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This girls are not females, i suspect the may be transvestites they can look so real one would not be able to recognise

MrT2011:
Its only a mad person that calls the sane "mad"
You are exhibiting the signs of such patient.
I recommend you go for an urgent checkup before you end up in the street naked and tormented and afterwards the police chain u up in the cage!
Sorry ooo you'll be ok as soon as u r treated.

here is another lunatic, its has been revealed by statistics that %90 of nigerians live with mental illness and the may not even know,so am not surprised by your gibberish then again, in your own words, it takes a mad man like you to know a mad man like me.. have a nice day

Abba999:
Its called schizophrenia. If u don't know a word please better don't use it.
Google it and see what u just called your fellow Nairalander, because we are prevelaged to meet here.
Smh

thanks for the correction, i know exactly what it means,me still think you! Are Schizophrenic , its just my opinion, you are wellcomed to disagree

Abba999:
Yes! I did masturbated. I knew how and what I felt after the act. Like something good left my body. Like something evil pushed me often into it. Like you may know people who masturbate often do it because they want to play safe and remain faithful to their partners as in if they are living apart. Or those that are single and do not want to play around.
So please do not crucify anyone here. Am here to enlighten my likes of the empending dangers of such act, even though had long been saved from it.

Honey! Me thinks you! Need to get laid seriously before you lose your mind.. just my opinion

Abba999:
You are right my brother but there are important things you must be aware of
1) The devil knows you.
2) The devil knows all your sins.
3) The devil knows your weakness.
4) The devil knows all your secrets.
5) They use all as a decoy to penetrate your world and gain stability.
6) They creat doubts in your mind.

Hope you can use this to understand what masturbation can possibly do.

more Rubbish! Honey! Its all in Your imagination, Me thinks you are suffering from scysrophenia

Edusouls:
africa and its religious madness, we were worshiping rocks,demons,statues, carved beings long before the westerners brought christianity to us, we being a naturaly foolish and dumb race carried the thing in the head, turned it upside down and practiced it wrongly,becoming fanatical and blinded by the thing that is supposed to make us better,it made us worse,poor and ignorant,suffering everywhere..masturbation dosent open any demonic portal,is a natural way for humans to ease off their feelings, and where do these crazy posts that deceive and ruin people appear here..

Gbam! Makes a lot of sense.

SAMBARRY:
and it's also my fingers I can type whatever I like with it

have a nice day!

Danrizzle:
A thief is a potential killer, and a car thief a higher killer. Imagine what the owner of the car would have gone through if the criminal had succeeded.

tell me what he would go through losing his phone? This is the 4 th time i ve lost me phone am still alive, its just possessions it can be replaced!

So sad, ignorance really is an illness so this guy is about to lose his life just because of a mobile phone? Unbelievable! Can any one tell the owner of the phone that am ready to buy him 5 brand new iphone 6 to let the thief go, it seem obvious the thief has nothing to lose and ready to die but me thinks he deserves another chance to mend his ways, who made this people the judge and jury anyway?

[quote author=TechRev post=34976601]You are building Nuclear plant without having steady water supply to your cities. The nuclear reactors need steady supply of water, and in case of a failure or leak you need even more water to contain the damage. Now when you cant supply your cities water, is this not trouble dey sleep yanga go wake am??

Ohh i get it zoological republic of nigeria thinking, Civil defense will use AK47 or M16 contain the disaster. How many of them civil defense are trained in nuclear physics?? Civil defense to contain nuclear disaster how useless can this contraption called Nigeria get??[/quotei] its mind bogling! Nigeria may be heading to a Nuclear disaster if this goes on without adequate measures

What the hell?! Do people live there?

omojesu202:
giiiiii
charly, who do u like this no go enter heaven ooo

you will be surprised charlie boy, will be the first to enter heaven, before some pastors and God of man

SAMBARRY:
and it's my laptop I can type whatever I like with it

yes, you are right! Its also my opinion and am entitled to it, you see? We both agree

MuguliciousMUGU:
Wife will tattoo her body, husband we tattoo his body, the cake would be tattooed with human skul, the pics is also tattooed with nonsenseness and foolishness and you say he is normal.

Infact he needs jesus.

its just an image, the same way people wear fake hair, fake eyelashes, necklaces, ear rings and chains, there is nothing wrong with him, by the way what is normal?

