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Politics / Re: Tinubu Is From Osun State , Sanwo Olu Is From Ondo State by OwnMyself: 4:37pm On Mar 09, 2023
PrinceOfLagos:

Lagos will be liberated from the Tinubu and Sanwo Olu immigrants from Osun and Ondo states on March 18th Insha Allah
Says an unknown misguided, clueless child from the most useless tribe filled with hatred..

For your candidate to have foolishly insulted Yorubas on Twitter he wnt become the governor of Lagos.. tell him to go back to Igbo land.. that's where he rightfully belongs to

Eranko Omo Iran ki ran

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Romance / Re: How I Treat My New Female Colleagues fuckup Up At Work. by OwnMyself: 6:47am On Feb 22, 2023
morinto:
There this new female lady who is a Nigeria that just got employ in my place of work in the UK. Omo this lady did not know the work very well because she is new and I have to cover for her so that the white people will nor use her to catch cruise because stylish racism is very common at my working place. So me and this girl vibe very well because we are Nigerian. After work this girl was going to my city and she drive unlike me that use public transport. So I told her to drop me in mycity base on say we are going to the same city. This girl told me that she can't carry me free and I have to drop 5 pounds and public bus dey carry me 2 pounds. Omo I told her say nor worry I go follow public motors.
Next day at work she want to get closer to me. Omo I just lock up. I nor send her again. When she was complaining that those oyinbo people are rude I just reply her saying what do u want me to do? I can't be saving your ass for place of work and u can't reciprocate the favour back. The thing she do me pain me die. How can u charge a person that is going to the same distinction with u and also the same person that help u at work?
Some people are just terrible. Am still in pain as I am typing because am feeling guilty of paying her back with evil but she force me to do that. Am not a wicked person but just have to do it.

You did the right thing comrade. Don't feel bad for her..
For her to foolishly refused to help you shows she's selfish..
Do away with her....omo if I were you nah to dey snub her on daily basis šŸ˜‘

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Family / Re: Is it Wrong to Call Your Friend's Wife by her first name? by OwnMyself: 7:22pm On Feb 21, 2023
WackyJ1:
Is it a crime to call the Wife of your friend by her first name?

I've known this guy since 2018. He met his wife in 2020.

They've done traditional wedding.

I once followed this guy to law faculty of our school during our Masters program and spent 6 hours typing the project of his then ex.

The same ex ended up blaming him for her misfortune.

I'm the best man for his white wedding tomorrow.

Yet, he's warning me for calling his wife her first name in the same sentence where I also referred to my girlfriend by her own first name.

He claims I was wrong and he has refused to apologise.

I need this one the front page.

Was I wrong?

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https://www.nairaland.com/7563621/it-wrong-call-friends-wife/2#120932806

This is nothing but see finish.. I read the part you wrote you borrowed him money..

He's nothing but a simpleton. if I were you I'll cut every ties with him, delete him everywhere, wnt even best him ...
I hate men wey no get sense

If not for the money you've borrowed him just try as much as possible to distance yourself from him after the so-called marriage of his.
Family / Re: See The Left-over My Wife Gave To Our Daughter by OwnMyself: 6:59pm On Feb 21, 2023
579haamid:
Depression for what? When I earn 200k/ month and she can't manage it like a sane woman would do. Even people earning 50k look better than my family.Depression for what? When I earn 200k/ month and she can't manage it like a sane woman would do. Even people earning 50k look better than my family....

Did you just say 200k.. oh Lord of Mercy.. you should have gotten rid of her a very long time..

What even attracted you to the lady in the first place..
You earn 200k monthly and your home look this way..
Hmm there's more to this your story
You kinda need spiritual healing šŸ˜‘
Family / Re: See The Left-over My Wife Gave To Our Daughter by OwnMyself: 6:25pm On Feb 21, 2023
GeorgWashinton:
My wife is just misbehaving this days and making life unbearable for me.
Not only does she shout at me or walk out of me sometimes but she doesn't take good care of our kids.

She don't cook for us again or prepare them for school neither does she keep them neat and clean.

Nothing has pained me more like coming back home to meet my daughter eating a terrible Left-over that even dogs will reject.

She left the room messed up and went away.


I couldn't believe my eyes and I think it's time to get her out of my house.
Please see the pictures below.

