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Celebrities › Re: Anna Banner Flashes Thigh In Sexy Black Dress by ourchoice(m): 5:22pm On Feb 01, 2016

she just destroyed her bright future out of greed for material things and fame from men; shame on her....now she is a single mother...while Flavour is out there enjoying his single life.

Its difficult for single ladies with no issue to find a befitting husband nowadays talkless of a single mother.....let her go and ask Genevieve Nnaji how far.....mumu girl!

When Flavour was deceiving her...singing Tomato Jos....kporokoto....ashawo....ukwu sarambara...and all those his nonsense songs to her, she thought she has found hubby...without even thinking about the plenty ladies flavour had destroyed their future in the name of being a Music star....she just jumped into his bed for free and I am sure some nice, well-bred guys must have been begging her to love them...and let them build a happy, lasting relationship but her greed for more money and fame led her into a life of regret now cry

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Romance › Re: 5 Beautiful Colours Men Love On Women [PHOTOS] by ourchoice(m): 12:33pm On Feb 01, 2016

Drefan:
As for those underaged dimwits saying "women's life does not revolve around men", I only laugh at your sheer ignorance which is as glaring as it is. Because no matter how stinking rich you are, being a Nigerian woman, you will still be considered a step below the "completely whole" crew.

Whether you like it or not, you need a man in your life to make you whole in the Nigerian sense of a "fulfilled woman".

Even the American or European women they are trying to form or copy take men more serious than their career. Ask people living in US or Europe...the most important thing to an American or European lady is sex, boyfriend....thats why they get pregnant after high school....most take off from work to go have sex with their lover....ask people truly living in US, Canada or Europe.

Even old American and European women; the only thing they think about is sex.

Reason Nigerian romance scammers are still getting foreign clients; who are mostly American, Australian, European, Malaysian, Chinese and SA ladies.

Super hot, rich ladies like Celine Dion, Maria Carey, Kim K, Beyonce, Heidi Klum, Nicole, Angelina Jolie, etc took men serious and also got married, so who is that lady forming I don't need men huh

I laugh at her heartbreak sha

But down here, our broke, heartbroken, lonely sisters form feminist that don't need a man while deep down their hearts, they are praying to have Wizkid come propose to them grin

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Romance › Re: Help!! I Am Going Insane!!! by ourchoice(m): 12:14pm On Feb 01, 2016

Monalisa185:
go mad first, then we'll proffer solution..YABALEFT

Don't wish a fellow female like u such because u are still a young girl with so many unfolded scenes of life ahead of u....when she was young like u, I am sure she never imagined such happening to her....she must have wished to have this sweet, happy, ever after marriage, but here she is. life is full of surprises, so always wish people good for your own future good

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Romance › Re: Two Women Fight Over A Man In Kenya Again (Photo) by ourchoice(m): 12:09pm On Feb 01, 2016

The Bibble said: a time will come when two women will stick to one man, and plead with him to allow them bear his name only...while they provide for themselves what to eat, drink and wear.

I think that prophesy is gradually coming to past....from Eritrea to Kenya...China to United States...just a matter of time.

Everything that has a beginning must have an end...lets remember when Europe was the land of gold flowing with free milk and honey for all...but today, economic hardship has hit the almighty Europe with citizens struggling to survive unlike some 10, 20yrs ago...same will happen to USA, Canada...y this huh

In the past, men fought to have one woman...women milked and scammed men in the name of love....but a time is coming when women will fight each other to get just one man to call theirs....we can see a bit of it happening with the increase in the no of single ladies, babymama, single mothers and ladies above 30 searching for husband.

The wise ladies know what to do now anyway

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Romance › Re: Help!! I Am Going Insane!!! by ourchoice(m): 11:55am On Feb 01, 2016

If your mom isn't as pretty, fresh and sexy as Kim Kardashian or let me use a Nigerian lady; Omotola Jalade, then I can boldly say that your mom must have used a strong juju spell to enchant your husband because no man in his right senses would wanna sleep with a 55yr old woman with sagged body, and who happens to be his wife's mother, not ordinary!

Men aren't fools...men are mostly impressed by sight.

The only 2 things that could make a man sleep with a woman 10yrs older than him are:

1. She is rich and squandering money on him

2. She is very cute, sexy-looking, fresh with plenty money too

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Family › Re: Why Should Women Marry A Poor Man When Men Wont Marry A Fat Woman? by ourchoice(m): 11:01am On Feb 01, 2016

JEITO:
Then let the fat women, marry the poor men simple!