SAMBARRY:
Roftl


like husband like wife

A man doing belly button

Its bad enough he has ugly looking tattoos all over his body and piercings to but belly button for a 64 year old grand pa


that's a whole new level

i suspect jealousy , its his body he can do whatever he likes with it

odumchi:
I honestly don't know why people can never mind their business. I mean, what concerns you with the way this man lives his own life? So what if he has tattoos and piercings? Didn't our not-so-distant ancestors decorate their bodies with uri and uvie (camwood) tattoos as well? Didn't people slash their faces with ichi markings as a sign of nobility?

The funny thing is that despite however you all may feel about him, the dude has been of immense benefit to his community (Ugwuta), and that's all that matters. Unlike many of us, he's used his popularity and influence to bring about change, organization, and awareness to the many problems affecting youth and young adults in Ugwuta and is rightfully a philanthropist. But I'm sure that no matter what this guy does, the world can never be placated.

very well said. If he claims he is pastor or God of man now people will still talk, the man looks good at 64 i hope i look good like this when am 64, subsequently nigerians can be sanctimoniously critical, if you looks different act different they see you as abnormal, we can not all look and act the same people are born to be unique

Perhaps we should all help if no one want to

Who the hell goes to malaysia anyway? That junk of a country

fortune1968:
this happens when people neglect the valuable yoruba culture in bringing up a child

No! This happens when you apply the yoruba culture in bringing up a child IN A WESTERN COUNTRY

Cavenchy:
I understand your concern, Most times what I tend to see is .....

Scenario 1: When both parents have a similar mindset = If both raise the child the british way, they are less likely to have problems, but then they'll have to expect the child to act british and think that way for good. However if one has an African mindset and the other doesn't, refer to scenario 2. if both parents behave totally African in a british society, refer to scenario3.

Scenario 2: if one parent has an African mindset, the other doesn't, and they cant reach a compromise on how to raise the child as a team, the problem always begins from there. The African doesn't want his child to be raised without being forced to follow morals, the other parent believes the child should learn morals only through reason, if the child agrees to, good, if not he/she shouldn't be forced. Soon the child sees a conflict in the way both parents treat him/her, if things get worse and they get divorced, the child remembers the differences and tends to feel/blame one of the parents (usually the African-minded one) for abusing them due to the divorce.

Scenario 3: If both parents have an African mindset, the probability of the child turning out awry might still exist, but it is reduced when there are members of extended family/close family friends with similar African mindset not very far away and these usually come around or have family gatherings and events. Or perhaps, the parents travel to Nigeria/Africa often. The goal is for the child to understand that the way they are raised is cultural and acceptable by people who share family bonds and not an attack on him/her (the child). So having other Africanparent-raised children around is also important so they have someone to grumble to about how their parents are so mean in a funny way.

In both scenarios 2 and 3, here is what really goes through the child's mind when they aren't made to understand the African mindset one or both of their parents exhibit while growing up: What happens to these children is that they make friends with other children at school from majorly British homes and when the African-in-britain raised child mentions how their parents treat them at home (barking and spanking), they are surprised when the other kids reply saying how lovely and nice their own parents are and even brag about how many holiday trips they've been to in the summer. This makes the child think there is something wrong and eventually it begins to affect the child's self esteem. After a while, it affects their learning and one teacher shows concern, the next minute the authorities are at the parents door with a charge of child abuse.

my 2p.

i agree totally, the even more worrying thong for me is that my wife is white british, although she agrees with me sometimes and she is a good wife and mother too, but still she threatened to get the authorities on me because i wanted to get my son circumcised, her excuse was the boy is not an african therefore no circumcision

njays24:
what's the big deal about people living in the US. If I say I have someone in the US,what is there to lie about. CNN said 9 people,but 12 people actually died. I don't know what you're insinuating by saying if am sure my brother-in-law lives in the US. What's the big deal about living there? As far as am concerned that country is overhyped,apart from the value of their currency and organised society,I for one cannot live in a society where every tom,dick and Harry owns a gun. Travel on maybe a few weeks holiday and back is ok for me. Can't even let my kids school there,I rather send them to New Zealand. Nigerians have over-hyped America.

yes you may be on point, but remember, you might also get shot while on holiday in America,best way, is to stay clear entirely. hypocrisy comes to mind

Cavenchy:
When you live in London, its extremely hard to raise a decent child, its extremely hard to find or keep a permanent husband. It's extremely unlikely that you would believe in God.

