ogugua88: I disagree. Are girls dumb to the point that material gifts sway them so easily? Is that how their mothers were? For those of us who aren't gold diggers, is it because we don't like gifts?

Sure, men lavishing girls with gifts to bed them is ridiculous, but two legs must enter trousers. Women have every opportunity to reject gifts and hold their heads high, but they choose the opposite, not because of men, but because they want it and like it. The fact that women can open their mouths and ask men for material items without shame is the issue.

lalaosky:

baby_mama: There is no such thing as gold digging IMO
It is a just a chauvinistic description by small minded misogynists

If a girl is attracted to a man who happens to be a rich man,what is wrong in it?
Is is not her fellow woman that will date or marry that rich man,why not her?
I get irritated when all these men complain about the divorce settlements and stuff women get on divorcing their rich husbands calling them gold diggers
Absolute bunkum!
A man you shared laughter and pain with,raised a family , saw him through ups and downs and when the relationship goes south,you are suddenly a gold digger for getting a faith share of the wealth in the marriage.
Some of the men should just sharap!
If you think you are rich,there is always someone richer
If rich men have a problem with women or suspect every woman of dating them because of their wealth,let them stay single or date their fellow men
Simple.
Some Men look for women with fair skin or double D teeties and rotund bakassi
What will I call them?
Feminine diggers?
To each his own Biko

Some men sef will accuse a woman of gold digging and you look him finish,no gold in sight

ogugua88: I disagree. Are girls dumb to the point that material gifts sway them so easily? Is that how their mothers were? For those of us who aren't gold diggers, is it because we don't like gifts?

Sure, men lavishing girls with gifts to bed them is ridiculous, but two legs must enter trousers. Women have every opportunity to reject gifts and hold their heads high, but they choose the opposite, not because of men, but because they want it and like it. The fact that women can open their mouths and ask men for material items without shame is the issue.

vislabraye: @Babymama.
A lot of women are gold diggers. The poster is a woman and she's speaking from experience.
But nowadays, there's a role play.

baby_mama:

There is nothing like gold digging,the poster got it wrong
It is a sexist way to describe a woman just because her man is rich
How about men that marry women richer than them
Na una go still call the woman desperate old hag,desperado, cougar etc
It is always the woman at the receiving end of the bashing
Must we all marry poor men?
Is it not a woman that will marry the rich ones?
If you can insist that every woman you date must have a double D chest, or must be pretty why can't a woman insist on dating only men that are rich,somewhat rich or have potentials to be successful
What is wrong with that?
Who no like better?

mondi_cheeks: amen! May God increase ur blessings a million times fold!

If I were single and searching at this stage of my life,I would even marry a super rich man without a functional blokoss kpa kpa and dig that gold of his
Money is good to have

baby_mama:


Amen o


If I were single and searching at this stage of my life,I would even marry a super rich man without a functional blokoss kpa kpa and dig that gold of his
Money is good to have
Who wants to hop on Okada from place to place?
Is it not fellow human beings that are vacationing in Dubai and London and France?

Yoshi-Master:


[Chorus, Repeat X 2]
She's dangerouss, suuuper badddd, better watch out she'll take your caaash.
She's a GOOOOLD DIGGER, uhuh, GOOOOLD DIGGER.

baby_mama:
Who wants to hop on Okada from place to place?
Is it not fellow human beings that are vacationing in Dubai and London and France?

mondi_cheeks: have u ever noticed that its always the inadequate men that talk about gold diggers endlessly?

Chineke God!

It's like when a thread comes up and a woman says size matters,watch out the man that says size does not matter but what you do with what you have
I can bet my last dime,he is of a pediatric size
Every well sized man will agree that his woman appreciates the blessing on his life
So a smaller man will be consoling himself with size does not matter
Read my lips
It does
Same here with gold
It matters
If the man does not have the gold,he must have the potential to acquire it Biko
Who wants to suffer in life?
Highest 80 years if God says so 90,we all quench,who wants to live in penury the few years they have on earth?
Not my portion!

InvertedHammer:
Men without game spend to impress women. I am a student of Leykkis 101. Google it.

Take care of yourself and women will come...flaunt it but don't hand it out.

Take them to nice places, treat them to nice restaurants.

Don't buy any gifts including but not limited to clothes, electronics, etc.

Just fulfill their fantasy.



...But if your intention is marriage, oh well...

baby_mama: There is no such thing as gold digging IMO
It is a just a chauvinistic description by small minded misogynists

If a girl is attracted to a man who happens to be a rich man,what is wrong in it?
Is is not her fellow woman that will date or marry that rich man,why not her?
I get irritated when all these men complain about the divorce settlements and stuff women get on divorcing their rich husbands calling them gold diggers
Absolute bunkum!
A man you shared laughter and pain with,raised a family , saw him through ups and downs and when the relationship goes south,you are suddenly a gold digger for getting a faith share of the wealth in the marriage.
Some of the men should just sharap!
If you think you are rich,there is always someone richer
If rich men have a problem with women or suspect every woman of dating them because of their wealth,let them stay single or date their fellow men
Simple.
Some Men look for women with fair skin or double D teeties and rotund bakassi
What will I call them?
Feminine diggers?
To each his own Biko

Some men sef will accuse a woman of gold digging and you look him finish,no gold in sight

tny60: to me this is just a symptom of guys reaching above their level.

if an ugly or old man want to date a beautiful or young woman, he has no chance naturally because they are on different levels. the beautifully young woman is not naturally attracted to such an old or ugly man. but when money comes into the equation, it levels the playing field so that the beautiful woman agrees to date the ugly man. money in this case is used as a bribe.

so guys,if you find a woman who is naturally attracted to you and loves you, you will NOT need to woo her with money or material things.
if you find yourself wooing a lady with money, all you are doing is bribing her to stay with you. without the money, she won't be interested.

most guys know this and do not care. they prefer to "buy love" rather than find it naturally.
their goal is to make money so they can find a beautiful or hot girl who would have otherwise been out of reach. but the money will be the bribe that will bring the lady within reach.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with this. In fact, there is a positive in it because it encourages men to work hard. ie. work hard, make money, and you will get the woman of your dreams. type thing.
but why the woman is being abused and portrayed as a gold-digger is beyond me.

so the point is:
society is so sexist that we have abuses and derogatory words for women. But no such word exists for a guy.
we have a word for prostitute but no word for a guy that patronizes a prostitute.
we have a name for a gold-digger but where is the word for a guy that prefers to use his money to get an arm-candy rather than find true love?

Society is so anti woman,it is not even funny
Women are blamed for everything wrong
The day I found out the Igbo word for gonorrhea I almost fainted
Nsi nwanyi,meaning
the juju done by a woman
Can you imagine?
Gold digging woman
Ever heard of a gold digging male?

Aigbofa:

Mama gold digger? You become a gold digger the moment you start putting monetary value on your rotund bakassi. By the way, gold diggers are not interested or patient enough to build any wealth with anybody, they just want to reap where they did not sow.

P4VS20: The last time i checked. some women dont even have to dig the gold, some men flaunt the gold to attract the women, and those who re interested come for it. simple. if she aint interested in the gold, she will turn a blind eye to it. likewise if a guy doesnt want a gold digger, bury your gold where they cant find it.