Seun Mynd44 nlfpmod
It's unfortunate you got married to a heartless woman.. would advise you to have enough evidence more like a video of her doing shit in your absence... Honestly Dem dey knack your wife steady out side.. gather enough evidence and pursue her out of your house..

For her to treat her own blood this way.. you're not safe man . Get rid of her and never you allow her to move an inch with your daughter... Else she won't think twice before ruining her life.
Travel / Re: Visa Rejection: What To Do When Your Application Is Denied? by OwnMyself: 5:44pm On Feb 19, 2023
DoxxAnon:


I do not live in the UKā€¦ fortunately. I live and work in Nigeria.

This may be unpopular advice but UK is not an easy place to live. If you really want to go there, get a care job, there are some accredited institutes in Nigeria where you can obtain an NVQ. Get this certificate and it will improve your chances. How you get to the UK is a different case but with an NVQ you may be able to find a company that will sponsor your visa especially if you have a level 2 or 3.
Can you pls share more light on this NVQ of a thing would like to know more about it
Thanks man
Politics / Re: Breaking: Old Age Worked Against Me, My Mates Resting - Buhari Warns Nigerians by OwnMyself: 8:23am On Feb 15, 2023
sanusideunifier:
Buhari, who clocked 79 on December 17, 2021, said this while reacting to a question during an interview on NTA, on Thursday.

President Muhammadu Buhari has admitted that his old age is affecting his job and his efficiency in administration.
Buhari, who clocked 79 on December 17, 2021, said this while reacting to a question during an interview on NTA, on Thursday.

ā€œAbout my age, I see my colleagues; they are now resting, and I assure you that I look forward to the next 17 months when I too will be less busy,ā€ he said.
ā€œThe age is telling on me, working now for six, seven to eight hours per day in the office is no joke; there are questions of executive council, memos from as many states as possible to be considered virtually every week. Really, itā€™s a lot of hard work, but as Iā€™ve said, I asked for it and I cannot complain.
ā€œI have been a governor, I have been a minister, and Iā€™m in my second term as president. So, Iā€™ve gone through all the system and really, what else can I do for this country? I have given my best,ā€ he said.
SaharaReporters had on Wednesday reported how Buhari, ravaged by dementia, fumbled for words when he wanted to recall the names of two governors who visited him at the Aso Rock Villa in Abuja over the farmers-herdersā€™ clashes in their states.
In an interview on Channels TV on Wednesday monitored by SaharaReporters, Buhari had been asked whether he would support state police and regional efforts such as Amotekun and Ebubeagu to stem the tide of clashes and insecurity in the country.
He had said, ā€œWe have to revert to that system for us to have an effective security in the localities; for example, there were two governors that came to see me, about the problem; the governors of haā€¦haā€¦haā€¦haā€¦Oyo State and the governor of haā€¦haā€¦ this other stateā€¦in Ondoā€¦not Ondoā€¦one other state. I said because the herders were in the forestā€¦let them go and talk to the local leadership why there is break in communication. The routes they follow; the forests they confine themselves in.ā€
SaharaReporters had done several reports about how Buhariā€™s dementia affects his performance in the government and slows down the decision making process.
SaharaReporters in May 2021 reported that Buhariā€™s worsening dementia and other undisclosed health challenges were taking their toll on his ability to effectively coordinate meetings.
The President had faltered during a meeting with the security chiefs during that week.
Dementia is a general term for loss of memory, language and thinking abilities ā€“ a condition which may be caused by the Presidentā€™s old age or an undisclosed medical condition.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://saharareporters.com/2022/01/07/age-telling-my-job-my-colleagues-now-resting-%25E2%2580%2593-buhari&ved=2ahUKEwjb7e6i3Jb9AhUxaqQEHergC14QFnoECA4QAQ&usg=AOvVaw27pgxFWdl5wCBe2ReilN5P

It shall never be well with him and Emefiele.. for suffering the masses
Politics / Re: NDLEA Arrests Rome-bound Trafficker, Ex-convict, Intercepts Guns, Cartridges by OwnMyself: 1:41pm On Sep 18, 2022
Zoharariel:
Onyeka Charles Madukolu

Chukwu Kingsley

Nitori Oloun! These people again? Please, if youā€™re not tired - I am tired on your behalf.