If she grew up in Nigeria, gave birth to him in London and she attempted to train him the Nigerian way in London, It would take the grace of God for him to not turn out the way he did. Ask Nigerians who grew up in Nigeria, moved to London, and have kids there in London. It's a very difficult place to raise a kid using cane and shouts. Your kid would get you arrested, (I've seen a 4 year old threaten to sue her mum).

Similarly, when he gets older, and he feels he is grown, he could harm you for trying to control him. This poor woman probably didn't understand she had to train the child the British way and went about it the Nigerian 'iron hand' way in a foreign country. May her soul rip.


UPDATE: I didn't have to read the story to understand what must have transpired. I just did now and it even confirms it more. He secretly plotted to kill his mother cos he was fed up with her ranting, he just didn't understand that is how Nigerians in Nigeria train their kids and that she was probably trained that way herself. He is not mentally disturbed in the way most Nigerians would see it, he just doesn't have the same mindset most Nigerians do, his mother was only trying to train him, but African style training is considered abuse to a Londoner. He must have felt the shouts and beatings he received as a kid were abuse and his mother hates him. He didn't know it was because his mother wanted the best for him. If he had a strong father figure maybe he would have understood why at a point. It's not a woman's specialty to raise a man alone. Its most unlikely he had his dad around for long.

the most sensible comment i have ever read on this forum, very articulately put, you know? this worries me everyday even though my my son is just 3 years old

AreaFada2:
Na wa o. Raising kids in diaspora is not easy. The absence of family/social support system is a big issue. Trying to be strict on kids in a permissive environment is tricky.

Gbam! makes a lot of sense

Baroba:
Do not judge people you don't know, Tolu was not banging anyhow, she was a hardworking woman in a meaningful relationship.

She did all she could to help her son all by herself.

so it appears,subsequently why do it all by her self? I believe there are professionals in this sort of situation

agarawu23:
just like that? I pray God should open your hrt . and your moniker says Godmode

yes! Just like that! The poor business owner have families to feed and rent perhaps to pay and customers who may go else were if services they pay for is not rendered. Why not shut down the whole country for a month because of fasting?

phabulux:
Poor construction of English? What do you know about English?

Sir, does the word 'generalize' give you a hard-on? You muslim gays ought to be institutionalised. I have no problem with Muslims (my father is one), but, why tar all Americans with one brush?

Typical, Arrogance, i suspect you must be a yanks, if you are not, the cap sure fits you.i still respect your views

MicroBox:
Nigerian girls with white folks,though not their fault it seems the parents take pride in their children dating/marrying white folks.. That how my girl friend ended up with a Hungarian man they are married now.

so you are pained?i suspect jealousy , anyway come i will marry you, i am a black man thats if you are female

ademusiwa8:
Idi amin love is love. It is not the colour of skin.

I like white women does that mean I hate black women. No.

People like different thing a.d she like what she want.

If a person live abroad before g. Your taste will be for white women. Because that is all you see.

Absolutely! Brilliantly put.

IdiAmin1:
All in a bid to get oyibo husband, this one has gone down so soon.

What amazes me is the way some Nigerian mothers encourage their daughters to neglect Nigerian suitors/toasters and go for their white counterparts.

Rip sister

what is this supposed to mean? black men kill,assault and rape black african women every day in America, even your so called nigerian suitors/toasters rape or kill nigerian women in nigeria every day. There are bad people every were in every ethnicity

Tapout:
chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

and you do not think foursome without consent is Rape?

dearpreye:
And where the docile masses refuse to do something about their plight! That's also corruption.

agreed!

joshrare:
Ijaw and part of yoruba practised it but no beating is involved... As for the lady she has no choice than to marry the suitor coz the first task on the eve of the kidnap he must have sex with the lady. If she refuses able body youth are called to hold her still while the suitor do the needful, this act is repeated for a week or two until she calm down or assumed pregnant.

Meanwhile ladies are assign to follow her around

you mean she is violated repeatedly for a week, what a barbaric thing to do, i assume they will live a happily ever after