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Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by DarkMagic(m): 11:03pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Oh well "Reward" is a really bogus word to use in this context Like it is a favour I will prefer using the word"appreciate" Appreciate her in any way nuh only financially I mean look at this, With constant pressure from friends to leave your level, With constant approach from guys offering her tempting things And with all these,she still sticks around She deserves some accolades If she can stay with you through trying times...then she can stick with u.. probably forever U know the kinda girls we have in this country..small girls with big Godzilla..LOL What am saying,they should be appreciated. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Odunharry(m): 11:03pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
I'm just so happy many guys are learning and becoming brave. The Gospel must be preached everywhere 8 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by jimcaddy(m): 11:05pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
If there was a form of financial commitment coming from the girl when the man was broke, I will then agree to your assertion. But there was no form of financial commitment from the babe. The man was hustling and still payinh the bills, the lady only stood by him, which was what was required from a woman.. ImohWilliams1: 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by missjane: 11:06pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
I will like to ask the poster..if u as a guy had a friend a fellow guy who was really close to u maybe as a student or as job seeker n he stayed n assisted u from his heart, both of u were there for each other. Somehow he gets a very big job or contract n decides to buy a range rover for his guy for loyalty of friendship all those rough years..there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, if it can be done for an ordinary friend it can be done for a spouse to be too.. In this age where no one can be trusted n everyone is all about class etc it takes one with a heart of gold to stick to someone who had almost nothing to offer, you keep encouraging the guy that things will be better etc..such inputs some guys can't forget it when they make it especially when they remb the multitude that actually turned their backs on them.. The thank u gifts are a way of making those that left on time to regret their lives n be more considerate next time.. Pls if you did not make the money for some one or someone didn't borrow money from u to buy the gifts or u, never you open your mouth to bash any gift anyone decides to get for another person. You can reject your own gift if n when ever it comes.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Constantiney: 11:07pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Lol wow Too much sense will not kill these lads on this page. Wonderful stuffs. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by jimcaddy(m): 11:08pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
I love this response. Very aptly written. Nigeria women have issues. No wonder their marriages always fall like a pack of cards. doskie: |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by chris31(m): 11:10pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Its good to show appreciation to the person that showed u loved when ur still battling to survive Can't forget this particular girl in my life then She was there for me in every aspect thought i offered her nothing Though we are no more together coz she does not fall into the category of girl i want to get married to but i plan to settle her for good for old time stake When i needed it most she was there to satisfy me without bothering me God will also not stop blessing her i always wish her well 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Dynamiq(m): 11:14pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
safarigirl: God bless you, wise and intelligent lady. 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by InvertedHammer: 11:15pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
/ They should use another term. "Reward" kills the kind gesture. / 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by charlesazeh(m): 11:15pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
So I went to visit my friend who put to bed last week to a bouncing baby boy. We were in the middle of our discussion so I went to the kitchen to grab a glass of water. I was pouring myself a glass of chilled water when a heard a tiny voice calling my name. It was Mimi my friend's lil girl. Mimi is 10yrs old. Mimi; aunty Myself; yes baby... Mimi; can I ask u something Myself; of course! Go ahead Mimi; did my mum vomit my baby brother Myself; No! � Mimi; did she poo poo him? Myself; No! � Mimi; she bought him from the hospital Myself; (Lord save me!) No! Listen baby u cannot understand certain things now. Remember to ask me this question on your 13th birthday and I shall explain everything to u. this generation oh � � �. It's nor me this child wee Kee with questions oh can u imagine? �. Copied 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
mimimile93: if you say women have foresight,how come majority of women are married to poor or average guys? in reality only few women will get married to rich guys,majority will marry poor and average guys with sweet mouth 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by maestroferddi: 11:16pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
It seems you are a minor. Relationship goes beyond money. It is immaterial whether it ended well or not. You could have dated someone who appealed to a part of your values or personality but you didn't end up together due certain circumstances beyond control. Rewarding such a person could a gift to show the person that you appreciate their being good. Some people today are still their exes or empathize with them if they had ended up wrongly. Besides, it is not everything you talk about... or you are displaying a sign of immaturity. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Acidosis(m): 11:20pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
The only true reward for loyalty is loyalty. If your partner stayed with you while you were poor, stick with her when you're rich. There is so much confusion in the land because we love the material things over the immaterial good deeds. We love to reward everything with money and car, from se x, conception, love and now loyalty. If we don't watch it, we'd start rewarding the dead with car gifts. Everything shouldn't centre on money. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by maestroferddi: 11:21pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
charlesazeh:Linus ibn Lai Mohammed. No child of ten will ask that question. Why didn't she ask you whether her parents bought her from Tantalisers? This you comedy career is no looking good o... |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Simbrixton(m): 11:25pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
