot for quickie, mehn wey i finger the girl kpekus, everywhere turn market on a raining day, I told my i wanted to run her map, but got discouraged by the offensive odour, they didn't believe until one careless one sniff my fingers, he almost die


Blood of buhari

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Romance / Re: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by Otade: 10:58pm On May 08, 2020
MrChriz:
Back den in sch, my gf was on her period wen she came visiting...she was so Hot dat she was begging me to f**k her even wit d blood dats flowing

How did it end?
Politics / Re: I Have Received Request To Dethrone Emir Sanusi – Ganduje by Otade: 9:08pm On Dec 19, 2019
How can this solve this problems we are having in this country.

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Family / Re: I Hit My Wife by Otade: 11:05am On Dec 16, 2019
Ekene161829:
I did something I really regret. My wife and I have an amazing marriage, 2 years of marriage and we are blessed with a 7-month-old baby girl.

She is 28 and I almost 33. Last Saturday I got invited to go out by some of my work friends , I got home late 2am, so madam wasn't happy. She was yelling at me, throwing hands and screaming at me. I ignored her and left the room to the living room but she followed me and I asked her to leave me alone but she kept going which made me angry.

I took the back of my hand and gave her a slap on the mouth. She cried out and held her face and started crying and her lips was bleeding. I didn't intentionally hurt her, I just wanted to calm her down since ignoring her was not working. I said sorry, and I was literally on my knees begging her. I tried to hold her but she refused.
The rest of the night was me repeating apology or i didn't mean to hurt you. She ignored me . She went into our room and locked the door.

She was in there for a long time and the next morning, her mother and older brother was at the house and she came out of the room with her and our baby stuff and she said she was leaving me for good. I told her how sorry I was but her mother told me to get out of their faces and they left the house.

I feel so ashamed and I've never done anything like this before and I never thought I would. I don't want to loose my wife and baby. I need both of them back. Should I attempt to contact her?

What do I do?

What is wrong is wrong and pls don't let anybody tell you anything else. You were wrong for leaving her @ home with a 7months old child all alone in the house till 2am, if you were a woman would you be happy with such?. On a normal circumstances, that is irresponsible and i can see that you have temper issues.
As a man, you should have been expecting a reaction for your actions from her and you should have thought of ways to calm her down before getting home and if it doesn't work keep on apologizing and show remorse for your actions. I see comments of people mentioning the part where they said no third party in the church when getting married, they are right but they have also forgotten to tell you that it is barbaric to slap a breast feeding mother who could not sleep because she misses her husband any was worried if nothing has happened to him. Nobody has monopoly over immaturity, if you are immatured enough to slap her to the point that her lips was bleeding then she should be immatured enough to give you space. Anyways, what is done is done and cannot be reversed, your actions made her make a wrong decision by calling her mother and brother, it would have been better if she called your people. My advice for you is to go apologize and get your family back for life is too short to be unhappy and pls for the sake of your child always learn how to control your temper for there will be more fights, that is why it is called marriage.

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Politics / Re: Ministerial List: A Mockery of Buhari's Anti-Corruption war - Yakassai by Otade: 6:12pm On Jul 23, 2019
Why the delay?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Job Loss, Unemployment Rate Reached 23.1% In June — Expert by Otade: 9:28am On Jul 01, 2019
This is Nigeria.
Politics / Re: Ben Murray Bruce Agrees With Emir Sanusi That Subsidy Will Bankrupt Nigeria by Otade: 4:52am On Jun 26, 2019
They will not allow electric cars because we are too dependent on fuel.
Sports / Re: AFCON 2019: How The Teams Stand In Their Group After First Group Stage Matches by Otade: 4:30am On Jun 26, 2019
Group F, different pattern same flag.
Romance / Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Otade: 11:38pm On Jul 13, 2018
zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.
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My brother you are right , Girls are not doing guys a favour by being in a relationship. But come to think of it, how many girls nowadays are ready to date a broke guy, how many girls are ready to share what they have wit a guy when he has nothing. There are so many men to day who got to their peak because of the physical, financial and spiritual support they got from their girl when they were nothing. If a guy rewards a girl because she was with him when the going was rough, my brother its not because they were in a relationship it's simply because he appreciates all what the girl has been through for him.
Politics / Re: $322m Abacha Loot: FG Begins Cash Transfer To Poor Homes.. by Otade: 10:03pm On Jun 28, 2018
over 150 million Nigerians and you are telling me only 302,000 house hold are poor with the current situation of the country, I think the federal government should have a rethink.

