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Pecoleee345:
Like they make it look like the man is just a log of wood during those period doing nothing and not dropping a single kobo.

That 2022 I paid the house rent and was still dropping whatever I see but due to the fact she was the one dropping the lion share.....I was lazy and not ready to work.

She started telling people she was tired and complaining like this.......Men I went through depression.

This was a woman i married jobless and can't even boost of 100k in her account then.
The business she runs i set it up for her.

Things change last year and table has turned......now that same woman now expects me to give her money freely and help her family members....lol

She herself no the love I have for her is now 20% and she always blaming the devil for her behaviors but for me I can only labor on my kids.

20% love for your wife, that's way too small naa. Who come get the remaining 80%

FreeSpirited:
Who cares about their life..women can't stay where attention is not drawn to them..where people don't dot on them...so good riddance to all of them..they can go back to Instagram where mumu men worship their stinking narcissistic behaviors

Your moniker doesn't fit you. Freespirited indeed

That's sad, I can imagine how the woman feels.
She should have a heart to heart conversation with her husband. She needs to know why he stopped making efforts. A man who was working before and fending for the family suddenly stopped. He might be frustrated, discouraged or depressed.

Even as a teacher, I can't even recite it.
Don't blame our boys if they keep mute on that day. Small small we go learn am, no hurry in life

I heard a gay narrate how he became one. He was lured into it as a child by a group of gay neighbors at the age of 9.
He was so deep into it until almost 30 years.
Then he met someone who preached Christ to him and he repented.
My take.... It's a choice, it has nothing to do with genetics

You see ee NEMESIS is real. We reap whatever we sow. How can any sane person rape a woman not to talk of a pregnant one? Some people are without conscience....God forbid

Well I sympathize with her but her option of going into prostitution is wrong. It shows she has zero moral values
Many of us are graduates too but settled for low paying jobs since we can't secure the juicy ones. Did we turn prostitutes? Of course NO.
She can get a teaching job easily if she sincerely wants to earn a living legitimately and cut her clothes according to her cloth

Well the alimony is way too high shaa but how come nobody is talking about the man FATHERING A SON WITH LOVER?

Nairaland used to be a place for relaxation after the day's hard work but recently the toxicity I read here is alarming.
Most of us just read without making any comments.
I'm a married woman and not just a girl, I wouldn't want anyone heaping insults on me because I have a different opinion on a topic.
The hardship in the country is too much, I don't want anyone to stress me further especially on a faceless forum

purples25:
So sorry 😥

Thanks darling

On my way to work this morning I saw two of these useless men in uniform arguing with a truck driver. You need to see how I ran pass that place before they will release bullet.
Mad people

And you people think this is funny?.
Someone cleared my bank account last week Wednesday and left only 1k.
I have children at home to feed, I'm currently undergoing treatment and the person had mind to clear my account using my ATM card details ( I don't know how he/she got the details)
I will not send god of thunder to the person but I handed him over to THE LION OF TRIBE OF JUDAH..
Let God fight for me.

Yellow garri is 4000 here in Lag.
My joy will know no bound if someone can bless me with 1 paint rubber make me and my children take hold body small. Chai e go sweet me wella.
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ibechris:
The pos girl has scammed u.

No be small thing. She will meet her Waterloo

Newlymarried:
I think your card details has been compromised by POS machine, would advise you don't use that card because the account will still be cleared again. Also confront the POS person.

You are right. I went to my bank yesterday. The customer service person advised me to block the card and print a new one.
As for the POS girl, I can't go back to her because her location is far from mine. Na God go judge her

Good morning Nairalanders,
I'm in pains right now.
I went to hospital on Monday because I was very sick. Some drugs were prescribed for me. I needed to get money for the drugs.
So I went to use the Access Bank ATM at Obalende but it was out of service. Opposite the bank was a POS girl.
So I withdraw 10,200 and had a balance of 4,330 in my account.
Yesterday i saw that my account was reading 1330 Book balance 4,330.
I just woke up now to see that 3,000 was debited, 1,500 in two places.
I never authorized the debit.
What could have happened?
The beneficiary is UBER...Lagos Island.
I have never ordered any UBER. before
Who could be this heartless to remove the last money in my account?
Note that nobody has access to my PIN
Please what should I do next? I'm confused
Mynd44 OAM4J kindly move to front. Thanks

I have said it " May God have mercy on you"
I wonder who raised you

essentialone:
You may be next, if you do not change to a positive lifestyle...

