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mimopel:
dont stess ur ans jst ans straight up. how do u get the wife

God will decide!

Women and their consolation words of: someone better than him will come your way, he doesn't deserve you....

Ladies is hightime you start taking responsibility of the things that happen in your life.

If u do the same thing over and over and expect a different result, then u are insane!


If u don't think critically and figure out y the guy cheated on u and correct it, if u like, meet Angel Michael, he will be pushed to cheat on u.

For your info, the major reason sexually active and mature guys go into a relationship is to have someone they can share their intimate fantasies with....someone to help kill their sex.ual urge when high.

If u don't want to indulge in sex till marriage, pls stop dating! Any mature, sexually active man that agrees to date u without sex is fooling u because he will sure be having sex with some random girl or girls without you knowledge

Don't keep boyfriend if u want to remain atrue virgin, but girls won't listen! Ladies are selfish...u want a mugu boyfriend to foot your bills and meet your insatiable needs but u have nothing to offer him in return, y? is he your father, brother, uncle, cousin or pastor?

Lastly, I hope your friend isn't seeing herself as a virgin after all those kissing, touch, etc?? If she thinks she is a virgin, let her keep deceiving herself, God is watching her!

mimopel:
no more arguement abt virgin or non virgin thing...but one question for u bro...why do u need a wife??

1. For procreation 2. For companionship if she's willing to be a good companion

Meanwhile, wife is different from girlfriend....and boyfriend is different from husband.

mimopel:
#smiles#...reason am not offended is because u are not exposed.....i dont cum to talk abt my sexual purity or promoscuity on public forums but i would hav used myself to clear ur doubt, who says there are no virgins who havnt involve in any form of sexual activity, have even seen 3 laides they are even in their late twenties so wat are we saying here. virginity is not abt church it about personality and beliefs....people go into sex by blood or by infleuence...one can have a strong christian foundation and spiritual support nd decides to to taunt their destinies for two minutes pleasure. dey can remain virgins even @ 25?....besides sex is not worth the hype and stress. there are so many other things in life we are meant to channel our energy to, the gospel. GOD"s work, ministry, visions, talent and not SEX!! for crying out loud. nobody have sex for one day stretch....because wat good fruit has pre marital sex brought to our society. get busy man with other tinz

agreed! So tell me y u need a boyfriend? Why do u need a boyfriend when u can channel the energy into the things u mentioned? You need boyfriend to foot your bills for free right? Isn't that selfishness and sin?

As far as I am concerned, there are no Godly virgin above 18yrs....only God knows the true virgins....i don't believe in virgins because it's a scam

Ladies that call themselves virgin do worse than non-virgins; we don't need to argue it...you know yourself...its between u and your God, don't convince me because I don't believe there are true virgins. if u are, God alone knows and will reward u...if u are not, it's bw u and your God and conscience, don't sweat it sis

mimopel:
why do i feel like you shouldnt have brought this to the public


just keep urself...GOD hardly fails virgins talking from experience

There are no real virgins above 19yrs in the world

Which virgin? The so-called virgin that kiss, romance, su*ck, engage in oral se*x, engage in anal s*ex, handle, mastur*bate and just preserve her hymen to deceive gullible-men who still crave to marry fake virgin with rotten heart and soul.

God alone knows the true virgins and true virgins don't date or keep boyfriend...go to Deeper Life....

Ornate1:
[quote author=ourchoice post=42335669]why do u need a relationship when u are not ready to indulge in what comes with relationship with the opposite sex? Is there anywhere Bible said u must have a boyfriend

If u know u aren't ready to give what relationship demands, then forget about keeping a boyfriend and face your life alone!

If I may ask, what will u give to the guy u will be dating in exchange for his gifts, calls, pampering, etc? I am sure nothing but forming his girlfriend with rules and laws!

Why are women so selfish and wicked? U want to collect but u don't want to give!

It is simple, avoid relationship and pray for your husband to come soon.

Any guy that tells u that he will date u, stay committed to u, be assisting u, calling u happily as his girlfriend and not expect or demand sex from u is a big liar! He will only pretend while having sex with some other girls behind u and fooling u with sweet words of how he doesn't care about sex.