Just imagine the level of damage these primitive monkeys have done to the image of Nigeria since the 70ā€™s?

They shout the loudest, yet theyā€™re 20Million times worse than Fulani that they love to blame for their vacuousness & woes.

Please, let us give these bastards their ā€œBIAFLAā€ so that everybody can rest.


Awon eyan Obi alawe metaļæ½ļæ½

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Culture / Re: When Did Igbo Monarch Changes Their Dressing To AGBADA (yoruba Monarch Dressing) by OwnMyself: 9:25am On Sep 16, 2022
Jogs1900:

It's painful that Yorubas are too lenient with them.Its only in the southwest you will see an ibo travel home for Xmas and when coming back in January bring like three of their people to come and join them.It doesn't happen like that in the north because the northerners didn't give them breathing space.No business in the north is being dominated by the ibos.The hausas are doing it too and intimidating them.Instead what the ibo man do in the north now is employing the hausas to come and work with them while the ibo man will be at the background.Yorubas need to wake up.

Honestly we need to wake up.. did some findings about agberos Also known as hoodlums...here in Lagos Molebi you wnt believe 85% of em Are Igbos

They were born and brought here.. they speak Yoruba like it's their language
Naturally Igbos are born to destroy , kill and hold their host hostage
Well that wnt happen here in Yoruba land... by 2023
Their head wey no wan correct go correct by force...
Awon Omo Iran kiran

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Culture / Re: When Did Igbo Monarch Changes Their Dressing To AGBADA (yoruba Monarch Dressing) by OwnMyself: 9:10am On Sep 16, 2022
Jogs1900:
They will be saying Yorubas betrayed them.Help me ask them if ever they can sacrifice their lives for Yoruba the way Fajuyi sacrificed his life all because of Aguiyi Ironsi.A Yoruba man stood his ground and lost his life because of an ibo man

Can they even sacrifice their lives for each other... Talk more of another tribe
Nah matter of time
We are patiently waiting for em

Mehn I cried when I saw Ademulegun and his wife picture
This people are not humans at all

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Culture / Re: When Did Igbo Monarch Changes Their Dressing To AGBADA (yoruba Monarch Dressing) by OwnMyself: 9:05am On Sep 16, 2022
Jogs1900:

These set of people can't just be trusted and these will make the LP candidate (Obi) to loose supporters.
Mynd44,seun kindly push to front page for more views.

You're right my brother... Awon were.. Obi ko Obi alawe metta ni... 2023 ti Debi tan ka ma wo nnkan to mo sale si awon Omo a je okuta ma mu Omi.... Agaga ni Eko nbi... Won ma je shio ni Iya

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Culture / Re: When Did Igbo Monarch Changes Their Dressing To AGBADA (yoruba Monarch Dressing) by OwnMyself: 8:57am On Sep 16, 2022
hope4nigeria:
God will bless you, many thanks for this information, but why are igbos like this, must they be showing hatred to everyone to achieve a point? They're clamouring for Obi, they need 80% of Yoruba support to make Peter obi the president, yet you will see them on all social media insulting Yoruba, this is the reason why Owolowo won't trust them

Don't mind em, they're bunch of kids filled with false stories... Ever Since I read about how they killed Ademulegun and his wife during their yeye war back then..
Nah since that time I hate em like say tomorrow no dey ..
Till the end of time they sure gon suffer from one generation to the other..
It's already happening self..

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Romance / Re: Help Me! My FiancƩe Is a Confuse Being. by OwnMyself: 6:49pm On Sep 14, 2022
Ehinjuola:
Hello NLders,

This brother of mine need an advice

Let me just hit the nail on head.

There's this lady that we've been dating for 4 years now in which we had a misunderstanding which leads to our break up for good one year but for some reasons and prophecies we reconciled.

The issue on ground now is that, the lady in question told me after we settled the issue that, there's this guy she's dating before the reconciliation and he was the one that established for her and before she can fully reconcile with me or rather leave the guy (seems the guy is a yahoo boy with a proof though) it will be until December time cause she still need to collect something from the guy before she can finally break up with him cause her fund has not yet fully paid for the business (As I'm typing this now, she's living with the guy base on accommodation issue cause they're in the same location) and she claims she really loves me though I'm not financially buoyant to say but I thank God I'm not begging and I can still fend for my needs + God bless me with handsomeness.