Celebrities › Re: Nkiru Sylvanus' Hot New Look by ourchoice(m): 10:28am On Feb 01, 2016

U2ice:
guy u don kolo o ....we suppose trace oo no b sey u talk

Celebrities › Re: Nkiru Sylvanus' Hot New Look by ourchoice(m): 10:18am On Feb 01, 2016

iriskiki:
Lolo...Kai. ..Nigeriansdon't disappoint.

lol, but I am sayeth the truth and thy truth will seteth thee free cheesy

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Celebrities › Re: Nkiru Sylvanus' Hot New Look by ourchoice(m): 9:10am On Feb 01, 2016

Imo State money working.....no wonder Governor Rochas Okorocha said Imo is broke and can't pay salaries anymore....ladies causing men to loot since 16BC

I am sure if we trace well, Judas betrayed and sold his master, Christ in order to get money to impress one Jewish girl grin

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Romance › Re: What Ladies Should Know Before Chatting Guys Up by ourchoice(m): 10:29pm On Jan 31, 2016

I think the solution is; guys need to get busy and reduce the rate at which they persuade girls for a chat.

I am sure no girl will reply little Wizkid or Davido's hello with fine without asking how he has been. Not just Wizkid and Davido alone, so many other busy guys.

Nigerian guys seem to be the ones making Nigerian girls to develop all the useless characters one can think of...its hightime guys give the ladies some space and get busy with their job, business, trade, handwork, academics, etc...and watch girls disturb u for a chat.

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Romance › Re: Is This What Loyalty In Relationship Truly Is? (pics) by ourchoice(m): 6:41pm On Jan 31, 2016

YelloweWest:
What percent of Nigerian women leave or cheat on their broke husbands?
What percent of rich Nigerian men leave or cheat on their wives?
Be honest.

lol, I can't categorically give you a figure now...but in all honesty, rich men cheat a lot, courtesy of women's love for money, material things and luxury life tongue

Romance › Re: Is This What Loyalty In Relationship Truly Is? (pics) by ourchoice(m): 5:50pm On Jan 31, 2016

Bluezy13:
It is not easy to work and pray with a man that has nothing. what if he turns out not to still have something afterword as the lady expected?
Secondly, What if the man abandons the lady that endured with him from grass to grace
And many other questions...

Just don't lay emphasis on the negative outcomes from the feminine genders alone.
A man WILL marry if he wills to marry... there always someone out there for him

...and u think its an easy decision for a financially buoyant guy to decide to marry a girl who never knew him nor stood by him while he was struggling huh

hmmm

Romance › Re: Why Does Ladies Act Mushy And Surprised When A Man Proposes To Them? by ourchoice(m): 5:48pm On Jan 31, 2016

raayah:
Such a sexist and bullcrap thing to say. If marriage is beginning to a man's problem, why do men get married.

Is a married man going to get through years of pain to give birth? What about domestic violence - aren't married women the victims?

An average married man in Nigeria, gets up, eats hot breakfast, goes to work with packaged lunch, comes back to eat hot dinner and have sex with his wife.
His meals, clothes, house, kids are taken care of.

Is this your definition of suffering?

lol

Romance › Re: Is This What Loyalty In Relationship Truly Is? (pics) by ourchoice(m): 3:27pm On Jan 31, 2016

CaroLyner:
yes they stick with her after putting her through misery.annie idibia for example.

I understand your point...but then, it is women's love for material things, money and fame that makes them run after a known womanizer who they (ladies) know has a girlfriend/fiance/wife and still goes about impregnating more women....if women would learn to stick with one man irrespective of his financial status and rather pray and work together with him to make something meaningful out of their lives, believe me...men will have no other option but to stick with their woman.

But at the sight of money and fame...all women looses their moral sense, that's the problem in the world today cry

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Romance › Re: Why Does Ladies Act Mushy And Surprised When A Man Proposes To Them? by ourchoice(m): 1:59pm On Jan 31, 2016

Because to ladies, marriage means an end to their life's problems whereas to guys, marriage means the beginning of their life's problems and horrors

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Romance › Re: Is This What Loyalty In Relationship Truly Is? (pics) by ourchoice(m): 1:50pm On Jan 31, 2016

CaroLyner:
yes.guys are always quick to fail the loyalty test though.