Any guy ready to accept no sex relationship won't need a girlfriend in the first place....so to say, such guys don't date!

You too shouldn't date! Stay on your own if u truly want to please God!

Ever since I decided not to indulge in sex outside marriage, I don't keep girlfriends....i don't woo girls....i stay on my own....i don't expect any girl to call me, text me, buy me gift or worry me...I am facing my life alone.

But u ladies want to have a boyfriend that will be spending on u, giving u money, taking u out, calling u always, doing this and that for u and at the end u don't give him anything in return, why? Is he your brother? Is he your father? Is he your cousin? Why must he be spending on u and not expect anything in return? What if after wasting his time and resources on u and u decide to leave him to marry another man, what will be his consolation?


The problem is it seems most ladies are selfish and greedy; they only think about what they want and don't care about what the man in their life want. Selfishness and greed are big sins too....flee from them. be yourself and stop dating if u want to be a true virgin in the sight of God.Well, there's really no need for the harsh undertones, alright? constructive criticism is always the best. That aside,

1) Now, the bible may have never spoken about dating, however, I won't be wrong if I tell you it existed, in the christain world, we call it courtship.

Jacob courted (or dated) racheal for seven years before marriage. Gen 29,18-30, though it wasn't that rampant then, However that's one example for you.

Your over-emphasis on the word "live your life alone" is not needed.

You avoid relationships because you don't want to have sex, well there's something called self control, i believe.

Instead of staying alone, it's always best to be on the lookout for someone who has the same beliefs as you, just as most nairalanders has already said ( unfortunately they are few) so this where your "pray for your own husband to come soon" comes into play, and thanks for this part though, am already doing that. Mind you when he comes, he is still going to be a tagged boyfriend first in this our 21st century society(since that's what they calls a man you are in a relationship with) before he becomes a husband.

"You ladies" why generalizing, huh?

I always took my exes out on their birthdays, bought gifts every now and then too, and whenever we eat out, we always go dutch, and never was it a one-sided relationship. This is just who I am as a person ,I always make it a habit to reciprocate whatever favors I get , when dealing with people in general. I know there's no free thing in Freetown and people will always expect a payback for every good deed rendered.

Can I buy him clothes?, can I buy him a car?, can I give him some money?,. Really?, the same materialism you feel the female gender exudes, is exactly the same thing you are vying for.

What about you say, can I help him to build his dream?, can I help me to achieve his goals?, can I be there for him in time of lack?, support him?, pray for him?, encourage and motivate him?, I think this sounds better.

There more to a guy than what he gives, and more to a lady, than her body she's expected to offer as compensation, and if they don't see that , their loss.

Have a good day

My sister, I adore your stand on this and the way u took out time to address all my initial points.

As for the Jacob and Racheal issue, they didn't court per se, Jacob was a servant to Rachels father; Laban...he fell in love with her while serving her father, so it's not courting. Jacob only wanted to serve Laban in exchange for his daughter, Rachel.

Meanwhile, if truly u can help a man achieve his life's dreams, goals, and u do all the things u mentioned without just turning the guy a spending maga....without demanding and expecting the guy to buy this, buy u that, take u here, take u there....then u can find a man that will be your male friend without asking u for sex.

But if u want a full time boyfriend that will be spending on u, buying u gifts, sponsoring dates, and all that comes with full dating, then be ready to offer him sex in return or else, it won't be possible to find such man.

I know many guys come online to lie and form they can cope in no sex relationship and still claim to love, care and stay faithful to u...pls don't be fooled by those guys...face reality my sister...any mature, sexually active guy ready to have a girlfriend will never agree to no sex till marriage, unless u are just his side chick and he has some other girl(s) satisfying his intimate needs without your knowledge.

