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Lol! The irony is that the lady tried to find a tall guy but because she is not that attractive for the tall guys she kuku applied the philosophy of "A bird at hand"

GoTV:
This is indeed very shameful. How many times have we read or seen Muslim women fighting over adultery online Even though I'm a full blooded Christian, it's shameful that we Christians have allowed Muslims and Islam to be the best religion due to our misdeeds. No matter how we despise Muslims, they are very upright and morally better than we Christians. Prostitution and all sorts of immorality is predominant amongst we Christians yet we claim that we are followers of Christ? Even Christ will be ashamed of our irresponsible preachers. I may have to quit Christianity one day if our people don't change. Professor Akintola is always available to chastise every erring Muslim. Can that be said about our money conscious and over politicised CAN

Honestly in most cases,marrying a Muslim lady is like marrying peace. Mostly cultured with huge tolerance for polygamy

MrRichmond:
See the power of big dicck?

but Op why u no add pics na

Ode, where did you read about big dick? It's more of his prowess.

Foolish lady with foolish mindset.where in the bible is it written that Church marriage is a prequisite for matrimony.

What am I writing sef? This is definitely a fake story.

adediji604:
anayolity:Ladies are sillyy preeks ...they wont wanna theirs Well too bad it seems the ladies just want to keep mum.[color=#F2F2F2]O[/color]

I really have no issues with them keeping mum but I find it insane when ladies cone out years latter when their "molester" happens to be in the limelight, so I jeep wondering why they chose to come out at that time.

This goes to show the evil and insane mindset of many ladies and I usually call them blackmailers at that point.

Ladies we are still waiting to learn from your experience. Please share.

HaileSelassie:
Mtchhew
So immature and vile...

I implore any girl here to keep mum...
Its in the DNA of forumites to use your past comments against you...

That is my point, if you start keeping mum cos of the foolish and insane people around you then you might as well die cos there will always be mad people wherever you go.

The idea is to share and unburden oneself and ignore mad people's comments.

Allaboutkatiee:
Am not ready to go into details of how i was being molested right from a very young age till i was 12
A story for another day.
It has really affected me..cause i find it hard to feel sexual affection and also masturbation,i wonder how people feel anytn from it.
I remember when i was younger i used to think of commiting suicide..
But am happy am pass that now.

I think you should. This is a new ID and no one has a clue if who you are if you are a nairalander already.

doctorkush:
did you just call me sick e enter my body

Lol! You are a comedian.

romenna:
It's official.
The girl child is a troubled soul
Just to share a problem is a problem to them.

Honestly I am flabbergasted. To even think they could simply create a new I'D and no one will have a clue of their identity yet it is so difficult but they prefer to quote comments and make irrelevant remarks.

EfonAlaaye2023:
I watched the news on Arise News. I read the guest quoting the electoral bill that says any group whatsoever must not donate above 1million for nomination form. I'm yet to follow that with a logical inference if the particular section he quoted actually state that


even if actually the electoral section stated that, then we should forget about buhari respecting or listening to any electoral law as his biggest enemy is judiciary. he said it posterior to his sworn in that what would be his biggest threat is judiciary



2015- I'm too old as I won't be able to perform as I was during the head of state rule but yet he's recontesting again. buhari special adviser should lecture and guide him on courtesy when he's about address the public

In as much as I like and respect Buhari, one of his greatest undoing is lousy talking. He is a reckless lousy talker.

Most times, endowed ladies find it more difficult to keep a man so I have concluded that in most cases, their endowment is a curse on them.

Btw nice tits. But I love the ones with big nippi. I just love big nipples.

Please make I no begin dey imagine bad things cos this one nah better toy for bedroom.

MariaLavina:
Calm down Sir, no be do or die thing nah

Yea.. They will share with new "ID's" , No argument, they will. Can I have my peace now? As I observe silently ? Waiting for the new 'IDs'

Peace

I'm not hyper in anyway. If they like let them share and they can keep mum if that will add extra years to their life.

This was why I believe most ladies who come out against their molester years latter when the person becomes a powerful figure are blackmailers cos I'm sure they must have had several opportunities to speak out but they chose to keep mum.

MariaLavina:
You don't know securities and bonds abi? . You are new here, you don't know how things work here. Just take a seat and watch things unfold. You won't wait long

Any sensible person would have learnt a thing or two from previous threads and the story on this thread. As for healing, Only a shrink can help


BTW sorry to announce to you that your thread is DOA

Did you read before making comments.

If any lady really have an experience worth sharing she will do so with a new ID.

