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lifeisabitch:Don't ignore anywhere....you can meet him anywhere; on the road while trekking, at the salon, at church...though most serious-minded guys don't ask women out in church....maybe u can make him become interested but don't be the one to ask him out pls.....u can meet him in the market, at school, at workplace...in the canteen, at restaurant...in bank...at the airport...at a bus stop....online like here, fbook, twitter, google plus, at a wedding, naming ceremony, anywhere...just don't cancel any location of place because Jesus Christ was born in the least expected place for a reason.....be open to friendship...but don't keep too many male friends in the name of being friendly...but when a mature guy sees you anywhere and stops u politely to say hello...don't snub or ignore him...give him attention and hear him out...don't rule out guys trekking like most girls do....don't decide to answer only guys on car steering....just be friendly and while being friendly, develop yourself in any way u can. If u can't find a job....learn a skill...trade...startup a business if u can....make sure u are financially productive and not a liability to any guy u meet....try and show him u aren't gonna be a liability....be proud to make your own money even if u end up meeting Aliko Dangote's son tomorrow. Stop clubbing.....unless u are still out to catch fun...so long as u are in Nigeria...clubbing isn't good for single ladies looking forward to settle down....stop excessive makeup...makeover....dressing to kill...dress lovely...look sweet but avoid looking too flashy and sexy.... FINALLY, REMOVE THAT PICTURE ON YOUR DP.....don't feel its a faceless forum...God can use any medium to answer our prayers and bless us...always be who u are wherever u are, all the best ![]() |
lifeisabitch:God bless you too sis ![]() |
SexyCeline:Post-tertiary virgins too....i mean the PhD virgins; those who decided to abstain because they have worn out completely ![]() |
firstking01:Liar Mohammed indeed ![]() |
Samotobor1:Yes, google the company name and click on their career page....they need u asap. goodluck |
hmmm....he really need to look elsewhere...no good pay, no relevant experience....no time....no confidence....I was once in his shoes, let him quit before it's too late. He will be better off starting up a business while looking for another job before it becomes too late. Nigeria, killing the future and talent of her ambitious youth, sighs |
niyi123:Here is the point...but many reading will still do the same. poverty really spoilt love in Nigeria. I don't blame ladies, I blame our past corrupt politicians for destroying the present and future of this nation such that every lady is afraid of poverty and sees any date, relationship or marriage to a man as a means of running away from poverty and future suffering/lack. |
playtheblues:lol, overpopulation is killing the world, don't bank on anyone but you alone...that way, u are safe from disappointment and heartbreak |
playtheblues:Even your boo get a boo ![]() |
passionate88:What other reason will make a beautiful girl who isn't your girlfriend right from when u were struggling financially marry u when u now have the money if not your money and status ![]() Funny enough, ladies do feel that guys don't know y they agreed to date or marry them; all men know y u accepted them but will just pretend until crises day ![]() |
playtheblues:You will do the same tomorrow if u happen to be rich and at their age. Men want young pretty, sexy women, women want men's money: 50 - 50 no loss, no gain |
safarigirl:I got clue from your comment which I quoted. Read it again. U talked about loving the way whitemen show women love like giving flowers, writing poems, etc...and criticized the way black men love by being alpha male, masculine or what. U can correct me. I got all that from your comment, which indirectly means that u prefer whitemen's love to black men's love. So I suggested u go for interracial, which isn't bad. As for my last statement....and your last paragraph, u maybe right...men prefer girlfriends to wife if not for legal child bearing. It's all good, it's not bad for u to prefer whitemen to black men...there are also black men who prefer white ladies to black ladies...its all about preference |
Penisinpenisout:Mistake number 1: don't persuade any woman to love u...and don't feel u are in love with her already just because u saw her picture and write-up, u may fall out of love with her when u see her in real life. if u truly want to know her more and see if u guys can try each other, politely send her a message and don't profess love so fast based on her profile picture to avoid first disappointment. My little opinion ![]() |