You are a lady and not a guy, guys have a libido higher than that of average lady out there...so be real and use your wisdom.

rosalieene:
MESSAGE TO ALL Guys!!
You saw a beautiful girl; you like her.
You fought tirelessly to win her heart.
You wake up in the middle of the night to text
her messages.
You swore you love her.
You call her pet names.
You adore all her imperfections.
You love whatever she puts on.
You spend all time with her without complaining.
You clean her face and wipe her tears.
You gently won her heart.
You made her believe in you.
She came to trust you.
You assured her that you will always be there for
her.
You gave her hope.
now,
She believed you are different.
She believes she has found love again.
She threw her pride away.
She forgot that value she attached to herself.
She has refused everyone that competes with
you for her.
therefore,
She now tells everyone that care to hear that
she has found Him at last.
And now,
AFTER GETTING WHAT YOU WANTED..........
you are thinking of how best to break up with
her.
You begin to avoid her.
Her presence now choke you up.
Her voice now irritates you.
She is now cheap to you.
You yelled at her over little issues.
You now clearly see where she had stretch
marks.
You now see that her English is filled with
blunders.
She is suddenly from a poor background and she
is not your class.
Remember this...
Every act on earth has pay back.
And the payback always comes in the right
proportion.
You deceived her and had your ways, and now
you think she is cheap.
You were only fortunate.
With time she will forget you,
but, you always remember that you will also
receive disappointments where you had full
hope.
Change your ways today,
OR....................

Why did u reject other guys and accept him? Maybe because he had a flashy car, have a good job, maybe because he's rich and handsome....you broke some other guys heart who truly loved u and would have loved u to pieces till death and accepted the playboy because he has all the qualities u want.

Ladies break the heart of guys on daily basis and the world hasn't crashed, why must the world crash because a man broke up with u, huh?

What about those innocent guys u rejected and even made jest of for trying to ask u out? Karma is a biatch!

Life don't always work the way we desire....next time, don't hang your clothe where ur hand can't reach....stop being greedy...stop being selfish....stop accepting guys way bigger than u because the probability of them keeping u forever is slim

Accept guys near your level who would see u as their jewel.

Your papa no get bicycle but u only listen to guys driving luxury car

Your papa na road side mechanic but u only reply hello from top MDs and CEOs

Your papa and brothers no get up to 50k but u want to date a guy that will be spending 100k on u and u think he won't dump u someday

Men have been made wiser by u ladies...

Ladies are greedy...u ignore and neglect upcoming guys and fall easily for financially buoyant guys...why won't financially buoyant guys play with you ladies when their demand is too high

Next time, date your level and be realistic with life and stop being greedy with love.

Sorry about your heartbreak...men get heartbroken by ladies daily, so no curse on any man will work...God isn't man....God knows that you, I and all have sinned....u too have broken so many hearts without knowing.

Tunde prayed to his God to pls make u accept him, that he will marry u...he gathers liver and ask u out, u turn him down because he doesn't have a good job, doesn't have a car...and Mike that just want some fun ask u out, and u accept him becos he has a good job, drive a car and u expect Mike to love only u forever, Maka y

Damsel21:
Ofcus I had a lot of guys chasing after me but I decide to bt faithful that was why I nevr gave in to any other guy

You can still be faithful to him now; 27 is not too old to marry.

Join the feminists; there are many of them I see here on nairaland...make friends with them and u will stop bothering about marriage...they hate marriage and men, try feminism or remain faithful to your French guy

99% of Nigerian girls dream to marry a guy living abroad....and 99.99% of Nigerian girls in nursing school pray and daydream to marry a guy abroad too, especially USA, and this is the result!

Op wanted to marry an abroad based guy at all cost...forming 'taken' for serious-minded guys here in Nigeria just because of a guy living abroad.

anyway, at least u enjoyed the Euro he was sending to u while u were in school and u didn't give us any....now he's not sending Euro again because France and Europe in general are facing bad economy, increase in job loss, poor welfare...your eyes come clear.

What can I say to u now? Be patient and pray...but tell him your mind...you maybe lucky to find a serious man shaa...though it's difficult now with the harsh economy in Nigeria now....many guys aren't ready to even marry again

Take heart, time solve every life issues, be patient

Nkasiobi87:
Good morning everyone. If you have been reading my previous posts then you will know very well how my story has been. After getting a job and trying to ignore My husband'S cheating and other cruel characters towards me, he cheats with a female church member and promises her that he will marry her as a second wife.

