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RomanceRe: Where Is The Best Place To Look For A Husband? by ourchoice(m): 1:23pm On Feb 03, 2016
lifeisabitch:
Club is a no no, their heads are not correct grin

Church, I don't even know again. Even brothers in christ cannot wait till marriage. Romancelander, where can a responsible god fearing girl look for a loyal and presentable husband?
Don't ignore anywhere....you can meet him anywhere; on the road while trekking, at the salon, at church...though most serious-minded guys don't ask women out in church....maybe u can make him become interested but don't be the one to ask him out pls.....u can meet him in the market, at school, at workplace...in the canteen, at restaurant...in bank...at the airport...at a bus stop....online like here, fbook, twitter, google plus, at a wedding, naming ceremony, anywhere...just don't cancel any location of place because Jesus Christ was born in the least expected place for a reason.....be open to friendship...but don't keep too many male friends in the name of being friendly...but when a mature guy sees you anywhere and stops u politely to say hello...don't snub or ignore him...give him attention and hear him out...don't rule out guys trekking like most girls do....don't decide to answer only guys on car steering....just be friendly and while being friendly, develop yourself in any way u can.

If u can't find a job....learn a skill...trade...startup a business if u can....make sure u are financially productive and not a liability to any guy u meet....try and show him u aren't gonna be a liability....be proud to make your own money even if u end up meeting Aliko Dangote's son tomorrow.

Stop clubbing.....unless u are still out to catch fun...so long as u are in Nigeria...clubbing isn't good for single ladies looking forward to settle down....stop excessive makeup...makeover....dressing to kill...dress lovely...look sweet but avoid looking too flashy and sexy....


FINALLY, REMOVE THAT PICTURE ON YOUR DP.....don't feel its a faceless forum...God can use any medium to answer our prayers and bless us...always be who u are wherever u are, all the best smiley
RomanceRe: The Challenges Of Being A Secondary Virgin by ourchoice(m): 1:14pm On Feb 03, 2016
lifeisabitch:
God bless you
God bless you too sis smiley
RomanceRe: The Challenges Of Being A Secondary Virgin by ourchoice(m): 12:12pm On Feb 03, 2016
SexyCeline:
Primary virgin ko secondary virgin ni... So what happens to tertiary virgins?
Post-tertiary virgins too....i mean the PhD virgins; those who decided to abstain because they have worn out completelycheesy
RomanceRe: 20 Interesting But Weird Facts About Men by ourchoice(op): 12:07pm On Feb 03, 2016
firstking01:
That no 7 is lie mohammed...the only reason i wanna be rich is to enrich and affect others positively with my wealthundecided
Liar Mohammed indeedcheesy
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job by ourchoice(m): 3:04am On Feb 03, 2016
Samotobor1:
Can a geology graduate apply?
Yes, google the company name and click on their career page....they need u asap. goodluck
CareerRe: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by ourchoice(m): 3:56pm On Feb 02, 2016
hmmm....he really need to look elsewhere...no good pay, no relevant experience....no time....no confidence....I was once in his shoes, let him quit before it's too late. He will be better off starting up a business while looking for another job before it becomes too late. Nigeria, killing the future and talent of her ambitious youth, sighs cry
CelebritiesRe: Dabota Lawson Files For Divorce From Billionaire Prince Sunny Aku by ourchoice(m): 3:24pm On Feb 02, 2016
rita25:
U WERE NOT AWARE HE WAS MARRIED? MECHIONU DIA THUNDER FIRE UR GOLDIGGING ASS angry
cheesycheesycheesy
CelebritiesRe: Dabota Lawson Files For Divorce From Billionaire Prince Sunny Aku by ourchoice(m): 3:22pm On Feb 02, 2016
niyi123:
Why will she not talk of divorce, when greed and love for money have taken most of our ladies reasoning. First of all, the man I am seeing is far older than her and for people like her when they are marrying to older extremely rich men, they should have known that they have to sacrifice their emotional desires because rich people like that hardly have time and most time any lady that decided to marry them should forget marital bondage which could make marriage more fulfilling and pleasing. And also, most of these older rich men can hardly fulfil the sexual desires of a young cute lady like her and later they end up looking for a way to bridge the gap. You can eat your cake and have it.
Here is the point...but many reading will still do the same. poverty really spoilt love in Nigeria. I don't blame ladies, I blame our past corrupt politicians for destroying the present and future of this nation such that every lady is afraid of poverty and sees any date, relationship or marriage to a man as a means of running away from poverty and future suffering/lack.
CelebritiesRe: Dabota Lawson Files For Divorce From Billionaire Prince Sunny Aku by ourchoice(m): 3:17pm On Feb 02, 2016
playtheblues:
Not all boos.
lol, overpopulation is killing the world, don't bank on anyone but you alone...that way, u are safe from disappointment and heartbreak
CelebritiesRe: Dabota Lawson Files For Divorce From Billionaire Prince Sunny Aku by ourchoice(m): 3:10pm On Feb 02, 2016
playtheblues:
I won't. Thanks.


