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*Kails*:
i have said this too many times.
these same men get flashy and promise these women the world during the toasting
period. they show off what they have and often times pretend to be much well off than they really are...and then they become surprised when the woman is looking forward to being spoiled. lol

dmcdad: Abi na wetin she dey even do sef... Who knows. She just wan use style justify herself... Lol

shymexx: However, why can't people flaunt what they have got Women need to learn how to say NO to materialism and embrace self-respect and dignity... We call gold diggers thirsty and hungry slags around here - and we know what they need for them to open their crusty legs loool... I don't rate that breed of women...

Stay gold digging and men will stay digging you out and passing you around like toys...

Men are still winning, anyway - that's the most important thing...

dmcdad: Abi oooo. I am just wondering... It seems the Op didnt take alot of things into consideration before making this thread, else she wouldnt have come up with this thread cos it's.... just awkward. Gosh!

MO25: I consciously decided to restrain myself from falling in love after my last breakup. Now I am praying to even learn to at least like the opposite sex cos it now seems like nothing fazes me anymore, I'm so hard now that most people around me think I'm a lesbian, I used to be the girly mushy kind of person but now its almost like I do not have a heart and I honestly do not like it.

chronique: God bless you!!! Sometimes,I wonder where pple get all dese crappy stuffs dey post on NL from.

Mr Exxell: HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:-
> 01. Feed him
> 02. Sleep with him
> 03. Leave him in peace
>04. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
... >05. Don't bother him about his
movements
>06. Honor him
> Whats so hard about that.... ?
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's really not difficult...To make a
woman
happy; a man only needs to be:
> 01. a friend
> 02. a companion
> 03. a lover
> 04. a brother
> 05. a father
> 06. a master
> 07. a chef
> 08. an electrician
> 09. a carpenter
> 10. a plumber
> 11. a mechanic
> 12. a decorator
> 13. a stylist
> 14. a sexologist
> 15. a gynaecologist
> 16. a psychologist
> 17. a pest exterminator
> 18. a psychiatrist
> 19. a healer
> 20. a good listener
> 21. an organiser
> 22. a good father
> 23. very clean
> 24. sympathetic
> 25. athletic
> 26. warm
> 27. attentive
> 28. gallant
> 29. intelligent
> 30. funny
> 31. creative
> 32. tender
> 33. strong
> 34. understanding
> 35. tolerant
> 36. prudent
> 37. ambitious
> 38. capable
> 39. courageous
> 40. determined
> 41. true
> 42. dependable
> 43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
> 44. give her compliments
regularly
> 45. love shopping
> 46. be honest
> 47. be very rich
> 48. not stress her out
> 49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST
ALSO:
> 50. give her lots of attention,
> 51. give her lots of time,
especially time
for herself
> 52. give her lots of space, never
worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
> 53. Never to forget: >
> * birthdays
> * anniversaries
> * arrangements she makes.......

Soglad: Some people restrain themselves from falling in love not because they are diehard or dont ve feelings but because of their past experience. Most times their partners dont agree with them on certain acts(sex) wic affects their relationship wit God.

i_am_model: I'm single presently because I'm trying to focus on my future. For the main time I see girls as speed breakers on the road to my destiny, that alone refrains me from any relationship presently. I have been in a couple of relationships back in school that didn't lead anywhere, probably I didn't give much attention because of my studies.

tpacalipse: May be you live in the moon. To me o all naija babes are the same. Chikenna.

okpara ugo: 70% dont. They are out on an feasting spree on gullible men's pocket.

duni04: Read the first sentance and wanted to call u a goat immediately. Read the second one and I changed my mind. Then I read on nd wanted to call u a goat, then I changed my mind again. This has to be the most balanced and reasonable response to the topic.

dmcdad: I truly understand where you are coming from...The fact is that, I find it very difficult to change who I am to whom I might want to be at least for a specified period of time. What I am saying is this, I am the very honest type (infact, over honest dey worry me), I act too nicely, and I always look for ways to better the life of the other person. Like what you stated about your conscience, personally I have never seen anyone whose conscience is as active as mine... It's very hard for me to do anything that will tend to hurt a girl. I know for sure that it's not good for the game of love. Sometimes I wish I can change or negate my present state of mind and heart to a girl, but no matter how hard I try, all efforts always prove abortive.

The thing no is, I can't change myself from the good guy to a semi-bad guy if not a complete bad guy. But I have devised another means to go about it, and the way is... I can hardly give my heart out... If I have to give my heart out, then I would be very sure of the person I am giving it out to. Besides, my heart is unbreakable (abi rubber dey break again?). I am still the last man standing that is yet to experience a broken heart. Don't get me wrong, I love with all my heart and might if I wanna give my heart out, but even at that, I am yet to encounter someone that will break my heart (In truth, you can never break my heart)...


I have decided to remain who I am... If a girl likes, she should misbehave, I will send her away one-time. I ain't got time to entertain trash from anyone. I know I ain't cheap, and that's why I can't tolerate just anything from any f**king girl. At the end of the day, you will know you are the one who is gonna lose... After all, what do girlz have to offer me? I ain't a sex freak or something, so in most cases, most Nigerian girls have little or nada to offer me.

Ileke-IdI:
Na wa oh. It really sucks to be a Nigerian man; so much pent up anger and feeling of inadequacy.

ik121: The best thread closing 2012.
Op ur so on point!
Nigerian gurls nid no TLC but iron fists.
TO MEN THAT WANT TO MAINTAIN CONTROL: If ur gf/wife runs her mouth anyhw, plz dnt hesitate 2 pulverise her, giv her a very powerful uppercut nd a fistcuff on her throat nd tummy, belt her 2 ur satisfaction, if possible, tie her up wit a rope nd lock her in a cage, lol (correct men shud hav a cage for a wife/gf in hz house) dat way u men ll maintain control nd respect if na wetin una want.

poshpimkiey: hell to the yes. y not na. fame, fortune, recognition plus license to payback

dmcdad: Bro you no go understand. There are things I detest with passion. To tell you the truth, I am a very principled type, even though I can be humorous and all that, but there are certain things I can't contain at all...

dmcdad: HELL N[color=#000000]O[/color]!!!

I dey mad ni? Instead of that I better go seminary or remain single for life. No debate about this one... Gbam!!!