After much talking which could not bring any positive results, I decided to let them be And mind my own business. He still enters my room when he feels like doing it with me. Now it happens that am 2Months pregnant after 5 kids. I told him about it he was happy at that given time. I then thought that maybe he will change this time to become a better father.

On Sunday while the morning prayer was going on, I couldn't stand up because I have started showing signs of pregnancy. I was feeling very anemic so I decided to sit down. My husband came out and stopped the prayer and started saying that I sat down because I wanted to show his mistress that am pregnant and that am doing drama for her mistress, something that I have never thought of doing. He started calling me all sorts of names all to calm the mistress down incase she notices that am pregnant. All to show the mistress that he is not happy with me being pregnant. All to make me feel bad and not happy of my condition.

While the congregation and the mistress were watching and laughing. When I couldn't take it anymore, I decided to walkout of the church. one of his workers ran after me and forcefully drew me back which left a mark on my neck. His claim is that I shouldn't move out while his pastor is talking. I pushed him out of my way, he slapped me inside church while my hubby watch. with the little strength in me I fight back and leave the church premises. I was so hurt that I want to revenge on my husband and his worker. how will I be proud of this pregnant now that he has said in his congregation that all am doing is noting but a show how painful. how do I pay him back.I really wish the worst on them now.God help me that I didn't do something unlawful to them.

Wait a minute....are you saying your said husband is a Pastor, as in a man of God? If yes....I doubt...he must be a man of devil calling himself a pastor.

How can a Pastor be so proud to keep a mistress to the knowledge of his legally married wife, and even congregation? I am sure your husband if he claims to be a pastor is just a guyman pastor using the ministry to cure hunger, unemployment and of course cover up his evil ways....start thinking twice....

...and your so-called husband watched another man slap you in his presence Gosh!! Some men are brain dead....jeez...anyway, this maybe another Mills and Boon...Naija version sha...I doubt its real

But please where and how do ladies meet these kind of men they marry self? Na wa o....still in doubt shaa

Ornate1:
Hello my fellow nairalanders, have been a guest on this forum for a few years now. Over the years, have watched you guys save broken marriages, wavering relationships almost on the verge of collapse, and die-hard friendship being torn apart, with sound advices(a bith harsh, but always true) sometimes coupled with a little bit of sarcasm, which makes me laugh at times with tears rolling down my cheeks that I mostly end up holding my stomach so my tummy won't rip out from too much laughter.
I am a young lady in my mid-twenties, and am a virgin( based on biblical conviction and my own personal belief aside religion). Now this is my challenge, guys comes after me in droves but yet leave the same way as they come, simply because I refuse to put out. I know virginity is not the be all, but I just can't bring myself to sleep with someone who's not mine in all respect(in God's eyes and before the whole world at large). I know you all tired of virginity threads, but please I am so unhappy right now, am just confused as to why most men just leave without getting to know the real me. Why can't they have a healthy and trusting relationship with me void of sex? Help a sister ,advice anything. Because am so sad right now,and I am not in a relationship because of this ,some even hang around, hoping I would change my mind but leaves when they realise they won't be getting any.

why do u need a relationship when u are not ready to indulge in what comes with relationship with the opposite sex? Is there anywhere Bible said u must have a boyfriend

If u know u aren't ready to give what relationship demands, then forget about keeping a boyfriend and face your life alone!

If I may ask, what will u give to the guy u will be dating in exchange for his gifts, calls, pampering, etc? I am sure nothing but forming his girlfriend with rules and laws!

Why are women so selfish and wicked? U want to collect but u don't want to give!

It is simple, avoid relationship and pray for your husband to come soon.

Any guy that tells u that he will date u, stay committed to u, be assisting u, calling u happily as his girlfriend and not expect or demand sex from u is a big liar! He will only pretend while having sex with some other girls behind u and fooling u with sweet words of how he doesn't care about sex.

Any guy ready to accept no sex relationship won't need a girlfriend in the first place....so to say, such guys don't date!

You too shouldn't date! Stay on your own if u truly want to please God!

Ever since I decided not to indulge in sex outside marriage, I don't keep girlfriends....i don't woo girls....i stay on my own....i don't expect any girl to call me, text me, buy me gift or worry me...I am facing my life alone.