Jennifer Lopez is 48 and still looks pretty and sexy.
Jada Pinkett, Madonna, Chris Jenner, toni Braxton all love pretty and sexy at their age.


Marry your wife well. Go to the gym with her about 4x weekly. Maintain her very well and she will be good in your eyes forever.
Even your boo get a boogrin
CelebritiesRe: Dabota Lawson Files For Divorce From Billionaire Prince Sunny Aku by ourchoice(m): 3:08pm On Feb 02, 2016
passionate88:
She married him because of his money.... Guys shine your eyes, these hoes ain't loyal
What other reason will make a beautiful girl who isn't your girlfriend right from when u were struggling financially marry u when u now have the money if not your money and statushuh

Funny enough, ladies do feel that guys don't know y they agreed to date or marry them; all men know y u accepted them but will just pretend until crises daygrin
CelebritiesRe: Dabota Lawson Files For Divorce From Billionaire Prince Sunny Aku by ourchoice(m): 3:03pm On Feb 02, 2016
playtheblues:
Some of these randy old men are joy killers.
Most of them hardly respect women.
Imagine the way Musa Danjuma has been embarrassing Caroline all over the place. He has brought about two children for her to take care of. He has chains of mistresses who insult Caro daily on instagram.

Girls please marry your mates, they will understand you more. These old folks will so restrict your movements ; they won't even let you have a life anymore and most of them will keep going for under 18 because they feel it makes them young.

Most of their young wives are suffering and smiling.
You will do the same tomorrow if u happen to be rich and at their age. Men want young pretty, sexy women, women want men's money: 50 - 50 no loss, no gain
RomanceRe: Are You Gamophobic? by ourchoice(m): 2:42pm On Feb 02, 2016
safarigirl:
I don't know where you got your own idea that I prefer the way white people 'love'....you must have a thing for putting words in people's mouth.


Don't assume men are high commodity either, if not for society, women would rather stay single. Men are more needy than women, ever wondered why widowers are more open to remarrying than widows?


They simply can't handle pressure like women.
I got clue from your comment which I quoted. Read it again. U talked about loving the way whitemen show women love like giving flowers, writing poems, etc...and criticized the way black men love by being alpha male, masculine or what. U can correct me. I got all that from your comment, which indirectly means that u prefer whitemen's love to black men's love. So I suggested u go for interracial, which isn't bad.

As for my last statement....and your last paragraph, u maybe right...men prefer girlfriends to wife if not for legal child bearing.

It's all good, it's not bad for u to prefer whitemen to black men...there are also black men who prefer white ladies to black ladies...its all about preference
RomanceRe: Are You Gamophobic? by ourchoice(m): 2:16pm On Feb 02, 2016
Penisinpenisout:
So then, a white feminine beta male would be your ideal match? I don't think so
Also why do you think alpha male can't express love? Thats not true dear
In our hands you would experience love at its purest form

Ps: i think you're absolutely gorgeous, you should let me love you
With all your intellectual prowess and my alpha status we could birth the next Albert Einstein.
Mistake number 1: don't persuade any woman to love u...and don't feel u are in love with her already just because u saw her picture and write-up, u may fall out of love with her when u see her in real life. if u truly want to know her more and see if u guys can try each other, politely send her a message and don't profess love so fast based on her profile picture to avoid first disappointment.

My little opinionsmiley
RomanceRe: Are You Gamophobic? by ourchoice(m): 2:11pm On Feb 02, 2016
safarigirl:
bros, stop hyperventilating. You are not more racist than I am....I stopped watching white people movies almost ten years ago so I wouldn't know what they she these days.