I disagree with you CaroLyner, I think ladies fail the test more often than men. Most successful men u see today don't play with the women that stood by them during their days of struggle and hardship.

But if for argument sake, we assume that women are 100, I can boldly tell u that 70 if not 85 out of the 100 women aren't ready to stick or date a financially struggling guy. We all are witnesses to this on daily basis

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Romance › Re: 4 Funny Reasons Why Nigerian Women Should Start Proposing To Men by ourchoice(m): 1:44pm On Jan 31, 2016

This isn't encouraging because it won't work well here.

But if any lady wants to try proposing to a man and get a YES, please make sure u have these qualities:

1. You are convincingly beautiful with good shape; not the "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" kind of beauty o

2. You aren't a financial liability; make sure u have a good paying job, career, business, trade or handwork to backup your physical beauty

3. Lastly, make sure you are humble and not arrogant because humility and respect are two qualities in women men don't joke with when choosing a life partner.

If you have these aforementioned 3 qualities...believe me, if u propose to any single guy for a relationship, he will never say no...and will definitely take u to his mama in no less time because these are the major qualities all men are desperately searching for in ladies they desire to settle with for life.

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Romance › Re: Photos: Nigerians Set Chris Brown Facebook Page On Fire After...... by ourchoice(m): 1:19pm On Jan 31, 2016

The first person that replied to CB didn't get CB's message quite well...from my own little understanding of CB's post, he likes that GEJ's facial expression....reason he used it I think...I maybe wrong...on Chris Brown knows his real intention with that post.

If he was trying to castigate GEJ, then he's a nothing but a beebee, that's all

Romance › Re: Counter Thread: Wisdom For Men by ourchoice(m): 2:47pm On Jan 30, 2016

HateU2:
[b][/b]Your father probably told you few things but just in case he was not around enough, here are few words of wisdom you might have missed out on :

1.Brush your teeth very well. Some guys mouth odour fit make a girl faint. I know some of you smokes weed, learn to brush the teeth wella biko.

2. Women find confidence sexy as hell. I read a post where a guy said he can't talk to a lady because he's the shy type and the other one said he can't chat with a lady after 'good morning'. Habah!

3. Always go out into the public dressed like you are about to meet the love of your life. I saw one guys's dp that sent me a pm and I quickly .

4. Don't ever hit a woman! Ever! No matter what she did. Be a man, don't hit a woman.

5. Don't let you small d.i.c.k controls your brain. We know them here, Cruzita can mention names.

6. Compliment her shoe, hair and make up. She's trying her best to look sexy for you alone.

7. Don't live a fake life. Some guys will borrow friends cars and gold chains to entice a lady. Chai! A lady will love you for who you are. Some even use a friends apartment to fumble. When will you grow up

8. Spoil her with gifts. Yes. No matter how cheap it is, I always appreciate a gift. The price does not matter, it's the love behind it.

9. Don't be a boring guy. Some guys are just too boring. No outing, no jokes etc.

10. Be neat. Some of you fit wear boxers for weeks. Ewwww! Learn to wash after two days please.

11. Be a good kisser. Girls loves good kisser. Some guys will kiss as if na 'ponma' dem dey chop . The lips no be 'ponma'. Be a gentle and romantic kisser.

12. Learn new things about sex. Yes! Sex!

13. Ladies, I don't try nah . Add your own

Let the bashers come, we are here for you

lol

Romance › Re: OAP Toolz Oniru And Captain Tunde Demerun's Traditional Wedding by ourchoice(m): 2:41pm On Jan 30, 2016

Hmmmm

Phones › Re: Brand New Iphone 6 For Sale @ Give-away Price by ourchoice(op): 1:39pm On Jan 30, 2016

labienyce:
Where are you located ?
I will pay 90k for this.. Let me know

Sorry bro, someone just bought it now. I need the mods to remove the thread for me. Thanks

Phones › Brand New Iphone 6 For Sale @ Give-away Price by ourchoice(op): 11:18am On Jan 30, 2016*

Someone who came back from US bought this iphone for me, but I love Blackberry and I have a Q10...so I just want to sell the iphone.

Features:
iphone 6, earpods with remote and mic, lightning to USB cable, and USB power adapter.

64gb internal memory.

Supports: GSM, UMTS, and LTE cellular technologies - Wi-Fi, Bluetooth, NFC, and GPS.