But u ladies want to have a boyfriend that will be spending on u, giving u money, taking u out, calling u always, doing this and that for u and at the end u don't give him anything in return, why? Is he your brother? Is he your father? Is he your cousin? Why must he be spending on u and not expect anything in return? What if after wasting his time and resources on u and u decide to leave him to marry another man, what will be his consolation?


The problem is it seems most ladies are selfish and greedy; they only think about what they want and don't care about what the man in their life want. Selfishness and greed are big sins too....flee from them. be yourself and stop dating if u want to be a true virgin in the sight of God.

What else do u have to offer to a man that will date u? Can u spend on him? Can u buy him a car? Can u even buy him clothes, shoes? Can u take him out, pay and not grumble? What do u have to offer this man that will date u and not ask u for sex? Do u think being a virgin is all men want from a wife? Then think again

LaurelP:
Did you just say that there are a lot of men but women are few?

That is a big fat lie bro! There are more women searching than men, they just don't search openly.
Besides, most men you think are searching are actually not, they just wanna have fun.

You are correct to an extent, but not entirely correct, how?

Because y some men seem not to take ladies they meet online seriously is this:

1. Most ladies searching for love online are usually too pompous to a fault

2. Most ladies searching for love online are usually greedy with high expectation; they want to meet tall, dark, handsome, rich, God fearing and fun man....thats too much of an expectation from ladies

3. Most ladies searching for love online are either too old, too young, not physically attractive or have one hidden baggage

4. Because of the reasons above, guys only lie to them to sleep with them and run!

Any honest, realistic, understanding lady that isn't greedy and selfish will sure find a deserving partner, but most ladies are greedy more than Oliver Twist

Lol

Btruth:
The problem with such like you are, you guys are too sentimental. We are talking about corrupt politicians and public office holder stealing the country wealth dry, and you continue fuming over an irrelevant excuses instead of supporting the government to bring the corruption down to zero level. Listen, even if it is going to fighting of corruption alone this government will do for 4 years, I don't mind. Corruption has so much eaten up this country and reduced us to nothing. Why will idiots thieves be taking money out of this country to buy or build properties in another man's land and not developing this country? Of what benefits will it be for the Nigerians when the likes of Larmode and others be taking money abroad instead of using the money to build develop Nigeria and to create employment for her citizens? If truly we need to move forward in this country, we really need to fight this corruption to a stand still.

I totally agree with you but not with the way Buhari is going about the anti-corruption fight. Buhari is being too biased and tribalistic about it. He should fight it outrightly and all Nigerians will support him and not by handpicking people he doesn't like and sparing those he likes; that's also corruption of its own

How many successful companies did Bola Tinubu had before 1999 to become so rich today

He looted Lagos State dry! He installed his puppets who continued to help him siphon Lagos State IGR via taxes, illegal toll gates, road concession, etc.

What is Rotimi Amaechi's occupation; can someone remind me? Nothing but politics!! But today he's very rich, how if not via looting of River State funds?

What is Rochas Okorocha occupation No one can categorically say it. Today he's richer.

Just to mention but a few....

If Buhari cannot be bold enough to probe and jail corrupt politicians like this, then no sane-thinking Nigerian will take his anti-corruption war serious and fair.

How did Obasanjo became so rich....a man that couldn't afford 2million for his presidential campaign in 1999 now worth billions of dollars and no one is talking about probing and jailing him for life!

Where is T. Danjuma acquiring oil blocs illegally through government officials he sponsored

What about Atiku Abubakar?

Fashola nko?

Dimeji Bakole....Malam El Rufai that illegally sold and allocated federal government lands in abuja to his concubines and relatives when he was FCT minister...what about Ikedi Ohakim former Imo State governor? Theodore Orji former Abia governor? Anyim Pius Anyim....David Mark...etc

Today, Bola Tinubu owns half of Lagos State (mainly Lagos Island and Ajah)...he owns most estates around Ajah...no one is asking him questions because he sponsored our biased anti-corruption crusader Buhari....Nigerians keep deceiving themselves since 1914!!