Even if the thread goes limp what do I stand to lose? Absolutely nothing.

MariaLavina:
I tell you sis.

Them fit say you become feminist because you were molested. Or ask if he infected you with Aids if you preach about protection. Or you have small boobs because they were rough handled at early stage of growth if you advice them against making physical attributes the sole criteria in choosing a life partner.

No be Nl guys ?

This is beginning to sound stale. If you share with a different moniker nobody will ever ascribe anything to u.So please share if you sincerely want to.

doctorkush:
oniro jati jati

This is one of the sick people I described above and the best way to treat them is to ignore and focus on sensible comments.

MariaLavina:
Holy shiit! These guys are more foolish than I thought!
Stuffed your v with dry leaves? That's so insensitive.

As for the sick bimbo, she's a shame to womanhood! Her boobs should be cut off, dried and processed as fertilizer. I wonder if some ladies have loaves of bread for brains. Never been a victim of molestation but I will never joke about it much less mock a victim. That's inhumane.

Of course, it will hurt. When they see how people trivialize and use what hurts them as a subject of ridicule.The actual victims will not be happy reading that. Some guys on here though. Disgusting loads of crap!

In my short time on this site I can conclude that many people who make comments are either sick or mischievous and you can't take that away from a faceless forum but that one no mean sey we no still get sensible people.

MariaLavina:
On a forum where guys are quick to call you bitter, frustrated and sometimes make up pathetic stories about you if you type contrary to their opinions or views? Nah..... This thread will be more of an object of humiliation than a psychological relief.



Anyways I'm here as a shoulder to cry on for whoever cares to share.

If you look at the moniker of the lady who sincerely shared her experience you will see it was registered today which makes perfect sense cos I know how deeply private this topic is which was why I wrote that any lady who is not comfy about it should use an alternate Moniker and it takes less than 5minutes to create one.

I'm in my mid 40s and I have been through this crazy experience but until yesterday when I let it all out it was like a burden to me and I felt a relief afterwards. Men can share even with their regular moniker cos we really dont fret but ladies are more secretive.

I joined nairaland last month when a friend asked me to check an info on auto section and I find the site educative else I don't see why I should register.

So please share your experience if you have one and by so doing,You will heal and people will learn.

zinnyzee:
Never have i been molested, abused or harrased sexually.

Grew up with no dad( Was late before i grew up)three older brothers and my mum. Growing up, i was one of the boys. Even stubborn than all 3 of dem put together.
Parents in d neighbourhood told their kids to steer clear of me. And that seemed to be what i needed since i hated the lot of them without a reason anyway.

I was growing up and realised i'm supposed to be a gurl and not a boy, and i felt inclined to change for d better. But having lived in the same neighbourhood for more than a decade didn't help matters, since everyone already knew me to be d rebellious kid.

So instead of turning a new leaf, i chose to live up to my reputation.


I'm grown up today and i'm d exact opposite of who i was as a kid. I was never molested, but i know what it means to feel unloved!

Interesting.

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

Really!

stargyall:
well mine was really traumatizing ,, I was 15year old, just left secondary school, I just started exploring,, boys all on my tail,, so I met this banker,, he was real nice n bought me stuffs, so one day he invited me to his house, innocent me wanted to visit a guy the way my friends were visiting guys,, wen I got there we laughed n talked, not realizing he has locked the door n hid the key,,, after sometime while watching tv,, he removed his boxers n told me to touch his dickk,, That was the first time I saw a dickk ,, he told me to rub it, I said no , went to the door to leave the house n it was locked,,,before I knew it he dragged me back n told me I won’t leave the house till he comes,, if I don’t he will beat me up, he started touching my breast n immediately I started crying ,, I was scared couldn’t believe this guy was the nice banker, I started rubbing his dick , he said I wasn’t doing it well, that he will slap me o, I kept doing it,, he then said put ur mouth on it,, i was like I can’t do that God4bid, he slapped me n said put it in ur mouth, which I did ,, he didn’t still come , told me to remove my gen n pant I said no,, he started hiting me, i started shouting , he told me to shut up or he would call his friends n they will all rape me, i was scared n tired so kept quiet, removed my trousers, then he started trying to penetrate me,, he realized I was a virgin, I was crying n begging , please leave me alone I beg u, he went to the bathroom, used soap on his dick , so it would get in, i was trying to run he dragged me with my hair n told me to lay down , well I did,, he couldn’t get in n the soap was hurting me,, then I began to shout n didn’t care anymore,, thankfully a man came to his house with a Bible as soon as he opened the door I ran out with no pant, wore my trousers outside...he couldn’t penetrate n didn’t come, he started begging me instantly n blamed it on the devil,, bloody lier!!! I left his house crying profoundly!!! Didn’t believe it... I only told my best friend!!! That’s one day I will never forget.... cried to my God for him to fight for me!! He had an accident weeks l8r n broke his legs!! That’s not enough he will hv a misrable life

Wow! Thank GOD you escaped but I guess the memory will always linger.