safarigirl:I am very sure that many lovely white guys would love to have u as their lover and wife....why not give them a chance since u are more inclined to their kind of love than that of the blacks maybe u have discovered the reason y u should consider interracial marriage.....generally speaking, with the way things are presently and with the way women have defined love and who to love, if not for having children in wedlock, many guys wouldn't marry either ![]() |
tonygee88:lol |
1. Men believe they are smarter than women; even the dullest guy believes he's smarter than the smartest woman ![]() 2. Men think about having sex at every spare minute of the day 3. Once a man sights a beautiful, sexy-looking girl, first thing that runs to his mind is sex 4. Before a man asks a girl to be his girlfriend or wife, the first thing that he imagined was having sex with her 5. A man may love a lady and still cheat on her...simply because to men, sex is just a game of fun and number...not really emotional 6. 90 out of every 100 men that passes a pretty girl, turns back to check how big her asz is 7. The major reason most men wants to be rich and famous is to enable them date and bed the most beautiful women from all around the world without stress 8. Money is more important to most men than any other thing in life 9. The major fear of every man is not death, but fear of being poor and financially broke....followed by fear of not having the most beautiful woman as his 10. Men become more exceptional in whatever they do when a pretty lady is around them 11. One pretty woman can make a male soldier betray his battalion 12. If not for giving birth, most men won't marry 13. If not for women, most men won't buy a car or change their car or even clothe ![]() 14. Every rich guy have more than 1 girlfriend 15. Men prefer spending more time with their male friends but once bored, they wanna be with any available pretty woman 16. Every married man gets tired of having se.x with his wife at a point....he hardly gets aroused by his wife's unclothedness....all men... 17. Men hate to demand or accept gifts, money or favour from women... 18. If not for bad economy, no man would want to marry a rich or busy working class woman 19. All things being equal, the two major qualities all men look out for in a woman they want to marry is physical beauty and humility/respect....others follow and may be ignored if the man is financially ok 20. Every man wishes to be rich irrespective of his present condition |
Ok....watch out my list soon |
vizkiz:You just described the problem in the world today, especially in Nigeria of today and nothing can stop it....so let's expect more babymama because to our sisters, money is love and a guy that doesn't have plenty money don't deserve to be loved by any beautiful girl |
tonygee88: ![]() |
labienyce:Sold |
Julietcutie:Daily statistics show that majority of cute, fair girls with nice shape are greedy, inpatient and materialistic, reason they always end up either heartbroken or with playboys and liars ![]() |
Julietcutie:lol....pls avoid Flavour o...dont attend any show he's hosting abeg...because u are a fine girl and Flavour and his likes will like to make u a babymama....run from them; find a guy with future/dreams, money will come his way one day, be patient cos I know cute girls like u are greedy and inpatient ![]() |
Lolz @missangela and all the hilarious comments, lovely people u all ![]() |
Nairalanders encourage him plz...its hightime Nigerian youths learn to encourage one another to achieve their life goals and dreams. @caringguy, may God help you achieve your heart desire but pls don't be like them Flavour, Wizkid, Davido, 2face, etc playing karate with young girls hearts by giving them unwanted pregnancy. If u get there, make a difference and help other young artists grow too, goodluck bro ![]() |
row2ray:Your wife has been cheating on you with her cousin cum lover....she loves the guy but knowing too well that the guy wasn't ready to marry her (maybe the guy was already married when they met, maybe the guy didn't like her to the extent of making her his wife, maybe...maybe not)....and then your wife needed to get married and at the same time enjoy her cousin cum lover's financial/work assistance, she had to marry you to cure her "spinsterhood" while carrying on with her cousin cum lover behind you. That is what they call using one stone to kill three birds....what a smart woman you married, lucky you If I were you...guess what I would do I don't pray to be in your shoes...seek for God's direction on this, wish you luck |
3rdlegxxx:too bad....that's how bad the situation has reached, its well |