Buhari is not ready to fight corruption fairly yet....he is still witch-hunting his political enemies...when he is ready, we will know.

Guys condemning Wizkid, if u have the kind of wealth and fame he has, u will even have 15 babymamas.....especially when ladies are so bent on dating and marrying rich guys.

And to the ladies....dont blame the babymamas because most of u will do worse if u meet a guy like Wizkid or Aliko Dangote son, etc.

So don't judge a man until u are in his shoes...because it takes the special grace of God for a financially buoyant guy not to have multiple girlfriends and concubines, talkless of a music star.

When Bible said it will be easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven, many didn't understand what that bible verse meant.

Pray to get money as a man and u will see how ladies; young, old, rich, poor will be flooding around u with both fake and real love.

sage2:
Great points. Thanks you. I reasoned that the points you raised are implied. But you have done a good job for expressly stating them. Weldone, brother.

respect

ladycomfort:
Story for the gods. Why do one has to go through this stress just to be a main chick. What happened to other guys out there who are more caring, rich and handsome that can make you their main chick.

My sister I understand how u feel as a lady....but that's d world for u....even those other rich, handsome guys u feel are out there begging u to be their love and all that....believe me, they also have another chick and u may still not be their main chick if u accept them...most of them maybe forming caring and lonely just to woo u into their fleets of concubines.

In life, the most difficult battle for a man is to make money, once a man becomes financially able, he is a god...but for a lady...she may make the whole money and even become a manager or ceo of a company and men won't still treat her right or want to settle with her; u can use our celebrities as example.

So as financial battle is the greatest battle any man need to win to own the world....the battle to find a man that will adore u, stand by u, love and respect u, and finally make u his wife is the greatest battle any sane-thinking woman ought to target to win in life.

Many feminist ladies won't agree....but yet, we have many female CEOS begging for marital ring...and using their wealth to entrap young guys to marry them and are still unhappy. they exist even in Europe and America, if not Nigerian Yahoo-Yahoo boys won't be having foreign female victims searching for love online, etc

sage2:
The surest way to be the main chic is to be loyal and patient. We may not appreciate you immidiately, but your long suffering loyalty will never go unrewarded.

....to add to what u just said; she needs to try and look pretty/hot/classy because every man dreams to marry a pretty lady even though at the end, not all will marry a hot lady as they wished.

Ladies to be the main chic...stop accepting expensive gifts from him

Stop allowing him to spend a lot on u

Stop choking him and give him space; many guys are single and scared of getting married because they feel they will lose their single guy-freedom, so make him feel free with u.

Before u accept an already made guy that owns a car, pls access yourself; do u have sth diff to offer him aside sex? If not, I am sorry, u may only warm his bed for a moment

Lastly, if u can, try and be productive and financially independent; get a job or startup a business/trade or future-bound handwork and be dedicated to it

lol

Charism:
Entrepreneurship seems to be the order of the day today, the press glorifies it, government officials put lots of emphasis on it as the only way out of poverty, its even a compulsory course for all university students. NYSC is all about it, from your afternoon lectures in camp, to your SAEED. But is it really worth it? Are they telling us the truth, or is it mere propaganda by politicians to give excuses for their failure?
Daily we are bombarded by happy ending stories of people who made it by starting up their business, we are told to emulate the likes of Dangote, Otedola, mike Adenuga. But the bitter truth is that not everyone will make it like Dangote. As a matter of fact the chances of Success is Very rare.
People who make it are the lucky ones, lucky in the sense that the have opportunities that others never had or will never have which they harnessed to their advantage.
Opportunities like capital, good location, skills, business climate, experience e.t.c. These variable are not things you have control over. Take for example Dangote started his business with just #500,000 (a huge amount of money during the 70's) given to him by his uncle Dantata (one of the richest men in nigeria at that time) who also groomed him in the tricks of business management. There are many people who have beautiful business plans out there, but no capital to fund them. Even when the capital is available, you don't any experience about the business climate of the business you are venturing into, its like a blind man crossing the highway unaided.
The truth of the matter is that not everyone is meant to be entreperneurs, if you believe in the determination, nothing-can-stop-me mantra, you might probably end up with a small food-stuff shop/kiosk business, or like the road side akara seller whose income would not be enough for you to start a family. If it were that easy, then our proffesors of business administration in our universitys, would have been top business moguls by now.
Truth be told, our politicians need to sit up! And make economic policies to would encourage investment and growth. If the economy is favourable, both entrepreneurs and employees, would be better-off.