Price: #105,000 negotiable

Romance › Re: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by ourchoice(m): 2:56pm On Jan 29, 2016

HateU2:
God bless u 4 dis but wait who are u . You are quiet in romance section.

Thanks for the kind words

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Romance › Re: Why You Should Marry A Working Lady by ourchoice(m): 8:31am On Jan 29, 2016

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.[/quote]Your article raised good points, but like @nzeobi rightfully said, not all working class ladies are reliable and reasonable. A lot of working class ladies have this belief that if they are earning say 100k per month, they can't date a guy earning below 100k per month...even some working class ladies earning good income can't pay attention to any man who isn't a fat salary earner or manager/executive...the more money some ladies earn, the more greedy they become with men.

So in as much as u made sense by raising valid points y guys should date and marry working class ladies, pls be reminded that not all working class ladies are reasonable with good understanding...some if not most of them are selfish, greedy, pompous and have high expectations from men before they even reply his 'hi'

Also, some working class ladies are into 'runs'....they don't sleep in their apartment; they travel around cities on different men's expense....if u are close to any politician, company/bank executive or successful business man, u will see what the so-called working class ladies are doing. most of them are just using their work to cover up their messy lifestyle.

A good woman...is a good woman irrespective of her work status....some students can be more reasonable and understanding than working class ladies....but then, lucky is the guy that finds an understanding/reasonable working class lady as partner even though they are very few

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Romance › Re: Guys,dont Jump Into Bed With Every Girl You See by ourchoice(m): 8:18am On Jan 29, 2016

Nigerians and Africans demonize sex because our leaders failed us; our leaders failed to use our national resources to develop our nation, hence, the increase in unemployment, poverty, lack, lack of basic amenities and health facilities we are witnessing in Nigeria today.

Which now makes youths to believe that the reason they haven't secured a good job is because they had sex with somebody....ironically, Americans and Europeans engage or indulge in sex outside marriage and also do lots of immoral things more than Nigerians and Africans yet they get good jobs, drive fancy cars, live in lovely apartments and live their dream lives.

But over here in Nigeria...a graduate graduates and no job....he becomes Pastor's friend so that he can get a job...he stares women from afar because he believes if he keeps girlfriend and have sex, bad luck will follow him and prevent him from getting a job or will prevent him from making money in life, sighs....

God will punish our corrupt leaders for bringing this much pains and sufferings upon our nation.

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Romance › Re: I Feel Intimidated Whenever Am With Huge, Beautiful, Tall And Sexy Ladies Why by ourchoice(m): 8:02am On Jan 29, 2016

lilzcee:
These set of ladies, i hardly woo them, why because i will feel like am not their size, am not their type, if any of these ladies crush on me they are wasting their time Buh when it comes to ladies that are not that beautiful, they might be beautiful buh not tall, i can stop them anyday and woo them, am actually tall, am not sure whether am good looking though, buh tell me how to boost my morale

majority of guys if not all guys feel same way, but u know guys lie a lot online...they claim they can woo Kim K or Beyonce online and claim their self esteem is bigger than that of a Lion...pls don't mind them because what u are passing through is what majority of guys pass through.

The only way u can boost your morale to walk up to any girl u admire irrespective of how pretty, tall, huge or sexy she is, is if u have got good cash in your bank account and probably with a good car.

If u are in doubt, ask yourself y most guys' girlfriends when they are still struggling financially don't always look that pretty compared to the girls the same guy dates if he eventually makes money and drives a nice car huh

Save yourself the embarrassment, many super-hot girls like u described won't give u attention if u aren't rich-looking or driving a fancy car...thats how bad the world has become...reason we have too many heartbreaks and broken marriages.

So keep working hard and pray for success for now and careless about pretty women, u will have them begging for your love once u succeed.

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Romance › Re: How Do You Know A Lady Who Believes In Your Vision ? by ourchoice(m): 9:37pm On Jan 28, 2016*

The only girl that believes in you is the girl u met when u have no kobo! I know this issue has been overflogged....but that's the only time to know a girl who believes in you.

And the best period to meet such girls are:

1. While in school; that's if u passed through higher institution

2. When u are still learning work/trade/business; if u happen to be a business person

3. When u are still serving; NYSC

4. When u are still job-hunting

Any girl u meet when u have a good job, business or trade....just forget any story she is telling u....she only believes in your present good situation and I can bet u that if not for your present good condition now, she won't accept u.