Is not as if i'm SIMPing neither do I not have a choice but my concern is everywhere I go for divine intervention this vision about this lady will always surface out, how she being the one meant for me if I want to have a happy family and good home in future in which everywhere she goes too the same prophecy will also comes out for her.
Even during the time we are still quarrelling my mum told me a derange man walk up to her and say the same thing about us (the girl and I) and I'm ready to settle down next year and she knows all this.

Plz help a brother and I'm confuse and depressed in fact I am not concentrating on my job again.

As if she's the only lady on the planet... Brother man wake up... There are millions of pretty young ladies out there...

No go die before your time..
Kpekus wey yahoo boy don dig with ritual stuff damn
Would advise you to let her be .. if you insist and you foolishly marry her... You I'll die young no be curse...
Romance / Re: Why Go Out On A Date With A Guy When You Have A Boyfriend? by OwnMyself: 9:18am On Sep 12, 2022
Willbright:
Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancĆ©( Iā€™m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancĆ© on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didnā€™t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancĆ©, I told her Iā€™m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said itā€™s just a date. Iā€™m boiling inside and I donā€™t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying Iā€™m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is itā€™s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she wonā€™t bring this particular guy up in her talks, Iā€™m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

Would advise you to cut that lady off . Ashewo dey her eyes.. inform your family first before you do away with her... She has no regards for you.. see ehn if you mistakenly marry that lady and you foolishly take her abroad you will suffer for the rest of your life..... Don't be surprised she has been fucking the so called manager...

Brother man shift your attention to something productive.... She no Worth ahm.
She sees herself as the most pretty lady on the planet... More like Agbani Darego .

Stop giving her Money
Don't call her like you used to
Trust me she wnt even bother about your existence

You know why
Ponmo men are on ground to give her orgasm

No go kill yourself untop one clueless, brainless, misguided, greedy, self centered Lady..
You self no try o
Get yourself a responsible lady upthere and start your life.

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Romance / Re: What Can I Do To This Nasty Attitude Of My Wife.i Am Tired by OwnMyself: 4:42pm On Sep 07, 2022
Jamesfrank2133:


This is d best advice,

A 24 year old girl I sponsored to school laspotech poly isolo for 3 years dumped me in her last semester and got married to a club boy. Turned out she was a narcissist. I opened a hair salon shop stocked it for her she left with my 900K (last card) that I deposited in her account for her dowry. I had 1350 left on God is my witness I bought rat poison and posted my story on Facebook which made people to start disturbing me with calls. This was 2 years back. She married 3 months to the guy dat did ntn for her and her family. Gave birth to a son. Named him d same name we promised. Within a month she got married I traveled to Turkey twice. Changed my shop location and house. Bought clothes for myself, worked on my career, made mad network. See ehh I value my privacy and I am a schizoid as a result of the Ptsd I got from my narcissistic ex. Turns out she smokes heavaily in mushin, tricked her best friend to be raped by 3 guys and recorded the whole thing, had a scandal in her school, slept with lecturers and many more. I just keep evidences of all I did and did a police report. Very soon at the right time we will pick her up but really I donā€™t have the energy to pursue the matter just my family that is bugging me as my family has connections to the assistant inspector general of police in Lagos. See the matter long. I am far far better than I was before. And now my ex keeps stalking me on Facebook, WhatsApp and calling me with funny numbers.

Women arenā€™t worth it trust me. Make dem just born for you nurse your child give you simple. You and your pikin gobday for house. I donā€™t hate women. I just donā€™t get emotional with them

Chief e be like say if you see that your fraudulent ex you go still wan have canal knowledge of her..


First off she shouldn't even know your whereabouts talk more of stalking you.. why don't you just block, erase, delete wipe off anything that has to do with her.

Her type is capable of going spiritual to have you back to herself..
Be vigilant chief
Romance / Re: What Can I Do To This Nasty Attitude Of My Wife.i Am Tired by OwnMyself: 4:30pm On Sep 07, 2022
Coinwarrior:
yes I am very still young.I am planning on doing my masters and my PhD and move to lecturing and move into other agricultural businesses.

Sounds good
Make sure you reveal nothing to her about your plans, If there's a child between you guys.. (do DNA test) so as to be sure the child rightfully belongs to you..

