₦airaland Forum

ralfo85: And do YOU know the white girls also complain alot about there men? Most running after foreigners? Depending on the country, Nigerian men are highly prized abroad, for the core reason that they are - romantic!

I guess being romantic is highly subjective.
You judged based on some isolated experience.
People usually don't value what they have, as they desire what seems different.

Omoteeh: I have asked myself so many times too. Simple answer is,most Nigerian men and African men in general are naturally brought up to think they are mini gods that should be worshipped and waited on handand foot. I sit in an office with about 5 white men and i have often gone into the ladies bathroom to weep at how unlucky i am to have married an african man who is sooo selfish, his needs always come first. I see these my colleagues buying flowers, sharing recipes to surprise their wives with, planning holidays etc....

candygosh: So so true

candygosh: Nigerian men are the most unromantic creature on earth.

Keep waiting for them to do this shit.
This is what Too much high school musical and foreign movies have caused.

Plarp: I am actually a staunch supporter of forced sterilization so i actually find this article a little funny lol @ igbo jews.

But seriously.. do yall know that the Ethiopians are racist towards you also? remember that clown warya, most Ethiopians are just like that. So don't bother yourselves about them getting sterylized, its for the better. these ppl reproduce like rabbits

Turbocharged: Until we remove our 2uale mentality, slavery wl not stop in Naija

livethinme: errr.....

dem_people: Guy, If your motive is for me and you to argue or have a debate, it'll not be forthcoming. I believe in everything I wrote likewise you have differing opinions about my comments.

Princess1982: The mom could careless who he marry she just wants him to be happy. However I think his mom is worried about how her mother his Grandmother,aunts, ect. Will accept me and Im not proud that my words hurt I just always speak my mind and sometimes the truth hurts. I want his family to accept me but then again I don't really care if they don't. The man put a 17000 dollar trillion cut engagement ring on my finger and thats U.S. dollars so you would think he would let me be myself.

Princess1982: So I'm planning my second trip to Nigeria May 9th we will be saying in my boyfriends home state now I have already met his mother and she seems to be ok with me however on this trip I am suppose to meet his extended family being he is the oldest boy and his father is now deceased he took on the role as somewhat the provider of his family. So for some reason I am being told that everybody is going to be looking to point out every flaw in me and compare me to his first wife who everybody loved so much who is now deceased. Now I have delt with in laws before and always made a good impression but this is different he told me last night that him and his mother is going to put a list of do's and don'ts together for me to (FOLLOW) I am not a child. Teach me culture teach me customs and tradition but I am not a actress and I will not pretend I am something I am not. So I hung up haven't accepted or returned any of his calls am I wrong?

babyosisi: Did you read anywhere that the women were forced to receive it?

dem_people: Black people sef. We're just a very useless race of people. If it isn't poverty, its disease, If it isn't disease, its family irresponsibility. And if not that, its illiteracy and a host of other problems. We'll leave our countries to migrate to other countries yet we neither can organize ourselves to utilize what we've been blessed with back home nor can we organize ourselves in the host foreign countries. The story of Africans can be likened to a man who owns a yielding farm yet begs for food. From one useless headline to the other.

[size=15pt]We're a useless set of people. [/size]

aadetoyin: This is a very LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG way to go.
@Op, how many of this do u sincerely do?

mysticgal: cleaning my eyes,how i wish

Acidosis: buhahahahahahahahaahahahaha
*cracking my ribsss*

Joliecoco: I love a guy who can cook, since when is it the woman job to cook solely a d do house work. There are tons of who are great cooks. My husband should not expect me to cook solely in out home. He has to cook.

Edomo: Big mumu like you.

3ndy: men are heartless ruthless and don't care.. all they do is back out and blame others.. saying "i send u?"
women have been broken so many times they ought to evolute and change.. there's a saying that goes.. if cant beat them then join them.. so to compensate for what they've lost they have to be 5 times worse than the guys.
for what i know girls don't go out there asking for boys to break their hymen... the boys do all what they can to get the girl even lie and betray.. once the hymen is broken.. they flee like some wanted criminal.. and it's the girls fault??
although i'm not generalizing but most girls gets spoiled because of the situation they find themselves in.
and once a heart has been broken it seeks for vengeance.

3ndy: men are heartless ruthless and don't care.. all they do is back out and blame others.. saying "i send u?"
women have been broken so many times they ought to evolute and change.. there's a saying that goes.. if cant beat them then join them.. so to compensate for what they've lost they have to be 5 times worse than the guys.
for what i know girls don't go out there asking for boys to break their hymen... the boys do all what they can to get the girl even lie and betray.. once the hymen is broken.. they flee like some wanted criminal.. and it's the girls fault??
although i'm not generalizing but most girls gets spoiled because of the situation they find themselves in.
and once a heart has been broken it seeks for vengeance.

channel 190: dating that will lead to marriage is the intent

onnairaland: I love it wen my hubby assiSt me in d kitchen even if he is not doing anything but only chatting with me. Who doesn't wnt dat? Even if u won't help, u can just stay by her while she does d cooking, not all d time, atleast once in a while. It can really b fun.

ubong560: U now c y money is d major setback on y u c many well matured singles around ur neighborhod (a thread dscussed few days ago)? If actually dis guy is bouyant enough financially, i do not c any reason y he shldnt receiv d pregnancy wit thanks to God afterall he's abv 25. But currently he's broke and cannot father a child at d moment. Wat's dffcult 2 understnd there? Apparently, nobody derives pleasure in terminatng pregnancy, but wen u r not financially based 2 handle such, even ur psychological mind is also on d contrast wit d idea of keepng d pregnancy. He's not ready and he's not ready. That's d real fact and i hate an "imposed marriage".

Girls wise up abeg. S*x is a nature calling 2 both gender and wch compliments d both parties. [b]D fact dat s*x was done RAW doesnt mean anything dat coms out of it must be kept [/b]unless d girl is desperate (wch is commnly practiced among our ladies).Wise up girls!!! Whoever shal marry u shall definitely marry u, not until u use pregnancy as a yardstick.

ubong560: Ve Just spken with a friend of mine dis evening wen he told me his gf has come up wit a pregnancy issue and since he really luvs her and didnt want to hurt her feelings, "he managed to calm her down bt later told her some contraceptvs must be used to get rid of d newly formation" (mhen, he is hurting her already, what if she dies in the process whic kine luv be that?!. Adamantly, d girl refused but said she wants to kip it. D guy in question is still in school and only hustles to pay his school fees wch such responsibity of fathering a child is d least thought in his head now yah, cos he is a kid. grown men dont kill their children. D girl in question had only a small job doing where she earns only abt 30k per month and she's slept with a school boi. Would that be enough to take care of d 1room family responsibilities?
oooh now there is responsiblity involved. when the humping was going on, what was that called? a rush of blood

Why shld a girl wit her right senses wants to keep pregnancy for a guy in such condition (why would a guy who is still trying to make ends meet in his right senses have sex with a lady when he has the responsiblilty of school to think about) even wen d pregnancy hasnt gone any far? (far to where? thats a life we re talking about Is she desperate for marriage? was he that desperate for sex to hang his future on a balance? What could be d motive 4 dis? what could he his motive for that. who pulled his pants down?, why didnt he run away from her when agro came knocking on the door

I think d guy is deeply thinking on how to deal wit her if she continues to say she must keep it. i think the guy should man up, accept his kid and adjust his life like he adjusted the zip of his shokoto

Maybe total denial wil teach her a big lesson. Nonsense! too late, he shudda denied him self a long time ago. rubbish!