carammel:why can't girls love without paying attention to the status of the person 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by charlesazeh(m): 11:27pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
maestroferddi: Mumu u no see copied... time when u go study u use am for Nairaland |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by mimimile93: 11:27pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
thebosstrevor: Most women know a man that has great potentials . For the fact that the man doesn't live up his potentials doesn't mean He didn't have one. You can be destined to become a pilot and if you don't work hard towards it you can't become one Manners don't fall from the sky anymore.. You work hard towards anything you want in life. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by joshrare(m): 11:28pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
eezeribe: My take; If we blow simultaneously, reward not necessary. but if I blow n she's still struggling why not? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CeeKay17: 11:29pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
safarigirl:It's actually the other way round, especially in Africa. Women like Linda Ikeji are the few exceptions. If you doubt me, just enter your street and approach 3 different women who have cars. Just ask them who bought their cars for them, they'll tell you. Also, your claim is logically impossible especially when you consider the fact that the ratio of successful men to women is like what? Probably 3:1 if not more sef. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Golden75(m): 11:30pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
safarigirl:U just nailed it.gbam 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by maestroferddi: 11:31pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
charlesazeh:ode omode Ode.bunmi. Why would it be he that copied if both of you are not failed comedians? Answer me olodo radarada.... 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
mimimile93: so basically what killed that potential? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CHoccolaTE: 11:36pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Nigerian ladies hope you are reading and learning. Never settle for any ungrateful broke bastard who will not appreciate you when you can get rich men that can take care of you and your children. Nigerian men are mentally unstable sociopaths. And nobody should quote me saying rubbish about how women should take care of themselves instead of waiting for men. If you men want to rule over women and be their leaders then be damn well ready to provide for them. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by mimimile93: 11:37pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
thebosstrevor: |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by mimimile93: 11:38pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
thebosstrevor: A man's greatest enemy is what? If you know the answer to this question then you know the answer to your question.. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Otade: 11:38pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
zicoraads:. My brother you are right , Girls are not doing guys a favour by being in a relationship. But come to think of it, how many girls nowadays are ready to date a broke guy, how many girls are ready to share what they have wit a guy when he has nothing. There are so many men to day who got to their peak because of the physical, financial and spiritual support they got from their girl when they were nothing. If a guy rewards a girl because she was with him when the going was rough, my brother its not because they were in a relationship it's simply because he appreciates all what the girl has been through for him. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Just look at what we were talking about today o I pity babes that wants to 'struggle' with a broke dude! I tell any babe that cares to listen, you ain't doing him any favor patching up with his status. Not tomorrow he blows and you're biting your fingers and lamenting how you stood by him through thick and thin, how you suffered with him, madam which kain yeye suffer?? You help am carry ponpon?? Abi you help am do alabaru?? Bitch get over with yourself! Dude only used you to relieve mental stress and you also enjoyed it while it lasted. What stops you from breaking boundaries and building an empire yourself instead of waiting for a 'joint' effort, wasting your time and losing all your body counts ontop 'e go better' Atink una don read this topic now, make e clear for una eyes o! I can't date a broke dude! I can't 'struggle' with a broke dude either. I'm too busy building my empire to start shit from scratch with any body! Make your money, I make my money and we fix an exotic date at SUCCESS CUISINES! 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Martinez19(m): 11:42pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
It takes great courage, in this harsh world of ours, to choose love, empathy and loyalty at the expense of sure material and financial gain. It's take great courage to believe and give your all for a future that isn't certain and look almost impossible to get better. Every woman who stood by her man I trying times deserves to be spoilt with money when their man makes it. Such women are the true Queens. 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CanineOfJackal: 11:46pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
I'm surprised with the comments I'm seeing here condemning the Op because a lot of people here forget that relationship is not a business transaction. Girls shouldn't disgrace themselves because of trying to see Love from a material angle. Love don't cost a dime so I think that its good if we leave our material possessions outside the door when we are thinking of dating 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
mimimile93: i know where you are getting to but i wont always blame the woman for the man inability to fulfill his potential,i will blame the men i have friends that when they have gf,they ex you,if they doing a sport they leave the sport to concentrate on the girl affection but i call them weak men strong men follow their dreams no matter what |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CHoccolaTE: 11:47pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
yettymuse: Honestly this is the gospel truth! Many men are just looking out for themselves when they preach about girls sticking to broke dudes and they get angry when women look out for themselves and their future children by selecting rich men I hope young girls who were planning on sticking with broke guys are reading this, only settle for poor men if you have absolutely no other option. When he makes money he will not appreciate you and he will definitely make you regret your suffering by cheating on you. Men these days are looking for a career woman to marry cos they want women to provide but they will preach to young girls to stay with broke men. Absolute nonsense. 4 Likes |
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