Incase there's none..focus on what you're about to achieve
If she refused to turn a new leaf... As in her attitude becomes unbearable for you...
Do yourself a favor by retuning her back to where you picked her from.
Gracias...
Romance / Re: What Can I Do To This Nasty Attitude Of My Wife.i Am Tired by OwnMyself: 7:38am On Sep 07, 2022
Coinwarrior:
I have been a very tough man as a once upon a time a soldier stationed at ikeja cantoment but I left the job cos of her and my life safety because of issue of boko haram.But I choose to be a nice and gentle man with her cos I see her as my baby I loved her and she proclaimed she loved me but she has no iota of respect for me upon just trivial things

You left your job and you think the next thing to do is by getting married to a rude woman.. From the way put up your story upthere shows you still a young man...

Brother man
Would advise you to save up and travel out of the country
Women are not to be trusted
It's degrading as a man to go your wife shop and start selling her goods for her

Nah where see finishing they start be that
Be vigilant
She fit shock you one day
Be prepared at all times
Descendants of Eve aren't to be trusted
Safe guard your future now comrade.

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Family / Re: She Is Frustrating Me, I Feel Like Hitting Her by OwnMyself: 8:15pm On Sep 05, 2022
Didi2d:
We have been together for over 16 years, with four kids. but little things always cause quarrel between us like we just started dating some months back.

Like I stated on several post and thread here on nairaland. The red flag has always been there when we started dating, but I was doing lover boy and nice guy.

I don't even know where to start from, but I will just type.
Just last week Friday, I got home and my daughter told me that she wants to go give my wife her phone that my in-law ( my sisters husband) was calling her. So I waited for her to tell me the reason for the call, but she didn't.

The next day I decided to ask her during a normal discussion, only for her to reply by asking me "why are my asking her? Then I told her it's just a simple question na

In her words, she replied again 'as in why you dey ask me that kind question' at that point I paused and walked away just to avoid escalation. And since that day we haven't talk to each other. I got home today only for her to be talking to herself saying different things just to piss me off, at that point I felt like picking up Cain and flog her.

Note: she's in the habit of answering question by asking you silly question in return. And she's ready to keep malice with me for as long as possible.

*If I tell the kids to do something she will in some cases tell them to do otherwise.

*there was a day she went to the market to buy goods for her, I got to the shop and ask her what and what did she buy only for her to tell me if I don't have eyes to see

* whenever I buy something for her, as soon as I give her that thng, she will tell me to drop it on the table.

*since I opened that shop for her, she has become bossy. Yes I remember I told her one day when she was disturbing me, begging me to talk to my family to help raise more money for the shop.
I told her not that when the shop picks up I won't be able to talk to you again, I said that cause I know the kind of person she is.

Not to talk of the kind of conversion I have seen several times she has with other men.

I have tried my possible best to make her happy, I needed to. But it obvious I can never satisfy her.

I cannot count how many people that has settle several quarrel between us, at times I will just sit down and wonder what's really going on
I didn't want to say somethings here, cause
Some people will doubt if a normal human being can just act like that.

At this point, am fed up. And I have decided to move out, cause I know she will do more, worse than all this. Once am boxed up am out!

First off your wife is seeing someone else.. would advise you to take the so called war she's foolishly looking for to her door step.. you're a man,,, you married her with your money, your family even contributed Money to uplift her..
Take over that business your family opened for her..
For her to Even start telling your kids no to obey you... Bro you've really suffered


Send her away asap after you might have succeeded in taking over the business your family opened for her..

Don't be surprised odogwu.....those kids you so much cherish might not even be your own..

Act now before she turns you to zombie

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Celebrities / Re: Life Of 7ft Woman With Largest Vagina Ever- From ā€˜freak Showā€™ To Baby Tragedy by OwnMyself: 9:14am On Sep 01, 2022
Stallionhorse:
So she has the widess puzzzy ever recorded?? Thats a big lie come to Nigerian some girls are carrying basin and drum holes here..

