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If genuinely Tinubu is looking for a way out of this current economic mess, he should invite the likes of Ngozi Okonjo Iweala

JohnnA1:
BEAUTIFUL 😍

Wise man

How many of them do you have at home?

Sapasenator:
That is not good actually. If for example, I am mad at you and going to kill you tomorrow. I will still be smiling with you and never show any sign of anger.

It is good for people to show their emotions so you at least know how to adjust and what you are dealing with. I like todo the opposite.

Of course it's good for people to show their emotions but it should be managed. If I hurt you, you can let me know without necessarily becoming violent. Emotions should be controlled be it positive or negative one.
I used to be quick tempered but that changed over the years as I became older. I worked on myself

Sapasenator:
Nope. I never get angry, I learned to control my emotions long time ago.

That's good. I like people who have a grip on their emotions.

Sapasenator:
Yes. I am lying and related to Lai Mohamed.

Sorry dear, I was joking. I guess you are angry

Sapasenator:
I have given help to lots of people in the past. I have given a car as help. I have given millions in help until I realized I was been used as the ATM and I stopped.

I help only if the individual have a good plan for themselves, like they want to learn a trade that will give a valuable skill or a good business proposal that I approve. I like to help people who have already so they can have more most of the time as they appreciate the value of money.

I have heard different kind of stories over the years and never moved by people's stories a d circumstances.

I started working at 14. Sent myself to university and masters in Nigeria and abroad.

Did I read car and millions? I hope you are not related to Lai Mohammed
You started working at 14, that's was way too young.
I guess your dad wasn't there for you...na guess I guess

Sapasenator:
Givers will lack 100% if they never planned for themselves financially. The mantra "Givers never lack" is an emotional manipulation tool to trick the rich into parting with their money. Why don't the poor give the little they have so they do not ever have to beg again? Have you ever wondered?

I have seen lots of givers who are broke and after wasting their money giving, come to me for help and I turn them down.

Swear that you have never received help from someone in the past. Ok, you don't have to swear. If you can be honest and keep you ego by the corner, you will admit that someone has helped you before

Sapasenator:
I may not be able to respond to a DM, I sincerely apologize. If you quote me on a dead thread with a question, I will respond to you.

Ok. That's fine but I don't know what's dead thread and how it works

Sapasenator:
I am kinder than you think. Kindness to you means allowing myself to be swindled.

I hate lazy and entitled people more than the DEVIL. I even cut off friendship if you are not able to help yourself financially or at least have a workable plan to get back on your feet as an adult.

We are derailing the Op's post.
Can I inbox you?

Sapasenator:
Nor vex my dear. I became hardened after helping a lot in the past. People see me as a walking ATM machine and I stopped.
I turned down my own blood brother and told him homelessness is a choice when he asked for rent money. I had millions at the time and could have helped but I witheld help. He is now doing well and has learned to stand by himself.

This is called tough love. I have changed the lives of people in real life the past decade.

Your own blood brother?
But do you know that if anyone tells you he became poor as a result of giving to people, he was never rich in the first place. Givers never lack

Sapasenator:
Its 5.58 pm and I am chilling in a restaurant working on my laptop. Why do everyone assume everyone on Nairaland live in Nigeria?

You are even in abroad and you are this harsh. You must have gone through a lot in life. Be kind please

Sapasenator:
I have helped a lot in the past and stopped. Most Nigerians are actually lazy people. Rich people do not enable laziness. Help today and he will be back with a new story tomorrow.

I will rather gamble and blow all the money in a casino than enable a lazy person.

Emotional maturity means you are not moved by all the sob stories these people concoct. Life is a choice and if you are not able to live, suicide will always be an option.
I am sorry if I sound harsh but I am pragmatic fellow and a man of the world.

I'm scared of you already.
Your mentality and orientation get as e be

Sapasenator:
There is nothing I have not experienced my dear. I am a man of the world.

I learned emotional maturity in my 20ies. Reason I am surprised at an adult acting like a baby.

Ok I hear.
Why are you not sleeping?

Sapasenator:
If you keep helping everyone, you will never be rich. That is why the rich are smarter.
You may end up destroying these people with the so called help. They have to learn how to help themselves.