What I meant by incapable is that the black man is not fashioned to do things like write poetry, buy flowers/chocolate and all that crappy stuff whites do. They show love, but their expression is poor, probably because the black race is more masculine in nature; not given to emotional outbursts, not necessarily weak-minded and the likes. I see the black man in an alpha male status, hence, the inability to express things like love the way the more feminine whites would.

I like them like that, I don't take any black man trying to practice soap opera love seriously
I am very sure that many lovely white guys would love to have u as their lover and wife....why not give them a chance since u are more inclined to their kind of love than that of the blackshuh maybe u have discovered the reason y u should consider interracial marriage.

....generally speaking, with the way things are presently and with the way women have defined love and who to love, if not for having children in wedlock, many guys wouldn't marry either undecided
RomanceRe: Is This What Loyalty In Relationship Truly Is? (pics) by ourchoice(m): 1:45pm On Feb 02, 2016
tonygee88:
Did u say 70-85%? ... Abi 96%, 2% out of d remaining 4% are probably d ones who are jst getting exposed like d jambites & sec schl girls.... Only 2% will stick to a broke dude... It's a pity
lol
CelebritiesRe: Anna Banner Flashes Thigh In Sexy Black Dress by ourchoice(m): 11:16am On Feb 02, 2016
Julietcutie:
:-D yea yea
wink smiley
Romance20 Interesting But Weird Facts About Men by ourchoice(op): 11:12am On Feb 02, 2016
1. Men believe they are smarter than women; even the dullest guy believes he's smarter than the smartest womangrin

2. Men think about having sex at every spare minute of the day

3. Once a man sights a beautiful, sexy-looking girl, first thing that runs to his mind is sex cry

4. Before a man asks a girl to be his girlfriend or wife, the first thing that he imagined was having sex with her

5. A man may love a lady and still cheat on her...simply because to men, sex is just a game of fun and number...not really emotional

6. 90 out of every 100 men that passes a pretty girl, turns back to check how big her asz is

7. The major reason most men wants to be rich and famous is to enable them date and bed the most beautiful women from all around the world without stress

8. Money is more important to most men than any other thing in life

9. The major fear of every man is not death, but fear of being poor and financially broke....followed by fear of not having the most beautiful woman as his

10. Men become more exceptional in whatever they do when a pretty lady is around them

11. One pretty woman can make a male soldier betray his battalion

12. If not for giving birth, most men won't marry

13. If not for women, most men won't buy a car or change their car or even clothecheesy

14. Every rich guy have more than 1 girlfriend

15. Men prefer spending more time with their male friends but once bored, they wanna be with any available pretty woman

16. Every married man gets tired of having se.x with his wife at a point....he hardly gets aroused by his wife's unclothedness....all men...

17. Men hate to demand or accept gifts, money or favour from women...

18. If not for bad economy, no man would want to marry a rich or busy working class woman

19. All things being equal, the two major qualities all men look out for in a woman they want to marry is physical beauty and humility/respect....others follow and may be ignored if the man is financially ok

20. Every man wishes to be rich irrespective of his present condition
RomanceRe: Some Amazing And Interesting Facts About Men.. by ourchoice(m): 10:58am On Feb 02, 2016
Ok....watch out my list soon
CelebritiesRe: Anna Banner Flashes Thigh In Sexy Black Dress by ourchoice(m): 10:45am On Feb 02, 2016
Julietcutie:
kinda but m different
you very surehuh shocked
RomanceRe: When A Single Lady Is Living In The Midst Of Babymamas... by ourchoice(m): 10:44am On Feb 02, 2016
vizkiz:
boy meets girl, tells her about his feelings, and promise to treat her right
Girl says no because he is broke...

Girl meets a rich dude that spends on her, she starts tripping and say "this is love"
Dude furcked her real good, and spill the juice is her...
Girl gets pregnant and informed dude...
Dude doesn't give a crap cuz he aiint inlove with her neither is he gonna father no bastard....
Girl starts saying "men are evil" then she gives birth to a fatherless child in shame.