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Romance / Re: She Has Gone Worst by OwnMyself: 11:11am On Aug 12, 2022
Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Hold on unto her.. inshort marry her and wait patiently till she wke up one day and ended up stabbing you..
Unah no go ever learn
Who knows Maybe when you reach six ft your eyes go open to reality.. wife her nothing do youļæ½[color=#990000][/color]
Family / Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by OwnMyself: 11:00am On Aug 12, 2022
grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife. So im 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.
He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness
how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs, there
was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to
cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that. Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed
as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage,and our family background from my mums side where
this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when
the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids,on getting there while in his living room,
he said to my wife " I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him. While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic
and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too
that she never thought he would say such a thing. 5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round
but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when
I knew something could be going on. Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her
to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick,that when he knows
its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing
with him thus her refusal to pick his call. So i called my mum and I was like being calm,patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean
that the recent things happening wont seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos shes
76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise. The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick,
she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me,it means
something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didnt u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam
was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother
called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.
Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

First offfff you're nothing but a simp..
Someone that's not even your blood brother like.. same father and mother. Even if you guys were to be of same parents.. that doesn't give him the effontery to order your wife up and down as if she's a slave... Would advise you to get rid of the so called step brother.. dont allow your kids nor wife to visit him anymore.. Let him run mad if he's so willing to run mad... Don't be surprised he might have bleep your wife... Henceforth be in charge of your family.. let no one dictates to you on how you run your home.. be it anybody.... Take that war to his door step and quit fidgeting... If family wan break let it break... You came into this world alone bro and when it's your turn to leave you sure gon leave alone... Own yourself and let no one own you..

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Romance / Re: How Do I Tell This Older Lady I Am In Love With Her? by OwnMyself: 8:47am On Aug 08, 2022
Shascky33:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There's this lady who lives in my street, just two houses away. She's about 38 but single, and am just 26.
I've been observing her for the past 8 months, she's beautiful and a working class but i don't intend to make her feel disrespected after approaching her. Please how should i go about it?
Note: She even knows my parents and sometimes come to greet them because they speak her dialect.

Don't approach her buddy.. she's old.. go for younger girls... For her to still be single at that age..mehn she must have been reject men for years... You don't deserve left over young man

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by OwnMyself: 9:53pm On Aug 07, 2022
Palazee:
You don't have to react emotionally


This troll is a low life who isn't even worthy to tie your shoe in reality

He's just hiding behind the keypad and spewing trash

Just starve him of attention like we all are doing.

Have a good day

Thanks comrade.. wouldn't have reacted to his silly ass ...but sometimes his type needs mending.. well I don't know if there are people in charge of this platform.. trolls should be blocked from gaining access in here..

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Travel / Re: From Oshodi To Las Vegas - Pix by OwnMyself: 4:38pm On Aug 07, 2022
naijamanyoutube:
Yes it is possible, because Uruguayan passport has some power. With Uruguayan passport you can go to a lot of developed countries in the world visa free. But you still have to be on top of your game for them to let you in, by that I mean have a steady job and be able to show that you
have a solid base in Uruguay, then you japa!

My brothers went to The States from Uruguay. Also there was a time not long ago that you didn't need visa to go to The USA as an Uruguayan, but it was abused, and so it was changed.

If you can prepare yourself to work online, you can move here, apply for their papers and just wait it out till you get everything. Their residential permit comes fast. But I think citizenship is 5 years.

My brothers only had the permit, but were able to show solid ties to Uruguay, so they were given visas.

Best of luck bro! And please subscribe to my YouTube channel. Thank you.


I have already liked/subscribed to your YouTube channel sir.. thanks for the enlightenment.. do they speak Portuguese over there or Spanish Sir as their official language
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by OwnMyself: 11:45am On Aug 07, 2022
Tranquility2345:


No be only one of your guys. Na one of your enemies. If you like no go hustle like your mates. Dey here dey waste your time with none sense that adds zero value to your life angry
Have been watching you clsoely for months now and have seen how you insult people in here for coming out to save men from being used..

If you know you're physically fit and one on one you could easily take down your fellow man.. kindly drop phone number... if possible your address... Would like to meet you in person.

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Travel / Re: From Oshodi To Las Vegas - Pix by OwnMyself: 11:18am On Aug 07, 2022
naijamanyoutube:
More photos of the way there.
Sir is it possible to migrate from Uruguay to USA as a Nigerian... Honestly have been following your post codedly... Ajeh ddnt knw when I signed up so as to follow you... God bless you sir

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