You are harsh. Nigerians are hardworking people just that sometimes life happens to us.
Please if you can, help. Kindness pays

Sapasenator:
I am a man and I can tell you a man at 33 can never be a "big baby" both physically and emotionally.
OP needs a lot of growing up to do.

Wait untill it's your turn. You will see that you are a bigger baby more than the Op.

Sapasenator:
He needs money.

Oh I see. I wish I have, I would have helped. People are going through a lot.
May his destiny helpers locate him soon

Sapasenator:
Op na baby at 33?

Most men are big babies. Forget the muscles and six packs

LagosSuperStar:
I am so worried. I know the trolls will come at me but at least I made the post to say what I am experiencing.
I am troubled

A problem shared is half solved.
Open up and discuss whatever is bothering you with someone.
I believe you have someone you can discuss with

1PornHUB:
That new guyy she is dating has always been there, you just did not know about him

Be calming down. You want to shatter Op's already broken heart?

franchasofficia:
They pay only fellow Switz nationals and some selected European country citizens, not African migrants please ignore them

Alright sir. Thanks and good night

This pampering is too much.
Abeg where can I find a man like Davido?..... Definitely not on Nairaland ;
I know they will come for me now. Oya
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Attack

He took the advice of the RED PILLERS here serious.
Most people post rubbish here just to catch cruise but Mr Jarius took them serious and went home to unleash terror on his wife.
Say NO to domestic violence

franchasofficia:
Turkey is a fake European country to start with. They are neither here or there, so human right violation is normal in Turkey because it is not an EU country neither is Turkey a developed country to Japa to


Secondly, Turkey is struggling with unemployment and unstable economy and unstable currency just like Naira. Turkish Lira is a highly unstable currency. Going to Turkey with the hope of securing a job as a migrant is a big mistake for any Nigerian. You can only go to Turkey to shop, buy textile and fashion items to use or resell, not to live permanently and work for a living because there are no jobs in Turkey for most citizens of Turkey talk more of migrants abi immigrants.



Dear Nigerians, avoid the below countries in your permanent Japa move:

Cyprus
Turkey
Lebanon
South Africa
Spain unless you have a job offer
Greece unless you have a job offer
Italy unless you have a job offer
Libya
Russia
India
Malaysia
Pakistan
Vietnam unless you are going with a job to teach English
Philippines
Colombia

Thanks bros.
Please what of Sins in Switzerland?
I heard they pay people to migrate to their place due to their declining population.
How true is this?

Suicide is definitely not an option.
He should have hang in there a little while.
Depression is real, let's reach out to our loved ones and always check up on them. People are going through a lot.
My sympathy goes to the people he left behind

emma2002:
As the chill of the Lekki breeze caresses our skin, let us seek warmth in each other's embrace. Come, and let us snuggle up together, our hearts beating as one, our love shining brighter than the cold outside... Haha

Ashawo
You dey find who you go give belle

God1000:
She's been framed up from this story

The so-called madam should be arrested and prosecuted, I don't know why some rich women treat their househelp so badly in Nigeria, they degrade and dehumanize them for no reason.

I think government should step in and put in place legislation that will protect these girls from their wicked madams

It is always madam doing this evil, men don't even have time for such thing

I shake my head whenever I read "the government should...."
Has the government ever done anything that benefits the common man?

emma2002:
Ouch

Yes...why are you calling me 🤔

NothingDoMe:
You have man. You'll be fine. 😄

He is not in town but God gat my back

NothingDoMe:
Kissing, handling, lapping, frolicking, holding hands all in public.

Choi 🤔
This is very necessary on this rainy Friday

dominique:
Hushpuppy jr gettat abeg. So all your secondary school friends just decided to collectively mock you because you started a clothing business? How does that even make sense? Meanwhile I googled this so-called award winning clothing brand, all I found related to BTSO is a Korean perfume brand. Nothing a CTbout clothing o. Don't go and lay low, be disturbing the social media with yeye perspire to aspire stories. Invictus and hushpuppy says hi.

Perspire to aspire.....🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nairaland.....HQ of Savage

NothingDoMe:
Public display of Affection.

Like what and what?

SporaD8:
It's called "otolaryngologist" she didn't even know the spelling of what she wants.
"Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious” is a figment of her unending imagination - no such word exist.

Exactly! You nailed it