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Sports / Re: Juventus Close To Signing Anthony Martial From Manchester United by Otade: 11:10pm On Jun 25, 2018
chai
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Job Opening At Medecins Sans Frontieres – Nigeria by Otade: 8:37am On Jun 25, 2018
una good morning..
Education / Re: ‘Same’ Things That Most People Don’t Know Are Actually Different by Otade: 8:53pm On Apr 13, 2018
Educative..

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Politics / Re: Difference Between Senate And House Of Reps. Nigerians Answer (video) by Otade: 9:35pm On Mar 18, 2018
In Nigeria they r both d same ineffective bunch whose only difference is their salary n huge allowances.
Politics / Re: We Won’t Address Fayemi As ‘honorable Minister,’ Reps Vow by Otade: 6:54pm On Mar 15, 2018
comedians
Travel / Re: C&S Primary 6 Pupil Killed By BRT Bus On His Way To School In Ikorodu by Otade: 12:57pm On Mar 05, 2018
kai!
Politics / Re: Benue Killings: Buhari And Ortom Meet Behind Closed Door In Aso Rock by Otade: 12:05pm On Jan 09, 2018
solution is what they need..

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Romance / Re: Slay Queens Now Securing Their Future Husbands Spiritually (pics) by Otade: 11:50am On Jan 09, 2018
Horlaidex:
Just when I thought I've seen it all. cry

Naso one mumu wan trap me with pregnancy when me know say I used condom and e never burst.

May our moms prayers never go in vain.
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Na your our mama prayer na him make u wan dey enter anything way you see abi.
Career / Re: Daring Rescue: LASEMA Recognizes Daring Third Mainland Bridge Rescue Responders by Otade: 6:49pm On Jan 08, 2018
May God continue to bless them as they take their work seriously.
Religion / Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Wale Gates Post: Women, Bible, Husbands, Maids, SideChick by Otade: 10:44pm On Jan 06, 2018
I need somebody to prove him wrong.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Corper Ebere Christian Dies In Accident Along Minna Road by Otade: 12:36pm On Jan 06, 2018
R.I.P
Health / Re: Laser Oil Warns Nigerians On Danger Of Cholesterol by Otade: 3:20pm On Jan 05, 2018
Na wa oo
Family / Re: My Wife Snores While Sleeping; I Hardly Sleep At Night by Otade: 10:04am On Jan 05, 2018
Did you just say after putting to bed? you must be a very funny man to think she will remain as she was. The stress you put her through alone is enough to make her tired. Loss of blood, tear and heavy pains is enough to make her snore and pls how sure are u that u dont snore when u are tired. You should be watching her while she is asleep and snoring instead of complaining its not easy. Look @ her stomach just below her abdomen, its possible she must have got stretch marks due to the baby she carried in her womb for 9month and the stress of labour. Some women still feel pains for almost two years after birth while child birth might deform some for the rest of their lives. Learn to celebrate your wife.
Celebrities / Re: Kiss Daniel Earned N30k Salary Monthly, Blocked By Basketmouth On Instagram by Otade: 10:08pm On Dec 12, 2017
if this is true, there is no case.
Crime / Re: Road Union Member With 134 Wraps Of Indian Hemp Arrested In Lagos (Photos) by Otade: 4:06pm On Dec 12, 2017
Keneking:
Na dem dem

134 * N200 = N26, 800 lost to Federal government grin grin grin



keneking the maths teacher.....
Romance / Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Otade: 11:11pm On Nov 27, 2017
ArchangeLucifer:
Because they are useless & all they usually have to offer is that rotten fish between their thighs.

No brains, no plans, no achievements, no ambition.

Nothing.

They are condemned to be eternally subservient & dependent on us thats why they stab each other over us.

Worthless creatures.
ArchangeLucifer:
Because they are useless & all they usually have to offer is that rotten fish between their thighs.

No brains, no plans, no achievements, no ambition.

Nothing.

They are condemned to be eternally subservient & dependent on us thats why they stab each other over us.

Worthless creatures.
ArchangeLucifer:
Because they are useless & all they usually have to offer is that rotten fish between their thighs.

No brains, no plans, no achievements, no ambition.

Nothing.

They are condemned to be eternally subservient & dependent on us thats why they stab each other over us.

Worthless creatures.
you are your worst enemy.

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