GOD BLESS YOU for sharing.

Admin401:
What do you want them to type? Things that didn't happen or what?

You will be amazed to know what many ladies have passed through in the hands of their very own brothers and fathers let alone uncles and strangers.

anayolity:
Ladies are sillyy preeks ...they wont wanna theirs

Well too bad it seems the ladies just want to keep mum.

saaron:
I agree with the poll above. Very free and fair.

Another Nigerian youth just like Dino.

Indeed it's time for the youths to take over.

Kharol1234:
copy copy cus we read abt boy childs molestation dis mawin na its female molestation all d female cum lets hear ur part of bin molested..........we r all hears

I hope they fit come out share.

After reading the thread where guys shared their experience I feel we should learn a thing or two from the ladies experience too.
https://www.nairaland.com/4716126/how-nigerian-men-sexually-abused/10#70950753

Jesus helped me get over mine and now as a married man with kids I still have the vivid memories but thanks to Jesus who has made me triumph.

Because of the privacy involved in This, you may need to use any other moniker asides from your present one.

Ladies over to you.

SavoG:
I was sexually molested by my cousin who is female too. Just so she doesnt tell her mum that i was being molested sexually by a man in the compound they lived. Have been sexually molested by many people while growing up but i usually just accept it and move on, perhaps because i didnt really read meaning into sexual activities. Now am indifferent to sex. Could sleep with anybody without having any sort of attachment. Also i can sleep with any gender though by reason of maturity and being saved by God have given up on all those stuffs.

Looking at this thread closely,I'm of the opinion that contrary to my earlier standview I think my several molestation experience has made me see ladies as intimacy gadgets.

Any lady I roll with don't ever want to go cos I treat them like toys, I mean I just do crazy things with their bodies and I could give a lady a head for as long as possible, finger them,make them squirt and cum and make love to them in crazy positions.

So yes I think sexual molestation affect the victims in different ways but thank GOD that since I gave my life to Jesus I have stopped all the sexual recklessness.

May GOD heal all the victims.

Was that not the governor who said he left a legacy of pregnant women being able to deliver safely? What a country

This is why I laugh uncontrollably loud whenever I hear "power to the youths"

This guy is about my age and can be said to be a representative of the Nigerian youth but he has become a national embarrassment and a colossal nuisance.

tiger2080:
I was molested at the age of 7yrs by my neighbour 3 sister Juliet, caro,Kate we were so close then they eat in my house an I also eat there.they watch film in my house too.when nobody is at home they take me inside their room to act b.f.I remembered all what was going on they will pull my short nika and suck my dick made me sleep on them an insert my dick inside their pussy.you no by then I don't usually release sperm because I was so young they will Bleep me round till my dick got red,kiss me, suck an lick me. gave me malt an milk.i could not tell anybody this even my parents.I later got over it until the girls now started school an later we pack out of d compound.the other girl was an ss2 girl by then I was 9yrs she was 17yrs.she will tell how handsome I am that she like me sometimes she wll tell other student that am her brother. she protected me when I was in school and does not let other senior student to flog me.she Bleep me inside d garden,class after closen,and also took me to her house when her parent not at home.she Bleep d living hell at of me an she gave me money 24hrs buy me ice cream,eggroll,meat pie so many.her name was ife. but am grown up now.

What is this thing about milk and malt? Chai girls don spoil tey tey but they will be fronting decency.

eosigwe:
LMAO...so toto itself is now one of the leading cause of depression. Wonderful

See let's start believing it o, you know some men are born with prick but with female DNA so biko let's just sympathize.

Sigmabond:
One BAD THING I've noticed on this thread is the DEAFENING SILENCE of all these self-acclaimed FEMINISTS on Nairaland that do not even know the real meaning of feminism. Say no to molestation of all sorts. Let the insults start!

Don't mind them, foolish and hopeless hypocrites wey dem be.

If it is a thread for ladies who got molested they would have poured their frustrated lives on the thread. Stupid hypocrites they are.

Feminism kee them.nzuzu ndị mmadụ