THE END.
You just described the problem in the world today, especially in Nigeria of today and nothing can stop it....so let's expect more babymama because to our sisters, money is love and a guy that doesn't have plenty money don't deserve to be loved by any beautiful girl
RomanceRe: The Best Way To Keep Your Girl (picture) by ourchoice(m): 10:25am On Feb 02, 2016
tonygee88:
Not without money.... U shud knw wat 98% will do
smiley
PhonesRe: Brand New Iphone 6 For Sale @ Give-away Price by ourchoice(op): 8:01am On Feb 02, 2016
labienyce:
Send me your number
Sold
CelebritiesRe: Anna Banner Flashes Thigh In Sexy Black Dress by ourchoice(m): 7:50am On Feb 02, 2016
Julietcutie:
lol ok o i heard u ...but not all gals r impatient nd greedy na
Daily statistics show that majority of cute, fair girls with nice shape are greedy, inpatient and materialistic, reason they always end up either heartbroken or with playboys and liarsgrin
CelebritiesRe: Anna Banner Flashes Thigh In Sexy Black Dress by ourchoice(m): 7:31am On Feb 02, 2016
Julietcutie:
lol omg ur post made me burst out in laughter now....take it easy on her joor but u made some points tho
lol....pls avoid Flavour o...dont attend any show he's hosting abeg...because u are a fine girl and Flavour and his likes will like to make u a babymama....run from them; find a guy with future/dreams, money will come his way one day, be patient cos I know cute girls like u are greedy and inpatientcheesy
RomanceRe: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by ourchoice(m): 10:41pm On Feb 01, 2016
Lolz @missangela and all the hilarious comments, lovely people u allgrin
RomanceRe: Chilling Out With Skales (photos) by ourchoice(m): 8:57pm On Feb 01, 2016
Nairalanders encourage him plz...its hightime Nigerian youths learn to encourage one another to achieve their life goals and dreams.

@caringguy, may God help you achieve your heart desire but pls don't be like them Flavour, Wizkid, Davido, 2face, etc playing karate with young girls hearts by giving them unwanted pregnancy.

If u get there, make a difference and help other young artists grow too, goodluck brosmiley
RomanceRe: Mature Responses Needed by ourchoice(m): 7:02pm On Feb 01, 2016
row2ray:
I'm a guy in my early 30s I got married a couple years ago have two wonderful kids

Before I got married my wife introduced a guy to me as her cousin.... long story short.. after we got married I found they weren't related.. she has been working with him at his clinic.. I finally told her to stop after he bought her a phone and paid for a u.s trip for her.. she told me she has resigned.. I was drinking with an employee of the clinic.. and he told me.. my wife never resigned... instead she dropped a letter for leave of absence.. I confronted her with the information... she fought me and made a scene, now I feel I'm done with the marriage... what do I do... I love her but this ish is at the point where I feel I made a mistake... like she says love isn't enough to keep a marriage.. by the way I do everything in my power to keep her happy
Your wife has been cheating on you with her cousin cum lover....she loves the guy but knowing too well that the guy wasn't ready to marry her (maybe the guy was already married when they met, maybe the guy didn't like her to the extent of making her his wife, maybe...maybe not)....and then your wife needed to get married and at the same time enjoy her cousin cum lover's financial/work assistance, she had to marry you to cure her "spinsterhood" while carrying on with her cousin cum lover behind you.

That is what they call using one stone to kill three birds....what a smart woman you married, lucky you cry cry

If I were you...guess what I would dohuh I don't pray to be in your shoes...seek for God's direction on this, wish you luck
RomanceRe: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by ourchoice(m): 6:19pm On Feb 01, 2016
3rdlegxxx:
you are making sense dear but ladies should also learn to reduce their asking, i have a friend, we actually had a lil whatsapp fight last weekend, every time i say hi to her, it's ah! you forgot me, i'm broke, pls send me airtime, if i tell her, i'm at a mall close to her, she rushes down there and automatically starts with, lets go in and buy this and buy that and i had to ask her, babe what is it with u and always asking 4 money and saying you are broke, you have parents and if you need cash that bad, get a job like the rest of us did, omo she parole lock up, me gan lock up too, some girls are just bad at it, every little thing, send me airtime, send me t-fair, one girl once told me to send her cab fair from maryland to the island, i was like, when i asked what the big deal was, she was like do i expect her to fly, most girls have turned the whole friends, dating and other ones wey i know fit give name to as a money making thing, it's just crazy and funny at the same time,
too bad....that's how bad the situation has reached, its well cry

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