Any Nigerian youth who wants to become a successful entrepreneur should never look at people like Dangote, Otedola, Jimoh Ibrahim and the likes as mentor....he should look at Igbo businessmen who usually start from the scratch with little capital and over years, turn their small capital into a big business venture without government assistance, politics, oil money or inherited wealth.

An ambitious entrepreneur can make it big in any environment, just that it will require more time, patience and creativity.

The best environment to become a successful entrepreneur is where there are plenty problems begging for solutions like we have presently in Nigeria....it is not easy to become a successful entrepreneur in comfortable environments like USA, Germany, etc....because it is difficult to find a general societal problem there to be solved except you think towards technology and application development which requires lots of talent and skill.

So in all, the best solution for Nigerian youths today remains entrepreneurship...and they should stop using Dangote, Otedola, Adenuga, Jimoh Ibrahim, etc as mentors or reference of successful entrepreneurs who made it from the scratch because all of them have a link with politicians, government officials, crude oil money and inherited family wealth.

Young entrepreneurs in Nigeria wishing to make it should look at Igbo traders at Alaba intl market, Ladipo, etc....because there you will see young entrepreneurs who came from the village with nothing...now owners of multi-million naira businesses...and waxing very big unlike those northern entrepreneurs using government connection to milk Nigeria's crude oil and forming millionaires and billionaires..we all know they aren't true entrepreneurs.

Nice topic

TaiKuun:
Pls are u the wife of Adams oshiomole

maybe

sauceny:
Lemme see your pix to determine if you truly pretty

Take it or leave it bro, if this poster posts her picture for all to judge here, you will be disappointed because you will discover that she is just one straight-looking Jane thinking that she is as pretty as Kim Kardashian because of some pathetic complements she do get from some sex-hungry broke guys.

History has shown that majority of super-pretty women don't care much about how handsome a man looks, but are more concerned in getting a man that will truly love, adore and treat them right, reason they usually marry rich men....while ugly and average looking ladies are more concerned with how handsome and tall a man is...hence, most ugly and average looking ladies end up marrying broke handsome men who make their life miserable over time.

Remember, in life, humans always crave for what they dont have...reason poor people are so crazy of dating and marrying rich people...I am very sure this poster isn't as pretty as she thinks she is....let her post her real picture here so all can judge.

Imagine an old cargo a good man rescued from dying single...having the effrontery to be forming for the man that rescued her from her misery and shame...I just don't blame you anyway.

chumakk:
Tell us the truth. Is he poor? It is only poor men that are ugly

The same question that came to my mind.

Which man can be uglier than:
1. Adams Oshiomhole
2. Olusegun Obasanjo
3. Bola Ahmed Tinubu

To add more....Mr Ibu, Seal, etc? and many super pretty/classy women are dying to have these men and they have plenty of them at their beck and call.

Jay Z isn't handsome but he's married to one of the most beautiful and most celebrated woman in the world today; Beyonce.

Kanye West isn't handsome but Kim Kardashian is madly in love with him.

Op, are you as pretty as Lara Oshiomhole, Beyonce, Kim Kardashian, Heidi Klum and co that loved ugly men proudly

Maybe you are even a below average looking lady but to u, u are a queen of the universe which is common with ladies in our land- always thinking that they are too pretty because John, Kareem, Obi, Adamu and Akpan who wanted to sleep with them told them they are the most pretty girl on earth...and so they go about feeling like Cinderela.

I don't blame you anyway....i blame life for giving you what u don't deserve...maybe you ought to have been the 5th babymama to one broke fineboy playboy, nansense!!

lol

obailala:
Guy, you are a loser, haven't you realised that yet?... It's 2016 bro, it's been almost a year since you lost, there are certain perks you are bound to lose when you lose. If GEJ and his PDP musketeers had done the needful and arrested people like Tinubu and co, by now the fight against corruption would have been at least 50% completed even as PMB comes in to wipe the dirt in PDP.