Once u start earning money, own a nice apartment and maybe a car as a man, believe it or not, u can't find a woman that truly believes in you....you will only be meeting opportunist girls waiting to reap where they didn't sow....so if u are in that stage of your life as a man, pls bury love...delete love from your memory and just play along with your wisdom.

The only woman that deserves your all is that woman that stood by u through darkness....tears, management, lack and during bounty...

Pls if u are a guy reading this and u have a girl that stood by u when u were struggling to survive...she assisted u, prayed for u...cooked for u, washed for u....lied to her parents and guardians because of u...spent her little savings to help u achieve your goal...pls for the sake of posterity and mankind, never u abandon her...dont leave her to marry one new girl that just appeared from nowhere forming I LOVE YOU...dont leave that your old time girl for any new girl...even if she's not as pretty as u desire...u can refine her to your taste.

In order words, the only way to know a girl who believes in you or your dream is for u yourself to believe in yourself and your dream

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Romance › Re: Hey Mr Nice Guy! You Won't Get Laid by ourchoice(m): 7:35am On Jan 28, 2016

cruzita:
dem don show u pepper no be small

lol...they don't need to sis, we learn from other ppls xprence and social media stories too grin

morning

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Romance › Re: Hey Mr Nice Guy! You Won't Get Laid by ourchoice(m): 7:31am On Jan 28, 2016

cruzita:
so a guy cannot be good friend to a girl again without thinking of sex abi?if u sex thousands of girls u go win trophy?

of what benefit has a girl been to her male friend huh

How many girls help their male friends huh

How many girls send recharge card to their male friend(s) huh

How many girls take their male friend on a casual date and pay for the bill without expecting the male friend to pay huh

How many girls buy gift(s) for their male friends on their birthday or special day huh

How many girls help their male friends get a job, get professional certification, grow their career or even pass school exam huh

Female friends are most times useless to their male friends! Instead, female friends are usually liabilities to their so-called male friends!

Girls run to their male friends for airtime, transport fare, air fare, exam assistance, academic assistance, career assistance, jobs, monetary assistance, emotional support, etc but will never for once offer the male friend any good thing aside nonsense gossip and tricks of how to woo girls.

Anyway, mature men don't keep female friends....they rather keep female colleagues, business partners, associates and the likes and they relate with them on business and professional manner.

Any guy keeping a female friend is a mugu because he will only be helping the girl to be happy and achieve her selfish goals in life without the girl contributing anything meaningful to his life.

#SayNoToFemaleFriends

#FemaleFriendsAreLiabilitiesToMaleFriends

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Romance › Re: Guy Blasts Girl Over "Good Morning" Greeting by ourchoice(m): 6:32am On Jan 28, 2016

MrsPhyno:
The guy is a loser. Abeg. It's too early to even list the reasons why his rant was unnecessary and lame.

Are u for real huh

Even if your enemy tells u good morning, courtesy demands that u reply him/her with: good morning or at worst, morning.

It has really gone so bad, ladies are becoming something else by the day, and when those men they feel deserve their love and respect treat them with disrespect, they start to cry fowl....karma is real.

God will forgive them sha because most ladies don't know what they are doing

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Romance › Re: These Revealing Cheating Confessions By These Women Will Shock You by ourchoice(m): 6:20am On Jan 28, 2016*

Lol, even your boo get a boo.

No one in this present overpopulated world we are living in today should expect his or her lover to be faithful to him or her alone; just remove your mind from your lover cheating or not; if they chose not to cheat, thanks be to God....if they chose to cheat, that's their wahala....just make sure u are protected for your own health and life, that's all.

Overpopulation has caused many problem in the world and will still cause more....our world is evolving by the day...in years to come, cheating will be celebrated like celebrity babymama syndrome of today, only time will tell

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Romance › Re: Hey Mr Nice Guy! You Won't Get Laid by ourchoice(m): 9:20pm On Jan 27, 2016

The op is saying the truth; good guys don't usually get girls!

Bad, mean playboys get the best women.

It is like that all over the world. If u are nice, girls will like to have u as friend but date the bad guys.

If u doubt it, look around u; the most pretty girls are dating the bad guys while the good guys are single and lonely....even in school campuses.

If u also check, most non-virgin girls and ladies lost their virginity to bad guys!

It's a fact; women of our time are attracted to bad guys

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