What kind of a person are you?
May God have mercy on you

essentialone:
Her picture shows that she is a chronic prostitute.

One down, many more yet to go...

Congratulations. I'm happy for you. More wins

01Happiness:
My priority now is to buy gas cooker,pot and plates and fan because where I dey stay dey very hot.the rest can come later

"You are dreaming"
Beyonce kee u dia

LexngtonSteele:


These breakfast stories are funny to hear as an outsider.

Devastating if you're the one experiencing it or paternity fraud.

Truth is, men can be wicked but our anger no dey last. We can shout but days or a week, we don move on.

But you see women ? They can bear grudges for years... the day she will pack from your house...

She will cook your favourite meal, fvck you your favourite style and you will return to find the house empty, surgically cleaned.

Happened to lots of men.

Even me, na so Beyonce leave me at face-me-i-face-you for Jay-Z in New York

Bad boy
You are funny shaa.
Enjoy your weekend dearie.

ravensckar:
That's even the motivation I need to navigate the rigours of my job (especially on a Monday where work is always crazy). After a good fvck, the body releases some chemicals which help to reduce anxiety and stress. That's why people that are s3x starved are always so edgy and cringy.

You should always be giving it to your hubby. It will help save your marriage.

Alright dear. I thought you were cheating on her.
But don't be offended ooo, if she fu..ks your brain out at night, how would you go to work the next day?

ravensckar:
Hey calm down sweetheart! No need to release some progrestorone on me.

Ain't cheating on my wife and the Policing wasn't because she's suspecting me of such. It's a different kind of 'Policing'. The type where somebody wants to be controlling you under the guise of caring for you. Ain't no baby that needs to be cared for. Just cook me something delicious, clean the house and fvck my brains out at night. I can take care of myself!

I know someone like you. The wife got tired of policing him but guess what, he got infected with Hepatitis B. Thank God the idiot didn't infect the wife.
She has filed for divorce

ravensckar:
Men cheat for different reasons;

Some are starved of sex by their wife, some are treated badly, some are belittled i.e their wife always talk down on them like they are underachievers, some are constantly being disgraced at home, some are always being shouted at, some are never given the breathing space in their own house, etc.

After marriage, men realize that nothing beats PEACE OF MIND.

A beautiful lady with a bad character is no different from a WITCH. After marriage, my wife wanted to start acting like my mum; ordering me around, telling me what to do and what not to do, constantly policing me like she's the one that gave birth to me. At a point, she even said playing VIDEO GAME is childish. Na there I change am for her. By the time I put on my Khaki and assumed military control of my house, order was restored. Now, I do whatever the fvck I like in my house. Who get time for rvbbish.

U get time. It's not everyone who mentions you that you should reply.
Why don't you ignore him?

papyjaypaul:
Hey you don't need to insult me or anyone to pass your message. It does not make your position more superior. I am not even moved by it because it does not harm me. Out of the mind comes the words we speak and write. Anyone who resorts to insult shows they cannot handle contrary opinion. It is a weakness you should work on. Remain blessed

Happy marriage anniversary to them.
Me too want love oo

Awwww! You made me smile today. May God continue to bless and keep you. Much love

gbegemaster:
I would like to send financial gifts to families here, but I don't want my name to be revealed. Does anyone know of a way to accomplish this so we can begin the process?

You can use POS operator to disburse it.
At this time when everywhere is dry and people are hungry, you chose to bless and put food on people's table. From the depth of my heart I decree that you and your generation will never lack sir. You are eternally blessed.
If it pleases you, kindly chose me. I'm a teacher and the salary is barely enough to feed me and my young children. It even finishes before it enters
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Uche

gbegemaster:
I would like to send financial gifts to families here, but I don't want my name to be revealed. Does anyone know of a way to accomplish this so we can begin the process?

So sad but there is hope for the future.
I'm optimistic that one day one day e go work. Whites don't give up easily

This Meghan could have been me. We look so much alike

This Megan Markle could have been me. We look alike

You are generalizing. FYI I'm a lady, I'm on Nairaland but I'm definitely not toxic

beryledibor:
Even in nairaland they are toxic

I like fufu but it's too expensive now.
I bought ijebu garri, I'm regretting it. You need to see my face when I'm eating it. The thing dey slap no be small