Even Jesus Christ himself while on the cross forgave the criminal who pledged allegiance to him at the last minute; if you are expecting PMB or APC to probe itself, you are a joker. You had your chance but you preferred to loot, wine and dine and even fraternise with your opposition.

That means you have vehemently agreed that what Buhari and APC is doing is not total fight against corruption but biased fight against corruption and political witchhunting....speaking from your comment quoted above....

Now, let me tell you....APC and Buhari is setting a time bomb in Nigeria....this time bomb will exploded very soon.....remember, no one party rules a nation forever!

Be it 20, 30 or 50 years, APC and Buhari must leave power and another set of people and party will come in...and they will start to politically witch-hunt their political enemies and opposition....by then....Buhari's children....grandchildren....Tinubu's children.....Rotimi's, El Rufai's...will be greatly rewarded accordingly.

My problem is: don't scream fowl play....remember you endorsed today's APC/Buhari's biased fight against corruption.

Peace

Reportersgame:
Following the recent trip of President Buhari to the United Arab Emirates UAE for the World Future Energy Summit where he also meet with the UAE government officials and after their meeting signed agreement to help Nigeria recover all her stolen funds lodged in the country, It seems the UAE government are already keeping to their end of the agreement because SaharaReporters just got wind of list of Nigerian politicians with houses and businesses in the UAE. See more revelations below.

''FLASH: @NGRPresident gives Nigerian diplomats in UAE till the end of March to compile list of politically exposed Nigerians with properties''

https://twitter.com/SaharaReporters?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor

Useless SaharaReporters!! Nonsense internet news site! Biased news agency with useless reports! The news media that will lead to the division of Nigeria! Tinubu useless propaganda news outfit....God is gradually exposing you useless reporters with your useless biased reports!

Tinubu owns houses in UK, Dubai, etc.....owns half of Ajah....owns half of the new estates from lekki roundabout down to Epe....owns 80% of the new Eko Atlantic city.

Fashola owns houses in various cities across the world....same with Rotimi.....dwarf El Rufai, etc....why didn't you useless reporters report theirs?

Nigerians really need to wake up and challenge APC and their dubious one-sided fight against corruption my foot!!!

Hmmmm

mzjayne:
it's not about the money, the igbo guys have come across has money too. Bur I don't feel the connection. It's either they are arrogant and they have pride..

Since your mind is made up....convince your parents to allow u marry him.

mzjayne:
thank you! Judging someone base on the tribe is wrong and they have no genuine reasons...I know what I want and I will go for it. The only issue is people say you need your parent to bless your marriage and all so nothing bad happens..i know it's God's will for me bur parents shouldn't abuse that position and control their children into doing what they want... I've prayed about it and am still praying and my desire is that God touches their heart. coz at the end I will be miserable if I chicken out and marry an igbo guy who I don't love just to please them..its really a depressing experience

Love is not enough reason to marry someone; don't make that mistake. Women who marry a man because they feel: I am so inlove with him, always regret at the end. Seems this guy in question is rich and u are feeling like u can't get any other guy like him. If truly u want to marry him and ur mind is made up, stand your ground, your parents will give in future to your desire with time. But think beyond emotional love and material gain now...think futu

In as much as we are living in a modern world and trying to reduce or curb tribalism and racism....but cultural, traditional and religious alignment is very important in marriage.

When crises or disagreement comes between couples....it is then u will realise that it is good to marry from your tribe, race and religion because couple who share the same tribe (culture, tradition, language) and belief (religion) will resolve their differences faster than those that share different tribe and religion.

So don't ignore your parents counsel....think about 10yrs from now....will u cope? if u can...then convince your parents.

Any mature guy saying being single (no girlfriend, no fiancee, no wife) is good, is definitely broke, and any mature girl (above 20yrs) saying being single rocks is either ugly and gets approached by few guys..or she has been severally dumped and heartbroken by guys!

Many broke guys are single with no 1 girlfriend because girls of nowadays have made it difficult for broke guys to get a girlfriend....while all financially buoyant guys have more than 1 girlfriend.